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- Can a Kiss Between Friends Ever Be Forgiven? - by Success Coach - by Hey Doc Love,
I'm a college student who considers himself a "nice guy," and I've been seeing a girl for about two months now. We started out as friends, but I actually wanted more (though I was afraid to tell her so). Luckily, she made the first move and kissed me.
We both successfully got ...
Views: 1985 - Is Love Stronger than Prophecy? - by Hi Doc,
I need help on how to approach a woman at my college. Her name is Elizabeth and I wish to ask her out to dinner, but I am worried that she will say no. Why? Because a man at her church prophesized to her that she would marry a preacher some day and travel the world with him, and she ...
Views: 887 - How to Deal with the Bait and Switch at Work - by Success Coach - by Hi Doc,
I'm a Desktop Support Technician for a major company and I'm attracted to a woman in my office. This started when I serviced her computer one afternoon, and she struck up a conversation with me. Her idle chatter and the way she kept leaning over me while I worked made me think that she ...
Views: 1098 - THE "SYSTEM" GIVES YOU THE WINNING EDGE WITH WOMEN - PART ONE - by Success Coach - by Guys, are you dating someone special and you don't want to lose her like all the others? Are you getting bad vibes because your girlfriend of six months only gets migraines when you try to kiss her goodnight at her doorstep? Does it bother you that your wife is meeting too many perverts in chat ...
Views: 998 - Does a Guy Have to be Cruel to be Kind? - by Success Coach - by Women Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen
Hey Doc,
Sometimes I think the advice I get from you and put into practice may work too well. I sometimes unintentionally attract young ladies that I'm really not interested in. When I learn of their crushes, I treat them coolly until they get the message. I ...
Views: 2154 - Do Some Women Flirt While Their Boyfriends Are Away? - by Women Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen
Hi Doc,
I met a girl at a nightclub whom I was sure had interest in me. This was due to her body language, and the fact that she told me almost everything about herself within 45 minutes of conversation.
I invited her to my upcoming graduation party, and she ...
Views: 786 - How Does an Old Fashioned Girl Show She's Interested? - by Women Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen
Hi Doc!
My name is Mark. I'm 27 years old and I've read your Dating Dictionary. I live in a rural Christian Homeschooling community - which is kind of like an Amish community, except we like to drink and smoke cigars.
The families here practice "Christian ...
Views: 4987 - The Single Experience - It's in the Starts - by Some more baying at the moon from.....
The Single Experience
It's in the Stars
Well, I thought that being single already had enough hurtles to bound, but I have found yet another. Along with all the other impossibilities involved in ‘second time around’ relationships, it now seems that on top ...
Views: 704 - *Being Your Best - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2007 from Debi BerndtEveryone has unlimited potential, but they seem to hold themselves back from their greatness. They get distracted, talk themselves out of their dreams as if they were unattainable anyway and ultimately feel unsatisfied. It is a tragic cycle of dreaming, getting disappointed and giving up. Most ...
Views: 1355 - All About Lying - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Doc: About a year ago, I was unemployed, and my girlfriend's mother told her that if I didn't get a job, that she wouldn't allow her to see me anymore. She then called and told me this. Right then and there I made a terrible decision – I lied. I lied telling her that I had just gotten a ...
Views: 983 - How to Tell if A Woman is Sexually Attracted to You - by If a single woman is not as sexually interested in you for romance as you are in her, then your relationship has a basic weakness that may be an insolvable problem.
In other words, if you are the only one making sexual advances, if you feel as though it's a battle to get her interested or ...
Views: 13277(5 votes) - Absolutely the Best Way to End a Date With Single Women - by End the date before she does. Example: The evening is winding down. It's pretty obvious that you aren't going to "get lucky" this night for any love, sex, or romance, but you hang on 'till the bitter end hoping that the chance in a million shot will come through. Wrong! Instead you alertly ...
Views: 782 - 10 Qualities to Look for in a Long-term Motivated to Marry™ Partner - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2014 from Amy SchoenDo you know what kind of person would make you happy? What qualities would you want someone you would want to marry have? As human beings, we all respond to certain gestures and behaviors positively. This dating advice for women and men are to describe which qualities you need to have on ...
Views: 4579 - How to Write Online Dating Profiles: 12 Quick Tips - by 1. Writing a good online dating profile utilizes many of the same skills as writing in general. To avoid becoming intimidated by the process, write like you speak. Pretend you are writing to your best friend. Then simply begin writing as quickly as you can, without taking the time to read ...
Views: 920 - What is Love? - by A journey into the unknown
Everyone has an opinion on love, but few are brave enough to define it. This universal and apparently inconsistent emotion seems almost incapable of definition. The Biomatch.com description of love is: The affinity experienced between two people who are naturally ...
Views: 853 - Can This Marriage Be Saved? - by Submitted on May 25, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederDear Doctor, I am 26 years old woman, married for about 3 years. I am a positive person with self-esteem and confidence in the future. I have a great CV with high education and experience. However it is not easy to find good income work in the country I live in where most good positions rely ...
Views: 820 - Going Through Hell - by Submitted on May 25, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Doc: My fiancé just left me about a week ago she says she needs to find her self and figure out what she wants. We were together for just over 3 years and have our problems like any relationship. I have a hard time expressing my deep feelings and at times I am independent and distant I ...
Views: 883 - A Few New Ideas For Developing Relationships. Excerpt from "101 Ways To Romance A Pretty Woman." - by A Few New Ideas Here:
Some Do's:
A. Always keep a good sense of humor.
B. Read novels. That way you will have a new topic of discussion every time you meet. Become a story teller.
C. Talk about the things that are most important to her, but don't be judgmental or give advice unless ...
Views: 1118 - All I want for the holidays is...SOLITUDE! - by Single people, especially those new to a community, experience a unique social challenge as holidays approach. Casual friends and colleagues avoid us. Holiday conversation dies when we enter the room. Hovering in the air is not only mistletoe but also the unspoken question, "Must I invite this ...
Views: 863 - Going Through Hell - by Submitted on May 16, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Doc: My fiancé just left me about a week ago she says she needs to find her self and figure out what she wants. We were together for just over 3 years and have our problems like any relationship. I have a hard time expressing my deep feelings and at times I am independent and distant I ...
Views: 675 - 3 Little-Known Dating Tips To Create Magnetic Attraction - by Submitted on May 14, 2007 from Chris GreenIt’s amazing but many guys unknowingly ruin their dating game because they do the same things other guys do and just end up frustrated and perplexed. Check out the following common dating mistakes so you can get rid of them and tighten up your dating game. One of the biggest mistakes most guys ...
Views: 1146 - Optimal Thinking - by Have any of these thoughts ever crossed your mind?
I deserve the best in life. How can I make the most of this situation? What¡¯s the best solution? I¡¯m taking the smartest actions toward my most important goal. I¡¯m doing my best. I¡¯m maximizing my options. What¡¯s the most constructive use ...
Views: 928(3 votes) - FAT LOSS - The Honest Answers - by Are you tired of losing body fat just to find it again? Feeling guilty about all the money you have spent, chasing the perfect answer, wishing for magic? Do yourself a favor and stop allowing the media and everyone else to take charge of your physique. Right Now! Whether you want to lose 25 ...
Views: 677 - Where art thou my Romeo? - by The idea of "TRUE LOVE" is by nature romantic. Everybody hoped, dreamed, desired and aspired for it to happen in their life. Some have been so lucky to find it earlier in life, others are struggling to keep it, and the rest are still in their relentless quest to find MR. RIGHT.
Our definition ...
Views: 944 - Seperated giving the vibe??? - by HI,Im recently seperated getting divorce for sure and I am trying to date. I am above average looks and confident, have money and really love to treat ladies good. Now I keep blowing it because of this stupid GAME we need to play. I was the master before I got married now Im a disaster. In NJ ...
Views: 832 - Secrets of the Dating Gods - by I try and observe and learn from people who are very successful with the opposite sex. Recently, I had the privilege to witness one of these rare beings in action. He walked into a room walked straight toward the most attractive girl there and started talking to her. Unfortunately I couldn't ...
Views: 817 - Where To Find Your Motivated To Marry™ Partner - by Submitted on May 10, 2007 from Amy SchoenCopyright © 2007 Heartmind Connection, LLC Today we are looking at dating tips for men and women. Throughout our dating journey, we often find it challenging to find ways to meet new people to date. Thanks to technology, we can now surf dating profiles and read blog posts regarding ...
Views: 2731 - Still Single? Lucky You! - by Submitted on May 10, 2007 from Wendy BridgerAre you all alone and hating it? You lucky dog! I know, I know, you are used to hearing everyone sympathize with you, pity you, or tell you what men are looking for and how to change yourself. Sorry, but if that’s what you’re looking for, you are reading the wrong article. You won’t find any of ...
Views: 858 - Learning From the Past - by Submitted on May 09, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHey Doc, I'm writing to you again not because I'm in a jam, but because I want to learn from a previous relationship. My girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. It was cold-hearted and all of a sudden. We dated for 4 months and were so glad to have found each other. Nonetheless, after ...
Views: 708 - Dating Tips for Men Over 40: 5 Dating Tips to Help You Date Sexy Women No Matter Your Looks, Age or Income - by Submitted on May 05, 2007 from John AlanisWhen Dave married Sue, his high school sweetheart, he envisioned the typical marriage scenario. He dreamed of a big house with a white picket fence, a couple of kids, career growth, prosperity, grandkids, retirement and maybe even adjacent burial plots. That was 25 years ago. Now their ...
Views: 17482(1 vote) - 25 Opening Lines to Use to Meet and Attract Sexy Topless - by Do you go to topless clubs and get tongue-tied when you try to talk to the topless dancers? Well, here's 25 proven opening lines to use on topless dancers:
"What is your real name?" (If she tells you her real name instead of her stage name, this could indicate that she's interested in ...
Views: 862 - Advice and Dating Tips for Single Men - by TIP #1 - THE POWER OF "RESPECTFUL AGGRESSIVENESS" IN LOVE-MAKING. "He who hesitates is lost!" is often sadly true of the would-be lover. Aggressiveness, assertiveness, courage, and persistence are often essential in meeting the woman you want and in developing a satisfying love affair. This is ...
Views: 781 - The do's and don'ts on how to attract single sexy women with your looks. - by I would like to focus this week on the do's and don'ts on how to attract sexy single women with your looks.
TIP #1 - Yes, sexy single women are attracted sexually and romantically to men with nice bodies and having a fit body usually means that you take care of yourself and take pride in your ...
Views: 1023 - A Great Letter for Playing the Personals for Love, Sex, and Romance With Single Women - by Dear...
Let's become good friends, then...Hope for a beautiful relationship.
I feel that before we can have a good relationship, we must put forth the energy and time it takes to first become good friends. Friendship is one of the most important building blocks of a good relationship. To me, ...
Views: 804 - Advice and Dating Tips for Single Men on Succeeding With Single Women - by TIP #1 - Three Basic Attitudes Which Form a Golden Key in All Human Relationships if Practiced and Lived: Every woman wants, unconsciously yearns for, three basic attitudes from the man she will love. But for that matter, every human being needs and deserves and will grow in power when he ...
Views: 757 - How to Ask Women for a Date - by There are good ways and bad ways to ask a single girl out. The bad way to ask a girl out is, "Would you like to go out with me?" By saying this:
1. You set yourself up for rejection. She might say no.
2. You imply that she would be doing you a favor by going out with you.
3. You imply a formal ...
Views: 927 - Dating Tips on How to Succeed With Women - by TIP #1 - Three Basic Attitudes Which Form a Golden Key in
All Human Relationships if Practiced and Lived: Every woman
wants, unconsciously yearns for, three basic attitudes from
the man she will love. But for that matter, every human
being needs and deserves and will grow in power when he ...
Views: 5219 - How to Make New Year's Resolutions to Meet and Date More Women in 2004 - by A very important time for making beneficial changes in your
love life and relationships with single women is coming up. And it will be a golden opportunity to turn your love life around.
What is this special time? It's the upcoming New Year 2004.
This is the perfect time to make resolutions ...
Views: 855 - How to Make Single Women Feel Special - by The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically attracted to you is to make her feel special.
Women are a lot less interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel about herself.
It's very important to make single women feel special and ...
Views: 1822 - Absolutely the Best Personal Ads to Use to Meet, Attract, Seduce Women - by This week I want to share with you some great personal ads to use to attract single women like crazy and increase your responses to personal ads that you place in singles publications, on the net, newspapers, etc. Try these ads (just fill in the blanks for your personal data and the kind of ...
Views: 17636 - A Single Man's Astrological Guide to Single Women - by ARIES (March 21 - April 19) - She's aggressive with men, dynamic, hot-tempered, and very bossy. You must be very strong-willed with this woman and don't let her boss you around. Don't be a wimp, this woman loves a challenge.
She attracts men quiet easily and can discard them just as easily. ...
Views: 920 - Dating Tips to Help Men Succeed With Women - by TIP #1 - SOME SINGLE WOMEN CRAVE A MAN WHO IS DOMINATING, "MACHO," AND EVEN JUST A LITTLE BIT CRUEL! - It's important to sensitively explore the unfulfilled needs of the woman you have met. At times, in the nature of being just a wee bit unpredictable and complex, you may act dominating, bossy, ...
Views: 834 - 10 Top Tips for Writing and Attracting Foreign Single Women - by 1. It's very important that you make your letter legible. Write or type very clearly. I would recommend that you type your letter and be sure and use your spell-checker feature.
2. Don't focus on just writing to one woman. Be sure and write to many single women. This increases the chances of ...
Views: 897 - How to ask Single Women Out For a Date - by If possible, avoid asking a single girl out for the first time for a Friday or Saturday night date. Here's why:
1. The odds of her being busy are high so she may have to turn you down, which creates bad vibes right off the bat.
2. It tells her that you don't have a date for the weekend with ...
Views: 1133 - Advice on What Turns Single Women on and Off Sexually and Romantically - by This week we will focus on what turns single women on and what turns single women off. It's very important to know these things so you will know what to do to attract and turn women on. Also, by knowing what turns women off, you can avoid making mistakes that men make which can cause a woman not ...
Views: 1404 - Advice and Dating Tips for Single Men on Making Single Women Feel Romanically Attracted to You - by The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically attracted to you is to make her feel special. Women are a lot less interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel about herself.
It's very important to make single women feel special and ...
Views: 985 - Advice and Dating Tips for Single Men on Making Single Women Feel Romanically Attracted to You - by The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically attracted to you is to make her feel special. Women are a lot less interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel about herself.
It's very important to make single women feel special and ...
Views: 600 - Meeting Women in a Book or Music Shop - by Submitted on May 02, 2007 from Dr. Dennis NederHello Doc - Is a bookshop or a music shop a good place to ask women out? If so, how do you start a conversation? Wouldn't it be strange? You see, I haven't met anyone that great through friends or at bars and clubs. I also wanted to know what to do when either you or she is with a group of ...
Views: 777 - The DUMPED! Break-up Survival Guide - by Maybe you knew it was coming. Maybe you didn’t. You’ve been dumped.
So, other than moping around in your pajamas, spending quality time with Ben & Jerry, what can you do? Well, clear away that mountain of soggy tissues, and I’ll tell you how to get through the worst of it, the first 30 ...
Views: 1985 - AskPhilippa — a dating advice column for smart single adults - by AskPhilippa — April 2, 2000 — Dating A Man's Man
Dear Philippa:
What is it with guys who prefer to spend more time with their friends than their girlfriends? They're all attentive at first, then after you've been together a while you feel like you have to beg them to go out with you. I had it ...
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