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Give Him a Clean Slate for Christmas
By Jan Denise
Trying to decide between a beach getaway and a stocking full of coal for your sweetheart? Why not give him a clean slate, instead? Wipe away the black marks and start fresh, aiming—once again—for perfect love. Only this time, do it with ... Views: 1564
Intuition like love emerges from the depths of the soul. Simply defined as knowing something without knowing how you know it, intuiton may be one of your greatest allies in attracting and maintaing successful and loving relationships. Have you ever noticed how feelings of love and attraction ... Views: 2543
Just look around the world, almost everyday we read from the tabloids about one or the other celebrity calling it quits to her/his marriage and filing for divorce. Just a few years before, these very people were on the front pages of these very tabloids, hugging, smiling, and holding hands and ... Views: 2338
I have learned so much about the mysteries of love being a psychic and especially working on psychic lines where you have to be quick and to the point because the clock is ticking and the pressure is on. Ninety percent of calls are always about matters of the heart. Of all the things I have ... Views: 1129
Sounds like politics doesn’t it? Well, power struggles are the creature that’s eating most marriages and relationships alive today. Regardless of whether you are looking at a relationship, a business or running a country, if a power struggle exists among members – progress suffers. Okay, lets ... Views: 2203
What happens to couples when they are forced by external circumstances to live together? How does this situation affect each partner and their children, if couples have children? I suggest that, rather than fighting their situation – which does not solve the problem anyway – couples should face ... Views: 1390
“Often a man gives up his dreams: dreams of being a bachelor and dreams of the work he desires. Not only is he giving that up, but, if marriage and family have been your priority, you’re getting your dreams fulfilled.” Men Made Easy
We laugh and joke all the time about how men don’t want to ... Views: 10081
Ever tried to penetrate the tough guy facade? Or been turned away by the ‘I don’t need you or anyone else’ face? There is a secret to winning someone’s heart. This article does not guarantee that you will it merely equips you with the best tools to do so.
It does not matter if the situation ... Views: 9684
Never has there been more written about a topic , if you google this topic, you will get a million results!!
So what is it about soul relationships that intrigues us so? Well I guess all of us at one time or other have dreamt of meeting our soul mate and living happily ever after isn’t that ... Views: 1225
People are starved for love. Starved to the point of ruin, anxiety, lonliness, disorders and addictions. Every day people come to me spiraling out of control and beg "please help me".
I love them and support them. I give them loving guidance and tell them all the same thing. The thing ... Views: 1447
Can acceptance be love? Is there real freedom in real love?
There is complete freedom with being ok with being flawed with ourselves and others. That is what unconditional love is. And in that is the ultimate freedom. When we can see that others are doing the best they know how, to see their ... Views: 1156
Greg Baer once said in a seminar that we only grow when we hurt each other. It's a part of the human experience. We are not perfect and we will make mistakes that cause others to hurt and other's will hurt us.
There is a real opportunity for us to learn in these moments. When someone does ... Views: 1367
Affective relationships give us a sense of purpose and provide added meanings to our lives, actions, and choices, as they create powerful motivations to set and pursue goals which aim is that of maintaining them. They affect us deeply, offering us opportunities to feel and express emotions that ... Views: 4757
Recently I was using EFT with a client I'll call Marie while she was exploring stress about some serious problems in her family. Thoughts and feelings about family members came up as she tapped, and tearfully she said, "I want love." She told me that she didn't feel loved by her mother and in ... Views: 2443
If it's the season to be jolly...
...then why are there so many stressed, beleaguered couples walking around? Is it more fitting to say, 'Tis the season to feel tense, frustrated and constantly on-the-go?
Whether you're feeling totally overwhelmed or slightly frustrated during the holiday ... Views: 1242
Tom Wright
Even the Dali Lama gives speeches about having "compassion in troubled times." Troubled times? You mean life? To think that we live in times that somehow are troubled, versus to live in a time when life's troubles were non-existent, is to dream of something that never was, and ... Views: 1584
Starting out in life again after a long term relationship can be difficult. But how hard can it really be? Only you can make the initial decision to take that first step into the world of internet dating.
If you're single and you've already built a life, perhaps had a long term relationship ... Views: 1619
The definition of a fool is……..a silly or stupid person; a person who lacks judgment or sense.
How many of us have been fools for love and the sake of love? I was out to lunch with my girlfriends a few days ago and I posed the question, “why are we fools for love?” They all replied, ... Views: 2016
Lately I’m realising that society is smashing our self-confidence and self-esteem due to what Michael Beckwith calls the ‘Tyranny of Trends’. “ Very often, trends convince individuals what their life’s purpose should be. The tyranny of trends is blasted out at us from television, radio, ... Views: 1056
Daily Insight from the Story of The Little Prince
The announcement from Clarence House in London, city home of Prince Charles, of the engagement of Prince William, eldest son of Prince Charles and Princess Diana, to Ms. Kate Middleton has already captured the attention of much of the ... Views: 1429
Anyone who has been in a long-term, caring relationship learns to be careful how they speak of their partner. Careless or critical words and overly personal details shared can damage trust and cause lasting harm to a relationship.
But what about single people who are looking to find love? ... Views: 1138
It was a long time ago, the age of drive-ins and driving around drinking. It was a time of young love. It was a time of going to school and learning about boys. It was about fun and growing up.
I remember meeting him at the local mall. He was a little older, had his own car and he was ... Views: 1204
Women, in particular, are looking for commitment. Hollywood, the media, and dating websites all focus on getting a marriage proposal. The art of seduction pre-dates expert Cleopatra. Dozens of books have been written about getting an unavailable man to say, “I do.” For six years, Carrie Bradshaw ... Views: 1688
Past failures do not indicate future failures. In fact, I believe each time you fail, you get closer to success. Those who are willing to try, even if they fail, and keep trying, are those most set-up for success. For instance, in the fiction writing world, which is highly competitive, multiple ... Views: 1101
Numerology meanings have saved me from insanity over the past few weeks. It is a year ago now, that my significant other told me that he "didn't love me enough" , so our plans to to live together in the far-away place where he had a job for a year, were stopped mid-flight (well, almost). He's ... Views: 2956
One way is to capitalize on a concept called "Social proof" as it's a very powerful psychological trigger that can really influence the way people act.
Social Proof is all about human nature and CONDITIONING.
As humans we do things based on what other humans do.
We are more likely to ... Views: 1256
Many of you are probably have related to the line “its all his/her fault, that *****!!” at some point. In fact about 96% of us live most of our lives without being open to the possibility that we could be the root cause of our own experiences. After all, it isn’t in human nature to want to be ... Views: 2342
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Over the past several days, we have been in sunny southern California conducting interviews with selected celebrities including a former priest and his wife and couples with very famous last names. Tomorrow, we tape a segment of the television show, ... Views: 4387
Have you ever wondered why a man can seemingly read a map blindfolded but can't find his own socks? The reason may be found in his genetic make-up. Gender research is discovering that men and women actually perceive reality differently. In one university experiment that tested the differences ... Views: 1554
Love is perhaps the single most common emotion humans want to experience. We seek to give love to others, to experience the strength of that emotion and everything it brings us. That being so, can we even begin to imagine what might transpire for us if we direct our ability to feel love for ... Views: 3187
With love shining from his eyes, the handsome groom vows, "I take you to be my wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part."
Smiling tenderly ... Views: 4445
This article is aimed at my masculine readers. If you are of the feminine race, please read this as well, and set me straight if you disagree. You certainly know this subject better than I!
Let me start out by stating that this post is a hopeless generalization. When I refer to relationships ... Views: 2079
Can love be real without sincerity? Most would agree that sincerity is what makes love what it is. Genuine love is true. And it is true love that we all want. We want to know we are sincerely loved for who we are. We want to know that it is with sincere motives that those who love us say and do ... Views: 5358
It's often said that the Universe is a manifestation and expression of love. "God Is Love" was a popular slogan of the hippie era (guess my age?) and before, during and since, this notion has been duplicated and promulgated in teachings the world over.
In observations of the human condition, ... Views: 1298
Why do some people need to be right, even if it adversely affects their relationships or degrades their own health and welfare?
Lately, I’ve become all too aware that I’m very fond of being right. As I pondered the premise, a real poser fell into my lap. What if there is no wrong? What if ... Views: 1798
Many of us go through break-ups without knowing how to mend a broken heart. Sometimes we go down the drain unsure of our feelings to recover or wallow in self-pity. If you are decided to be a stronger self despite the hurt then you don't need tons of to-do list to recover just 5 amazing tips to ... Views: 1138
You're in the stage of acceptance where you acknowledge the reality of not being in a relationship with your previous partner. The emotional roller coaster experience was tough but you stood strong and coped up well from the break up. You have moved on, and able to be productive with daily ... Views: 1048
The heart is one instrument that heals when it's broken. Break-ups are usually because of conflicts and unresolved issues. Sometimes relationships just can't help it but fall down only to grow stronger. If you want the love you had back then here are 5 easy tips to get back together with an ex. ... Views: 1124
There are a variety of reasons why men and women break up with a large portion of them leaving women wanting their man back. If the cause of the break up is the women herself, then there is something she did that made her man left her. Now the question is how to get back a man in a way that will ... Views: 954
"You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself."
Jim Rohn
When you have direction you have a day to day strategy on how to achieve a goal. The key to developing direction is by identifying the steps that lead ... Views: 1307
Fall in Love! Have an Extra Support for Your Mind Power. We all experience love differently. No matter how you experience that feeling, anyway it takes your mind power to the top level.
I remember the times when I was lonely. There was no one to share my love. I was really feeling the love ... Views: 1960
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
Frankly, if we hear yet one more person talk about infidelity in a relationship as if it were okay, not a big deal, and forgivable, we are going to get angry!
We have studied the best marriages for nearly 28 years and we know this – the best ... Views: 7059
Each of us has a mixture of feelings toward those people we’re intimate with, and learning how to tolerate ambivalence is a part of growing up. Small children sometimes scream “I hate you!” when frustrated by their parents though they may be loving and affectionate an hour later. Such ... Views: 1695
By America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts.
With our fast paced society and the ever increasing demands of everyday life, more and more couples are finding that negativity is taking over their relationship. An abrupt interject of positivity into a relationship is the only way to change the ... Views: 4070
When meeting girls on the Internet, the goal is to interact with a girl, to meet her real time, and to eventually begin a relationship. Through that process, the first date is very important.
At the moment you meet women for a date after exchanging online for some time, you will be judged and ... Views: 1125
In the business world we know "innovate or perish" we know "nothing ventured, nothing gained". In our intimate relationships what we seem to prefer is "leave well enough alone" and "if it ain't broke, don't fix it". What's that all about? We know that a business, allowed to chug along will ... Views: 725
Whether you have been in a relationship for 20 years or 20 days, celebrating your relationship is one way to unleash the power within your relationship and add gallons of enjoyment to your life. When you notice other couples who you admire and would like to have what they have, what do you ... Views: 1469
One of the greatest challenges in loving others is to forgive them when they have wronged us and caused us pain. Every time we are wronged, we have to choose how we are going to deal with the hurt. Ultimately, we have to decide if we will forgive the person or persons who have wronged us, or if ... Views: 2411
We are all guilty of forgetting about how important anniversaries are in reflecting on how you and your partner met and to rekindle that buzz of the first time you got together. Below are some suggestions on what you could do for your special anniversary.
Remember that first date?
Plan a ... Views: 835
In our ASK THE DOCTOR section of our website, we recently received the following question:
"Why is the sting of death so difficult to deal with?"
Bob P.
I answered:
Dear Bob;
I assume that someone important to you has died. That death may ... Views: 1891