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- Honoring Life on Our Own Time - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2010 from Alanna LevensonHonoring Life on Our Own Time Recently I was in a Life Coaching session with one of my clients who told me a very touching, heartfelt story. She had gotten off early from work one day last week, so before she headed home to let her nanny off and to happily see her girls, she headed over to ...
Views: 1473 - Learning Relationship Patience Begins With One Easy and Powerful Step - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumIn this age of instant messaging, Blackberries, and microwave ovens, we expect instant gratification in every aspect of life. When we aren't instantly gratified, most of us will admit to immediately becoming impatient. Actually, we can get downright nasty and torture ourselves by sending crazy ...
Views: 7103(5 votes) - Responsible Speech in a Loving Relationship - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2010 from Diane and Lewis Denbaum"Lewis, you are late! You only think about yourself. Nobody else matters! Dinner is ruined. Why can't you be on time for once in your life?" We will use this opening barrage of criticism to demonstrate an effective way to communicate a tough message effectively and yet maintain a loving ...
Views: 1275(1 vote) - Remain in Love While Experiencing Different Moods - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumJohn had a disappointing day at the office -- he lost a key account. His partner Jane had a fantastic day at the office -- her boss loved her presentation. After their commutes home, John and Jane sit down to dinner. John is still feeling down about this day, whereas Jane is happy and ...
Views: 1436(2 votes) - Keep You and Your Relationship Healthy by Speaking Up Sooner - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumIn our article "Keep Your Relationship Loving by Speaking Up Sooner - 3 Tips," we recommended speaking up as soon as an issue arises to prevent arguments in your relationship. We recently found an added benefit to speaking up sooner. We are on a quest to share information and help other ...
Views: 1136(2 votes) - Elder Care - Keeping Your Marriage Strong While Caring For Aging Parents - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumThe Situation: Aging Parents Many couples are readjusting their lives and schedules so that they can be more attentive to the needs of their aging parents. A whopping 44 million adults in the United States are providing unpaid care to another adult, according to a recent study by the National ...
Views: 3337(1 vote) - Simplify And Eliminate the Unnecessary Baggage In Your Life! - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2010 from Diane and Lewis Denbaum"The ability to simplify means to eliminate the unnecessary so that the necessary may speak."- Hans Hofman When you de-clutter, you simplify your life and bring fresh creative energy to your relationship. When you work together to de-clutter your home, you get to spend time together working ...
Views: 1694(1 vote) - Your First Steps To Changing - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2010 from Therese BenedictYour First Steps To Changing By Therese Benedict In this world we walk around thinking that we are good people inside, yet we do such hurtful acts. In the beginning of our change, we need to recognize what belongs to us in those hurtful acts. Face them, say hello and put the actions with ...
Views: 2282(1 vote) - To Love Is To Be Loved - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2010 from Therese BenedictTO LOVE IS TO BE LOVED By Therese Benedict We all want love in our lives. We all want to be loved and understood. We want people to hear our hurt, when that hurt is caused. We want each other to listen to what actions caused that hurt, so it is known and can be stopped. What hurts us the ...
Views: 3597(1 vote) - To Be Who You Are Meant To Be - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2010 from Therese BenedictTO BE WHO YOU ARE MEANT TO BE By Therese Benedict We tend to think that just because we have freewill that we can be whom we want to be, instead of being who we are meant to be. This is a wrong way to think about whom we are and what is the reason of why we are here. God has created us with ...
Views: 2752(1 vote) - How to Find the Love Frequency - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2010 from Allison MacThere has been so much talk over the last few years about how we attract energy that is similar to our own. Like attracts like so whatever energy you are vibrating that is what you will attract back into your life. I have heard many people say that if you want to attract love into your life ...
Views: 2435(4 votes) - What Women Want - Asking for the Pleasure You Deserve - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2010 from Allura JoyFor women, sex is much more than just a mechanical biological activity. We want an extraordinary holistic experience with an attentive, perceptive and expressive partner who is willing to delve into the depths of our soul, sharing absolute bliss in divine union. Is that too much to ...
Views: 2729(1 vote) - Love, Marriage, Happiness - One Way to Have it All - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumMany people love their marriage partner, but they complain about their relationship. They want to have a happy marriage with the partner they love. However, they blame, complain and ultimately move into a life where all they are doing is tolerating each other. It's so sad. Tolerating is ...
Views: 1280(1 vote) - Encouraging Vs Controlling Your Partner - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumIn a loving relationship or marriage, most individuals want the very best for their spouse or partner. People want their partners to be successful, healthy, fit and happy so that each can enjoy the other for as long as possible. There are two ways to handle being involved in your partner's ...
Views: 1694 - ***Marriage and the Empty Nest: Five Strategies for Rediscovering Your Spouse - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Okay, the children have all left home. You and your spouse are finally alone after two decades of marriage. Now what? How do you cope? What lies in store for the two of you? These are questions faced by millions of married couples worldwide ...
Views: 10974(21 votes) - Why you avoid being intimate - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2010 from Erwan DavonPeople resist intimacy primarily because they are hurt and afraid. To whatever degree you find yourself pulling away from your partner, resisting having one or buffering yourself from really being close with someone is the degree to which you are caught in a cycle of hurt and fear followed by ...
Views: 1985(2 votes) - LOVE IS A CHOICE - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2010 from Emmanuel Azumah“Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God” 1 John 4:7 (KJV). If you are a Christian and you are born again, the love of God has been shed abroad in your heart by the Holy Spirit as stated in Romans 5: 5 of the Bible. That ...
Views: 868 - Does Your Man Pass the 90-Day Test?! - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2010 from Noelle NelsonYou’re in Heaven, on Cloud Nine, blissed out, and every other love-smitten cliché in the book. HE actually was the one to celebrate your first month anniversary, you practically swooned with delight. Your friends are so bored with your bombardment of “He remembered how I take my double-chai ...
Views: 1398(5 votes) - Keep Your Relationship Loving by Speaking Up Sooner - 3 Tips - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2010 from Diane and Lewis DenbaumOne of the best ways to poison your relationship is to let annoying comments pile up. At first, if your partner makes a slightly irksome comment, you may decide to ignore it. What happens if your partner repeats the same comment over and over again? Eventually, you may explode because your ...
Views: 1131 - Romance Advice: Love is a Decision - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2010 from Sarah Anand AnmaFalling in love is wonderful. Hormones, things in common, hours and hours of talking are often the beginning of something bigger. The problem is, that after we fall quickly and deeply, when the hormones go back into balance and the things in common are less precious, we have the reality that ...
Views: 3185 - Three Secret Ingredients of Successful Couples Therapy - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2010 from Joe JamesOne of the questions I am most frequently asked is what makes for successful marriage counseling. Naturally the training and background of the therapist is very important in making for a successful marriage counseling experience. However, I am going to focus on that in a separate article which ...
Views: 1498 - I Am Having Trouble Dealing With Break Up - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2010 from Jancar TsangWhen you are having trouble dealing with break up it is only natural. There is nothing to be ashamed of because everyone does. The important thing to do is to decide HOW you are going to dealing with break up. You have two ways that you can go about dealing with break up. The first is to let ...
Views: 1349(1 vote) - Why Women Don't Fall In Love With Nice Guys - 3 Ways to Reprogram How You Act Around a Woman - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2010 from Chris TylerWe've all heard some kind of saying that would suggest that women just don't seem to fall in love with nice guys. Well, there definitely are some exceptions to this rule, but on the average, nice guys do usually end up getting more heartache than it seems they would deserve. Does that mean that ...
Views: 4266(2 votes) - Win Ex Boyfriend Back With Dignity - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Jancar TsangWhen you try to win ex boyfriend back you may feel like you need to go begging on your hands and knees. You may feel that you have to lower yourself and lose every bit of pride that you have. The breakup may have gone a long way towards hurting your pride as it is, there is no need to further ...
Views: 1328 - Long Distance Relationship Advice: Creative and Fun Tips to Stay Connected Across the Miles - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Susie and Otto CollinsJamie and Carlo fell in love while Jamie held a temporary job in the city where Carlo lives. When the time came for Jamie to return to her home-- which is in a neighboring country-- both of them worried about how to keep their relationship alive and well. They considered breaking off their ...
Views: 2774(4 votes) - The Magic Of Making UpSubmitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Bernard CuizonAre you wondering how to win your ex girlfriend or boyfriend back? Or perhaps you are asking yourself whether it's possible to win your ex back? Well, a split up does not necessary cause the end of a love. Although no-one can assure that you'll surely get your ex lover back, you can always do ...
Views: 1015 - How Men Show Love - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Kara OhI got questions from two women this week, which, on the surface, might appear to require different answers. But the answers are actually the same. One was about how she was upset because her guy didn't remember the anniversary of their first date and the other asked how she could get her guy to ...
Views: 4502 - Avoid the Pitfalls of Wanting an Ex Back - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Matthew JohnsonWhen you have just been ‘kicked to the curb’ by your partner, your impulse could possibly get you into a lot of problems. The feeling of wanting an ex back can be very strong and nearly excruciating, this can cause you to do lots of things that might seem like good ideas at the time. ...
Views: 966 - Stop Looking For Instant Love! - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Kara OhA woman wrote to me asking me how she could get a man to fall in love with her. This is a man she barely knows. This kind of thinking really scares me. It's fine to meet a man and be attracted and intrigued, but to move from "Nice to meet you," immediately to "Choose me, love me, marry me," is ...
Views: 1676 - The Women’s Sex Appeal - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Donna MartinUsually the sexiest women don’t call men names and they don’t sympathize with other women about how their men disappoint them. The sexiest women I know sincerely like men. They think men are pretty great. Rather than being threatened by a man’s testosterone, they respect how it makes men ...
Views: 8395 - The Best Relationship Tip Ever - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2010 from Andrea DeBellWhat do you do when your partner starts to change and he or she is no longer the one you were initially attracted to? How can someone so right became so wrong after a while? What changed? Whose fault is it? The answer is not as complicated as you think. There is never anything wrong with the ...
Views: 1278 - How to Be Happy Despite Your Partner's "Flaws" - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2010 from Andrea DeBellHow can we find happiness and have a perfect relationship when our partner is abusive in some way? What if no matter how loving you are, your partner still behaves in a physically or verbally violent manner? This situation can be enormously frustrating, extremely challenging, and even ...
Views: 2120(1 vote) - Are You In Love, or Are You In Hate? - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from G. W. SmikleBeing in love is one of the most exhilarating feelings that a human being can experience. That is when you are truly in love, because too many people get this being-in-love thing wrong. If you really want to experience what it is really like to be in love, you are probably better off ...
Views: 768 - Attracting Fear Or Love With Your Actions - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Jennifer CulverNeale Donald Walsch shared in “Conversations with God – An Uncommon Dialogue – Book 1” that all actions are either fear-based or love-based. This appears to be such a limited list of options, but upon reflection it can bring powerful awareness. Walsch goes on to share “fear is the energy which ...
Views: 1381 - ***Love in the Pyrenees: Five Ways to Lasting Love - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Our current European trip is part of our continuing search for great marriages around the world. This time our travels have brought us to the tiny principality of Andorra. Following our interviews in Prague in the Czech Republic three days ago ...
Views: 5488(18 votes) - Coping Advice for Men – Phases of Divorce and How to Deal with Them - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Kyle Morrison“Life is not a difficult thing” – at least that’s how men want to appear in front of other people. As men, we want to show the world that no matter how difficult complicated, or painful a situation can be, we will always be able to deal with it easily and come out fine in the end. Well, ...
Views: 2788 - My Unhappiness Is Yours - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Luminita Saviuc“You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.” Friedrich Nietzsche When somebody you really love, you really care about hurts you emotionally and sometime even physically, what do you do? Do you get up, dust yourself up and keep ...
Views: 1446(2 votes) - 4 Easy Ways To Get Over A Break Up - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2010 from Jenna JamesBeing lost in the bliss of True Love is like walking on air. However, the truth of the matter is you may be walking on a very thin rope in getting over break up, and when that material snaps you find yourself hurt and helpless. When the so called love of your life decides to diminish the ...
Views: 1113(4 votes) - How To Get A Girl Back - The Absolute Most-Do, Irrefutable, Rule For Success - by Submitted on Sep 27, 2010 from Jay HoldenThere are a lot of things you can do to get a girl back, but there's only one absolute, irrefutable must-do. Without it, you're setting yourself up for a life of disappointment. You've got to make yourself happy first. I know that sounds like stupid, new-age b.s., but I'm telling you, if ...
Views: 734(3 votes) - How to forget your ex love? - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2010 from Andrew JohnsonEvery couple has their own problems. Sometimes it leads to break of relationship. Many lovers say that time heals the heart. It is right but you should know simple and useful tips to forget your ex love. At the first place you should “be published”. New people, new emotions will make you to ...
Views: 1063 - A Roadmap to Conscious Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2010 from Allan HardmanAll conscious relationship begins with ourselves. To share the truth of how we feel, without attachment to the outcome of a relationship, is one of my many definitions of conscious relationship-- but we must be connected to our feelings in a very intimate way to be able to share them. It all ...
Views: 1423 - Do You Know How to Attract a Sexy Woman - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2010 from Donna MartinApproaching beautiful women is nerve cracking even for the most confident guys. Overcoming that initial approach anxiety can seem like an insurmountable task to accomplish. In fact, many men have passed up a lot sexual opportunities because of approach anxiety. Approach anxiety however is ...
Views: 1613(1 vote) - Long Distance Relationship Can Remain Alive - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2010 from Donna MartinKeeping a long distance relationship alive can be a real challenge. In addition to the usual relationship drama there is the added stress of not having the physical contact with your partner. Dealing with the distance in a positive way will require some creativity and a true commitment to making ...
Views: 1396(2 votes) - The Connection Crisis - by Submitted on Sep 23, 2010 from Glenn BergerMy psychotherapy client, David, is 32 years old. If anything, David is neat. His blond hair is closely cropped. He wears a Banana Republic iron-free shirt, pressed pants, and shiny black shoes. This is the uniform of a mid-level guy at a major law firm. His eyes are wide and confused. “I just ...
Views: 1291 - A Brief Guide to Loving Everyone - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2010 from Andrea DeBellDo we have the capacity to love everyone we encounter? It seems easy to love family members and friends, but what about other people that we encounter throughout life? What about the person who cut you off in traffic or who stabbed you in the back? Can we really love everyone ...
Views: 1800 - What Relationship Goals Can Do For Your Life - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2010 from Kimberley CohenRelationship goals benefit you emotionally and spiritually as well as enrich your day to day experiences and connection to yourself, others, and the divine creator. Many people concentrate on business, personal, or physical goals which are very beneficial, but all too often they overlook or ...
Views: 1595(1 vote) - The Secret Does Work! - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2010 from Mika MaddelaI’m a small town girl who grew up in Maine. Then, out of the blue, we made the decision to move to Arizona. How thrilling! This would be my own personal "coming-of-age" episode - after growing almost in secret in backwoods Maine, I'd get to blossom in the big city! The cultural melting pot of ...
Views: 1107(1 vote) - Using The Law Of Attraction For Love - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2010 from Mika MaddelaFinding a person to share your life with is no easy task. If you found someone who loves you in this capacity, then you should consider yourself very lucky. Everyone wants someone in their life. Everyone has gone through some type of heartbreak. With every aspect of life, you can use the ...
Views: 1931 - Using The Law Of Attraction to Change Your Life - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2010 from Mika MaddelaThose who suggest that the Law of Attraction is simply wishful thinking without any real effort are misguided. The things you want most in life, such as material success or just plain happiness, can be achieved with the Law of Attraction, but you've got to do your part. Consistently using the ...
Views: 1277(1 vote) - Master The Secret Law Of Attraction - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2010 from Mika MaddelaIt is likely you got inspired to make everything you desire to happen after you've watched "The Secret". It feels as if what you want is right there in front of you. And it inspires you to make your dreams into a reality! You have every intention to use the law of attraction into your life. But ...
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