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- The “Loaded Weapon” - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederDoc: Ever since I started living with my boyfriend I've caught him masturbating. At the beginning he would watch porno and masturbate, I told him this really upset me and he said that he wouldn't do it again. He also eventually got rid of all the porno. Well everything was good - or at least ...
Views: 765 - Flirting Tips For Men - Flirting With Women The Right Way - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2007 from Alex CoulsonBelow are just a few of many tips you can use to flirt with attractive women. Flirting is an art form essentially and as I say with anything else practice is what makes you proficient. Flirting Tip #1 Have a good time as opposed to “picking up” women will sense you want something from them ...
Views: 1231 - Handling The “Hard-to-Get” Game - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Dennis! I’ve read your website and I think you might be able to help me. I’ve had numerous relationships and have no trouble getting girls. I’m approaching 30 now and trying to find the girl of my dreams. There is this girl I have known for about a year or so that has always not only ...
Views: 852 - Cocky & Funny - Playfully Teasing Women - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2007 from Alex Coulsonhow to be cocky and funny Cocky and funny is a term coined by David Deangelo author and creator of Double Your Dating. Cocky and funny is the foundation of what David Deangelo teaches and is simply gaming using a simple style of "insulting with a smile" then making her laugh. Very simple ...
Views: 11947(1 vote) - Cock-A-Doodle-Do! - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2007 from Rafael CorneyWhat is it that women find attractive in a man! It's important to be nice. It's important to be funny. It's important to be intelligent. And, it's important to be cocky. That's right, gents, cocky! You know the type. What it's not is arrogant. It's an overall presence – a ...
Views: 592 - OH NO! It's That Time Of Year Again! - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2007 from Dr. Karen Gail LewisOH NO! IT’S THAT TIME OF YEAR AGAIN. Single women (always been single and single again by virtue of divorce or death) tell me the two days they hate the most are December 31 and February 14 -- New Year’s Eve and Valentine’s Day. Why? Because in our society, these are days ...
Views: 1145 - Online Dating For The Holidays - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2007 from Filipina EyesChristmas is days away and another new year is coming. The holidays can be lonely for those who have no one to share it with. It may be the most dangerous time of year for those who are looking for love on the net. Their loneliness leads them to try to desperately fill their emptiness and they ...
Views: 612 - Kissing Tips For Men- 5 Ways To Score The Perfect Kiss - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2007 from Alex CoulsonKnowing when the time is right to kiss a girl can be a dilemma for some, if you move in too early she'll think you're needy and if you move in to late you lack confidnece to make the first move. Last night I was out coaching one of my Sydney bootcamps and I came across Emily, she is ...
Views: 2030 - Twenty Great Date Ideas - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2007 from Justin HartfieldIn general, the more creative the date, the better. An original date is a memorable and surefire way to impress your partner. The first impression sets the tone of the occasion, and there's no better way to ensure a fun date. Girls are perfectly comfortable sitting and chatting, as this is ...
Views: 10574 - For Singles: 5 Key Questions for Creating Your 2008 Attraction Plan for Dating - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2007 from Amy SchoenThe New Year is upon us. It's time for a new beginning, turning over a new leaf, and for renewing our hope of finding love this year. Now is the time to think about how you want 2008 to be for you. You get to create what you feel is possible for you. Here are some relationship questions and ...
Views: 2970 - Meeting Women On The Beach - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2007 from Alex CoulsonMeeting Women On The Beach I live across from the beach and I see absolute stunning women strolling around most of the day... I live in heaven, well I live in coogee so I suppose I'm not that far off anyway... Take my word for it if you're not approaching women on the beach right now then ...
Views: 1087 - How To Not Stiffen Up On The Approach - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHello Doc: I like this girl in my class and everyday before I go to school I am confident about approaching her. Every time I get the chance to however, I get all stiff. Today for example, when I was sitting only a few inches from her I couldn't even bring myself to talk to her. Can you tell me ...
Views: 691 - The MySpace Connection - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2007 from Rafael Corneyby Paula Snowsill, Dating Coach It’s all the rage. And it’s not just for kids. In fact, adults are flocking to the MySpace social community in record numbers, forgoing the structure and security of traditional dating sites for the excitement, free-for-all, anything goes realm. First, ...
Views: 715 - Dating Tips For Big And Beautiful Women - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2007 from Anne LeeBBW means big beautiful women. It is commonly used and generally describes as women of size. They are so many other terms that can be used to describe plus size women, but BBW is by far the most complimentary. You can be just a few extra pounds or hundreds of pounds overweight. As long as you ...
Views: 939 - Achieving Dating Success - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2007 from Karl EricsonI used to be a total failure at dating. A couple of years ago I became quite successful with women (though I still was rejected part of the time) and then I became engaged. It was my initial lack of success that got me wondering what it was that made some people successful and some not. ...
Views: 1053 - Extramarital Online Dating Is Now Becoming Part Of The Mainstream Dating Scene. - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2007 from joanne lomaxScoring through the Internet, and looking for something interesting to write about, I came across this website that caters for – you guessed right, married men and women who like to embark on an affair. The site, aptly named “My Secret Affair” caught my attention and I decided ...
Views: 540 - Relationships: How to Choose More Carefully - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloMany people spend so much time and energy on their love lives, striving for the ideal relationship. While self-love is the only true love in our view, it’s understandable why the feeling of being loved and accepted by another is so desirable. Along the path to finding compatible ...
Views: 1098 - How Can I Get Him to Never Leave Me? - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederDr. Neder, I've been dating a man for almost 3 months now. I've very much been the short-lived relationship kind of gal in the past. Typically at 3 months, I'll find some reason to end the relationship. Whether it's not feeling a physical connection, or not feeling an emotional connection, or, ...
Views: 1155 - Looking For A Christmas Present? - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2007 from maria songWith shopping season in full gear, I began to wonder what the best presents are for your partner. Should you get something you know they want? Maybe something that they haven’t mentioned that you think they’d like? Or would a present that touches their heart be the best? I ...
Views: 657 - Pick Up Lines And Do They Work? I Put Them To The Test ... - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2007 from Alex CoulsonThere is no perfect pickup line that’ll get consistent success when starting conversations with women. If you read an e-book or hear your friends say it’ll work then the chances are they probably haven’t tried putting it into action themselves. I stumbled onto a few lines and ...
Views: 588 - How Attractive Of A Soul Mate Are You? - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2007 from Marla MartensonWhen we are dating, most of us have a mental “checklist” in our heads about what qualities we want to see in the other person. For example, maybe you’re tired of struggling to support yourself, so you want someone with a successful career so that you can quit your dead-end job ...
Views: 1325 - First Date - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2007 from Debbie HeikaOkay, so you have taken a leap in faith and said “yes” to go on the first date. Breathe! The most important thing to do is relax and remind yourself that the other person is in the same boat as you are. The last thing you want to do is have your nerves cause problems so you are unable to focus ...
Views: 630 - How To Buy A Date From A Co-Worker - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Doc: I like this girl at work. Our work is not related but we work in the same office. She is 12 years younger than me and I hold a senior position. Knowing all the stuff about sexual harassment all I did for the last 7-8 months was just look at her. She would look back and we would just ...
Views: 2190 - Enjoy Sex dating, But With Precaution - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2007 from Joe DavidsonDating and sex are two things which are inextricably linked to a great extent and some would even go to the extent of saying that they are inseparable! There is every chance or probability that if you are having a romantic meeting then at some point you will want to go to bed with each other or ...
Views: 571 - The Mysteries Behind Women's Behavior - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2007 from Jay JulioDo you find yourself confused by women's behavior? Unsure of who she really is? Just who is the real woman? "The real woman is a sensitive, overly emotional being." "You're wrong. She's a bitchy, complaining, mean thing!" "No, you're both wrong! She's a sweet, caring individual." So many ...
Views: 1024 - Making Contact In The Digital Age - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2007 from Rafael CorneySome ways to connect in the new comms. by Rafael Corney, dating coach This isn't your Daddy's world anymore. That's right. This isn't just about picking up the phone to contact that sexy babe. Now there are options – a dizzying array of them, in fact. Traditional phones, cell phones, ...
Views: 543 - Approaching Women During The Day And Making Dates - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2007 from Alex CoulsonHOW TO STOP WOMEN AND GET THEIR PHONE NUMBER DURING THE DAY You may be ordering your coffee in the morning, walking down a busy street or waiting in line for a bus, then we see an attractive woman who we would like to strike a conversation with, however most of us (men) get stumped at this ...
Views: 850 - Yeah, But How Do I Get The Second Date? - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2007 from Ali BinazirEvery Wednesday, I do a few free consultations with clients. What I like about doing these consultations are that they bring up issues that are pretty much universal. "I called and she didn't call back." "Had a great first date but couldn't get a second one." "My relationships don't last." ...
Views: 5020 - ***Changing The Movie Of Your Love Life - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2007 from Debi BerndtHave you ever wondered why it is so easy for others to be in a relationship and you struggle so much in dating? Are you familiar with the feeling of being left out of your friends’ coupled dinners and feeling the ache of loneliness every Valentine’s Day wondering when it was going to be your ...
Views: 1173 - Do You Understand The Law Of Attraction? - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2007 from Oleg PotemkinFor women attraction isn't a choice, they either feel it for you or they don't, it's that simple. If a woman doesn't feel attraction for you from the start, they more then likely never will. You cannot convince a woman to feel attraction for you. Let me explain. Just because you're rich, ...
Views: 491 - Filipina Lady - Who Is She - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2007 from Filipina EyesA Filipina Lady strives to fulfill her dreams, she is kindhearted, shows respect to both young and old, she laughs, she cries, she triumphs, she fails, but she will always stand up, and say I'm a Filipina. I'm proud of where I came from, I'm proud of my country, I'm proud of being a Pinay, I'm ...
Views: 1053 - Hot Women Get Dumped For Someone Else - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Dennis, From your experience, what causes a man to leave his wife for another woman? Such as Tom Cruise leaving Nicole Kidman for Penelope, and Brad Pitt leaving Jennifer Aniston for Angelina. What do you think was the primary reason? The "other" woman being more beautiful, sexier and more ...
Views: 966 - The Reality Of the ‘Date Rape Drug’ – Educating Yourself And Your Friends! - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2007 from Mardie CaldwellApril is Sexual Assault Month Each month more than ten women of all ages and backgrounds contact our Adoption Center with the same experience - they have been victims of a date rape drug, and are now pregnant, with most women not knowing who got them pregnant. Just after Spring break, is a ...
Views: 3539 - Relating For The Right Reasons - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2007 from Marla MartensonWhen we think about love, our soul mate, settling down and getting married, and so on, we often go back to our childhood thoughts on this subject. These thoughts condition how we think, and what we expect our relationships to look like. As a woman I know that even though most women, like men, ...
Views: 1473 - The Difference Between Love And Emotional Hunger - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2007 from Colette Dowling, LCSWStraight off, real love is love that nourishes the other person, be it a child or an adult. Love supports the other person and encourages the unfolding of his or her personality. But love can be confused with something else--emotional hunger. And that has little to do with the other person and ...
Views: 8571 - Does Your 'Yes' Really Mean 'No' In Your Romantic Relationship? - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2007 from Dr. Grace Cornish LivingstoneDo you find yourself constantly saying yes to the man in your life, when you really want to say no? I'm not referring to a healthy, balance relationship, but off-balanced situations, in which many women have developed the unhealthy relationship pattern of being "yes women" in front of their ...
Views: 1670 - How To Move On From Break Up And Find Happiness - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2007 from George LockettNo one can make us unhappy unless we let them. It is not what happens in our life that brings unhappiness; it is how we choose to react to what happens that sets the mood for our feeling and emotions. I say this to allow you to take personal responsibility for your reaction in every ...
Views: 1094 - The Making Of The Best Online Dating Service - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2007 from jason hobbsThe making of the best online dating service Online dating has during recent years gain importance among the internet users. According to a survey by Online Publishers Association and comScore Networks, US residents spend around $500 million in 2005 on online dating. But what make the best ...
Views: 633 - How To Turn Your Interactions With Difficult Women Around - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2007 from Ali BinazirI've been away for a few days on a vacation/ retreat, which was quite an experience. It was eye-opening in many unexpected ways, and I'd like to share a little bit about that. See, a few years ago I noticed an interesting phenomenon. It seemed like whenever you called somebody something, they ...
Views: 8695 - The Two Driving Forces That Determine How Successful We Are When We Want To Approach A Woman - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2007 from Jesse AllenApproaching a woman, like every decision we choose to make in our life, depends on two things: Avoiding pain and attaining pleasure. There's your answer to what drives us. Easy eh? These two concepts are the ONLY two driving forces that determine what we choose to follow through with. ...
Views: 2602(6 votes) - 17 Dating Tips For Mystics - by Submitted on Nov 08, 2007 from Scott & Stephen PetulloMeeting a compatible person for a relationship can seem out of reach at times for singles in the dating scene. Dating can be difficult, as anyone will tell you who has experienced online dating disasters or grueling blind dates set up by well-meaning friends. For those who are more spiritually ...
Views: 1165 - ***Dating Rejects - Why Aren't You That Into Him? - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2007 from Debi BerndtWhy are women so attracted to the bad boys? You want love, you desire love but when a nice guy shows up in your life, you feel like running away. The man has an impressive resume, wants everything in life that you do, but you cannot seem to stop obsessing about the jerk who dumped you last ...
Views: 1052 - Sexually Frustrated - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHi Dennis, I am a college sophomore and diabetic and I'm in a relationship with a freshman. I am a virgin but my girlfriend is not. I've told her that I'm not bothered by what happened in her past. We've tried to have sex on two occasions. The first time I was extremely drunk and we both ...
Views: 993 - ***Using The Law Of Attraction In Dating - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2007 from Debi BerndtThe circumstances in your lives seem to happen by chance. You may blame your single status and dating bad luck on others and good experiences on random fate. The Law of Attraction states that your life experience is a direct result of your thinking. In order to change those ideas to attract the ...
Views: 1021 - The Art Of Conversational Magic, Part IV: Selling The Way Your Customers Buy - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2007 from Ali BinazirGot a little story for you. Last night I attended a talk by a certain business teacher by the name of Keith Cunningham. He teaches for Tony Robbins' seminars, was the originator of the idea behind the 'Rich Dad, Poor Dad' book, and is a highly successful businessman in his own right. He came ...
Views: 1083 - Being Beautiful on the Inside is very "ATTRACTIVE" - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2007 from Lilly WhiteBeing Beautiful on the Inside Ladies, what I want to talk about in this newsletter is being beautiful on the inside, this makes you a very “CLASSY WOMAN”! Men are attracted to a woman’s beauty visually on the outside. Men will have sex with you and you’ll feel a ...
Views: 5200 - The Art Of Conversational Magic, Part III - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2007 from Ali BinazirGood morning! It's a glorious Monday morning here in Los Angeles, and I'm sure you're just as thrilled as I am to be back at your desk. At the very least, I expect to be able to make your day a little more interesting with this email, which I believe will be more entertaining and enlightening ...
Views: 905 - Why Women Choose Guys They Say They Don't Want - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2007 from Jay JulioEver wondered why women choose guys who seem uncaring or cruel? For example, have you ever listened to a woman tell you all the things she wants in a guy -- all of which you seem to have -- but then she still goes for the jerk? Why would she say she wants one thing, then go for the complete ...
Views: 2844 - How To Kiss For Guys - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2007 from Derek CarsonBeing a great kisser isn’t something you’re born into. I’ve yet to meet a guy who gave the first girl he kissed in his life an great kiss. Knowing how to kiss in such a way that her entire body feels electrified is something that’s cultivated over time and experience. ...
Views: 1125 - THE ART OF CONVERSATIONAL MAGIC, PART II - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2007 from Ali BinazirThanks to all of you who showed up for the LA Meet & Greet. The number of people was exactly right for the size of the room, and we had a good time doing some drills from the Tao of Dating Transformation Weekend, the Tao of Persuasion and How to Work A Room. Things like nonverbal rapport, ...
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