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There is nothing that can compare to the feeling of falling in love. It captures our hearts and makes them beat faster when in the presence of our beloved. Love sets up camp in our minds and causes us think much differently than we normally would. It begins, sometimes very quickly, to take ... Views: 9322
Funny story happened Tuesday night. I was at this private gathering where Chris Howard was speaking.
Some of you may have heard of him already. His company is the biggest NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) training company in the world. And he gives Tony Robbins-style seminars, and he's fast ... Views: 2332
I've been thinking about what kind of things to teach you guys.
One thing that came up a couple of times in the past two days was this particular drill from the Transformation Weekend seminar. Namely, the Lead & Follow drill.
At the same time, I recently finished reading this epic novel ... Views: 877
Will the guy you're dating today make you happy tomorrow? Here are three signs you should keep him around:
1. He likes women. He speaks highly of his mother and sisters (unless, of course, they're just horrible people). He generally likes his friends' wives and girlfriends. He speaks well and ... Views: 886
Whether you have already found Mr./Ms. Right or are looking in earnest, Feng Shui will make a positive difference with existing relationships or finding the Right relationship.
How often have you, your friends or your children said “I just can’t seem to find the right person to settle down ... Views: 1093
Hey Doc:
I had a friend that is very important to me ask me out. I told him he was important, but just a friend.
I didn't say “yes” to him because mostly I've been thinking about a couple of other guys, one in particular, that I want to go out with. They seemed to have shown signs ... Views: 673
Contrary to popular opinion, women tend to get easily impressed by men. But – and here’s something men know -- they get put off pretty quickly too, and then it’s difficult to get them interested again. So when taking a woman out, you need to keep the female psyche in mind in order to make your ... Views: 2067
I was at this big ol' party in Hollywood this weekend, and I've got some stories to tell ya.
A few weeks ago, I had signed up for this big ol' charity event involving lots of restaurants and wineries—"LA's best restaurants and some of the best wineries of the world" was the billing.
... Views: 891
Let's talk about Power Tools for Dating.
I like the metaphor of a power tool because it just makes a lot of sense. When you have the right tool, you can get a job done with a lot less effort and time expenditure.
Just a few days ago, one of my bookshelves gave in under the weight of all the ... Views: 971
Before we get into the specifics of how to talk to a woman and attract her attention, let me remind you that this isn’t a list of the best pick-up lines. What you will learn in this article is how to talk to a woman in such a way that you won’t have to worry about running out of ... Views: 760
I want to go over a networking technique that I discovered a few years ago which has been really useful in big social events.
For some years, guys have been asking me, "What's the best way of getting phone numbers from multiple women at the same event—especially when some of them know one ... Views: 1014
The holidays often bring up a variety of emotions. The expectation that we should be feeling jolly and grateful throughout the season can create a tremendous amount of pressure. Uncomfortable emotions such as stress or loneliness can have us seeking external ways to “fix it.” We look for joy in ... Views: 972
Everyone’s goal in a relationship is to be in a happy. However, men and women may view their happiness differently. As women become comfortable in a new relationship, they tend to want to move up to the next level as soon as possible. If she is happy at the present level, she believes she will ... Views: 6807
This last weekend, I attended a 3-day seminar which was truly powerful and transformative. So much so that I'm still processing all the insights right now.
I've been interested in the concept of deep masculinity and deep femininity for quite some time.
The unity of opposites, yin and ... Views: 3684
What is the appeal of dating blogs? Like many 'ordinary' blogs, dating blogs offer their authors a space to write about anything they have on their minds. For dating blogs, the topic of interest is more often than not, dating, love, romance, and any trials and tribulations faced out there in the ... Views: 584
Just got back from a relaxing and fun birthday trip to our nation's capital, Washington DC. And I have a brief anecdote to share at the end about a realization I had on my birthday after we've gone over today's technique.
DC is a great town. And it's full of people who make their living ... Views: 1126
I want to tell you about a very unique way to attract single women for dating, romance, relationships, marriage, love, and sex using billboard ads.
Four single men here in Houston pooled their money together and leased a billboard (14x18 feet) for one month to run a billboard personal ad. The ... Views: 724
This is an important article. My goal here is to tell you EXACTLY what to do before, during, and after…the FIRST KISS.
If you’re kissing her the second time, congratulations – she liked it enough the first time to have a second.
In How To Get A Girlfriend, I cover this topic ... Views: 3931
Nowadays Dating Industry world is developing so fast that it’s sometimes difficult to keep up with all the new options and opportunities that arise every day. Though software developers still try to be the right time in the right place, to release new software updates and satisfy the growing ... Views: 597
I've been thinking about all that went on during Book Expo America and how to put that information to use for you guys so you can become even better at networking.
Today, I want to talk about a couple of points. But before we begin, I want to cover an important point about getting better at ... Views: 1199
Hi Dennis,
I'm a single gal who (despite being very attractive) has not been on a date with a man in a year. I have exchanged numbers with several men during that time but none seem interested (mainly they were dating another girl already so I keep missing my chance.) I keep a very friendly, ... Views: 909
1. Send her a postcard with a romantic thought on it. It can be a simple statement like, "You're such a special lady and I wanted to let you know, I'm thinking about you".
2. Here's a great idea. Buy a erasable marker and write, " I love you" on her front windshield of her car. Also, put a ... Views: 963
Gentlemen. And Ladies. How are ya.
I'm back at the office from my trip to NYC. It's good to be home, especially since the Book Expo was such an intense experience.
Let's just say that yesterday afternoon, I thought I'd take a nap at 5pm. Next thing I knew, it was 6am.
So to all of you in ... Views: 1027
Aidan decided to consult with me because he wanted to get married and have a family. A handsome man in his mid-30s, it was certainly not obvious at first glance why he could not find a partner.
However, it didn't take me long to understand why relationships were not working for Aidan. Being ... Views: 2552
Been on the road for a couple of days, which is why I've been out of touch for a few. Today I'm writing you from Book Expo America at New York City's Jacob Javits Convention Center.
I'm absolutely thrilled to be here for many reasons.
I've been coming here for four years now, and as a ... Views: 936
Smart Dating is about focusing on the quality of your relationships, all of them, especially your dating relationships. Instead of focusing on your agenda to win someone over or to make a great impression, focus on connection. But not just any connection: positive, meaningful connection. What ... Views: 1875
Why will children temper tantrum?
Temper is one of the most common emotions. For a child, it will certainly occur during growing up. Temper, just as other emotions, is created by two simple reasons: seek for happy and avoid pain. But for a child, especially toddlers, they are learning ... Views: 878
If you are having trouble finding a good man , chances are you have no idea where to find them or even worse, you have no idea what a good man is. The quest of looking for mr right is one that you can succeed with just one simple change in focus and a few tips on where a good man goes .
Before ... Views: 8311
This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Dating. The Official SelfGrowth.com Guide to Dating is Debra Berndt. Dating relates to social relationships between people in a cordial environment.
It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Breakup Buddy is a ... Views: 2248
This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Dating. The Official SelfGrowth.com Guide to Dating is Debra Berndt. Dating relates to social relationships between people in a cordial environment.
All the Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right is a ... Views: 2348
This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Dating. The Official SelfGrowth.com Guide to Dating is Debra Berndt. Dating relates to social relationships between people in a cordial environment.
The Manual: A True Bad Boy Explains how Men Think, Date, and Mate--and What Women ... Views: 1408
This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Dating. The Official SelfGrowth.com Guide to Dating is Debra Berndt. Dating relates to social relationships between people in a cordial environment.
The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed is a valuable resource for ... Views: 2480
This book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Dating. The Official SelfGrowth.com Guide to Dating is Debra Berndt. Dating relates to social relationships between people in a cordial environment.
Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own ... Views: 5608
This article is aimed at assisting you with how to set about making a romantic date for the one you love. It is especially appropriate for the less romantically inclined who just can't think of these ideas without prompting!
Steps
1. Make a list of what you will need before you begin. For ... Views: 4807
Hi,
So a week ago I met this girl. She was an old high school friend of a new student in my department that I don't know well yet. Anyway, I had a great time chatting with this girl. We had lived in/traveled to similar places, had similar complaints about the local traffic, and so on. It seemed ... Views: 877
Read this if you want some advice on how to make your relationship work smoothly.
Steps
1. Communicate (talk) with each other about anything and everything. Share your deepest thoughts, wishes, hopes, needs, wants, and dreams. Your social life, your school life, your family life, what's going ... Views: 10335
Ever thought of what to do when going out on a date? Feeling lost and not knowing how? Here's some tips on how you can actually date well even if your inexperienced.
Tip #1 – Revealing
• Don’t give your whole story away on the first date. If you are meant to be together, you will have plenty ... Views: 2639
Here are some simple, fairly inexpensive ideas to help you find love and nurture yourself so that you are not left waiting for a relationship to fulfill those needs. Remember that finding love starts on the inside.
Steps
1. Write down a list of everything a romantic partner would give you. ... Views: 769
Courtship, traditionally the wooing of a female by a male, includes activities such as dating (dinner and a movie, a picnic, or general "hanging out"), along with other forms of activity, such as meeting online (also known as virtual dating), chatting on-line, sending text messages or picture ... Views: 14220
Flowers are not just beautiful and fragrant. They can convey deeper meanings than words can. The search for a florist who will deliver has ended, now you can order flowers online and get them delivered to any location world–wide.
Online flower selling websites are often hosted by the growers ... Views: 1071
My coupled friends used to always give me reassurance that “my guy was on his way.” I tried to believe them but, after six years without a serious relationship, a strong sense of hopelessness was churning inside. For years I struggled with my perpetual aloneness and fought to keep my attitude ... Views: 2915
I’m a sucker for romance. I love movies where boy meets girl, boy loses girl and, against all odds, they find their way back to each other. Or films about star-crossed lovers, as in Bridges of Madison County, who return to their separate lives forever changed.
In real life, though, I have ... Views: 931
Dating can be really scary! You just don’t know which characters you will run into. When going to singles events or dating online, it’s as if you are going to a costume party! However, if you face your demons, you will find out that they aren’t as scary as they once appeared. So who or what ... Views: 3000
Joe was mesmerized when he saw the new hire at work. Lenora was tall, blonde and without any makeup. A whiff of vulnerability glazed with competence wafted up from her body. But what really got Joe hooked was her voice. It oozed of innocence sucking him into her orbit.
Like a cat starved of ... Views: 1460
Millions of women from around the world find some of men's behavior rather bizarre. Why would a complete stranger offer them gifts or money? "They don't even know me," says Jamie, a scorching hot 22 year old university student.
Before we get into how to get a woman really attracted to you and ... Views: 1062
Hi Dr. Neder,
I'm trying to approach and meet a girl I see frequently on the way to work in the morning at the train station. What is the best approach and what do I say at first to get her trust and interest?
Please let me know what you ... Views: 723
Dr Alex here, reporting from the frontlines of human social research. At least that's what I call it when I go out nowadays.
So Friday night I was at this big ol' mixer. I've been co-hosting these for some years now, and they feature recent graduates from various colleges. About 300 people ... Views: 965
I want to share this unsolicited letter with you, first of all because it was quite moving. I'm often not apprised of the downstream effects of my work, so it's a huge shot in the arm when I hear you guys are doing even better as a result.
*****LETTER FROM A STUDENT*****
"Just wanted to ... Views: 1268
A bunch or flowers can convey messages better than words. So from time immemorial flowers have been gifted to say sorry, I love you, all the best, get well soon and more.
Flowers and their symbolic meanings are found in ancient Hindu texts, Egyptian inscriptions, Chinese manuscripts, as well ... Views: 5649
Lately I was talking to some friends of mine who had just gone to Rio. Both of them live in Boston. Both are handsome, well-to-do, educated and witty gentlemen, and do reasonably well with the ladies.
In a town like Boston, which is more or less representative of the rest of the US, that ... Views: 14105