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- Do You Stay or Do You Go? - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2009 from Cherry NorrisYou've been seeing a man for quite some time. In the beginning, everything was great. You got along well. You thought you were headed for marriage. But now things are different. Life has happened. Once the sex was great. Now he says he's not that into you, but wants to remain friends. ...
Views: 1464(5 votes) - You Can Impress a Girl Without Gifts: Here's How - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2009 from Carey BainRespecting the well known fact that girls are emotional and easily fall for things that touch their hearts, it's not difficult to impress a girl without gifts. So, if you are on a tight budget or not willing to loosen your pocket for her, you still stand a chance to become her darling. Guys ...
Views: 7493(10 votes) - The “Un-Ex” - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederI was in a long distance relationship over the internet and it ended 5 weeks ago. Basically I screwed up in silly ways and hurt her. I quit for a day, but came back and after staying away for another day she added me again during that first week (she said she'll always love me.) Over the next ...
Views: 1433(6 votes) - Suddenly Single: How to Reinvent Yourself After Heartbreak - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanWhether you just got out of a relationship, or have been struggling to heal your broken heart for some time now, figuring out how to move on can be confusing, fear-inducing, and downright uncomfortable. Not only do you have to let go of your past, but you’ve got to be willing to embrace the ...
Views: 9666(6 votes) - After the Breakup: The Do’s and Don'ts of Dealing with Your Ex - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanEveryone knows breaking up is hard to do. But staying in contact with your ex following a breakup? That's where things get really tricky. By remaining in each other's lives, you run the risk of a post-breakup rendezvous, holding onto feelings for your ex, and in general delaying your ability to ...
Views: 12430(12 votes) - After the Breakup: 4 Valuable Love Lessons - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanWhenever I’m at a dinner party and meet somebody new, the inevitable question comes up: What do you do? When I tell them I’m a heartbreak reinvention coach, it always leads to an interesting conversation. Usually, I get to hear the story of Their Big Breakup, and it’s always gut-wrenching, ...
Views: 5733(10 votes) - Can we be friends? The ABCs of Ex Etiquette - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanCan we be friends? After a breakup, this simple question can weigh heavy on your mind. As a heartbreak reinvention coach, I often hear this question from clients. And my answer is always the same — no. Why? Because as hard as it may be to accept, your relationship is over. This person is ...
Views: 2759(4 votes) - Fabulous Date Ideas For Baby Boomers - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe dating game is always dynamic: going out on a date when you were 17 is not quite the same as going out when you’re 50 or so. People grow older, and along with it come a pretty healthy sense of what one desires out of life and especially out of love. However, it is inevitable for older people ...
Views: 695 - Heal Your Heart in Just 21 Days - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanConventional wisdom says it takes just 21 days to establish a new habit. So what if that new habit involves getting over a breakup? Is it possible to exorcise your ex, clear your head, and heal your heart in just 3 weeks? It is when you enroll in a crash course in breakup survival, immerse ...
Views: 3241(3 votes) - Reconnect with the Ex? What You Need to Know Before You Give it Another Go - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanAfter a relationship ends, it's all too easy to second-guess the decision to split up. And while reconsidering doesn't necessarily mean you should reunite, what happens if you and your ex DO decide you'd like to give the relationship another go? Maybe the time away from one another has shown you ...
Views: 9718(3 votes) - After the Breakup: The Do’s and Don'ts of Dealing with Your Ex - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanEveryone knows breaking up is hard to do. But staying in contact with your ex following a breakup? That's where things get really tricky. By remaining in each other's lives, you run the risk of a post-breakup rendezvous, holding onto feelings for your ex, and in general delaying your ability to ...
Views: 3549(3 votes) - Heartbreaker 101: How to Heal Your Heart and Be Glad He’s Gone! - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2009 from Lisa SteadmanThere’s no denying it. Breaking up is oh-so hard to do, especially in today’s 24-hour techno-savvy world of Facebook, Twitter, and post-breakup booty calls arranged via sexting. Before you get down in the dumps about getting dumped (or even if you did the dumping), the following five tips will ...
Views: 3372(6 votes) - Busting Romance Myths - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2009 from Joseph StuczynskiThis article is about learning how to date successfully, not about the clothes you wear, your attitude, acting your age, hairstyles or any other physical or social trait. It’s about YOU, and learning how to define a healthy relationship based on your desires and needs. It’s about attracting ...
Views: 2733(2 votes) - Know Your Loving Partner - by Submitted on May 23, 2010 from Thoms WarriorIn fact meeting with a loving partner is a very exciting matter, but it depends on the matter that you are meeting your partner the first time or it is your regular meeting. In case of regular meeting it is a occasion of great joy, if the relationship is good between the couple. But in case of ...
Views: 2083(1 vote) - Trying to Reconcile - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Doc! My girlfriend and I broke up about 5 weeks ago. I’m 22 and we have been dating 3 years - on and off for 5. She broke up with me because of the way I was treating her, I was being a pretty bad boyfriend. So, after 5 weeks we had a talk and she was willing to open her heart for me to come ...
Views: 1505 - First Date Goals and Etiquette to Help You Find Summer Love - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2009 from Gloria MacDonaldGloria MacDonald, the owner of Perfect Partners: The Personal Relationship Executive Search Firm gives you some advice on getting through that pivotal first date. It is important that you have simple goals and expectations for a first date, particularly for women. Set a goal not to approach ...
Views: 1510 - ***The No Fear Guide to Dating - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2009 from Sharmen LaneWe are all single at some point in our lives so it’s important to help yourself stay motivated when it comes to the world of dating. Being a long time single gal, and being all about the how, I came up with a how to have a no fear approach to dating. No Fear Rule #1- Dont take anything ...
Views: 2054(54 votes) - The Green Date Experience - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraJust about everything and everyone is going green these days; call it a fad or a turning point, but people are becoming more environmentally aware and vigilant in saving our planet. This earth-friendly sensibility doesn’t simply stay in the confines of our own homes, because it is everywhere: ...
Views: 856 - Rebounds and Responsibilities - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Dr. Neder, I met a girl (21yrs old) a little while ago, and have been going go out with her for 2 months. I now sense that she was on the rebound from another relationship; emotionally hurt and confused, but she does not make it clear to me that she is. This is affecting my relationship ...
Views: 1438 - First Encounters: Not a Time for Fairytales - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsEveryone puts on a show to impress someone at the beginning of a relationship. You meet a guy, you feel connection, and you want the connection to develop into something stronger. You don't want him losing interest in you and moving on, so you exaggerate a bit to keep him interested. Guys get ...
Views: 657 - How to Overcome the Fear of Asking a Girl Out: 3 Easy Steps to Follow - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2009 from Michael LeeWant to know how to overcome the fear of asking a girl out? This article could help you. But first, you need to know that it’s not as easy as a smile and a hello for all guys. Sometimes, certain things get in the way. You feel a lump in your throat and suddenly feel the need for fresh air. You ...
Views: 1118(3 votes) - Find Your Own Puppy Love by Dating with Your Dog - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsElisa Baxt recalls one of her first dog dates with her boyfriend; it was on a beautiful spring day, and she and Scott were having lunch at an outdoor cafe, eating salads, and sipping lemonade. Next to them was Elisa’s three-and-a-half-year-old chow-lab mix Cody, chewing on a special order carrot ...
Views: 1038 - Disposable…Relationships? And How to Spot Them! - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2009 from Maryanne ComarotoOh yeah, one of my favorite topics. The “kick it to the curb, eat ya up and spit ya out, get in, get on, get out,” craze. It feels soooo.. .what’s the word? How about “effing painful.” Well, it can be truly painful if you haven’t learned one of two things: the technique of shutting your own ...
Views: 9058 - Smart Women, Dangerous Choices: Part Two - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2009 from Sigrid MacdonaldRecently I wrote about women who were attracted to the wrong men, and I discussed one woman in particular that I knew who was drawn to a criminal. I received so many comments about that short article that I decided to write a slightly more in-depth sequel, asking the question “Why?” Why do ...
Views: 2837 - Smart Women, Dangerous Choices: Part One - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2009 from Sigrid MacdonaldSome women are attracted to bad boys. They may be alcoholics, married men, or men with an attitude like Stanley Kowalski in Streetcar Named Desire, or James Dean in Rebel without a Cause. The worst type of bad boy is a convict or an ex-con and sad to say, there are many women who fall for ...
Views: 9201(2 votes) - Attraction and Love Formulas - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederI’ve been promoting a new concept on my show that has been very successful in explaining how attraction and love work. I call these them (collectively) “The Formula”. Is there really a “formula” for attraction and love? Yes, there is. I discovered them when I was working on what sorts of ...
Views: 1720(3 votes) - I Need a Break from Dating! - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2009 from Deborrah CooperHere I am in my 40s -- no longer a spring chicken, yet still a pretty hot chick. But I think it's time to accept the fact that I'm getting old. Why? Because I distinctly remember a time not too far in the distant past when I used to get excited about going out on a date… the shopping for a ...
Views: 1801 - Online Dating: Answer of Thirsty Heart - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2009 from Cathy ErecreInternet has widely spread its spiel in today's heart needs. Your longing thirsty heart will now come to an end. With the help of a simple pc, internet connection and the eagerness to build a good relationship, you can now say goodbye of being single. Reaching the other side of the world is ...
Views: 1027(1 vote) - Long and Lasting Love at Online Dating - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2009 from Cathy ErecreWho would refuse to have a long and lasting love? I'm sure nobody will! It is because everybody wants to create a long and lasting love that they will cherish for the rest of their lives. Most people begins a relationship with somebody in online dating world easily but have a hard time ...
Views: 1020 - Wings of Love - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2009 from Cathy ErecreDo you still remember when people find pen friends through sending air mails here and there? In today's trend that way of finding friend or even finding a lover has been replaced with a very easy and accessible way. Online dating has covered it already. You can now simply look for friends ...
Views: 885 - Sex Without Romance or Romance Without Sex? - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2009 from Cathy ErecreAre you happy with your relationship right now? Why? Is it because of the romance? Or because of the sex?I'm sure it's not because of that! Lovers won't be happy with sex alone and won't be satisfied with romance alone. We become happy when we achieve both sex with romance and romance with ...
Views: 5192 - Marketing Yourself: 5 Tips to Get Out of a dating Rut - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2009 from Brandi HamrickStuck in a dating rut? Tired of attracting the wrong kind of people? Change your approach to finding the right person. If a business isn’t attracting enough customers, they don’t just complain without taking action. A successful business will change their marketing strategies and do what it ...
Views: 4397 - How to Have a Positive Self-esteem and Bring Sexy Back - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraOur world today is a beauty-conscious one—everywhere we go, we see ads and billboards plastered with fresh beautiful faces, silky-smooth skin and perfect, sparkling white teeth. Women spend a lot of money on makeup and other beauty products that are supposed to transform one from a plain Jane to ...
Views: 814 - Really Great Dating Advice for Those Who Really Want to Get Real - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2009 from Heidi Bilonick5 common mistakes women make in the dating world and tips for overcoming them. Every time I have heard, “It will happen when you’re not looking.” or “God is just preparing your heart for your perfect mate.“ or even better, the infamous “You just must not love yourself enough yet. If you don’t ...
Views: 1918 - A Girl's Guide to Safe Dating: Safety Calls - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2009 from Melody Glatz"Have a nice time, darling! Make sure you call me when you get there and when you leave!" Sound familiar? This was from my mom when I’d go to friends’ homes. In high school, my dad always gave me some quarters before I went out on a date (back in the days when there were pay phones) and told me ...
Views: 4032 - Can a Double Date Double the Fun? - by Submitted on Jun 07, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraEvery other person probably goes out on a double date at some point in their lives. It could happen to you, too—soon. Double dates can actually be a fun and exciting way to spend the night away whether it’s a casual affair with some friends or a blind date set up by your best bud’s fiancée. Not ...
Views: 756 - How Can I Trust Myself in Dating Ever Again? - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsDear Ms. Ruth, Sorry, I am not one for formalities; but the heading just sounded right! LOL. I am actually wondering if/when I will be able to actually “see” the guys I’m interested in for who they are? I dated a guy for three years when I found out that he was a porn addict. As you could ...
Views: 671 - 9 Green Date Ideas - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsDating today is a lot different, from an eco-friendly perspective, than it was 25 years ago when I first met my wife. In 1984 we would hit the McDonald’s on the way to the beach and order bags of fast food placed in Styrofoam containers. After we had our fill of the sun, we would jump ...
Views: 915 - Could the Man I Met Online Be Married? - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsQuestion: Several weeks ago I met a man through an online dating site. We have a great time together but something about him doesn’t feel right and I cannot put my finger on it. I know that many people who are married or otherwise committed use the Internet to cheat on their partners. How can I ...
Views: 681 - Dating Tips for Men: Improving Your Calibration - by Submitted on May 29, 2009 from Julian FoxxI always hear a lot of men talk about calibration. It is even one of the most talked-about topic in some dating tips for men. But what does calibration REALLY mean in relation to dating? You could open the dictionary and easily look up a dozen different definitions for the word. But there's ...
Views: 810 - How to Break Awkward Moments Using Your iPod - by Submitted on May 29, 2009 from Julian FoxxOne typical scenario during the first few minutes of your date is the awkwardness that you both feel. Though you will overcome it later on. To avoid those awkward moments during your date, here is a very simple dating advice. But you can also use it any time throughout the meeting. We call ...
Views: 1506 - First Date Tips By a Professional Matchmaker - by Submitted on May 28, 2009 from Svetlana NovikovaOften the first thing men and women worry about when beginning a dating relationship is starting out on the right foot…or better yet avoided putting their foot in their mouth. When we first meet someone, whether it be a friend, perspective employer or date we tend to focus on all the wrong ...
Views: 658 - 5 Reliable Signs Your Crush is Attracted to You - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Michael LeeYou can never be too old or too young to have a crush on someone. I still remember my first crush back in grade school. Her name was Julie - pretty eyes and long, black hair. Back then, I sort of had an idea of how she felt about me as well. Thankfully, the signs your crush likes you haven’t ...
Views: 14943(7 votes) - 3 Flirting Body Language Signs of Attraction - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Michael LeeDuring pre-historic times, humans already have a way of applying flirting body language to show the opposite sex that they like what they see. Of course, we were a bit more frank then, and the codes were easier to decipher. Nowadays, we have already learned the art of subtlety, which makes the ...
Views: 9134(7 votes) - 8 Great Questions to Ask on a First Date - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Melody GlatzSo, you're about to go on a First Date? With more Americans utilizing the internet to meet their match, what do you talk about on a first date? Haven't you already asked and answered all the questions on your profile and/or in email exchanges, chat sessions, texting, phone calls? Not even ...
Views: 6200(6 votes) - My Girlfriend is a Liar! - by Submitted on May 27, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederIt started as white lies at first about small things then on to more serious things. She is not a very good liar and exposes herself with inconsistent stories and I’m just about fed up. For instance, she was talking to a few guys before me, and lies about them not calling her. There are a more ...
Views: 5896 - The Odysseus Protocol, or How to Bypass Willpower to Get More out of Life (in Dating & Beyond) - by Submitted on May 26, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsI’ve briefly touched upon the Odysseus protocol in the past. The name comes from Homer’s Odyssey. Odysseus and his ship are about to pass through the Siren-infested waters. On the one hand, he knows that hearing their song will spell his doom. On the other hand, he’s dying of curiosity and ...
Views: 1724 - Ways to Show a Girlfriend You Love Her - by Submitted on May 23, 2009 from Michael LeeGuys aren't always attuned to their girlfriends' needs, but that doesn't excuse you from learning the ways to show a girlfriend you love her. Women like to be appreciated and it's time men step it up a notch. If that means doing the dishes for the week or refraining from joining your buddies for ...
Views: 1213 - Signs Men Give When They Are in Love - by Submitted on May 23, 2009 from Michael LeeThere are certain signs men give when they are in love. Unfortunately, most women remain unaware of them, because they are used to certain stereotypical gestures of affection. Not all men can be like your favorite television hunk. It's better to understand the kind of person your man is before ...
Views: 5212(6 votes) - Single Parents - Tips for That First Date with Someone New - by Submitted on May 23, 2009 from Julie ClarkBeing a single parent in the dating scene can present many challenges. Below are several tips on what to do and not to do during a first date. 1. Do not be late. Make sure that your arrangements for your kids are air-tight. Allow plenty of time to get to your destination. Being late for a ...
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