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It makes a big difference to wellbeing when you learn to think optimistically. When bad things happen it is natural to be upset. What you feel is automatic but you can learn to control what you think about the situation and what you do next. When you think and act positively it helps get you ... Views: 1207
What Children Need to be Happy, Confident and Successful is being identified by the research evidence emerging from Positive Psychology. This research focuses on giving children the tools they need to manage their lives successfully.
I believe that when you prepare children for adult life ... Views: 1267
I have been working with a group of early years professionals in my role as a Child and Educational Psychologist, they are a campaign group who are working together to raise the awareness of good early years practice. Over the past few months we have been debating and researching best practice ... Views: 1559
Motivated people do get better results there’s no doubt about that. Motivation probably counts for more than ability because persistence, effort and problem solving are key skills to overcome challenge and stay focused on your goals. So where does motivation come from and can you help children ... Views: 1518
We recently had World Mental Health Day, a great reminder of the importance of supporting all those who are affected by depression, anxiety, stress and other mental health issues. It set me thinking about the need to talk about wellbeing and wondering why it is still a faintly awkward thing to ... Views: 2090
Children love to play and become totally absorbed in games they choose for themselves. Everyone agrees that play is important for young children but once children reach school age it can become crowded out by a busy timetable of structured activities and homework. But play is not just a time ... Views: 1530
You may be thinking to yourself, “I’ve mastered peek-a-boo! What else is there to learn?” However, what you may not know is how the power of child-centered play can unlock a whole new world for your baby.
Child-centered play is strongly encouraged by pediatricians because they see a ... Views: 797
With so many therapies, approaches and treatments out there to help deal with autism, it can be difficult to decide which will be the best fit for what you need and want to focus on for your own circumstances. Here are 5 important aspects to think about to make this difficult decision a no ... Views: 977
For some people in this world, doing what they love is a normal part of life. And for others this is nothing more than an idea that sounds good and is far from there day to day experience.
To do what ones loves and enjoys might have not even been considered by this person. Life can be seen as ... Views: 2144
When it comes to how one experiences life, expectations play an incredibly important role. Not only are they influencing how one perceives every part of life, they’re also affecting ones emotional and mental well being.
This means that what one attracts into their life and what one sees in ... Views: 5407
A major dilemma young people face is a desire to be perfect. This obsession hinders them and can have disastrous results. For example, consider this letter I received from a parent:
“My son is six years old and is going to be in the second grade. He is developing a very pessimistic attitude ... Views: 1742
Well, it was really interesting to see what people thought and came up with as the answer. When I told them the answer, most of them initially were surprised and following an explanation from me they then completely understood how it applied to their child.
I am sure you can come up with a ... Views: 783
As a business owner, I (and many others I know) would probably consider myself as a ‘control freak’ but it serves me well in the role I am in, because there are many things I need to manage in order for them to be successful e.g. family programmes, ezines, public speaking, parent support groups, ... Views: 783
When it comes to healing or moving on from the past; some people progress a lot faster than others. There are also other situations where some people are perpetually caught up in their past and feel as if nothing is changing.
Now, the past that one has had and the pain and trauma that may ... Views: 2290
Some children have trouble managing negative emotions. In children, emotional problems are usually manifested as behavioral problems. All parents want their children to lead happy and successful lives. So, when parents observe their child having frequent angry outburst; and when their child ... Views: 1437
It’s Tuesday morning… vacuum day. You sweep through your son’s room getting the mundane chore done as quickly as possible, when suddenly, an ordinary looking journal falls to the ground. As you shake your head at the disorganization and bend over to pick up the opened journal, you notice “Dear ... Views: 1453
This week I have been reading Welcome to Your Child’s Brain: How the Mind Grows from Conception to College by Sandra Aamodt, Ph.D. and Sam Wang, Ph.D. The authors describe brain development and child development, linking the two in a very instructive way. Along the way, they debunk a number of ... Views: 1099
Kids love to take use of colors in different forms. With Columbus day coloring pages, kids can have fun in coloring them along with which they can even learn something important about the famous personality who discovered America. Every year Columbus Day is celebrated with full pomp and show and ... Views: 1325
If I were limited to one recommendation that would improve relationships between parent and child, especially with teenagers, it would be listen to learn. Listening and valuing young people’s feelings and ideas is what promotes the ability of parents to effectively communicate with ... Views: 3435
Emotions can be pleasurable or they can be painful and being human means that we have the potential to experience the full spectrum of emotions. I say potential, because there are ways that we can stop them from appearing.
Pleasure and pain is something we are all familiar with and this ... Views: 2495
I recently wrote about the complicated feelings that parents have when their child is diagnosed with a learning disability. While these feelings are all a normal part of coping with a special needs child in your family, they can interfere with your well being and your ability to advocate for ... Views: 1506
Innocence, sweetness, inner contentment and sheer happiness, such flamboyant and merry words can be used synonymous to childhood but with the onset of budding technology, the innocence and the creativity of childhood is losing its battle to the smartness and the brilliance of kids. Both have ... Views: 1340
Associations have incredible power and they are occurring in many areas of life. Ones relationships with: family, friends, lovers and professional relationships are all being affected by associations. As well as ones experience with the world and to material things.
Brands rely heavily on the ... Views: 2270
That’s how we all want to start the school year—with our best feet forward. This morning as I returned from walking my dog, I met a neighbor Mom and her two young children. They were returning from a trial walk to the local elementary school. The older child is starting kindergarten, and they ... Views: 1517
Abuse is usually something that starts of as external in nature. This means that one is abused through the people around them and this could be limited to one environment or it could happen in a number of environments.
The type of abuse that I am talking about here is the abuse that goes in ... Views: 2371
We are into the second full week of August, and I have received my first call about a child who is anxious about school starting. The reminders are everywhere. The advertisements are on television for back to school supplies and clothes. Children with learning disabilities and others who are ... Views: 1589
Oh gosh, I remember the first (and only, thank God!) time my child had a tantrum in a big store. Not pleasant!
You can’t just leave him there as you would at home, fighting it off on his own until he gives up. You can’t grab and drag, because you don’t want to be that parent. You can’t reason ... Views: 1663
Have you ever heard of "conduct disorder"? Well, in case you haven't, you might like to know that it's one of more than 120 disorders listed at depression-guide.com.
If you are anxious, shy, or not focused, these are also disorders. Just about every emotion is today considered by the ... Views: 4012
A party comes to life not only with the people attending it but also with the arrangements that are made. Arrangements are especially important in kids' parties or parties where kids also attend. Kids are an impatient lot and you need to have arrangements that can keep them busy for the two odd ... Views: 1133
Codependency causes so much unhappiness. Research shows that codependency is learned in families and passed on generationally. It prevents the development of healthy, independently functioning individuals. When parents are codependent, codependency gets transmitted, unless they’re self-aware and ... Views: 3177
Yesterday did not turn out as planned. My husband and I offered a ride to church to a sweet, confused friend, and she gratefully accepted. Unfortunately, when we picked her up, she had locked herself out of her house, and her husband had left already. After church her husband was still not ... Views: 1215
With the range of programs and services available to parents of children with autism, it can be confusing and overwhelming to choose the most appropriate therapy option. In my experience working with families, there are several highly effective therapy programs that are significantly improving ... Views: 1674
We have the freedom to choose how we act, what we say, how we respond to situations, how we treat other people, and how we deal with an impulse. We also choose our self-talk.
Each choice, no matter how small, is always accompanied by a cost, a consequence, or a result. Economists refer to ... Views: 2126
Folks, it's official! There is a new mamma in town! This Sunday morning, Jersey Shore star Snooki gave birth to her first child, a lovely baby boy named Lorenzo Dominic LaValle.
The reality TV star and her fiance, Jionni LaValle, welcomed 6-pound, 5-ounce Lorenzo Dominic LaValle into the ... Views: 1108
No two of us are alike. We all have likes and dislikes, challenges and strengths. But we are similar in that we are social animals and we live in a social world. Some of us may thoroughly enjoy making social connections and others may view it as a chore or an intrusion into our world.
As ... Views: 1461
It is mandatory for parents to give basics training in self defense for kids to their children. The training involves recognizing strangers amid known faces, sensing danger in advance and keeping patience even in dangerous situations. Since this training is provided for free, parents shouldn’t ... Views: 3504
The term attachment is often used in the area of relationships and to describe what kind of relationship one had with their primary caregiver as a child. This first attachment plays a massive role in our development as a child and in how we are as adults.
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A playground is an outdoor area designated for children’s activities. There is a variety of heavy-duty equipment in an open space for children to climb, crawl, dig, slide, jump, hang and run. The function of the playground is to stimulate the child’s physical bodies and get them active and ... Views: 1855
When we think of summer breaks it means that mothers need to work extra to keep their children busy and not just busy but also making sure that they utilize their time in doing something creative and knowledgeable which also adds to their learning process. In fact why just summer holidays, be ... Views: 1462
All parents want the best for their children and want to see them succeed in school, something that often sets the stage for the rest of their life. If they are performing poorly or seem to lack interest in academic achievement, that can be frustrating for you. There are some strategies, ... Views: 1542
Crime graph is increasing day by day and latest trend is criminal activities show that even kids are not spared by unsocial elements. Children face physical abuse in addition to loot and snatching by the goons. In this situation it is mandatory for every parent to care of its child. Ideally ... Views: 1849
Time and again parents are always looking for the perfect gift for their children. In as much as there are so many things that you can ever buy for your child as a gift, most people still have a hard time figuring out what to best give the baby. However, with the personalized baby gifts with ... Views: 1491
When children are struggling with severe family problems, abuse, financial difficulty in the family, or other types of serious concerns, Jens Place Group Home Ontario is there to help. Jen's place as a quality, nurturing environment that provides care to male and female adolescents who are ... Views: 1110
If you are a parent with teenagers, it can be hard these days to keep track of them. Sometimes they may tell you they are at one place when they end up somewhere else. This is why mobile phone tracking was invented. It allows you to track your child's mobile phone and see exactly where they are ... Views: 2297
Emotions are part of being human and this means that they play a vital role in each of our lives This could be to inform one of what is going on in their immediate environment or to do with something that is being triggered from their past for example.
However, no matter what their reasons ... Views: 7326
Are you a Christian struggling with boundaries? If so, you may be concerned about what you are modeling to your daughter. As a parent of a daughter, you want her to be treated well by the men she will date and the man she will marry. This article will show you how to teach your daughter not to ... Views: 2131
If learning is what we value, then we ought to value the process of learning as much as the result of learning.
By nature, people are attracted to activities where they feel free of psychological or emotional pain. Learning is promoted in a climate where people feel safe and cared for. The ... Views: 2216
Studies and researches have shown that initial five years of a child are the most critical ones from the point of view of learning. Their capacity to learn new things is at its highest ebb during this period. Children of this age group can be compared to a piece of sponge that is ready to absorb ... Views: 1828
Rev. Susan A. Haberkorn
July 23, 2012
Have you ever found yourself in what seemed like a battle of wills with your child? Are you stumped as to why their behavior is so different from what you expect and want?
As parents, we often expect our children to instantly obey every command; and ... Views: 1469
Our parental “job” includes instilling wisdom in our children.
There are good reasons why parents would like to find an alternative to using the word “No” with their children.
You don’t want to HAVE to motivate your child to “do the right thing.”
Wouldn’t you love sensible ideas to bring as ... Views: 1396