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- How to Romance a Man - by Submitted on May 21, 2009 from Michael LeeWant to know how to romance a man? Then this article is for you. It has been commonly thought that romancing a guy would require tons of research, experience, and a lot of other factors in order to be good at it. People would commonly think that learning how to romance a man is just like any ...
Views: 1342 - Why is Having Sex Too Early Bad? - by Submitted on May 20, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dennis: The girls that give sex up front are getting all the guys, but they don't seem to keep them for long. Guys view them as a fuck buddy type thing but not for a real relationship. The women who wait a bit to give out sex live most of their lives lonely, but end up marrying the guy at ...
Views: 4191 - ***Almost Smart Cookie Tips: Falling for Falling in Love Traps - by Submitted on May 19, 2009 from LB WishMy research on strong women's relationship problems revealed that over 40% of women liked lots of excitement in their relationships. They were drawn to men who offered a high-energy life style. Typical dates included private jets to the latest event, hobnobbing with the rich and famous and ...
Views: 1208 - Am I Too Old to Find My Soulmate? - by Submitted on May 18, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsDear Arielle and Brian, My name is Maria and I’ve been raising my two daughters on my own, for 15 years, working very hard to provide the best that I could for them. Now that they are now both in college and I am 57 years old, I have decided to think a bit about myself, and who knows maybe find ...
Views: 1454 - Old Techniques for Modern Daters - by Submitted on May 18, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsQuestion: I'm in my early 30s and I've never dated anyone that I didn't meet through online dating or speed dating. While I've met some good people through these means, I always feel it is a little forced and wonder what people did before we had these things. I don't meet many single men I'm ...
Views: 660 - Ways To Propose To A Man: 3 Sizzling Tips To Make Him Say Yes! - by Submitted on May 18, 2009 from Michael LeeIt’s not often that women find themselves looking for ways to propose to a man. After all, it is usually the guy who takes the initiative. However, switching things up can also be a lot of fun. A woman who wishes to find ways to propose to a man has to take a different route. She can’t exactly ...
Views: 1484 - Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend: 3 Questions To Spice Up Your Love Life - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2009 from Michael LeeEven though you’ve been with your man for many years, it’s still important to know which questions to ask your boyfriend. The art of conversation should be preserved. It keeps the connection between you two alive and adds fireworks to any relationship. If you want to know which questions to ...
Views: 6328(3 votes) - Making Sense of the Dating Process - by Submitted on May 17, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsDating is a process with a beginning, middle and end. Very importantly, the process is different depending on why you are dating. If you are Dating to Find Your Ideal Partner, be crystal clear; the more you know what you want the more likely you will be successful finding your ideal partner. ...
Views: 4416 - Creative Ways to Say I Love You - by Submitted on May 17, 2009 from Michael LeeIn a healthy relationship, there should be no end to the various creative ways to say I love you. While saying it regularly does not lessen the meaning, saying it in innovative ways is always a pleasant surprise. There are a lot of creative ways to say I love you, as evidenced by the number of ...
Views: 2220 - Flirting Body Language: How To Read Flirting Body Language Signs To Know If Someone Likes You - by Submitted on May 14, 2009 from Michael LeePeople make use of flirting body language signs to attract people, whether they are aware of it or not. So even if your date doesn’t say anything, you can immediately tell how interested that person is in you. Knowing the various flirting body language signs gives you many advantages. Aside ...
Views: 812 - ***Animal Magnetism and the Male Speaking Voice - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from Nancy DanielsConsider the following scenario: there are two men both equally attractive. One has a voice that is warm, rich and deep. The other man has a voice that is soft, high-pitched, wimpy. Which man do you think women will find more attractive? If you guessed the man with the dynamic voice then ...
Views: 4235 - Smart, Meet Heart: 5 Remedies for (Smart) People’s Dating Woes - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsSome of you, my astute readers, already noticed that the dating challenges enumerated in the last article - focusing on careers instead of relationships, expecting to be loved for the wrong reasons, not acting like a sexual being, self-sabotaging and ego identity - are not just specific to smart ...
Views: 710 - Flirting Tips for Girls: 3 Easy Ways To Grab Any Guy’s Attention - by Submitted on May 12, 2009 from Michael LeeIf you’re in need of flirting tips for girls, then you’ve come to the right place. This article will give you three very simple techniques you can use on any guy, regardless of his age or personality. These flirting tips for girls will help you gain more confidence and improve your skills in ...
Views: 3572(3 votes) - Reading a Man’s Body Language - by Submitted on May 10, 2009 from Michael LeeWomen are often hard to understand. But trying to decipher men’s motives are not that easy either. After all, guys are not exactly known for being expressive with their emotions. They have a tendency to mask their true feelings. However, reading a man’s body language can change all ...
Views: 7360(5 votes) - 3 Simple Seduction Techniques to Attract Anyone - by Submitted on May 10, 2009 from Michael LeeSeduction is a game anyone can play. Even if you’re just used to being part of an audience, you can still participate and find seduction techniques you can use. Don’t let the other players intimidate you. In fact, why not see them as possible inspirations? After all, there’s no better way to ...
Views: 2397(3 votes) - The Top Seven Ways to Flatter Your Man - by Submitted on May 06, 2009 from Sally Connolly1. Do special things for him: fix his favorite meal and let him know that you are doing it because you care about him, buy his favorite drinks or snacks, rent a movie that you know he will like, buy him a little gift that shows that you have thought about him and noticed what he likes. 2. Pay ...
Views: 3960 - Is it Just “Clingy” or Something Else? - by Submitted on May 06, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Doc: I am 20 and the longest I have been in a relationship is 10 months, but I have noticed a pattern in all of the girls I have dated. When I first meet them, they seem to be head over heels for me, they seem to love my charm, since of humor and look and things go okay for about a month ...
Views: 1382 - How to Stop Being Needy with Women and Display More Confidence - by Submitted on May 06, 2009 from Steve ScottNo guy likes a girl who clings to him, but I bet you didn’t know that women hate it just as much. Think I’m wrong? Continue reading. There’s a vast difference between acknowledging a woman and hanging all over her. When a man clings to his girlfriend, she’s actually being turned off by his ...
Views: 3592 - Should You Kiss on the First Date? - by Submitted on May 05, 2009 from Mark TaylorIntimate encounters in dating usually would mean either of these two things: one, it is plainly, an intimate encounter. End of story. You move on with your lives. Or two, it's an intimate encounter that promises a whole new different life for the both of you. Okay, here's how it started: It's ...
Views: 1655 - The Inevitable Question: When Should I Call After a First Date? - by Submitted on May 05, 2009 from Mark TaylorCongratulations. You had a blast on your first date! You grin on your way home and ponder on the possibilities of asking your girl out again. Your brain is running a mile a second and then it suddenly hits you. When should I call after a first date? Three days after? Five? A week? Don't over ...
Views: 1094 - How to Get Over a Breakup- 6 Secrets For Getting Over an Ex-Girlfriend - by Submitted on May 05, 2009 from Steve ScottGuys get a bad rep for not being sensitive enough, but would you believe me if I said that they tend to have the hardest time getting over a breakup? What’s more, studies have shown that men fear breakups more than they do rejection. When meeting a girl for the first time, there’s no bond in ...
Views: 1220 - Love Letters To Write To A Boyfriend: How To Use Love Letters To Show Him You Care - by Submitted on May 05, 2009 from Michael LeeYou don’t really need a reason to come up with love letters to write to a boyfriend. Anniversary or not, guys appreciate it when their girlfriends show how much they care about them. You might be wondering just how many kinds of love letters you can write to a boyfriend. There are actually a ...
Views: 1132 - How to Become an Alpha Male - by Submitted on May 05, 2009 from Steve ScottEveryone is familiar with “that guy.” He’s the one who’s semi-bald, kind of pudgy, and can’t put a decent outfit together to save his life. For some reason, however, women flock to him, and you can’t help but wonder why. The reason he’s so attractive to the opposite sex is simple…he’s an alpha ...
Views: 1577 - Great Tips on Dating Older Women - by Submitted on May 05, 2009 from Mark TaylorIn the past few years dating older women has entered mainstream society as a popular trend among both young men and middle aged women.Young men have always found the idea of older women intriguing, and older women found young men to be exotic and somewhat wild and fun. Not until the last few ...
Views: 1094 - Seduced by a Cougar? - by Submitted on May 04, 2009 from Mark TaylorIf you hear people talking about being seduced by a cougar, and you are not completely following them, then you need to know that the term cougar is related not to the animal, but to older women who hook up with younger men. Of course you remember the infamous Mrs. Robinson and it is most likely ...
Views: 1350 - How to Get Great Results with Online Dating - by Submitted on May 04, 2009 from Samantha GregoryI usually stay away from the subject of single mom dating. There are plenty of other bloggers that talk about this subject. But I’d like to share what has worked for me in the past. I got great results and a great friend using this method. Your mileage may vary so use your own instincts and ...
Views: 1358 - Get the Man of your Dreams with the 4 Bs: Beauty, Brains, Body, Balance! - by Submitted on May 03, 2009 from Brandi HamrickIf you are a single lady chances are you have envisioned your “dream guy.” He’s that perfect guy that’s handsome, smart, funny, and altogether well-rounded. Though they may be few and far between, dream guys do exist, you just have to know how to get them. You must ask yourself-what does your ...
Views: 5541 - List Of Signs He Is Flirting: How To Know If A Guy Is Flirting With You - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2009 from Michael LeeIf you’re a woman, trying to decipher a man’s signals can get very confusing sometimes. Don’t you just wish there was a general way to know the list of signs he is flirting? I have this male friend who’s been acting stranger than usual lately. It’s almost like he’s morphing into one of those ...
Views: 6392(9 votes) - Sweep A Woman Off Her Feet Without Breaking a Sweat - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraWhat makes women go gaga over a guy? This is one question that guys often ponder upon. Although there’s always this smoother-than-smooth guy who constantly knows every right move for keeping that hottie wrapped around his suave, clever fingers, let’s face it—a lot of guys are still clueless on ...
Views: 4839 - Being Too Smart for “Girl Games” - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Dr. Neder! I've been reading through some of your answers and one common piece of advice you give women is to not play stupid games. Girls do it all the time and 9 times out of 10, it completely screws everything up for them and she ends up not getting what she wants out of the ...
Views: 1381 - The Ups and Downs of Dating an Older Woman - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraAn older man going out with a younger woman is almost a cliché. Why men prefer younger women is no mystery—it has a lot of obvious perks. And what kind of man in his right mind would date an older woman? In this age and time, it is pretty typical for men to go after the young, nubile ones ...
Views: 930 - How to Get Over a Guy in 3 Simple Steps - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2009 from Michael LeeWant to know how to get over a guy? It may take some time, especially if you had been seeing this guy for a long period of time. Sometimes, emotional scars are harder to heal than physical ones. However, trying to get over someone is achievable. Even though you feel like you won’t ever see the ...
Views: 3137 - Oline Dating 101 - A Starter's Guide - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2009 from Alex WuJust like in offline dating, it takes time, caution, and hard work to find your match online. Here is our 101 of how to make your online dating effective and safe. Your Profile In online dating, your profile makes the first impression, literally. It leaves a potential match wanting to know ...
Views: 1144 - How to Know if He/She is “The One” - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2009 from Kim OlverIt is my firm belief that if you are seeking a life partner, you need to be clear about what it is you are looking for—what is important to you. If you’ve had more than a few failed relationships, then that’s actually a good thing because it will help you narrow your focus. You probably will ...
Views: 1752 - Points to Remember When Calling After the Date - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraDates usually have different endings. In most cases, it’s either you don’t want to see the other person again, or you’re already looking forward to the second date. If the date has a happy ending, then by all means ask for her phone number. Be a gentleman and take your date home. A friendly ...
Views: 609 - How to Prepare for Online Dating - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Anna KarimoYou’ve been thinking about joining an online dating website but something is keeping you from pushing that JOIN button. Maybe you haven’t pushed that button yet because you haven’t prepared yourself. If so, then sit back and take a moment to see where you’re at with the whole concept of online ...
Views: 765 - Top 10 Ways To Attract A Guy Easily And Quickly - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2009 from Michael LeeYou can either bump your head against the wall trying to think of the best ways to captivate a man, or you could simply apply any of the top 10 ways to attract a guy in this article. These methods are not necessarily breakthrough information, but they have been proven to work with any type of ...
Views: 3308(4 votes) - He Wants You to Need Him. How Can That Be Healthy? - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2009 from Rachael Jayne GrooverA masculine man loves to become aware of a need and fill it. That’s why they love to fix things, make things “better” for you when you are upset, and put a lot of focus on their work. Many men only put attention on what is directly and specifically needed, which is why many bright, confident, ...
Views: 1025(6 votes) - Toxic People - Are They In Your Life? - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2009 from Geoffrey SchmidtHave you ever had someone in your life that on the surface seemed like he/she should be a part of your life but deep down you had a feeling that something was not right? If you answered no, then stop reading this now because your safe little world is just that…safe; but, if you are like most ...
Views: 4841 - Is Online Dating a Boon or a Bust? - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2009 from Anna KarimoClick, Find Love. Is this a new movie or a title of a book focusing in love on the Internet? Think you’ve got mail, Must love dogs and Napoleon Dynamite, all films geared towards finding love or partners online. Have we really lost the era of romanticism? While it is undeniable that a large ...
Views: 847 - Which Guys Are “Marriage Material”? - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederDr. Dennis: What are some signs that a man is "marriage material" and that a woman should definitely consider pursuing him seriously? =================== Hello! One of the best signs is to check the ring finger of his left hand (at least here in the States); if there's a wedding band there, ...
Views: 2067 - Why Doesn’t He Call Me? - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Cherokee BillieAs a psychic this is the most frequently asked question I receive. The women calling me are in deep pain and cannot understand what went wrong. The problem is they don’t understand how men think. Single men view dating far different than a woman can ever imagine. Oftentimes it’s just you ...
Views: 2103(4 votes) - Flirting Tips for Shy Girls: 3 Simple Ways To Flirt With Any Guy In Any Situation - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Michael LeeEver the wallflower when it comes to parties and social gatherings? Don’t you just wish you could actually make any guy fall head over heels for you? Fortunately, it’s not too late to change yourself as long as you learn a few flirting tips for shy girls. These flirting tips for shy girls will ...
Views: 1952 - A Woman’s Guide to Helping Their Shy Guy - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Nhys GloverWe women want to support the men we care about, whether they’re our sons, lovers, brothers or friends. Many of these men are shy with women. They find it hard to form romantic relationships with our gender, and we often don’t know why. After all, we can see what great guys they are! The ...
Views: 4509 - Conversation Starters for Shy Men: It's All in the Question - by Submitted on Mar 21, 2011 from Nhys GloverOne of the hardest parts of being shy is trying to talk to other people. Especially people you like. It took a long time for me to learn how to talk socially to guys, and so I’ll give you a few of the tips I picked up that you can use with women. Start by asking questions. But not the cheesy ...
Views: 3387 - Best Reasons to Be in a Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2009 from Gregory SmithThere are definitely advantages to being in a relationship with someone you love. I have been recently reminded of some of the best reasons to be in a relationship by a number of readers’ emails that came in after I wrote "Best Reasons to Be Single" several months ago. So in the ...
Views: 1429 - Male Body Language Flirting Signs: Reading A Man’s Body Language To Know If He Likes You - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2009 from Michael LeeDon’t you just wish you can read what men are thinking sometimes? Unless you’re in a movie or a comedy sitcom, that is very unlikely. But if you know how to decipher male body language flirting signs, who needs ESP? There is nothing complicated about reading body language, and interpreting ...
Views: 2977(4 votes) - The Launch and Escalation of Online Dating Websites - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2009 from Ashley LekovIn our time dating online is as universal as taking out the trash. Only it did not initiate that way. dating online back in the late 80's and early nineties started out by classifieds, and other forms of news groups. This new |idea shaped into what is now considered discovering love online. When ...
Views: 968 - Healthy Boundaries = Healthy Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2009 from Isabel KirkRelationships are a beautiful thing but they can also be challenging. I love a cartoon that reads as follows: “Relationships: a mess worth making.” It very well illustrates how many times relationships can be messy or unhealthy. The main cause of unhealthy relationships? Unhealthy boundaries. ...
Views: 3662 - How to Attract Women with Your Words - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2009 from Michael LeeThere are times when even confident and successful men need tips on talking to girls. I mean, hasn’t there ever been a time when you tried to initiate a conversation only to end up in an awkward situation? Don’t feel bad though. We all have our off days and there’s certainly no harm in ...
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