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- The R’s of Healthy Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2010 from Rebecca JorgensenDid you ever wonder how happy marriages are created? Some people just seem to be in sync with another and really in love. Abigail and Eric are a couple who are obviously happy with each other. Still, at times, in order not to hurt each other feelings, they backed away and didn’t share hurt ...
Views: 2505(1 vote) - There Are Three Kinds Of Emotions - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from David SamuelThere are three kinds of emotions, those related to the animal level or physical body, the ego/personality and those related to the ‘Something More’ that is referred to by people who feel there is something more to life. As the human body and personality change from day to day and year to ...
Views: 6420 - Give to Others and Yourself Daily - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Robert NajemyMethod No 8. Give to Others and Yourself Daily Give gifts from the heart regularly to those around you. Also give to yourself. Focus also on giving to others and yourself that which you seek to attract or create. Wish for others to be well and to also have what you are seeking to create. ...
Views: 2186(1 vote) - Give Love to Other People - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2010 from Angelene O'ReillyI personally feel much more content and happy with myself when I am sharing love with others. There is not enough love giving in our world I am noticing more and more everyday. Why is this happening? I have seen many articles written on love and most of them either revolve around religion or ...
Views: 4683(2 votes) - What Kills Relationships and How to Save Yours - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2010 from Nicole GayleIn a moment I'm going to tell you the root cause that kills all relationship and strangled yours. Right now you're suffering because of your relationship. The emotional turmoil and pain you're in because of your breakup or relationship problem is costing you your quality of life. You may have ...
Views: 4901 - Love And Boundaries - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2010 from Ken FieldsWe tend to think of love as an all encompassing, overwhelming, positive feeling. We say, “I love you” and think that solves all our conflicts and arguments with our partner. During the initial stages of love, often referred to as an infatuation phase, boundaries are melted and dissolve away. We ...
Views: 3672 - Make It Special With Creative Wedding Gifts - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2010 from Justin DavisIn our lifetime, there are only a few celebrations that we cherish and one of the most important is getting married. This will be the day that the couple will be saying their vows to each other in front of the people who matter to them most. Therefore, we, as friends, should partake in the ...
Views: 1221 - Lift your Man up! - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2010 from Robert AlexLadies if you haven't learned this by now you might not ever. Men think about sex a lot. This is our nature we desire it, we fantasize about it, and we want it all the time. Back up a bit that last little part isn't quite true. Men want sex all the time isn't exactly true we want it until we can ...
Views: 4412(3 votes) - Love and Freedom - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2010 from Sarah MariaOne of the defining themes of my adult life has been this something that I refer to as Love. When the universe forced me into personal crisis a few years ago, it slowly became apparent that a key issue was love. Ever since then, my life has become, in one form or another, a meditation on love: ...
Views: 1864(2 votes) - Revive Love For One Last Time - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2010 from Peter HinesDaily you come across a couple that have eternal love and you think about why can't you revive love in your relationship and be just like them. Their love is so solid for each other and you can not comprehend anything ever changing. The good news is that you can have a relationship exactly like ...
Views: 1027 - ***Lie, Steal and Cheat Your Way to Love - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Okay, we admit it – our favorite new love-story movie is Leap Year (2010). We simply love the movie and have now watched it three times! The movie speaks to many of the research findings we have found over the three decades we have researched ...
Views: 5348(25 votes) - Don’t Let The "Evil Eye" Wreck Your Marriage! - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2010 from Noelle NelsonYou’ve been together – oh, it seems like forever. Anywhere from six months to umpteen years. And somewhere along the line you’ve developed the Evil Eye. You know the one. That critical look you cast on your Sweetheart, that has little sweet in it and even less heart, the look that says “How ...
Views: 4200(1 vote) - MEDITATION: A TIME FOR LOVE - by Submitted on Jul 02, 2010 from joseph namzoffBy Mother Clare Watts Though many people every day all over the world sit on floors, on cushions, on their heels or on chairs in an attempt to enter into some level of inner stillness or broadened consciousness, very few actually ever manage to go very far into that sought-after state. Most ...
Views: 1192(3 votes) - Relationships That Call You To Rise! The Possibility of Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2010 from Sonika TinkerIn our workshops, we'll ask participants: "How many of you would sign up for a class on relationships taught by your parents?". Once in a while, a hand goes up, but it's a rare sight. Yet, that very class, taught by none other than their parents, was the first, and for most people only, class ...
Views: 1320 - How to Get Through to the Opposite Sex - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2010 from Dr. Gilda CarleDo you ever feel your sweetie doesn’t understand what you’re saying? It could be a simple difference in gender communication styles. What caused your last argument? Are the words you said the same ones your sweetie heard? It’s no secret that storms between women and men linger at the ...
Views: 1860 - I Broke My 3 Love Rules - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2010 from Dr. Gilda CarleI Broke My 3 Love Rules By DR. GILDA CARLE (Ph.D.) Even relationship experts make mistakes! Finally, it’s MY turn to be put on the couch! I broke my own 3 cardinal rules, and got the reminder that I’m still human! Courtesy of Match.com’s Happen Magazine ...
Views: 2138 - The Women In Love Stories - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2010 from Dale SadlerA few weeks ago I wrote an article about what men could learn from heroes in the romance novels their wives love so much. Read the article, “Living Your Own Love Story” here. Well, what can women learn from the main female characters in these stories? In her book, Writing the Great American ...
Views: 1231 - "Double Forté" - by Submitted on Jun 25, 2010 from Dawn KilbyNeed to relax, read a book. Recently, I won a copy of "Double Forté" through a live chat starring, Aaron Paul Lazar. "Double Forté" is the first book of the Gus LeGarde series; “Upstaged”, “Tremolo” and “Mazurka” being the other three. As soon as I received this book through mail, I ...
Views: 1896(2 votes) - Taming the Butterflies! - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2010 from Azzrian VisionsOh that new feeling ... the tummy flutters, the palms are sweaty, heart races, constantly checking email. Its the tale tale signs of a new relationship! But how do we keep our wits about us and know for sure that its really a love connection and not just the excitement of the possibility of ...
Views: 2178(6 votes) - How To Date A Girl - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2010 from Matthew JohnsonBased on my own findings (and experience), nearly all guys assume that they have to impress a girl to be able to date her. Unfortunately, that's completely the wrong approach; if you find out how to date a girl from guys who already did it, you'll learn that having false attitude or even lying ...
Views: 1326(7 votes) - ***The 5 Things You Should NEVER Say to Your Spouse - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Just as important as saying the right thing to the one you love is to avoid saying statements that have the potential to destroy the foundation of the relationship. Saying just one wrong thing can negate an entire day of good statements and actions. ...
Views: 9392(34 votes) - My Husband Doesn't Listen to a Word I Say - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2010 from linda lipshutzMy Husband Doesn’t Listen to A Word I Say!! By Linda Lipshutz, M.S., LCSW Sherry K. writes: “No matter what I do, I just can’t get through to my husband. He’s in his own world and completely tunes me out. I don’t have any trouble getting along with anyone else, but somehow Ted always blows ...
Views: 6316 - Break the too-nice trap - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellA good man . . . Single women often say they want one. Few believe they can find one. Those who don’t have one usually insist that they do. And many more dismiss one without a thought. Not surprisingly, many good men consider giving up their nice-guy image after repeated rejections that ...
Views: 3487(7 votes) - Popping the Question: A Guide to Wedding Proposals - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2010 from Cherie JohnsonThe time has come -- you're ready to ask your best girl to marry you and make it official. Unfortunately, Hollywood has brainwashed us all into thinking that popping the question has to be over-the-top and perhaps even expensive. Yes, it would seem that most of us girls want elaborate wedding ...
Views: 1188 - Did He Really Say "I love you"? - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2010 from Christine PembletonHave you ever been in a relationship with a guy that progressed to the “I love you” stage? That’s the stage of a relationship when things are going well; you are enjoying each other’s company, and you believe the other person feels the same way. It’s the point where your relationship can ...
Views: 5077 - The Six Elements of a Winning Dating Profile - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2010 from Eric LercaraFor a while now I’ve been working on finding the essential elements that you must include in an online profile. After reading hundreds of books on psychology, philosophy and attraction, I’ve come up with these six fundamentals. I strongly believe they need to be conveyed properly if you’re going ...
Views: 12587(12 votes) - 5 Intuitive Points for Discovering the Ideal Match - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2010 from Joan Marie WhelanEver wonder how some couples stay happily married for 50 years or how in love some couples appear to be? Call it chemistry, call it an instant click, or maybe…just maybe there was something intuitive about these relationships that made them work quite as well as they have. There are a lot of ...
Views: 1823(2 votes) - A Sad Killer of Love - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2010 from Kara OhBelittling our partner––or a child, for that matter––either directly or by innuendo, is a direct hit to the heart. Eventually, love is replaced by resentment, loathing or even hate. In the moment, we don’t realize the damage we’re causing when we belittle those we “say” we love. We’re blinded ...
Views: 2000(1 vote) - ***The 5 Things You Should Say to Your Spouse - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzNegativism can easily creep into even the best relationships causing a pattern of negative actions and thoughts to overpower the marriage. The question often asked by couples is “How you can build positive interactions with each other on a daily basis so negativism doesn’t take hold of our ...
Views: 6168(28 votes) - Relationship: 8 Keys to Success - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2010 from Susan DerryThere are extreme pressures on relationships today. Fast paced lifestyles can leave little room for developing and maintaining intimate relationships. Yet, a healthy relationship is one of the things that make life worthwhile and helps us live a longer and healthier life. A successful ...
Views: 4190(1 vote) - How to Help Someone With a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2010 from Greg BakerYou know someone that has had their heart broken and they are so hurt that they seem to withdraw from everyone and everything. You want to help, but you just don't know what to do. Read on for a few suggestions and tips. Now if you did the heart breaking, that would be an altogether different ...
Views: 3576(3 votes) - The Worst Thing You Can Do When Your Heart is Broken - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2010 from Greg BakerWhen someone breaks your heart, you have an immediate tendency to do the very worst thing possible. It is almost a knee jerk reaction that often hinders your ability to heal and lengthens the time you'll hurt. This article addresses the absolute worst thing you can do when your heart is ...
Views: 3262(2 votes) - The Process of Healing a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2010 from Greg BakerLoss of sleep, an ache deep in the bit of your stomach, frequent tears, a heart seems to get heavier as the days go on, depression, and feelings of isolation and abandonment are all signs of a broken heart. How, if possible, do you heal from a broken heart? There is no quick fix. If you are ...
Views: 3156(1 vote) - Risk Loving Yourself! So You Can Love Another! - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2010 from Florence HaridanWhen we think of the power of love we most often think of passion, happiness and all the pleasure that is possible. Yet we know we feel the power of love in the realest and most tangible way, when we are struggling through tough times. Taking the risk to love and seek love is more real in those ...
Views: 2821(2 votes) - Love Is a Way of Being - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2010 from Gina LakeLove isn't something that someone causes us to feel, but a state of being that we experience whenever we are fully present in the moment to whatever or whomever is showing up. Love is our natural state, and we experience our natural state whenever the chattering mind is quiet or simply ignored. ...
Views: 1634(10 votes) - Human Harmonics ~ The Love Vibration ~ Part#4 - by Submitted on Aug 06, 2010 from Erica BoersmaLove is the key ... the harmonic resonance ... open the door and see... behind all things ... is only love. I am, as all are. We are creator light beings in an amazing unveiling of our own story. In order for us to be 3rd dimensional beings we had to forget. We chose to experience this ...
Views: 4476(2 votes) - ***Al and Tipper Gore’s Marriage – What Happened? - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzLet’s face it, long time relationships sometimes end. And the simple truth is there isn’t always a compelling reason or reasons why. The separation of Al and Tipper Gore after 40 years of marriage is a good illustration of the “why” question – why did their love affair end after all these ...
Views: 8125(45 votes) - Un-lucky in love? - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2010 from Alisa Goodwin SnellNot dating? Haven’t been in a relationship for a long time? Don’t know why? It’s sounds too simple, but it’s true—you probably do not look men in the eyes and smile—a real smile! Not just that dry, half turned-up smile you greet fellow co-workers with as you glance up from your work ...
Views: 2388(6 votes) - The Schoolroom of Love - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2010 from M.J. RyanOne of the greatest inspirational writers of the 19th century was a man named Henry Drummond who wrote a best-selling little book called The Greatest Thing In the World. In it, he said, “The world is not a playground; it is a schoolroom. Life is not a holiday but an education. And the one ...
Views: 1663(2 votes) - How A Low Self Esteem Will Ruin Your Love Life - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2010 from Seyi EyitayoA low self esteem will make it difficult for you to accept love from anyone else simply because, someone with a low self esteem already finds it difficult to love or appreciate themselves. Someone with a low self esteem does not know how to receive affection from anyone, especially someone ...
Views: 3611(1 vote) - ***Please Be Kind to Frogs - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThink about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss before I find my prince?” You know what I’m talking about. It’s cute, and although we don’t really laugh at it, it tends to ...
Views: 2277(10 votes) - Had a Bad Day? Taking It Out on Your Mate Makes It Worse! - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2010 from Noelle NelsonYour day started out awful and it’s been downhill ever since. The car wouldn’t start, so you were late dropping off the kids. An accident snarled up traffic, so you were very late to work, which means late to the monthly team-building session, all eyes upon you as you attempted ...
Views: 1503(1 vote) - ***Love and Marriage in Ireland Today - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America's #1 Love and Marriage Experts. We arrived in Dublin, Ireland for a week of interviews on the Emerald Isle with successfully married couples. Our journey is part of our new "simple things matter in love and marriage" series and relates to our continuing search for great marriages ...
Views: 4575(32 votes) - How To Get Over A Broken Heart? There Is A Cure - by Submitted on May 30, 2010 from Velma MerrickHow long will it be before you can get through your daily routine without feeling the wave of pain sweep over you, without sensing that knot in the pit of your stomach, without dwelling on what went wrong? Broken heart? Rejection? Failure? It hurts (and hurts, and hurts). You're devastated and ...
Views: 2139 - Men always say they can’t understand women, and that women are so complicated. - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Ryan HughesWell, for many women, it is the exact opposite. Most would give anything to understand what makes men “tick.” Even though women want to know what he’s thinking, men are often reluctant to share what is in their hearts. What’s a woman to do? Rather than describe all the differences between the ...
Views: 2111(1 vote) - A few effective Ways to get your soulmate back - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Jessy parkerThere is no way around it: dealing with a breakup is a traumatic experience. Adjusting to this new scenario is not easy and it's likely you don't want it to end. The great thing is: it doesn't have to be the conclusion of your relationship. If you are really sure about it, there are ways to ...
Views: 6351(6 votes) - Five Tips to Add Zing Into Your Relationship - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Daryn BabcockRelationships could be best compared to a beautiful garden that requires loving care and attention for their growth. As the growth of weeds threaten to destroy the beauty of the garden, our negative actions and thoughts can bring about a storm in our safe heaven. Every relationship hits a rough ...
Views: 1363(1 vote) - 4 Ways to Spend Time with Your Kids When You Have No Time - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2013 from Erin KurtIt was Dr. Anthony P. Witham who once said "children spell love…T-I-M-E." He was definitely onto something. Unfortunately, if you are like most parents, time is a precious commodity that often eludes us. Whether we have a new job, a new baby, or we just need to make the coffee or strip the beds, ...
Views: 1917(2 votes) - ***Why do Some Find it Difficult to Make a Commitment to Love? - by Submitted on May 26, 2010 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Falling in love with another human being is easy, but making a commitment to love them forever is “up in the air” for many people. We like the term “up in the air” from the movie title for a whole bunch of reasons, primarily because it aptly ...
Views: 7410(34 votes) - Should I leave my partner? - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Dia ThabetShould I leave my partner? A few days ago, while surfing one of the forums, I came across a question by a woman asking, “Should I leave my boyfriend?” She says that he is “cold” toward her and doesn’t show any feelings toward her. She went on saying that he cares mainly about his work among ...
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