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So you want to know how to manifest reality, right?Actually you're already doing it. You're creating realityevery second of every minute of every hour of every day.But I suspect you don't like what you are creating.
And you know why? Its because you're creating by default.What do I mean by ... Views: 1179
What does it mean to manifest a desire? Lets look at thewords manifest and desire. Manifest means to offer proof,attest to or to display clearly.
So when we say manifest a desire, we say to display yourdesire as having been fulfilled or to offer proof ofsomething.
For example if your desire is ... Views: 1151
What is it that makes one man go where others don't daretread? And that keeps him going even when the odds seem soinsurmountable? When others around him expect the worst, andobstacle upon obstacle, cause him to wonder if perhaps, justperhaps, everybody might be right and he may be crazy?
That ... Views: 1324
What triggers stress for you?
Most people think they know exactly what pushes their buttons, but they're going for the low-hanging fruit. It's the stuff that's hanging in the hard-to-reach branches that tends to multiply our feelings of frustration, exhaustion and disconnection.
One ... Views: 1226
I first heard the term “spiritual suicide” used by motivational speaker, Les Brown. What is spiritual suicide and how do you know if you’re committing it? It is the killing of that part of oneself that is associated with the feelings and the mind as well as the killing of real meaning or ... Views: 9243
With the amount of excellent material available in books, courses and on the internet these days, it's unlikely that you are short of ideas about how to improve your life.
But how many great ideas have you read and then forgotten? Probably a fair few, even most of them, if you're honest with ... Views: 1258
Life Coach Advice
As we rush through our busy days accomplishing our tasks– work, kids, shopping, cleaning, and eating on the go, we often complain that we don’t feel good. It is important that we take an active conscious roll in how we feel. By just slowing down and taking a few seconds for ... Views: 2196
Responsibility. Webster defines being responsible as: 1 a : liable to be called on to answer b (1) : liable to be called to account as the primary cause, motive, or agent (2) : being the cause
I rather like that when I think of what MY role is in YOUR life. First off, you are calling on me to ... Views: 1616
Uncover the Blocks; Build the Bridges to a Future That Fits
Most of us have at least one area in our lives that could use tweaking or improving.
We tend to be ‘repeat offenders’ with the same basic issues showing up but disguised as different circumstances and relationships.
We don’t ... Views: 1240
I am amazed by the number of people that I hear from who apologize for only being able to volunteer one or two hours a week. Some of them don't feel like the time they have to contribute can make a difference. Some even avoid volunteering because they consider their potential contribution a ... Views: 1429
Can finding a stray rubber band flood a person's heart with warmth and joy? Yes! Especially if you are participating in a rubber band collection contest with childhood friends. Long ago, a friend challenged me to compete in such an event. I said yes and vowed to win. I frequently rode on my bike ... Views: 825
Or should I say “Well Balanced Moms Are More Fun”? Let me ask you… When was the last time you had lunch with some girl friends, or went on a girl’s night out? When was the last time you went on a romantic weekend getaway with your spouse? If you can’t remember, we definitely have to talk.
It’s ... Views: 1118
Continued from Part 1: The 9 ways we create unconsciously:
6. Momentum from the recent past in this life
Manifesting, from the time we think or feel a powerful thought to the time we experience our creation, can take a while. Sometimes, even though we have changed our thoughts and beliefs ... Views: 1984
When an opportunity arises to change your life for the better, your fear will generate excuses to spoil it for you. Each excuse is a single piece in the loser’s jigsaw. The end picture is an unhappy picture of you. Here’s how you can build a happier one.
Let’s say you’ve seen someone you really ... Views: 1496
OK, so it wasn’t quite that big of a deal. But I did find the “T” that mysteriously escaped from the word “not” in one of my articles a few months ago. Yep, I found it all right. Right at the end of what was intended to be the word “though”. Of course, that misplacement resulted in a stupid ... Views: 1226
Every day is a gift, but some sure don’t seem like it, do they?
I often suggest to my clients that they use this higher goal to help them achieve a happier life: “Wake Up In A Good Mood”.
Now in order to achieve that, you’ll have to get personal. My waking up in a good mood will be ... Views: 1180
The following article describes ten salient points that could harness and improve human relationships
1. Putting Yourself into others shoe
Most of the time we get agitated and annoyed when people react in an unprofessional /abrupt manner. At this juncture, if we could pause for a while and ... Views: 806
“It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is
not possible to find it elsewhere.” Agnes Repplier
Like computer programs, we can be misconfigured and need to re-program our subconscious minds.
Happiness is a subjective state, a temporary one by necessity. We can't know we are ... Views: 1374
A Thankful Heart Is the Way to Happiness
Why do people go through life looking for happiness? Dogs and cats look for food and comfort, but they certainly don't go to all the trouble that people do in their continual search for happiness. I suppose the reason is that we are the only ones who ... Views: 1378
One evening last summer, as the temperatures soared in Arizona, I noticed that my plants were suffering. Wilted, laying over in frustration, drained from a day of work in the hot sun they were very unhappy and stressed plants.
Of course I went out immediately, gave them a cool shower, and ... Views: 1274
Myrna, 38 and a successful physician, sought my help because she often felt inadequate. While she really valued herself as a doctor, she did not value herself in her important relationships with friends and family. In addition, she said she wanted to be in a loving relationship but she took no ... Views: 3409
The Constitution of the United States affirms that each person is endowed with the inalienable rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. This is true for everyone on the planet, not just people residing in the US; although in this country, you are provided with the freedoms necessary ... Views: 1171
A funny thing happened on the way to writing an article about Gratitude. I changed my consciousness.
For quite a while, I’ve been attaching "I am grateful for"in front of all of my affirmations. I had heard, and accepted, the words of others who spoke about the importance of gratitude. But ... Views: 818
Did you know that researchers can predict what your energy will be like in the afternoon and evening by knowing your habits in the morning? This is because how you start the day is so powerful in determining the kind of day you are going to have. Just think about your start to the day. Do you ... Views: 933
Make resolutions that are more about how you want to be – how you want to relate to the world – than about specific changes in behavior. They should be spiritual goals. Changes in behavior don’t last unless preceded by a change in consciousness. New Years Resolutions, to be effective, must be ... Views: 1179
Many years ago my family and I used to go to my then husband’s parent’s home for holiday meals. His mother was an excellent cook and enjoyed preparing meals for us. She spent days preparing all the season’s delights and we came to the table eager to begin the festivities. Invariably when 20 ... Views: 801
"Three Pillars of Righteous Living"
Controlling Your Thoughts to Control Your Life.
“Righteous Living means defining what you allow yourself to experience and receive influence from, so you will preserve the best mind-set which allows you to achieve success.”
- Lance E. Ong
Have you ever ... Views: 1936
For most of us, a new year means new resolutions, new goals and new motivation. However, sometimes by the end of January,most of the resolutions and goals have weakened in the face of everyday living. Having your best year ever is easy though.
No, really! Follow these three steps and you ... Views: 659
Depression is more than that sense of feeling "down" or discouraged at times when things are not going well. Depression involves sadness, pessimism, a preoccupation with personal problems, and perhaps self-pity, anguish, crying, and hopelessness.
Symptoms of depression can range from mild ... Views: 1414
As we close out one year and ring in another, many people tend to get sentimental and reflect upon the ending of another year. What has your year been like? A year comprises:
• 365 days
• 8,760 hours
• 525,600 minutes
• 31,536,000 seconds
How is your year ending? One dictionary definition ... Views: 1198
Are you actually aware of what you are feeling right now? Would you know how to change that feeling? Would you know how to get rid of it? So many of us seem to resist and fight our feelings without really being aware of what the feeling actually is and when we stop fighting, we can actually ... Views: 1517
At Christmas time all my friends seemed happy, friendly and excited for the big day when Santa Claus would deliver presents to their house. My father was Jewish and my mother gentile which was why when I was growing up Christmas was more of a celebration of family getting together, eating, ... Views: 1818
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Life Vitamins - by Kathy Gates, Professional Life Coach
Everybody needs a way to stay healthy in their life, not only physically, but emotionally and mentally as well. In that vein, most of us know that a good way to help stay physically healthier is to take a vitamin every day.
But did you know that a great way to help you stay emotionally and ... Views: 1210
We’re coming down to the wire. How’s it feeling to you?
Why do I ask that? Well, whatever you’re celebrating, and whatever your religious orientation, Christmas is a celebration, a celebration that for many has a spiritual basis to it. That is, it’s supposed to be merry, at the least, and ... Views: 1300
When I was 39 I scheduled a doctor’s appointment to have a lump in my left breast checked. After a mammogram, the doctor said that there appeared to be a problem on my right side. Well, being the expert in all things at that time in my life, I told them there must be a mistake. I came in for ... Views: 1300
As human beings, we’re creatures of habit. No wonder making a major life change is so hard! But it can be done. Follow these steps to get your change in motion, one easy step at a time:
1. Identify the price of maintaining the status quo. Not making the change you know you need to make is ... Views: 17705
Every day there seems to be something new to learn, something new to tackle, something new that you have to do to keep up. If you don’t keep up, look out, because you may just get left behind! And then who knows what it will take to ever catch up again. It is absolutely exhausting. Not to ... Views: 2007
Are you moving towards or against what you want?
Every action you take supports something, some result.
The question is - are you taking the actions that supportthe results you would rather have in your life?
If not, are they supporting something opposite of what youwant or are they neutral? ... Views: 921
Understanding that painful emotional experiences are a result of belief systems that no longer serve us is one of the first steps in beginning to recreate one’s life.
Life provides many opportunities to, as Carl Jung would say, “make the subconscious conscious” – that is, to reveal to our ... Views: 786
I believe that everyone wants to feel happier -- sometimes
they just don't know where to begin. So here are ten
sure-fire ways to increase your happiness quotient - and
achieve your goals more easily than before!
1. Don't expect perfection from yourself or anyone else.
Don't forget this is ... Views: 694
I could hear the baby crying all the way outside. I walked into the house where my mother and sister, holding her screaming baby, were both tense, frustrated. My mother had a look of absolute exhaustion and total resignation on her face.
I took the baby, patted him, whispered to him, ... Views: 914
Partial Excerpt, Chapter 5
Being Radiant
Being radiant is being centered in your divine nature and truth at all times.
It is viewing yourself as a spiritual gift and as the creator of your life’s circumstances instead of viewing yourself as a victim of your life’s circumstances.
How you view ... Views: 1453
Last Sunday I was sitting in on a class we conduct for newcomers at our church. One of our pastors said, “If we don’t change, we aren’t growing, and if we aren’t growing, we are dying”. Isn’t that so true? If you want your life to remain status quo, then your best guarantee is to resist ... Views: 1234
Top 10 Reasons to Stop Facing Reality
By Sue Frederick, author of Dancing at Your Desk and BrilliantDay:7 Steps to Turn Your Day Around
“You need to face reality!” How often have you heard that? How often have you said that while talking yourself out of pursuing a dream career?
From now on, ... Views: 1485
The pursuit of happiness is one of the primary goals of all humans. This, along with life and liberty, was declared as an essential right in the US declaration of independence. Every religion and philosophy has offered its pathway to happiness. Happiness is a state of mind and there are many ... Views: 756
So much has been in the news recently about boards of directors, seemingly to be asleep at the wheel while major corporations crumbled. Most boards are designed to provide oversight and guidance to the direction of a business. Good or bad, boards of directors effect the direction of a ... Views: 1337
Drama occurs all around us. We don't think of ourselves asa drama queen or king. "isn't that a movie?" isn't that aneighbor, co-worker, friend, or in-law? For artists, dramacontributes to their creative production. There is a darkerside. One we don't want to admit to. At least not ... Views: 1359
It’s that time of year again and with Thanksgiving just around the corner, this is the perfect time to take inventory of our lives and the perfect time to focus on the amazing and magical effects of thankfulness, appreciation and gratitude.
If you want to be the magnetic force in your own ... Views: 1321