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- How to Be Successful at Internet Dating - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Christophe YoungSo, you browsed around on a very popular online dating site and checked out all those stunningly attractive women and you just can't wait to fire off witty emails to get there attention. Right? Or, you've written up what you think is an AWESOME profile and its time to submit it online ...
Views: 1593(4 votes) - Dating Tips You Need After Your Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2008 from Danielle TaylorWhen you feel the time is right after your divorce to begin dating again, there are a few things you may want to keep in mind. Depending on how long you were married things may have changed somewhat from your previous dating days. Basically it is going to be about like you remember, but you will ...
Views: 633 - Seth Rogan – Male Role Model? - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2008 from Dr. Dennis NederMaybe you’d be surprised at the number of letter I get from women that begin, “I recently met this really cute guy…” and end with “How do I get him to ask me out?” And then again, maybe you wouldn’t; particularly if you’re a woman. It seems that today’s man is all but devoid of basic manly ...
Views: 1236 - Controlling Boyfriend: How To Deal With A Controlling Boyfriend - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2008 from Michael LeeBeing in a controlling relationship is tough. It inevitably takes a toll on your personal and professional life. And if you’re under the mercy of a controlling boyfriend, you need to take immediate steps to resolve this problem. Having a controlling boyfriend is not the end of the world. ...
Views: 2596 - 4 Reasons Why You May Not Be Attracting Great Men Into Your Life - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2008 from Karen JonesHow often have you heard a single women state, with a sigh, that all the good men are taken? Hmm... is that really true? If you're attracting less than great men into your life, it's very likely that it’s got more to do with you than them. Here are four reasons that may be true for ...
Views: 1272 - Psychology Of Dating: Little-Known Dating Secrets - by Submitted on Sep 28, 2008 from Michael LeeDating is not just about socialization. Believe it or not, there is a science behind it. Understanding the psychology of dating can be pretty handy, especially if you don’t want to waste your time on bad blind dates. If you’re a dating expert, then you probably know what indicators ...
Views: 1228 - ***Hooking Up & Other Deadly Dating Patterns - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerHooking up, that is, no-strings-attached sex, can be hot, mind-blowing hot. And it has become the norm for many college students, 20-somethings and even many 30-somethings. But there are high costs for this brief steamy pleasure. Impulsive in-the-moment sex is often fueled by alcohol or ...
Views: 2765(19 votes) - ***Texting 101 in Dating and Relationships: 7 Do's and Don'ts - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerI think texting rocks! It means that no matter what you are doing you can be in touch with and connected to your loved ones. Texting has absolutely deepened our dating and love relationships. Now your “A” level friends, family and lovers can be in a constant secret dialogue with ...
Views: 3460 - ***Four Keys to Creating a Great Love Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2008 from Dr. Diana Kirschner"All happy families resemble one another. Each unhappy family is unique in its grief.” ~Tolstoy, Anna Karenina Personal excellence in your love relationship is not achieved by reading couples love advice or self-help books or dumping the problem partner you're with and going on to ...
Views: 1465 - ***Prenups 101: Seven Love Tips to Make them Work Out - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2008 from Dr. Diana Kirschner1. What are the most common prenuptial situations for first-time marriages? A: There are two types of prenuptial agreements or prenups: One is where the groom or bride is part of a large family business like a real estate empire. Here, the prenup is intended to protect the family from ...
Views: 2269 - ***Has Your Dating or Love Life Tanked? - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerI was on the Today show recently doing a segment about what to do when life doesn’t work out the way you want it to. The panel included terrific authors Rene Syler and Amy Cohen and the talented Debbie Nigro, a founder and Chief Executive Girlfriend of firstwivesworld.com. Here are the ...
Views: 1543 - ***The Ultimate Breakup Quiz: 20 Questions to Ask Yourself - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Dr. Diana KirschnerOf course, some relationships are destructive, smothering or empty and they have to go. But these days breaking up and divorce have become so socially acceptable, that many couples who could work things out wind up dissolving their unions. And often there is a big price to pay for this. As a ...
Views: 4632(62 votes) - What Women Like In A Man Are These 5 Traits - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2008 from Alex CoulsonA lot of guys feel like women are mysterious creatures that they can't figure out. They look at how they change their mind frequently or how they can be happy one minute and cry the next. Or, here's a real mind boggler; what's with all those shoes and purses? The truth is that women and men ...
Views: 2093 - If You Do This You Will Not Attract Many Women - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2008 from Alex CoulsonDo you play golf, basketball, or baseball? If you do then you know that there are times when your play becomes stagnate, even predictable. Sometimes you get into such a rut that the opposing team or players can read you like a book and know what your next move is and defend against you without ...
Views: 1332 - How Your Wing Man Can Help Seduce Women - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2008 from Alex CoulsonMeeting women is easier when you have a buddy to go with you. Why? Because he can become your Wing Man. He can help introduce your and your qualities where you can't. If you go spouting out your qualities and abilities, your going to come out sounding like a braggart instead of confident. ...
Views: 1470 - How To Display An Attractive Personality Around Women - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2008 from Alex CoulsonIt's no secret that women want to be with men who know how to act like a man. They like a strong man. Not necessarily a physical Atlas so much, but a man that has strength in his personality. Confident and competent. Now no one is perfect at everything that they do, but that doesn't mean ...
Views: 1527 - How To Be Attractive To Women With Proper Timing - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2008 from Alex CoulsonThe right timing can mean the difference between winning and losing. In the boxing ring, one well timed punch can knock out the opponent, but if that same punch is delivered just a second later it can result in hitting nothing but air. Now, obviously, attracting women with boxing isn't what ...
Views: 1611 - How To Get Your Ex Back In Love With You - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2008 from Mo SimpsonLet's be honest about this, most of us have had at least one relationship end that we wished we could've saved, right? The famous "one that got away!" And like most of us, you've gone through the same tortures of the damned when someone you love tells you it's over. When a relationship for which ...
Views: 1115 - Girlfriend Travels With Ex-Boyfriend - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2008 from Dr. Dennis NederI am in a serious relationship with this girl, and we are seriously contemplating getting engaged in the future. However, we often get stuck on one issue: her ex-boyfriends. She keeps in touch with several. She has always been very honest with me about them, but it is obvious that she is very ...
Views: 3416 - 4 Steps-How To Get A Girlfriend - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2008 from Stephen NashMy goal in working with men just like you is to help you learn how to get a girlfriend, and a hot girlfriend at that as no one should “settle” for what is just available (in fact, I wrote ebook, which is the ultimate how to get a girlfriend guide). This is not a format for how to ...
Views: 1397 - Book Review: Love in 90 Days - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2008 from Douglas PakThis book review is part of a series that covers the topic of Dating. Dating is the social relationships between people in a cordial environment. Dr. Diana Kirschner is the Official Guide to Dating. Love in 90 Days, by Dr. Diana Kirschner, is a valuable resource for people interested in Dating, ...
Views: 1089 - Definition: Dating - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2008 from Douglas PakDating is any social activity performed as a pair or even a group with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as their partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse. The word refers to the act of agreeing on a time and "date" when a pair can meet and engage in some social ...
Views: 2684 - Online Dating Sites For Shy Men - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2008 from Cordell WallaceThe creation of the internet has been a godsend for shy men everywhere. Before the internet existed you actually had to approach women to get a date. In real life! Scary I know. Just imagine the multitude of nightmare scenarios that could unfold. You might say something dumb to an ...
Views: 723 - Marriage Advice - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2008 from Rod ClaflinI have been married now for over three years and would like to talk about what I think makes a marriage successful. By no means am I trying to proclaim myself as an expert when it comes to giving marriage advice, but I do know a thing or two from what I have learned along the way and from ...
Views: 1364 - When Is The Right Time To Date Again? - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2008 from Rod ClaflinThis is a question that is going to bring out a different answer in all of us. It depends on what you have gone through in your life and how fast you can rebound from the situation you were in. To keep this article on the shorter side, I am going to spend time talking about when the right time ...
Views: 3063 - Still Waters Run Deep - Advice In The Dating World - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2008 from Jack DobsonBeing honest and also being generous in the sense of being willing to focus on the other person are the best pieces of dating advice one can have. These are strategies that lay a foundation for a healthy long term relationship. But when we are in the business of attempting to attract a mate, ...
Views: 2092 - Some of the Most Romantic Dates are Free - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2008 from Donna BeasleySome of the Most Romantic Dates are Free Jetting off to a foreign land with the one you love or eating in a fancy French restaurant while violins serenade you tableside is very romantic. Can you afford this? Even if you can you may be missing out on some of the most romantic dates that can ...
Views: 1929 - *** Seven Urban Love Legends - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Dr. Diana KirschnerWhen it comes to dating and love relationships there are certain “love facts” that most everyone believes. But, surprisingly, if we look at the actual research about these “love facts” we may find that they are not facts at all. They are fictions, myths. This is key ...
Views: 2328(69 votes) - *** Eight Steps to Finding Love in 2010 - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Dr. Diana KirschnerNew Year's Eve has come and gone and with it another Party with no one you really wanted to kiss at midnight. No love to share it all with. Looking forward to that again? Well, you can change your love life by following a whole new dating plan for this coming year. You can make a ...
Views: 2036 - *** Fall Back to Love: The Autumn Dating Advantage - by Submitted on Sep 13, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerIt’s easier to fall in love in the fall! Singles roll up their sleeves and work more proactively on their dating, so there’s more love to go around. There are three reasons for this. First, singles, like all of us, raised in the rhythm of a school calendar, are conditioned to buy ...
Views: 1336 - *** Dating Anxiety? Four Steps to Getting Off the Couch - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Dr. Diana KirschnerYou'll do anything other than looking for a partner online -- watch TV reruns, clean the bathroom, complain about your dating troubles, or even call your mother. You freeze up and question yourself repeatedly when it's time to meet someone for coffee, make the next call, date, or move on to the ...
Views: 7288 - *** Frenemies: Four Relationship Tips for Dealing with Love Saboteurs - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Dr. Diana KirschnerIn the Sex & the City movie, Miranda functions as a friend-turned-Frenemy and helps derail her friend’s dream wedding. At a strategic point in the upcoming nuptials she opens her mouth and actually puts down the idea of marriage to the commitment-phobic groom! In this one act, Miranda ...
Views: 3383(61 votes) - *** The Five Secrets of Getting Lucky In Dating and Love - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerSome people seem to have all the luck, especially when it comes to dating and love relationships. Meanwhile many of you have had your hearts broken over and over and over again. You wonder, what are the secrets to having luck in love? Well, here they are! I’ve worked as a psychologist ...
Views: 1494 - ***The Power of Positive Self-Affirmations for Dating Success - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2008 from Dr. Diana KirschnerResearch has repeatedly shown the power of positive self-talk, which is what most of us call affirmations. Positive affirmations have been used to: change behavior in under-achieving students; increase nurses’ and doctors’ well-being and lower their stress levels; reduce breast ...
Views: 2608 - *** Six Dating Secrets for Boomers - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Dr. Diana KirschnerLet's face it: Dating is daunting. And when you're a Boomer, it may seem next to impossible. You might be coming out of a long-term marriage, or emerging from a period of time where you were consumed with raising children or caring for elderly parents -- or, perhaps you still are responsible for ...
Views: 2576(20 votes) - To Call - Or Not To Call - by Submitted on Sep 11, 2008 from Tonja WeimerOne consistent question from readers and clients is, “Should I call him?” The answer is almost always a big, “Yes!” Did you just meet someone you felt a lot of chemistry with? Were you dating someone for a few weeks but he hasn’t called you this week? Or did you ...
Views: 740 - Many, Many Mixed Signals - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2008 from Dr. Dennis NederHi, I first met this guy through mutual friends about 2 months ago. The second time we all hung out during 4th of July in which case, he instantly showed me interest and invited me to another party. We flirted heavily and had a good time until 4 am. When we parted he invited me to hang out with ...
Views: 733 - Online Dating Services - How To Make Them Work For You - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2008 from Melina MennyWe all know that online dating services welcome anyone who wants to join them. Surveys show that in 2005, more than 60 million unique visitors registered with online dating sites in the US. That is almost more than half the total number of eligible adults in the US. Surveys like these show that ...
Views: 874 - The 5 Jobs Perfect For Attracting Women - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2008 from Alex CoulsonBelieve it or not, there are occupations that attract the attention of women more than others. Whether it's because the occupation is one that makes a woman feel secure or because she just thinks it's plain sexy, women are attracted to men in these areas of employment. Emergency Services. The ...
Views: 833 - How To Attract Females: 4 Great Ways To Attract Women Like Bees to Honey - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2008 from Michael LeeLearning how to attract females is an art in itself. However, it is an art only a few men have successfully mastered. Since women are dynamic beings with varying preferences, it would be a challenge to pinpoint specific personality traits that would make you attractive to them. Here are some ...
Views: 1733 - Internet Relationships: Build Chemistry With Sparkling Conversation - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2008 from Kay HutchinsonCreate a Space for Deep Listening and Sharing Email and online chat provides opportunities to discover communication styles and determine if there is enough chemistry to have a phone conversation or meet in person. In surveying my life coach clients about online dating, they report that they ...
Views: 2265(3 votes) - ***The 6 Keys To Spiritual Dating - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2008 from Jill Crosby“Spiritual Dating” or “Conscious Dating” is an enlightened way of meeting and dating. There are no “rules” or expectations, and it’s about being true to oneself and staying in the flow. Conscious dating is more fun than the traditional style of dating, and it yields much better results! As we ...
Views: 2269(4 votes) - In Love With A One-Night-Stand Man - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2008 from Dr. Dennis NederDr. Neder: I met a man through the oddest of ways – a mis-sent text message! It went to the wrong phone number and somehow we started to text each other, exchanged photos of ourselves and started to flirt. He is an older man with a really sexy voice and is a successful business owner. We ...
Views: 910 - How To Attract Beautiful Women: 4 Helpful Tips To Get The Girls’ Attention - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2008 from Michael LeeIf finding out how to attract beautiful women isn’t easy, just imagine the challenge when you see her long line of suitors. Having competition would be tougher for you. However, don’t get discouraged easily if you’re clueless on how to attract beautiful women. Research indicates that females ...
Views: 1092 - Is Depression Normal After A Breakup? - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2008 from Peter HarrisThere are many emotions that people will feel following a relationship breakup. Not everyone will react in the same way. The depth of the emotions that are experienced will vary from person to person as well. Among the many emotions that we can experience depression is normal after a ...
Views: 1764 - How Much Should You Share With Your Date? - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2008 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Doc! I've been dating off and on since my divorce a few years ago. I generally am completely open with my dates, and willingly share information about my life history. I've just met a gal who is a Psychologist. She has challenged my practice, saying that there are some things that are ...
Views: 716 - What Remedies Can I Use For A Broken Heart? - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2008 from Peter HarrisBreaking up with someone that you care about can be a painful experience; especially if you felt a deep love or some emotional commitment to that person. It would be nice if remedies for a broken heart came in pill or liquid form. Just take one pill a day or drink this three times a day and ...
Views: 839 - Making an Entrance: The Power of Presentation - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2008 from Cherry NorrisI fluffed my hair, dabbed my lipstick and gave myself one last check in the mirror. Then I took a deep breath. I opened the door. And there he stood... Tall, Dark and Dirty. Seriously. He was filthy. His clothes weren't washed. There was dirt underneath his fingernails and he smelled ...
Views: 2681 - Your Christmas Stocking Will Be The Source Of Greater Confidence - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2008 from Jon ReaderThis article looks at why we continue to put out our Christmas stockings each year and provides tips on how you can make your stocking fillers a little more original whilst boosting your confidence in the bedroom as well as spicing up your partners. 'Tis the season to hang stockings by the ...
Views: 678 - Attract Beautiful Women Using Humour - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2008 from Alex NovaLearn Cocky and Funny: Double Your Dating Technique! Women Are Attracted to Men with Sense of Humour, Attract Women with Humour Naturally, Learn Cocky and Funny Techniques Dating Workshops for men, Chat Tips, Dating Conversation and Dating Topics on the first date. David Deangelo’s “cocky ...
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