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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Network Like a King - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2010 from Max-Marc FossouoNetworking is great, fun, and yet not easy. Before I study Relationships and the pillars of professional networking, I used to think that networking with people was just about going to events and exchanging business cards with all people we meet there. However somehow, I found out that from the ...
Views: 1296 - GROUP INTUITION: TWO HEADS ARE BETTER THAN ONE - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Jim WawroEndless wars in oil-rich lands. Oil gushing into the Gulf of Mexico. Through-the-roof electricity bills in our all-electric house. And we live in a spot where the sun shines brightly most days of the year. “Why don’t we look into solar?” she says. We call the local rep for a national solar ...
Views: 1872(1 vote) - ***Love and Marriage in Ireland Today - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America's #1 Love and Marriage Experts. We arrived in Dublin, Ireland for a week of interviews on the Emerald Isle with successfully married couples. Our journey is part of our new "simple things matter in love and marriage" series and relates to our continuing search for great marriages ...
Views: 4586(32 votes) - The Importance Of Gratitude and How To Use It - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Terry DrakeWhy is gratitude so important when leading a happy and successful life? Simply, if you don't appreciate what is then how are you going to appreciate what is to be! Yes, to be truly happy you need to appreciate everything. Appreciate: - All your abilities (creativity, imagination, work ...
Views: 2561(1 vote) - Mr. Wrong or Mr. Right? How to tell if it’s time to stay or go - by Submitted on May 31, 2010 from Lisa SteadmanHow do I know if and when it's time to break up? There's a lot of good in the guy I’m dating, but the bad is unacceptable. What do I do? I keep waiting for the guy I’m seeing to make the changes I need. How long do I wait? And what if he never changes? Chances are, at some point in your ...
Views: 4849(8 votes) - How To Get Over A Broken Heart? There Is A Cure - by Submitted on May 30, 2010 from Velma MerrickHow long will it be before you can get through your daily routine without feeling the wave of pain sweep over you, without sensing that knot in the pit of your stomach, without dwelling on what went wrong? Broken heart? Rejection? Failure? It hurts (and hurts, and hurts). You're devastated and ...
Views: 2143 - Handling Difficult Conversations - by Submitted on May 30, 2010 from Joan CurtisHow do you respond to difficult conversations? Do you hide from them? Do you push your way through them like a bull in a china shop? Each of us, whether we work independently or in an office environment, faces difficult conversations every day. You want to feel confident and in control when ...
Views: 2692(1 vote) - Is Your Relationship In A Rut? - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Rachel MohebanIs your relationship in a rut? Maybe you know that something’s missing in your relationship but you can’t quite put your finger on it. Being in a relationship rut means that you are neither particularly unhappy with your partner but you also not particularly happy. It’s like being in a ...
Views: 1014 - Sandra Bullock & Jesse James Astrology Analysis - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Gurmeet SinghSandra Bullock (born July 26th, 1964 at 3:15 AM in Arlington, VA) is an American film actress. She came to fame in the 1990s, after roles in successful films like Speed, While You Were Sleeping and one of her most recent film roles in 2005’s Crash. According to Vedic Astrology or indian ...
Views: 3019 - Why Are You Lonely? What Can You Do? - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Royane RealIf you are wondering why some people have a lot of friends and why you don’t have many, there can be many reasons for this. Perhaps the most common reason why people don’t have a lot of friends is shyness. If you are very shy, or if you have a lot of social anxiety, then being around ...
Views: 1817 - Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Ryan HughesWell, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do? Rather than describe all the differences between the ...
Views: 2114(1 vote) - ***How You Can Help Men Make You Happy - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerIf you don’t ask…you don’t get. I think this is the key to being happy with men. It’s one of my Dad’s favorite lines. I heard it so often growing up that it’s now a mantra in my already overloaded brain. Dad’s premise was that it is your responsibility to state what you want, and then give ...
Views: 1849(11 votes) - A few effective Ways to get your soulmate back - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Jessy parkerThere is no way around it: dealing with a breakup is a traumatic experience. Adjusting to this new scenario is not easy and it's likely you don't want it to end. The great thing is: it doesn't have to be the conclusion of your relationship. If you are really sure about it, there are ways to ...
Views: 6355(6 votes) - Bad Relationship = Opportunity for Growth - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Susan DerryLooking at any negative experiences in our lives as an opportunity for growth, rather than misfortune, will allow our lives to have an uphill rather than a downhill trend. When you use what you learned from a previous relationship to grow and mature you will be in a better position to form a new ...
Views: 1916(4 votes) - Living with an alcoholic – Shame - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from John McMahonIf you live with an alcoholic you will almost certainly feel shame. Some people will experience it to a very high level others less so but almost everyone who lives with an alcoholic experiences it to some degree. You will probably feel anxious that people will discover your secret, that they ...
Views: 3107(5 votes) - Couples, How to Stop Verbal Abuse in its Tracks - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Geoff FarnsworthFrustration and anger can lead to mean-spirited, disrespectful communication. We sometimes reach the breaking point and say hurtful or belittling comments, often while raising our voice. For example, Sarah is watching TV with her husband Erik. A commercial for a fast food company comes on and ...
Views: 8856(2 votes) - The Secret to Dating Success - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Amanda VWant to know an often-overlooked secret to dating success? What you tell yourself about yourself can radically improve not only the quantity of your dates, but also the quality of your love life. It’s true: You will boost your odds of finding a fantastic partner if you become convinced deep ...
Views: 730(1 vote) - Photo To Art Painters - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Azalea WrightPainters are the most important person in the art world. Without them, our photo to art canvas would be impossible. You have to know that not all people are gifted with the talent similar to those professional painters. That's why, we are hiring one to create a very beautiful and lovely photo ...
Views: 756 - How to Get your Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Kingsley ModozieLet us say you separated from your ex boyfriend and you are here because you need a solution to get them to want you again. Even if the breakup was a fault you made leading to them dumping you, there is still a way to get around things. Your ex may not remain for a long time without you once she ...
Views: 988(1 vote) - Portrait Painting - A Traditional Art Of The Modern Era - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Azalea WrightYou may be asking about the facts of portrait painting . Actually, it is a kind of art or rather a painting that features the images particularly the picture of a human either taken individually or in groups. Hence, we could see a lot of portrait paintings in some traditional homes. We could ...
Views: 1073(1 vote) - I Know Who I Am And I Know What I Want - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from David SamuelThat is the problem. You do not know who you are, and you only know what you think you want. There are many sayings that tell us to find our self, be that in religion, Shakespeare or in common conversation. ‘Know thyself’ “To thine own self be true” ‘Don’t think who you are, know who you ...
Views: 2259(3 votes) - Low Self-Love Is Halting You From Experiencing What You Want - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Nanette GeigerMost people fail to truly understand that they have limiting energy or emotion in childhood experiences. Negative emotion, whether strong or mild, feels bad and many of us simply figure out how to disregard it, live with it, or project it farther into the unconscious. People tend to not ...
Views: 1279(4 votes) - Is it Infatuation or is it Love? - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Angie LewisHow will you know if you are really in love or if it is just infatuation? Love is an action and infatuation is a feeling. Love, unlike infatuation and lust take commitment and devotion to a person. This is because when we truly love someone it takes self-sacrificing behaviors and attitude. ...
Views: 3518(7 votes) - 3 Tips for Stopping Jealousy Before It Snowballs into Something Unstoppable - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsWe've all seen cartoons in which a character shapes snow into a ball, perhaps to build a snowman. As the ball of snow is rolled, it grows bigger and bigger. Pretty soon that snowball is quite large and here comes a slope or hill... The next thing we see are the arms and legs of our ...
Views: 4477(10 votes) - ***Why do Some Find it Difficult to Make a Commitment to Love? - by Submitted on May 26, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Falling in love with another human being is easy, but making a commitment to love them forever is “up in the air” for many people. We like the term “up in the air” from the movie title for a whole bunch of reasons, primarily because it aptly ...
Views: 7419(34 votes) - Pictures On Canvas - Reasons Behind Its Popularity - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Azalea WrightWith the aid of technology and latest form of digital photography, the process of traditional paintings diminished as it is being replaced by cheaper and faster photographs printed by the latest printing mechanical device. Well, the root of this is technology! But you know what, this ...
Views: 805(1 vote) - Portrait Painters - People Behind The Prints - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Azalea WrightPortrait painting is made because of the effort and talent of portrait painters. Without them, this kind of art will never exist . Indeed, portrait painters have a lot of contribution in the art industry . Agree or not, we are the people who harvest the product of their skills. Hence, we enjoy ...
Views: 731(1 vote) - Dating and Courtship Difference - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Clifford MacHanterIn this present era of new generation young and mature individuals are already engage in what we call relationship. But before we go in to its deeper meaning let us consider some important ideas on how to define dating from courtship. There is a difference between dating and courtship, although ...
Views: 1749(5 votes) - ***The Relationship Trap: "Let's Talk." - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Margaret Paul"Let's talk tonight," said Callie."Oh no, not again!" thought Darren as he gave Callie a blank stare, feeling like a deer in the headlights.Darren knew from past experience that "Let's talk," meant, "Let's talking about what you are doing wrong, and about how ...
Views: 4567(2 votes) - Relationship Attraction: Understanding Yourself So You Can Own The Dating Scene - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Nanette GeigerFive Practices To Stay Away From While On a Date. 1. Competition. This is not the place to judge yourself, your Ex-, your achievements, with his or hers. 2. Skill. Having to project how good you are at being a good partner is unnecessary consideration and that will manifest. 3. Chance. ...
Views: 1083(2 votes) - Social Phobia Treatment Learn About Effective Ways To Start Living Again - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Velma MerrickSocial anxiety disorder, more commonly known as social phobia is an increasingly common disorder that many people are suffering from. Let's take a look at what exactly social phobia is and what treatment exists for this often debilitating disease? First of all, Social Anxiety Disorder/Social ...
Views: 1230(1 vote) - How To Save A Relationship Not Easy Thing To Do But Still Possible - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Velma MerrickEven though your relationship started out with joy and excitement, it could end up with pain and heartbreak! Are you wondering where all the love and caring has gone? Before your relationship goes haywire learn how to save a relationship by following some simple rules and laws that are ...
Views: 992(1 vote) - Custom Pictures- Getting A Shot Of Still Life Image - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Azalea WrightCustom pictures photography has many uses in our visual art. The subject of this kind of photography is unlimited that allows you to capture something unique and unusual. Custom pictures are best subjects for any canvasses. They are actually better than a ready-made portrait because they are ...
Views: 988(1 vote) - Dos And Don'ts Of Dating Services - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2010 from Ginger StokesbOnline dating services have caught the fancy of many people. It is a unique experience to date somebody online. Indeed theI Internet has shrunk the world and made it a small place. You can date anybody across the borders and in any part of the world. It is fun to find like-minded people through ...
Views: 760(1 vote) - Hair Loss Can Be Caused By Stress and Emotional Silence - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Dr. Jeanette RaymondNia was stunned when her perfect relationship ended Nia was on top of the world. Her job was going well, and she had the best boyfriend any girl could ask for. He was attentive and affectionate. He was interested in her ideas and opinions. He showed respect for her family traditions. She felt ...
Views: 7895(1 vote) - Ten Ways To Use Anger To Build Confidence and Succeed - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Dr. Jeanette RaymondLouis shock turns to disbelief and anger The world caved in on Louis when his girlfriend of three years ditched him, complaining he was ‘too needy!’ Louis had been the devoted boyfriend and caretaker. He did whatever she asked no matter what the cost to him. He cut out his friends and family. ...
Views: 5998(1 vote) - How to Avoid a Blissful Law of Attraction Relationship From Turning Sour - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Karen KanOne of the interesting questions I received lately: Hi Dr. Karen, About 3 years ago I began learning about the Law of Attraction. Single at the time, I immediately made a list of the qualities I desired in a partner and began imagining meeting him. It worked VERY quickly: in 10 days I'd ...
Views: 2705(1 vote) - Sexy Lengerie- the main trump of women - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from hen markFor whom women dressing up? For whom she wears all these elegant, charming, audacious luxurious lingerie? Energetic modern woman understand perfectly that under the outerwear is a secret weapon of seduction and subordination of the men, which is practically mean- total control over ...
Views: 3317(2 votes) - ***The Secret to Being a Happy Dater - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerWhy is it that when we date — even at 40, 50, or 60 — we can become an alien woman from planet WTF? If you’re anything like I was, it’s sometimes difficult to recognize yourself when you’re in the presence of a hot, nice, or simply available man. The beliefs and habits of our 25 or 30 year ...
Views: 2242(3 votes) - Make Yourself Unforgettable - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2010 from Max-Marc FossouoIf you know me, then you will know one of my irrefutable truth: once you’ve been introduced to me then you will remember me forever. I start noticing that strength of mine when I was still in college and was partying a lot. For some reason, at any party, or event that I was attending, if there ...
Views: 4066(2 votes) - Wise Investment In Availing Of Hand Painted Portraits - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Azalea WrightLike other people, you may also be interested in purchasing your personal hand-painted portraits. We all know that this kind of art is in the peak of its popularity in today's art industry. Unlike the other forms of printed materials, the production of hand painted portraits is the true ...
Views: 702(1 vote) - Portrait Painting- A Traditional Demand Of Modern Days - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Azalea WrightIn a traditional form of art, just imagine how our ancestors sat still, stood and posed for a long hours just to have an excellent portrait painting. The painters had to get their perfect image as accurately as possible. Indeed, the process was definitely difficult and tiresome, but the end ...
Views: 603(1 vote) - Cultivating Healthy Relationships In Marriage And Preventing Breakups - by Submitted on May 19, 2010 from Stephen KavitaTo foster good relationships in marriage, it is important to have forecast. Sometimes when challenges arise in a relationship those who are unable to cope choose the easy way out; and that is to breakup. To avoid this it is important to prepare yourself for the challenges ahead that are bound to ...
Views: 1390(2 votes) - Fun Date Ideas for the Nighttime - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Neil SmithI actually prefer to go on dates at night time as opposed to the day time. I prefer it because it means that I can get dressed up and have a drink in a better atmosphere. The key here is that it all depends on your personality and the personality of your date, you need to think about what they ...
Views: 4130(3 votes) - My Girlfriend Dumped Me - Learn From My Mistakes - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Andrew HunterThe first thought that I thought of as my girlfriend dumped me was to speak to her trying to get her to give me a second chance. Things will be better this time. I've improved.. I'd come to my senses and recognized I needed to start treating her better. It is fine for your ex to have fun with ...
Views: 6749(3 votes) - Express Your Love in Spanish - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from A. JuniorFinding love is like finding a rare jewel. It is something that you cherish and you want to keep finding ways to make it special. There are many languages that are thought of as romantic languages, but there is one language that is not often thought of. Spanish is not only a romantic language, ...
Views: 1112(2 votes) - No benefits- all friends? - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Maryanne ComarotoIt’s that time of year. Spring has sprung and the fever pitch is HIGH! No more bundling up your chakras, you say, it’s time for some “sex on the beach”! A few spring fling tips: 1) Pay attention (pay now or pay later); 2) Think it through. Make sure the good outweighs any potential side ...
Views: 1400(3 votes) - Full-spectrum Emotion - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Maryanne ComarotoI’ll have one fabulous relationship; hold the full spectrum of unpleasant human emotion please!” Used to be, it could bring me to the edge when anyone would tell me to “calm down” or “just relax.” “OH, you think THIS is upset? Well, you haven’t seen upset!” I would declare, and there I’d go ...
Views: 1602(3 votes) - What Keeps Marital Fights Going - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Jay LindsayDo you and your partner have the same fights over and over again? All couples do, some more than others. In my previous article, I discussed what repetitive fights are really about: the anxiety couples experience when recurring conflicts erode their closeness. In this article I will ...
Views: 1196(2 votes) - Saving Your Marriage from an Affair - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Jay LindsayKathy found me on line and called me from her home in Atlanta. The night before, her husband Jim, a corporate executive, had confessed that he had recently ended an eight-month affair with his administrative assistant. Kathy was devastated, but she wanted to save her marriage. Now she was ...
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