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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- "Searching for Dimes" Tip for the Day "Find a Reason to Believe" - by Submitted on Mar 06, 2010 from Patricia ClappThe Boss sings about it. Self help gurus write about it. Setting goals is the ideal way to live your best life and most of my clients get that. However, how do you get to the point where you get that gusto to want to be a goal setting machine? The bottom line is, exactly how do you find ...
Views: 5803(11 votes) - Divorce – how it affects the children - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2010 from Richard FrenchCouples who are about to get divorced should know that their decision could have a negative impact on their child's long-term academic performance. The consequences of parental divorce may lead to higher school drop-out rates among children whose parents are getting a divorce, compared to their ...
Views: 1202(1 vote) - Discover the Five Essential Tips For Financial Wellness During Your Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 19, 2010 from Lori Snyder"The waste of money cures itself, for soon there is no more to waste." -M.W. Harrison Divorce is a major undertaking and transitional time for many. Your emotions are usually running very high during the beginning of your divorce. There are many mixed feelings; you will feel like you are on ...
Views: 2173(3 votes) - Get Fit And Sexy After Divorce Lose Fat Weight Safely and Quick - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2010 from David AlanDivorce or breakups can be devastating. Some people hide, others put on fake smiles -- and some get right back in the game without taking time to heal. One important thing you never want to lose during the process is your self-confidence. Divorce or break-ups and the changes that follow cause ...
Views: 6263(1 vote) - 3 Resolutions Every Divorcing Mom MUST Make - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2010 from Resilient MomThe 3 Resolutions Every Divorcing Mom must make in order to have a great 2010. Even if you’ve already made your resolutions, every divorcing mom deserves to add these resolutions to your list. #1 TO TREAT MYSELF WITH COMPASSION We Resilient Moms are loving nurtures of our families and ...
Views: 998(5 votes) - Dealing with breakups and depression - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2010 from M.Farouk RadwanI have helped thousands of people get over the depression they felt after breakups and while each one of them had a completely different story than the others they all shared one common cause for the suffering they experienced after the breakup which is having false beliefs about both breakups ...
Views: 3357(3 votes) - Why Couples Fall Out Of Love - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraMany marriages nowadays have ended in separation or divorce. Yet when they were married, they had the most meaningful ceremony, they had a festive reception and they went on the sweetest and longest of honeymoons. Then after a few years, something happened- before they can’t get enough of each ...
Views: 2468(1 vote) - Pornography: Why You Must Not Look – 8 Tips for Overcoming This Evil - by Submitted on Jan 11, 2010 from Matthew TooneEach of us is exposed to and bombarded by – on a daily basis – an evil that is extremely enticing and appealing, so selfishly gratifying (temporarily), so unavoidably addictive, and so incredibly damaging to our thoughts, lives, families, and society. It is a plague and modern day slavery that ...
Views: 17249(4 votes) - Co-Parenting & Custody SupportSubmitted on Jan 10, 2010 from Tracy BurrisSo you've decided to separate or divorce after having children. Now you must decide if you want to work cooperatively as co-parents for the sake of those children, not to mention for the sake of your own sanity. You need Co-parenting & Custody Support! Co-Parenting & Custody Support From ...
Views: 791 - Dealing With a Broken Heart - Powerful Strategies - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2010 from Chris RobertsIf you are interested in dealing with a broken heart, there are a number of issues you should be aware of. First of all, you should understand that no breakup is fun, and completely getting rid of any trace of pain may be impossible. However, there are some powerful strategies that will help you ...
Views: 1420(2 votes) - Ending a Relationship - The Difficulties in Making a Complete Break from Your Ex - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2010 from Chris RobertsRecovering from a breakup can be a difficult thing to do. If you were in a long-term relationship and or you lived with your ex, it may be especially hard to try to put the pieces of your life back together. If you two have been together long enough that you need to take time to sort through ...
Views: 828 - How to Move On After Ending Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2010 from Chris RobertsIf you are suffering from a recent breakup, it may be very difficult for you to believe that you will ever be okay again. The pain may be so overwhelming that you find it hard to sleep and even harder to get yourself out of bed the next morning. You may feel like the world is crumbling around ...
Views: 1106 - Dating After Divorce 101 - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2010 from Shane BoydThe dating after divorce topic is a touchy one. Let's face it, dating after a divorce is difficult and sometimes seems impossible. Divorces are stressful and are sometimes a financial strain. You can be emotionally drained after the divorce and the last thing you want to think about is dating ...
Views: 1240(1 vote) - Stress and Conflict - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2010 from David SamuelStress and Conflict Every machine has natural limitations, its individual capacity. When it is stretched beyond its capacity, it will be stressed. No machine exists that is a singularly whole unit, all machines are merely a sum of parts. And so we can more accurately say that the machine ...
Views: 1503(2 votes) - Is there to find out if someone is divorced - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2009 from Malinda SmithIn the current era, many people ask is there a way to find out if someone is divorced. There is a great significance to find out this information especially before you make any serious relationship with a person. According to an online report it was revealed that sometimes people marry in one ...
Views: 1114(5 votes) - Checklists For Divorce Mediator - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraAfter endless talks and arguments, you can’t take it anymore. Both of you have decided that divorce is the solution and there’s no other way. You can’t live another minute with each other anymore. So, one of you walks out of the house. So, now is the time to think of your checklists for your ...
Views: 883(2 votes) - Surviving the Break up of a Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2009 from Ryan D'eathSo you’ve been dumped, most of us have been there, so you’re not alone. This is the first article, of several, that will provide the most effective methods of surviving a break up, and help you either get on with your life, or eventually get your ex back. - For starters, and I know most break ...
Views: 948(4 votes) - Your Holiday List - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2009 from Meghan GehanLately I’ve been reading a lot about the holidays: what to cook, how to decorate, what to buy (and what to ask for…). And gradually it dawned on me -- these articles are all about what to do for others, or what to ask others to do for you! Don’t get me wrong – I think “doing for others” is ...
Views: 1432(3 votes) - Life After Divorce: Choose Your Own ending - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2009 from Rosemary Holmes-GullLife After Divorce: Choose Your Own Ending While divorce can be a heartbreaking event, the key to healthy adjustment is to accept the realities of your new situation and move on. The future lies in your hands because you have control over your choices. One of the hardest things to do is ...
Views: 2603(2 votes) - Tips for Tiger Woods & All Families Facing Separation or Divorce - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2009 from Rosalind SedaccaWhether Tiger Woods gets a divorce or not, his family is experiencing the emotional turmoil resulting from any parental breakup. Celebrity or not, everyone in the family is affected by a separation or rift between parents. Often Mom and Dad are so caught up in their own battles they tend to ...
Views: 1539(2 votes) - Children & Divorce: Overcoming Challenges & Succeeding in Life - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2009 from Krystal KuehnDivorce is a major stressful event for children and adults. To children, divorce is confusing. They have so many concerns and questions about how their lives will change. They cannot control what is happening to their family, and they often think that they are responsible for their parents ...
Views: 2217(2 votes) - Life After Divorce: Choosing a Happy New Year - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2009 from Shelley StileThe New Year is the proverbial time to make resolutions about our lives. This year may I suggest that you resolve to make an empowering choice for yourself? Choose to have a Happy New Year. As human beings, the ability to consciously choose is our most powerful attribute. Choice is ours and ...
Views: 1309(1 vote) - Divorce Advice - Make Them Pay Dearly and Both of You Will Go Broke - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2009 from Daryl CampbellThis is not going to be pretty. A wonderful marriage has gone south and instead of getting out while there is still some semblance of love and respect something vicious is coming down the highway. The two of you are getting a divorce and as you see it only one person can win this war. Your ...
Views: 894(1 vote) - Is Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Worth It? - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2009 from Shane BoydIf you’ve been cheated on then you know the feeling that fills your stomach after you found out about the affair. You also know all too well the anger and emotional discord this selfish act has caused you and the sleepless nights it has left behind. After the initial anger and heartbreak pass ...
Views: 1962(3 votes) - Is It REALLY Possible To Stop A Divorce? - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2009 from Lee BaucomMarriage is a relationship of balance. . . and a balance that is easily upset these days. Unfortunately, the solution many people choose to deal with the situation is to divorce. I say "unfortunate" because the vast majority of people enter into getting a divorce with a very optimistic view of ...
Views: 2155(4 votes) - Newly Divorced and Surviving the Holidays - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2009 from Shelley StileThe Holidays are upon us once again and for many of you, this might be the first time around as a new unit, I.E. without your ex. It’s a difficult time, no doubt about it, and just another step in the transition into a new life after divorce. If you plan for this season you can make it easier ...
Views: 1254(1 vote) - There Goes Happily Ever After - 5 Reasons Why Couples Get Divorced - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2009 from Daryl CampbellThere may be a difference of opinion on the exact number but there is no doubt that the divorce rate in this country is outrageously high. It's so out of control that one person in California is gathering signatures in an effort to have a referendum on banning divorce. Will it work? Not ...
Views: 827(1 vote) - Newly Single and the Holidays - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2009 from Meghan GehanFor those going through or recently divorced, the holidays add another layer of stress and anxiety: Will I need to interact with my ex? How do I handle the questions and advice from my family? How will I cope with being alone? How do I help my children through this time? This holiday season ...
Views: 1956(2 votes) - Making Co- Parenting In Divorce Work - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraAfter taking care of the all the divorce matters, the party involved usually ends up very exhausted and tired. They generally forgot the issue that matters most is parenting. Being a parent is hard enough and much harder now that you are both divorced. This is the moment when you set aside your ...
Views: 987(1 vote) - Children- The True Victim Of Divorce - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraThe family is the basic unit of society and every care should be taken to preserve it by the state, church and the family itself. However, if counseling and reconciliation cannot solve the conflict within the family, divorce maybe seen as the best solution. To couples with kids however the ...
Views: 1197(2 votes) - Tips for Getting Your Ex Back After a Breakup - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2009 from Andrew HunterTrust me, I know how bad it feels to be dumped. It feels like you are getting hit by a bucket of cold water. You suddenly find yourself lost and uncertain about everything--especially if the two of you where together for a while. It can feel like you've lost all your will to live. This is why I ...
Views: 1441(1 vote) - Divorce Counseling: Getting Through Divorce with Hope - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Krystal KuehnNo one gets married thinking they will get divorced some day. Most people have goals and dreams of being together forever, raising a family, and sharing life for better or for worse. They plan on being a team, growing together, and supporting one another. But somewhere along the line, they ...
Views: 1618(3 votes) - Overcome Holiday Depression During & After Your Divorce - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2009 from Rosalind SedaccaThe holiday season can bring up painful memories of happier times, especially if you are divorced and have children. When feeling yourself starting to sink into negative emotions keep in mind that with the pain comes a choice. You can choose to acknowledge the past for what it was. You can ...
Views: 2501(4 votes) - Divorce and Custody - Love Gone Wrong in the Military - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2009 from Dr. Erica GoodstoneMarriage is a wonderful state. It can bring a sense a fulfillment, belonging, love and intimacy when both people enjoy their life together. Adding children can fully complete the picture. However, so many marriages exist with disharmony, disappointment, distress and tension. The additional ...
Views: 2316(4 votes) - Relationship Life After Divorce - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2009 from Francis HoseinFor you who have built a long term relationship with children involve, may feel that your life has ended when your life partner is no longer in your life and it is true, you have to go through a death, a letting go. Getting the news For some people after getting the news, knew that it ...
Views: 1111(2 votes) - Going Through a Difficult Divorce? - by Submitted on May 03, 2012 from Lance ClaeryGoing through a difficult divorce? Disagreeing with your ex about child custody and visitation? Dealing with domestic violence? Ending a domestic partnership? Fighting over child support or spousal support? If you are going through any type of family law litigation, you may feel stressed, ...
Views: 3445(9 votes) - Life After Divorce -The Absolute Best Way to Move Forward After A Divorce - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2009 from Alyssa JohnsonMy favorite song right now is "In Better Hands Now" by Natalie Grant. I was on a long car drive this morning and falling asleep so I put this song on when suddenly it hit me how much this song has to say for those of you who have recently divorced. Support and encouragement can come from any ...
Views: 3336(2 votes) - Relationships After Divorce: When Is Too Soon to Date After a Divorce? - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2009 from Alyssa JohnsonMaking the choice to begin dating after divorce may cause lots of emotions for you. The thought can be exciting, scary, happy or even sad. But what about the feelings your kids may be having about it? One of the most important aspects to keep in mind when considering your children's reactions ...
Views: 2770(1 vote) - When You Feel Stuck in a Relationship - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2009 from Pat BurnsI lived through a bad marriage…well, a terrible one…so I know all about being stuck in a relationship. I know what it’s like to be miserable every single day, and still stay. I know what it’s like to wish that you were anywhere except where you are. I know what it’s like to feel happy when your ...
Views: 6030(4 votes) - You CAN Mend Pain from the Past and Create the Love of Your Dreams - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2009 from Nanette GeigerYou have ended a non-functioning relationship that does not work for you anymore. It was difficult to stop the relationship, because it wasn't horrible, although your heart wished to be truly fulfilled in love. Currently you find yourself being lonesome and have a difficult time shutting the ...
Views: 866(4 votes) - When Kids Divorce: Conversations for Parents and In-Laws to Have - by Submitted on Nov 11, 2009 from Madeline BinderDivorce is a process of dissolving a relationship. However, the relationship is not just between the husband and wife, it involves two complete families, his and hers. When a divorce occurs it breaks apart many relationships. Parents of Divorced Kids It is important for parents to support ...
Views: 1075 - Waking Up By Yourself - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2009 from E. (anagarika eddie) Raymond RockWe know when it's not working; it's like a slap in the face. We thought that it was working but then something happens to remind us that nothing has fundamentally changed at all, and we find ourselves back at square one after all these years. We were smug for awhile, even bragging to friends ...
Views: 1441(1 vote) - Relationship Help for Single Working Mothers - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2009 from Nanette GeigerSusan from North Carolina came to me because she's afraid that she'll never get a new husband because she thinks nobody wants to walk into an already established family. If this rings true for you or a person you know, you may believe that, but it is just not so. I know of women who have ...
Views: 1275(2 votes) - Helping Children Through Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2009 from Virginia McCormackWhen you made those vows in the beautiful dress with the man you couldn’t wait to spend the rest of your life with, divorce was the farthest thing from your mind. When he sat with you in labor and then watched in awe as a miracle was placed in your arms, you weren’t thinking about divorce. Now ...
Views: 1097(2 votes) - Divorce to Remarriage: What Happens When You Rush to Wed The Second Time Around - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2009 from Alyssa Johnson50% of first marriages end in divorce. 75% of those divorcees will remarry. At least 60% of those remarriages will end in a re-divorce. Sobering statistics aren't they? But why are they this high? 50% of first marriages end in divorce I'm not even going to make a guess at the reason for ...
Views: 8114(1 vote) - Divorce to Remarriage: Meeting the Kids - How to Impress Them Not Depress Them - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2009 from Alyssa JohnsonDating after divorce can be tricky. But introducing that special someone to your children is even harder. Let's cover the 4 most important steps to take in that first meeting between your new partner and your children. 1. Don't introduce them too early - Be sure this is a committed ...
Views: 1700 - Whether You Stay or Walk, Love Well - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2009 from Jan DeniseINSIDE RELATIONSHIPS BY JAN DENISE RELEASE: FRIDAY, OCTOBER 23, 2009 Whether You Stay or Walk, Love Well (SET ITAL) I hate to give up on our relationship, but to stay feels like giving up on my dreams. (END ITAL) To walk away from what we hoped -- and promised -- would last forever is ...
Views: 1349(5 votes) - The Rocky Road to Recovering from Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2009 from Annie O'NeillDivorce is one of the most traumatic things that can happen to you. Coping with the loss of a partner is incredibly hard and quite often friends and family won’t understand what you’re going through. Whether you’re the ‘dumper’ or the ‘dumpee’ (I apologise for the horrible terms but they ...
Views: 1323(1 vote) - Do we pretend Divorce is an easy option? - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2009 from Annie O'NeillThere was an article in the Daily Mail (Femail - onliine) today - 'Yes, of course, divorce shatters lives. So why DO we pretend it's an easy option?' by Yasmin ...
Views: 1362 - RELATIONSHIP CHECK UP - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2009 from Sadie SheafeThere are very few guarantees in life but one is certain, everything changes: day changes to night, morning to evening and summer to fall. People of course are no exception; we physically change from young to old. There are times we change for the better and at times the changes are ...
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