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- Help for the Online Dating Community - by A new dating site www.usaloving.com has just been launched and is ushering in a new era in the dating online Industry. It is offering a much needed change in the way people view free dating sites.
Online dating has become one of the largest industries on the Internet. As more and more people ...
Views: 1254 - How to Move On - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederHave you been having trouble moving on after breaking up with an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend? This can be very difficult to do! I’m going to show you an incredibly powerful technique to help you get healed quickly and permanently and to move on so that you can find that next great love and ...
Views: 1224 - Dating Tips: What Do Women Really Want From Men? - by For Terry Leslie, aggravated by the numerous rejections from women and always facing the challenges of dating women effectively, went on a personal mission in search for an answer.
Men have been trying to figure out what women want for ages. Without knowing what a woman wants, how can you ...
Views: 970 - Loves Dogs - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2009 from Allen and Linda AndersonA letter sent to us by one of our readers amused us and we think you may also enjoy it. In her letter, Jan told us that a relative of hers had made "loves dogs" a prerequisite for having a serious relationship with the next man in her life. Jan's relative met a suitor through an online dating ...
Views: 1893 - Dating for Men - The Four Pillars of Your Attractiveness - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2011 from Ali BinazirA funny thing happened a couple of nights ago. I was out with a friend, when we started talking to two very nice young ladies. They had just finished talking to this young man whom we could tell had been just a little too obvious in his advances. What exactly do I mean by that? ...
Views: 3671 - Avoiding Dating Games - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Dr. Neder: My problem is that I don’t want to play the dating game and I don’t know how to avoid it. I’m not interested in the type of relationship that’s a sort of fragile peace treaty after a war of conquest. When I consider what’s involved in the dating ...
Views: 2918 - Successful Dating Secrets for Valentine's Day from the Matchmaking Guru - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2009 from Gloria MacDonaldDo you find dating a struggle? Have you been on an endless string of first dates that end there? My best advice for making the most of your dating experiences is to implement a 3-Date Rule. As human beings we can’t help but make instant assessments of the people we meet. It’s ...
Views: 919 - Dating for Men: Playing at the Third Level - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2009 from Ali BinazirDating for Men – Playing at the Third Level: The Importance of Attitude Your friendly neighborhood dating guide Dr Alex here. Today we're going to talk about a concept that can tremendously enhance your dating life that doesn't cost a dime and requires almost no additional physical ...
Views: 2597 - Dating for Men -- The Third Ball Attack and the Art of Conversation - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2009 from Ali BinazirOne of my overarching goals in life has been the bringing together of people through cross-cultural exchange and educational programs to increase understanding, friendship and fun all over the world. I don't worry about 'world peace' so much, because when people are having a good time, they ...
Views: 2723 - Dating Tips for Women Over 40: 5 Unexpected Places to Meet Great Men Over 40 - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2009 from Lisa DailyIt breaks my heart whenever I hear women say that there aren't any good men over 40 left to date, because it's just not true. Sure, it feels true when you're sitting across the table from your blind date—a guy who wears black socks with sandals and whines about how his seventh divorce really was ...
Views: 4754 - Don't Be Afraid to Get into the Game - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2009 from Mary Kay CocharoMy son plays travel baseball. As a result, I found myself, as I do many a weekend, spending countless hours in bleachers the past few days. At one point, as the other team slipped ahead by several runs, I noticed that the coaches and supportive parents yelled things like, “Get into the game”; ...
Views: 1467 - Life Plan For Love: Dating as a Single Parent - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2009 from Katherin ScottAs a single parent, the dating game has just gotten more complicated. In addition to the usual difficulty of meeting people, dealing with rejection, and dealing with jerks, you have the kids. You also have the ghost of your past relationship to deal with—which, thanks to your kids, ...
Views: 795 - Ideas for a Romantic Evening - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2009 from Andriette CThe secret of a great romantic evening is not what you do, but rather in how you do it. A simple dinner at home can be extremely romantic if you dress up, lay out a special table, light some candles and play slow, soul-melting music in the background. Transforming yourself in the most ...
Views: 1299(13 votes) - Reframing: Approach any Guy for Conversation with This Technique - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2009 from Joshua UebergangBeing able to converse with anyone is a great communication skill to possess. Too often starting a conversation is like going to war for many, and not just for girls talking to guys. People want to experience the joy of winning by having a great conversation but what lies ahead of the person is ...
Views: 1431 - Date-Rape Drugs: Protecting Yourself - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2009 from Victor SwindellWhat they are and the steps to staying safe from becoming a victim. For many years a new kind of rape threat has reared it's ugly head at bars, on college campuses, at house parties, and in various nightclubs – they can be called "predator" or "date rape" drugs. You may have heard of them, but ...
Views: 1912 - Life Plan For Love: Healing After a Break-Up - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2009 from Katherin ScottOne of the hardest things in life is when your loved one dumps you. And then, perhaps out of guilt, or perhaps out of consideration, they say, "But we can be friends, can't we?" Somehow muster the courage to say, "NO. We can't be friends. If this is the end, it is the end of everything." ...
Views: 841 - Life Plan For Love: How to Exit a Bad Date Gracefully - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2009 from Katherin ScottIf you've been a date, you've probably been on a bad one. Bad dates make for funny stories. There's that episode on Friends where Phoebe's date tells her he writes "erotic novels for children," that her breasts are gorgeous, and that he has a PHD (not PhD), all within the first five minutes. ...
Views: 619 - Should I Stay or Should I Go? - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Dr. Neder: My boyfriend and I have only been dating a year and 2 months. I do really care for him and I pray he cares for me as well. Here is my concern, he has hidden things from me before, and I have found out and now I'm getting afraid he is doing it again. He has promised me that he ...
Views: 708 - Single Seniors: Never Too Old for Romance - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraHow old is too old? Aging, or growing older is not a disease; it is a process that every one of us is going through. In affairs of the heart, age hardly matters. When a person grows older, it does not mean that the desire for companionship and intimacy diminish. Single seniors enjoy making ...
Views: 1148 - Life Plan for Love: Dealing with Romantic Rejection - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2009 from Katherin ScottRejection is probably the hardest part of dating. You put yourself out there, show you’re interested, even let someone get to know you—and then they turn you down. It’s tempting just to stay home. Here’s the thing, though: you can’t stay home. Rejection is ...
Views: 7242 - Life Plan for Love: Speed Dating Success in 12 Easy Steps! - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2009 from Katherin ScottNever been to a Speed Dating event but you’re thinking about it? Speed Dating is a fun and efficient venue for meeting potential partners. Many singles are nervous about attending a Speed Dating event. Others are excited about meeting new singles. In order to maximize your time and ...
Views: 2117 - Life Plan for Love: What Men Want in a Woman - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2009 from Katherin ScottWhat do men really want in a woman? Are they really those sex-crazed creatures we take them for? Well, yes and no. There are definitely men out there who aren’t looking for a relationship, who just want a hot body to show off and enjoy. But there are also men who are ready to settle ...
Views: 3487(6 votes) - Dating Tips for Women Over 40: 5 Unexpected Places to Meet Great Men Over 40 - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2009 from Lisa DailyIt breaks my heart whenever I hear women say that there aren’t any good men over 40 left, because it’s just not true. Sure, it feels true when you’re sitting across the table from your blind date—a guy who wears black socks with sandals and whines about how his seventh ...
Views: 1113(5 votes) - Compromise to Get Him Back or Bolt? - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2009 from Dr. Dennis NederDr. Neder: I've been dating a guy for 6 months. We were inseparable we spend loads of time together. We get along fantastic our families love each other. There is one big problem. I had to move back to the town I'm from which is where he lives. I noticed that he didn't want me in his home when ...
Views: 953 - How Do You Develop the Courage to Date? - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2009 from Sally ConnollyMen are often stuck with the initial bid to date … and choosing someone to ask out. They also generally have to develop the courage to ask the question and handle any “no” or rejection which can take a lot of courage. Women also have to find ways to make themselves ...
Views: 1258 - Life Plan For Love: 10 Romantic Date Ideas for Couples! - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2009 from Katherin ScottOh, that darling of yours! Those eyes! That hair! This boyfriend / girlfriend / wife / husband / partner / lover is the one for you! Okay, then - let the lovely darling know. It's date time! And not the old stand-bys. It's time for something new, something special, something sure ...
Views: 1480 - Life Plan For Love: First Date Conversation Do's and Don'ts - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2009 from Katherin ScottIt's time! You've won the date, you showered and prepped, and now you're here - at the brink. What will you talk about? The First Date Conversation can make you or break you. Are you prepared? Here are some guidelines. Write them on the back of your hand so you don't forget. (If you ...
Views: 1561 - Safety Tips For Online Dating - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe internet has fast become an integral part of a majority of people’s lives: from communication, shopping, education and even finding a mate! Online dating, also known as internet dating has become the more popular way of finding a date in almost any part of the globe. Over the past 2 ...
Views: 652 - A Self-Test for Singles: How Ready Are You for an Emotionally Intelligent Relationship? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2009 from Sally ConnollyConsider these questions and answer them honestly about yourself to determine if you know how to be part of an emotionally intelligent and healthy relationship. Think about friends and especially about those you date as a way of determining if they are able to be part of a healthy relationship ...
Views: 1075 - Tips for Successful Gay Dating - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraFinding the perfect date can be a daunting task, whether one is gay, bi-sexual or bi-curious. What to wear? Where to go? What to say? If you are about to embark on a first date, one thing is for sure: remember to be yourself and relax. Here are some dating tips that can help you make the date a ...
Views: 721 - Is First Date Sex Ok? - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2009 from John MooreIn this article authored by co-founder of http://www.mychicagotherapist.com •Explore the causal reasons behind the first date sex (FDS) phenomenon •Determine the pros and cons of FDS •Finding a middle ground Cupping the palm of his right hand over his forehead, the man sitting on ...
Views: 3080 - Life Plan for Love: The Art of Flirting! - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2009 from Katherin ScottThe art of flirting is the art of making someone else feel attractive—-in a tasteful, understated way. Don’t be too obvious. Don’t be too subtle. See? It’s simple. Okay, we’ll break it down a little more. What exactly are the elements of the art of flirting? #1: Eye contact. Your first ...
Views: 1199 - Step Dating in the Year 2009: What Does Love Have To To With It? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2008 from Yvonne KellyIf you are a single person on the dating scene today, there is an excellent chance you will someday be dating a partner with children. And of course, if you are already a single parent dating, you will definitely be in a relationship that involves your children and potentially your partner's ...
Views: 1465 - Body Language Secrets: Capture the Attention of the Man You Want - by Submitted on Dec 29, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraBody language is any nonverbal or bodily movement that we make when we communicate. It ranges from the slightest movements that most of us are not even aware of (e.g. facial expression), to our specific postures and gestures. We do a lot of talking every day. But, we send and receive nonverbal ...
Views: 737 - ***Marry The Right Person In The First Place! - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2012 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Did you ever wonder why some people find the perfect person to marry, do so, and enjoy a love affair that lasts a lifetime? On the other hand, some marry a person that is wrong for them now, wrong for them tomorrow, and wrong for them for a ...
Views: 5411(36 votes) - Ease Your Way Back Into Dating After Divorce - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2008 from Menno SpijkstraMost people would wait for life to get back to normal; others would jump right in—even if the ink on their divorce papers hasn’t completely dried out yet. Missing the companionship of the opposite sex is usually the reason why people start dating again. But, if it’s been a ...
Views: 598 - Life Plan For Love: What Women Want in a Man! - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2008 from Katherin ScottIt’s no secret what women want; they want a man who knows what a woman wants. And, they don’t want to have to tell him. But just to clarify, here’s what women want. 1. Attentiveness. Women want to feel special. They want to know a man is paying attention to her. He ...
Views: 851 - Life Plan for Love: 10 Steps to Attract Your Life Partner! - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2008 from Katherin ScottMost of us want a fulfilling lifelong partnership with someone to love and be loved by. We want to be happy in a healthy, committed relationship, yet we don't seem to know how. H. Jackson Brown, Jr. said it best in his Life’s Little Instruction Book, "Choose your life's mate carefully. ...
Views: 910 - Why The Kamikaze Approach Draws In and Attracts Women - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2008 from Alex CoulsonWARNING: This technique is not for everyone. However, if you think you have what it takes to go this route, by all means, read on. When I talk about 'going kamikaze' I'm talking about the ultimate way to approach and attract women. Just so that you know what you're getting into here, you ...
Views: 2639 - Creating Attraction And Creating A Lasting First Impression Within Minutes Of Meeting A Woman - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2008 from Alex CoulsonHere's the scenario. You're out in the evening just hanging out. You see a woman that really turns you on. But, it looks like a couple of other guys have spotted her as well. You have to act fast. Ever been in this spot before? I know a lot of guys who have been in the right place, at ...
Views: 1722 - The Perfect Time to Meet For a Date - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Christophe YoungOK, so you've finally done it... You wrote up an awesome online dating profile, sent emails to all the attractive women you can find and you finally found a woman you REALLY Dig! Now, it's time to make the move... It's time to meet her in person! Now, I'm assuming you did all the right ...
Views: 3710(3 votes) - Life Plan for Love: 10 Steps to Attract Your Life Partner! - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2008 from Katherin ScottMost of us want a fulfilling lifelong partnership with someone to love and be loved by. We want to be happy in a healthy, committed relationship, yet we don't seem to know how. H. Jackson Brown, Jr. said it best in his Life’s Little Instruction Book, "Choose your life's mate carefully. ...
Views: 715 - Just Never Satisfied! - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2008 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Dr. Neder, I am a 24 year-old med student and cannot find the right woman. I have been told I'm a handsome and outgoing, and my women friends always tell me I'm a catch. I've been involved with a couple women that logically seem like the type I'd like to get involved with, but I never ...
Views: 802 - Conversation Topics for a Date - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2008 from Peter HalidayA date is an important occasion in the lives of one and all. Long lasting relationships can only be developed on the basis of solid communication. Hence, one should be properly prepared about the topics he/she wants to discuss during the date so that one is able to understand the most about the ...
Views: 2197 - Become A Love Magnet In 30 Days? Learn How To Attract Love With Your 7-Step Attraction Action Plan - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2008 from hadley finchWould you like to become a love magnet? Learn how to attract the love you seek when you start each day with a 7-step attraction action plan: 1. Wake Up With A Feeling Of Gratitude For All Of The Love In Your Life. As you open your eyes each morning, think of the people, pets, and purpose that ...
Views: 6531 - How To Successfully Approach Women - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2008 from Jan FellyreReal life can be quite a bit different that the imaginary world that they depict in the movies. It always seems that these people on television have no problems picking up women, and searching for the right pick up line. Then again, with a detailed script, and actors who are of course paid to ...
Views: 892 - Dating Professional Services - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2008 from Gordon GoochPutting a dating personal photo in a dating site shows two things: 1. Your self confidence and 2. Your wisdom. The first one is obvious. It shows how much you have confidence in yourself and how much you value honesty and integrity no matter what the ramifications or even better yet what the ...
Views: 558 - Dating Again Tips - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2008 from David ButlerA lot of singles who have been through a tough dating break up often are confused as to when they should get back into the dating game. Many in fact stay alone for fear of making the same dating mistakes all over again. While we can’t put “time limits” on this subject, the ...
Views: 1089 - Romantic Date Ideas: Excite the Senses - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2008 from Michael BrandonHave you ever wanted to impress someone with an unforgettable date, only to fall short? Well, don't sweat it. 95% of dates are easily forgotten, and the memorable one's are often achieved by accident. Here are some tips for designing a date to remember. The most romantic date ideas are ...
Views: 1395 - Will He Marry Me? - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2008 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Doc: I guess my situation is common but let me ask what you think any way. I am a 42 year old woman that has been dating a 50 year old man for 4 years now, we have been living together for 2 years now and we’re both divorced. When we met I was very clear what I wanted and he seemed ...
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