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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Dear Dr. Romance: I lost everything - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance:I read your article about "Age Differences in Dating" and thought you might be interested in a case history. I was married to a younger man for twenty years.He was 21 and I was 40 when we met.I had been in a very unhappy marriage for twenty years and had three ...
Views: 1394(2 votes) - How to Find Hope in the Challenge of Marriage - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2016 from Pam FullertonI recently read an article in The New York Times by philosopher Alain de Botton that ignited my thoughts on marriage. Among many things, de Botton expresses in the article a belief that “Choosing whom to commit ourselves to is merely a case of identifying which particular variety of suffering we ...
Views: 849 - Relationships: What Can Happen When Someone Is No Longer Willing To Put Up With Other People's Projections? - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough some people have the tendency to take responsibility for what takes place within them, there are others who don’t. Due to this, it can be normal for someone to believe that what is taking place externally has nothing to do with what is going on internally. It is then going to be ...
Views: 1523 - Soul Mate or Karma? - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2016 from T. Renee RichardsonAloha! Developing relationships can be equally as confusing as rewarding, yes? Especially at this time, when so many older souls who are attentive to spiritual awareness and energetic balance actively seek romantic partnership for the purpose of raising consciousness and working at a deeper ...
Views: 1292(1 vote) - Is He Really Thinking, “Nothing??” - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2016 from T. Renee RichardsonAloha! Men are from earth. Women are from earth. Here we are. Deal with it. Love it up, even! The way to deal with and appreciate it, especially for more spiritually-based women, is to realize that while we’re all from the same planet, our spiritual growth processes occur differently. ...
Views: 1479(1 vote) - Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Have In Our Life Who Try To Fix Us? - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile one can have people in their life who are there to support them, they can also spend time with people who try to fix them. As a result of this, it could be said that one will feel good in their presence or they will end up feeling bad. Another way of looking at it would be to say ...
Views: 1292 - Relationships: Can Breaking Up Make A Relationship Better? - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile one could be in a relationship that is going as they would like it to go, there is also the chance that this is not the case. As a result of this, they could be in a position where they believe it is time for them to move on. Unhealthy This could be a sign that they don’t feel ...
Views: 1347 - How to Get Over an Unrequited Love and Move On - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2016 from T. Renee RichardsonAloha! Sure, it’s challenging and at times feels embarrassing when someone does not return romantic feelings that you experience as vividly real. However, not only has nobody ever died from embarrassment, but we can also learn more about ourselves as we navigate the emotional challenge. ...
Views: 2283(1 vote) - Be the Master of Your Universe—Without Bloodshed - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2016 from Noelle NelsonSummer blockbusters are full of Masters of the Universe—Superheroes/heroines, Emperors and Kings—in righteous battle. And, when someone storms your castle – be that of your thoughts, your actions, your behavior—don’t you defend it with all your might? “You’re wrong!” “You messed up, not me!” “I ...
Views: 1586 - 5 Ways To Dramatically Simplify Your Life - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2016 from Vinnie StevensAs the summer nears its end, our relaxing days of leisure start to become hectic and stressful. Coordinating pickups to and from school, being on time for afterschool sports, or occasionally being summoned to chaperone a field trip can be taxing on your body. Add those things and more to your ...
Views: 1128 - 509 How To Reconnect With An Ex Lover - How To Reconnect With An Ex After No Contact - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2016 from Patrick UadialeReconnecting with an ex lover after a breakup can be extremely tough, especially if the breakup was your fault. Depending on how the relationship ended, the actions you take to get your ex lover back will greatly vary. The best way to approach your ex after the breakup, how to properly ...
Views: 3514 - Why You Have to Write Love Letters to Each Other - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2016 from Best CatcherGone are the days of heartfelt love letters written in bold ink with elaborate details and design. Don’t you just miss receiving one of these in your mailbox? Not your electronic mailbox. If you and your partner never had one, maybe it is the time you take the initiative to write the contents of ...
Views: 1167 - How to Maintain a Healthy Relationship with a Loved One with Bipolar Disorder - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2016 from Meghan BelnapWhen you are close to someone who has bipolar disorder, it can be a challenge to keep yourself healthy. Symptoms of bipolar disorder vary greatly depending on the person. However, phases between ups and downs are stressful for all involved, and can take a toll on any relationship. Bipolar ...
Views: 691 - We Broke Up But I Still Love Him - Why Is It So Hard For My Ex Boyfriend To Let Me Back In - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2016 from Patrick UadialeYou may be wondering how I know I can get my ex boyfriend back and why I think he still loves me but seriously, I can and I do. I can get my ex back because I have been through this before and I know he still loves me because he isn't seeing any body new. Have you said this to yourself ...
Views: 1128 - Relationships: Why Would Someone Try To Revive A Relationship That Isn’t Healthy? - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a relationship comes to an end it doesn’t mean that one will be willing to walk away. Instead, they may feel the need have the other person in their life again, and it might not be enough for them to see the other person from time to time. One Reason This could then be a sign that ...
Views: 1304 - 205 How To Stop Missing Your Ex - What To Do When You Start Missing Your Ex - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2016 from Patrick UadialeHow To Stop Missing Your Ex - What To Do When You Start Missing Your Ex There is no easy way on getting over a break up. It takes time and tons of effort to totally forget and accept everything that has happened. Regardless of your gender, it has never been easy to let go of someone you ...
Views: 1790 - I Love My Ex Boyfriend And I Want Him Back - I Still Love Him - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2016 from Patrick UadialeSo, your boyfriend hates you, or perhaps he said he doesn't love you anymore and you feel like you've just lost the most important thing in your life. Don't worry too much, most of the time this is not a statement of true feelings, and more of a reflection of a moment of anger or situational ...
Views: 3015 - Will My Ex Boyfriend / Girlfriend Call Me Again After Breakup - I Want My Ex Back - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2016 from Patrick UadialeWhat should you do to win your ex back? You just need to speak to your ex without any hostility. It'd be difficult as breakup is something that affects a person very much emotionally and is very disturbing. But if you want to get your ex to call you back and maintain contact with you, you need ...
Views: 1391 - How To Get Your Relationship Back On Track With Your Ex Boyfriend / Girlfriend After A Break-Up - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2016 from Patrick UadialeWhat you do after the break up matters! Relationships on the verge of permanently falling apart can still be saved, but only few are successful. That's because unfavorable moves and mistakes are done on days following the big breakup. Heartbroken people are so weighed down by what happened that ...
Views: 3302 - Do You Truly Practice the Meaning of Friendship? - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2016 from Mitra ShahidiDo you truly practice the meaning of friendship? What is a friendship? The philosopher Aristotle said, “In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge. They keep the young out of mischief; they comfort and aid the old in their weakness, and they incite those in the ...
Views: 1314 - Do You Truly Practice the Meaning of Friendship? - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2016 from Mitra ShahidiDo you truly practice the meaning of friendship? What is a friendship? The philosopher Aristotle said, “In poverty and other misfortunes of life, true friends are a sure refuge. They keep the young out of mischief; they comfort and aid the old in their weakness, and they incite those in the ...
Views: 1077 - Dear Dr. Romance: I haven't spoken to my maternal grandparents in 5 years - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm not sure if you're willing or able to help, but I've been looking online for a solution to my problem for a while now. As of yet, I've come up empty handed. My situation is that I'm 21 years old and haven't spoken to my maternal grandparents ...
Views: 1252(1 vote) - Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Have In Our Life Who Only Accept Us When We Do What They Want? - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf one was to think about what their friends are like, they could start to think about how they accept them for who they are. It is then not going to be necessary for them to play a role, and it could be said that this is how it should be. The alternative would be for one to be in a ...
Views: 1360 - 10 Ways to Boost Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2016 from Best CatcherIn any relationship, there is always a possibility to become boring regardless of how long you have been. If you don’t spend some time and effort overcoming the rough patches of your love life, the romance can easily leave your relationship indefinitely. Use below the following 10 suggestions to ...
Views: 1373(1 vote) - How to Keep Long Distance Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2016 from Best CatcherLong Distance Relationship Many believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Long-distance relationship may be tough, things could get complicated. There will be moments in which it feels like every bone in your body aches. Do not even begin a long distance relationship ...
Views: 1198 - The 51% Rule — Boundaries are Your Friend - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2016 from Chandra LynnHave you ever felt like you are doing more to help your partner then they are to help themselves? Sometimes it just seems easier to take control and get things done on your own than ask your partner to do their part. And they may be completely happy with having you take care of business. But ...
Views: 6085(1 vote) - Some Nice, Handy, Sweet and Very Useful Gifts for Your Loved Ones at TeleSky Shopping - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2016 from Harshad JethraThe world is geared up for the New Year celebrations, and all set to welcome 2017 in style. It’s the time to party and celebrate, get together with loved ones and make some new friends, strengthen bonds, remember the days gone by and look forward to the New Year! During the holiday season, it ...
Views: 1056 - Some Thoughtful Gifting Ideas for Your Loved Ones This Holiday Season - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2016 from Harshad JethraWith the New Year just around the corner, the environment is abuzz with celebrations. It’s all fun and frolic, excitement and anticipation. People like to celebrate New Year in their own way, some party hard, and some just relax with close friends and family at their home. Gifting is one of ...
Views: 1165 - Toxic Vs Negative Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2016 from Julie DohertyOne of the most popular subjects today is about developing Positive Relationships. In order to develop a Positive Relationship, it is important to identify the boundaries of relationships. So what I think is important is to identify what is a toxic relationship. Because this will be the ...
Views: 1156 - Relationships: Is It A Form Of Indirect Revenge When Someone Always Criticises Others? - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to think about what their friends are like, they may start to think about how supportive they are. These are then going to be the kind of people who are life-affirming, and it could then be said that that they have the right people in their life. Two Experiences On one ...
Views: 1262 - Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Have In Our Life Who Undermine Us? - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile one can share their life with people who support them, they can also be in a different position. As a result of this, the people they are closest to could be the ones who hold them back. The Ideal When one has people around them are able to support them, their life is going to be ...
Views: 1311 - Intimacy: Why Do Some People Open Up To People Who Will Shame Them? - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile someone can be in a position where they are around people who they can open up to, there is also the chance that this is not the case. When one can relate to the former, it could be how their life has been for as long as they can remember. Having said that, there is also the chance ...
Views: 1337 - ***Are You a Trash Can for Others' Negativity? - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2016 from Margaret PaulBy Margaret Paul, Ph.D. July 11, 2016 Do you allow others to dump their negativity - their complaints, judgments, anger, self-centeredness and sense of entitlement - onto you? Carmen, a client of mine, told me at the end of one of her sessions, "I'm no longer willing to be a trash can ...
Views: 1227 - ***Relationship Advice: Are You Giving To Get Love? - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2016 from Margaret PaulBy Margaret Paul, Ph.D. July 04, 2016 Are you giving love to your partner or others for the joy of giving, or are you giving to get love, attention or approval? I received the following email, asking for my help: "Hi, my name is Adam. I am living with my parents and I'm thinking of ...
Views: 1107 - ***Relationships: Are You A Taker Or A Caretaker – Or Both? - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2016 from Margaret PaulBy Margaret Paul, Ph.D. July 18, 2016 If your relationships are challenging, you might want to gain awareness and understanding of the taker-caretaker relationship system. As we all know, relationships are generally very challenging, and one of the reasons is that we bring into our ...
Views: 1116 - Sarees - A Perfect Gifting Idea for the Holiday Season - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2016 from Harshad JethraWith the New Year just around the corner, festivity is in the air. It’s the time for parties, celebration, but the holiday season could be reminiscent and nostalgic. This is a perfect time to meet up with friends and family, express your thoughtfulness, interact, have some beautiful times ...
Views: 1020(1 vote) - Telesky Shopping – Letting You Find the Perfect Gifts for Your Loved Ones This Holiday Season - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2016 from Harshad JethraMost of us are nowadays enjoying our year end break. Most of the times, this is all about relaxing, feasting, attending a party, and maybe dancing to some groovy music. Alternately, this is a fine time to catch up with friends and family. We all think about gifting during Christmas and New ...
Views: 1476 - Sandhi Sudha Plus – A Genuine and Heartfelt Gift for the New Year - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2016 from Harshad JethraThe New Year is just around the corner; this is bound to be one of the happiest times of the year, and festivity is all around. New Years are all about resolutions, celebrations, meeting up with friends, rejoicing old times and looking forward to the new. New Years are about feasting, ...
Views: 1192 - Relationships: Are Friends The People That We Get in Touch With When We Want Something? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf one was to get in touch with someone they know it could be because they need something. However, it doesn’t mean that this will always be the case, as there could be times when they don’t need anything. Curious During these moments, one may want to find out about what they have been ...
Views: 1279 - Relationships: Do Some People Get Back With Their Ex In Order To Avoid How They Feel? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a relationship comes to an end, one can experience a sense of relief, and this can mean that they won’t feel the need to get back together with the person they were with. Even so, this doesn’t mean that the other person is having the same experience. As a result, they can try and ...
Views: 1206 - Dr. Romance on Getting Out of Your Own Way - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2016 from Tina TessinaRecently, Dr. Romance has been asked a lot about how people can overcome paralysis and self-sabotage, so I thought I’d pass on my ideas on the subject. Getting in your own way is all about how you relate your yourself. In addition to not managing your time effectively, ...
Views: 1224(1 vote) - B.Lab Pro Hair – A Classy Gift for Your Partner This Holiday Season - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2016 from Harshad JethraThe holiday season is here; it’s the time to rejoice and celebrate. We sometimes take time out to recall all that is good and count our blessings! Gifting is one of the most beautiful traditions associated with Christmas and New Year, but in the same coin, one often worries about the ideal ...
Views: 1229 - Relationships: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Keep People At A Distance? - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperThere are some people who are able to connect with others, and then there are others who are unable to do so. When one can do this, there is a strong chance that they are going to be used to having people in their life that they are close to. One on side this could mean that they will have ...
Views: 1317 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Try Hide Their Partner From Their Ex? - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a relationship comes to an end, one can decide to take a break and to spend time by themselves. Through doing this, it can allow them to process the pain that they are experiencing, and then to gradually settle down. This can then be a time when they will be healing themselves, and this ...
Views: 1510 - Dr. Tea – Simply the Best Gift for the Holiday Season - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2016 from Harshad JethraWith the New Year just around the corner, everyone’s busy shopping for gifts. This is fun, it’s a part of the festivities and something that definitely makes the yearend holiday season all the more special. But figuring out the right gift for your loved ones can at times be tough, and you ...
Views: 1358 - Perfect and Innovative Gifting Ideas for the Holiday Season: Herbal Products - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2016 from Harshad JethraThe year end is approaching, and it’s the time when we sit back, relax, take a break, and maybe take stock. But most importantly, it’s the time when we celebrate. The holiday season is all about getting together with loved ones and rejoicing. And even shop for gifts. Gifting is one of the ...
Views: 1008 - The Decompression Back Belt: A Fine Gifting Idea for the New Year! - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2016 from Harshad JethraThe New Year is just around the corner; hey, it’s the time to celebrate. Gifts are just one of the things that make the New Year all the more special. TeleSky Shopping gives you a chance to celebrate in an entirely new way. Gift your loved ones something they would find handy for everyday ...
Views: 1117 - 5 Ways A Good Marriage Can Improve Your Life - by Submitted on May 27, 2018 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzFinding the right lifelong partner can be one of the smartest moves a man or a woman can make. After a lengthy review of the current research, as well as the findings from our own 34 years of research on marriage, here are the five top ways a good marriage can enhance your life: 1. You can ...
Views: 1707(2 votes) - THIS HIDDEN SECRET WILL TRANSFORM YOUR RELATIONSHIP - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2016 from Janet PfeifferWith the exception of impersonators, most people believe that they only have one voice. That voice is used to express one's feelings and needs. It can be vocalized either loudly or softly; it's tone can change from one of sarcasm to that of compassion; one's voice can be used to express ...
Views: 1236(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm wondering about a "blind date" - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have been reading your article "The Fine Art of Squirrel Hunting". I certainly will appreciate any wisdom or guidance that you can share. I'm a minister who ministers to congregations, and I was widowed several years ago. 1. I've pretty much ...
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