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- How Attraction Works for Women - Part 3 - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2008 from David DeAngeloThink of attraction like a drug (which it really is). If a woman is under the influence of it, then she's gone. She'll do anything to get more. If she's not under the influence, then you’re gone. Nothing you do will matter if she doesn't feel it. If you doubt what I'm saying, ask the ...
Views: 1028 - How To Master Your Pickup Game - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2008 from Rod CortezWhen I was a lot younger I used to think that in order to master the game of picking up women I had to master technique. I thought I needed pick up lines, memorized material, and that I had to act "cool". While those 3 things helped a little bit, I actually picked up on more women when I had ...
Views: 910 - What Causes Women To Leave Men - Part 1 - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2008 from David DeAngeloWhy do women leave men? Interesting question, isn't it? We've all had women leave us... And we've all been in the situation, wondering why she was leaving... and willing to do literally anything to get her to stay. Read the following scenarios, and nod your head silently if you can identify ...
Views: 779 - How To Create Sexual Tension To Attract Women - Part 4 - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2008 from David DeAngelo1) Don’t take advantage of something. Let's say that the woman you're talking to is wearing a sexy outfit. She gets up and walks across the room to get something. She knows that you're going to be looking at her. But you don’t. When she turns around to come back, you're looking ...
Views: 1125 - How Long A Guy Should Wait To Call A Woman Back - Part 1 - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2008 from David DeAngeloIf you've seen the classic cult movie "Swingers", then you probably remember the part where the guys are discussing how long a guy should wait to call a woman after he's gotten her phone number. The scene really hits home for a lot of guys because it gets down to a real-world situation that we ...
Views: 1378 - DATING A PEREFCT TEN - Tips on scoring the ultimate hot girl - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2008 from Alex CoulsonDATING A PEREFCT TEN - Tips on scoring the ultimate hot girl Something to keep in mind is that attractive women and perfect tens are approached all the time, when they go out at night they're approached, when they go out during the day they're approached even when they're doing the grocery ...
Views: 1157 - How To Avoid Paying For Women's Attention On A Date - Part 1 - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2008 from David DeAngeloI want to talk to you about a topic that is always on the minds of men... It's the topic of paying for things for women. This includes paying for drinks and dinners, buying her gifts and taking her out to shows. The question is: "Should I pay?" Most guys feel obligated to pay if they go out ...
Views: 668 - How Long A Guy Should Wait To Call A Woman Back - Part 2 - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2008 from David DeAngeloIf you think about it, every situation is slightly different. One time you might meet a woman in the morning at coffee, and another time you might meet a woman at a club at 1 in the morning. If you wait too long to call her back, I think you run the risk of seeming like you're just using a ...
Views: 1527 - How To Act On Your First Date? - Part 1 - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2008 from David DeAngeloI have had so many readers write and ask me, “How should I act on the first date? What should we talk about? How do you keep the conversation interesting?”, that I felt I should address these points a bit further. The first thing to remember when you’re meeting up with a girl ...
Views: 741 - Orly The Matchmaker's Datng Tips - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2008 from Orly HadidaOrly's Rules for Success. 1. Dress to Impress. Be sure to look your best. First impressions are never forgotten. There’s never a second chance to make a first impression. 2. Do not go to a movie on the first introduction, or you will have no opportunity to get to know each other. 3. Do Not ...
Views: 961 - Body Language Dating Advice - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from David DeAngeloMany people agree that women are far more sensitive to body language than men are. I have to say that in my experience, women can detect all kinds of things from body language. Ask a female friend to describe what’s going on with a person by looking at them, and you’ll be surprised ...
Views: 872 - When You Meet On Your First Date - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from David DeAngeloWhen they arrive at your place, say ‘hi’ and invite them in for a minute while you get your coat or shoes. Then walk out and seem like YOU’RE IN A HURRY TO LEAVE. Most guys would try to get them to stay and get cozy with them. You want them to think that you’re not overly ...
Views: 691 - Ways Women Think About Men And How You Can Control This - Part 2 - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from David DeAngeloI’ll tell them that I was about to go do something (to remind myself and let them know that I have a life) and then say, “Well, let’s see… what’s your schedule for the next few days? (I choose a time based on her reply…) Why don’t we get together ...
Views: 875 - Ways Women Think About Men And How You Can Control This - Part 1 - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from David DeAngeloI believe that women see men with whom they get involved as either ‘long-term relationship’ material or ‘sex’ material. You have to make the choice about which category you’d like to be in. By the way, if you get involved sexually, you can usually extend that for as ...
Views: 826 - Nuggets Of Dating Advice Gold - Part 1 - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from David DeAngeloAlways end conversations, meetings, and phone calls first. I got this idea from the book The Rules by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider...You remember that book that was written about how to get a man to marry you? Well, it’s a great book. But I don’t think the authors would like the ...
Views: 794 - Online Dating Tips - What You Need To Know Before Dating Online - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from Michael LeeUsing the power of the internet, dating has certainly evolved to accommodate today's trendy lifestyle with what we call “online dating”. When you aren’t that fond of looking for a partner in the real world, or maybe you are just too timid to try, then dating on the internet ...
Views: 596 - Make Someone Fall In Love With You In 3 Easy Steps - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from Michael LeeTo make someone fall in love with you is a very tedious business. It involves a lot of fact-finding missions, as well as extreme ways to get the person to notice you. This is quite true in both male and female species - even animals do it in the wilds. The process to make someone fall in love ...
Views: 782(1 vote) - How to Avoid the Friend Zone: For Guys - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from Tiffany LardomitaWhenever a woman says "Let's just be friends", you can be assured that you did something to devalue yourself. Stay out of the Friend Zone with these easy tips. 1. Keep dating other people until you have "the talk". So many people find someone they really like and after a few dates they are ...
Views: 13287(4 votes) - Dating Humor That is Cocky and Funny - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from David DeAngeloHere’s how I mentally approach meeting a new woman: I’m cocky and funny, I steal their lines, I tease them, and I don’t ever give them a break. In my opinion, your most valuable asset, no matter your looks, height, age, or income – is humor. I don’t care if ...
Views: 1076 - Decoding a Gay Guy's Dating Profile - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2008 from Greg HalpenSo now you have the PERFECT profile on a reputable dating site like, MyPartner.com or OKCupid.com. One of the great features these sites have, is the ability to match you’re profile features to potential members who may meet your requirements. Add the human touch! Don’t let a ...
Views: 2427 - Dating Advice on How to Tease, Talk, and Seduce Women - Part 1 - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2008 from David DeAngeloWhen I first met one particular girl, I took her hand when she got into the car and held it for a few seconds... then took it away saying, “No hand holding this early”, as if it were her idea... then at lunch, I put out my hand for her to take it and then when she went to take it, I ...
Views: 1226 - Top Things That Can Turnoff Your Date - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2012 from Janet MartinIn the fast-paced society that we live in today, a lot of people are impatient and are always in a hurry about lots of things. The same is true even in the dating scene. But you may only be given an opportunity to impress your date once, so you better be good and ready when that time comes. ...
Views: 686 - Dating Success When Approaching Very Attractive Women - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2008 from David DeAngeloI’m going to remind you of something that I talked about earlier in this book: Most attractive women are approached in one way or another all the time by men. I was watching one of Chris Rock’s stand up routines recently; Chris was telling the women in the audience that anytime a ...
Views: 771 - Dating Advise For Newly Singles - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2008 from Clarence LeeThere's no doubt about it, the end of a relationship is an extremely traumatic affair. It represents a huge change in one's life, not to mention the hurt and pain. Like all traumatic events, time will make things better but there are things that you can do to make it easier. Here is a list of ...
Views: 774 - ***Who's Your Daddy? A Father's Day Tribute - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2008 from Debi BerndtAs father’s day approaches, many women either acknowledge and appreciate the gifts their fathers have given them or recoil because of how he “wronged” them. An important aspect of having a healthy relationship is to heal your relationship with your parents. Like it or not, the type of men that ...
Views: 1046 - The Pros And Cons Of The Online Dating Service List - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2008 from Kirk BrownOnline dating services are everywhere. It’s hard not to notice them. They place advertisements on your television screens, neighborhood billboards, radio stations, and on your favorite websites but one question always arises if you are the slightest bit interested in joining one. Are they ...
Views: 655 - Why Men Fear Commitments - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2008 from datingexpert expertIf you want to look for a committed man look in a mental hospital -Mae West Men love their freedom. To a man, his own decision means everything – and I do mean everything! As a part of natural evolution, men specialize in problem solving and decision making much like women who became ...
Views: 519 - Signs Of Romantic Attraction - How To Detect Romantic Attraction And Respond Appropriately - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2008 from Michael LeeSigns of romantic attraction are among the biggest questions of men and women today. In this busy world where crossed signals are still common, some people mistake gestures and body language as signs of romantic attraction, only to fall flat on the face when rejected. There is a way to tell if ...
Views: 3563 - How To Seduce A Guy Without Breaking A Sweat - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2008 from Michael LeeIf you want to know how to seduce a guy, you need to understand that men are born with a primal urge, and requires the same to set them aflame with love. Men are quite simple in their way of life - they often act on impulse with various instances in their immediate environment without even ...
Views: 922 - Signals That a Guy Likes You - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2008 from Michael LeeWhen it comes to knowing whether a guy likes a girl or not, girls tend to overanalyze. A smile means so much more to a girl than to a guy; and while the guy is still thinking of how to ask her out, she’s already planned where to buy color-coordinated towels for their new bedroom. ...
Views: 1109 - Being a man - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2008 from Alex CoulsonIf you're a typical nice guy, considerate, genuine, likes to talk and have intelligent conversations with women then you MAY have been in this situation before. Do you ever find that the more you talk to her (without escalating physically) you end up talking yourself out of closing the deal. ...
Views: 897 - How Can You Tell If A Boy Likes You, And How Do You React? - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2008 from Michael LeeThere are so many questions running in a person’s mind during the adolescent years. For girls, one of the biggest questions is: “How can you tell if a boy likes you?” Well, while there is no clear-cut way to know whether a boy likes you, you can watch his body signals and ...
Views: 1010 - The "Date Canceller" and other Feminine Games - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2008 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Doc! I've noticed a trend in my dating life that is really starting to piss me off. It's rare for me to make plans with a girl and to not have her try to cancel on me or suddenly be "too busy" to keep our date. I'm so tired of games like that. Are they trying to see how much I want them or ...
Views: 959 - Meeting Women, It All Comes Down To Your Dating Skills - Part 2 - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2008 from David DeAngeloOne area that I’ve studied extensively is what’s commonly called ‘internal dialogue’ or ‘self-talk’. This is simply the way that you talk to yourself inside your head. Most people are talking to themselves all day long. But most people are talking NEGATIVELY ...
Views: 734 - How To Call A Woman: The First Phone Call - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2008 from Tiffany Lardomita(The First Phone Call After You Get Her Number) I’m terribly disappointed by the men I’ve met lately who don’t know how to call a woman. They have no purpose or aim and are just calling because they ‘got the number’. Yuck. Follow these steps before a woman pulls ...
Views: 4017 - Flirting Signals Of Attraction - How To Read Flirting Signals - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2008 from Michael LeeFlirting signals of attraction are among the clear-cut ways to know whether to make the next move or to just enjoy the friendship and the company of the other person. If used well, flirting signals of attraction could be the spark of a very rewarding relationship. To flirt, as defined by the ...
Views: 1472 - The Fiery Narangha Rose - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2008 from Timothy SpencerThere’s no doubt that the appeal of roses have stood the test of time, and perhaps we can find an explanation for this through Greek mythology. The minor Greek goddess Chloris came across a dead nymph and she was so taken aback by her beauty that she turned her into a flower. Aphrodite ...
Views: 1121 - Send A Strong Message: Rose Combination Recommendations - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2008 from Timothy SpencerGiving roses to someone for a special occasion - or for no real occasion at all - is a tradition that people have been doing for centuries. Though the rose is the universal symbol for love, it is by no means restricted to expressing romantic love. Since we've already attached particular meanings ...
Views: 1021 - Pink Roses In Myth And Legend - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2008 from Timothy SpencerAlthough flowers are usually considered as symbols of love and affection, pink roses have different and often contrasting meanings depending on where you look. For instance, an ancient Roman myth narrates how Apollo transformed Rhoanthe into a pink rose when she became the protector of women ...
Views: 1272 - Flirting Tips For Shy Girls - How To Flirt No Matter How Shy You Are - by Submitted on Jun 09, 2008 from Michael LeeIn this article, you’ll discover some great flirting tips for shy girls. But first, imagine this scenario. A cute guy is drinking all by himself at the bar. You’re alone and spot him giving you a little smile. A moment later, he turns his head to look at you again with inviting ...
Views: 1440 - 8 Don'ts Of Dating - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2008 from Cherry NorrisSo many questions. So many rules. When is it appropriate to have sex? When do you call? What do you do when he doesn't do what he says he's gonna to do? So many "do's and don'ts" of dating. It ain't easy. But to help you ease through the pain...here are 8 "Don'ts" to never "Do" in any ...
Views: 1291 - ***Ten Ways To Increase Dating Confidence - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2008 from Debi BerndtInstead of getting a tummy tuck or eye lift, you may want to consider these ten ways to increase your dating confidence for an inner makeover. 1. Be conscious of your self-talk. Identify the voice inside that doesn’t often speak nicely to you. Become a witness to those defeating thoughts from ...
Views: 1081 - Reading A Man's Body Language Is Like Watching A Silent Movie - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2008 from Michael LeeReading a man's body language might seem almost impossible to the average woman. Considering his primal nature, driven by sudden urges and adventure, he practically shows little signs at all. In truth, men might look silent on the outside, with the entire still and stiff pose, but they are ...
Views: 851 - Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back - How To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back Without Making These Mistakes - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2008 from Tim RagerA breakup is tough and there is a lot of confusion and emotional stress involved. And if you still love your ex and miss him, you're probably actively looking for possible ways to getting your ex boyfriend back in your arms. There are plenty of things you can do if you approach it the right way ...
Views: 376 - How I Discovered What Works With Dating Women - Part 1 - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2008 from David DeAngeloAfter many years of studying, researching, and trying many different things, I’ve now realized that there is a conspiracy against men being successful with women. It’s very real, and it’s very pervasive in our culture. Let me explain. Most men that I know have some kind of ...
Views: 930 - Getting a Girl To Date Me - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2008 from Dr. Dennis NederI’ve been friends with this girl all through high school but since December we have been best friends. The past 2 months we have brought our friendship to a new level - friends with benefits you could say. She has been going out with another guy for about 2 years but they were on a "break" ...
Views: 700 - Date Hookup: Best Way To Let It All Out If You're Cheated - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2008 from Christopher JonesI hate being tied down by only one boyfriend, I want to date and hookup with as many people as I can. I just got out of a long and boring 4 year relationship and now I jut want to get out there and date or hookup with as many people as humanly possible. I realize that sounds incredibly dirty, ...
Views: 635 - The Latitude At Free Dating Websites - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2008 from Christopher JonesI want to start this off by thanking myself for joining a free dating website. I spent so much time going to bars and clubs with my friends hoping some guy would come pick me up. I am grateful that I spent all of that time in the bar though, it taught me one thing; what type man I should stay ...
Views: 600 - Mary Is Mine, Thanks To Online Dating - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2008 from Christopher JonesRecap: the girl I’ve had a crush on since high school in on line dating and I just messaged her. Within two hours, she responded to my message, “wow, you’re looking really good Danny! It’s been what? Eight years since I’ve seen you?! You’ve really filled ...
Views: 592 - Nurturing My Romantic Desire With Mary, An Interesting Story - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2008 from Christopher JonesHave you ever had that one person that all your life you couldn’t get out of your head… you know they don’t really like you, or know that you even exist, but no matter what, they are forever embedded in your heart? There was this girl I went to school with years ago, her name ...
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