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- My Husband Gets Angry When I Try To Talk To Him About Our Trial Separation: I Just Want To Know How It Would Work And He's Evasive. Why? - by Submitted on May 04, 2020 from Leslie CaneWhen your spouse starts talking about a trial separation, it is perfectly natural, (and understandable,) to want as many details as you can possibly get. After all, it is pretty obvious that your life is going to change dramatically. Because of that, you want specific details, so that you can ...
Views: 960 - My Husband Hates His Life. How Do I Help Support Him When He Is This Confused And Dissatisfied? - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from people who are dealing with a spouse who has become cold, distant, and "confused." People are sometimes quick to label this as a mid-life crisis, but it can happen at any point in a person's life. Typically what you will see is that your spouse will suddenly no longer feel ...
Views: 486 - My Husband Is Always Mad At Me. He Constantly Says He Doesn't Love Me Out Of Anger. What Does This Mean For Our Marriage? - by Submitted on May 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneSome wives occasionally feel unloved by their husbands. And, much of the time, they don't feel this way because of the way that their husband acts. They feel this way because of the words that he carelessly says when he becomes angry. Many times, the husband's go-to words when he particularly ...
Views: 1498 - My Husband Is Hinting That It's Over Between Us. I Think My Marriage Is Over. What Do I Do Now? - by Submitted on May 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneI know first hand that it is an absolutely horrible, terrifying feeling when you begin to feel in the bottom of your gut that perhaps your marriage is over. This is made even worse if the state of your marriage has brought about anxiety and unhappiness. You already feel bad enough. But when you ...
Views: 732 - My Husband Is Moody, Distracted, And Distant. Is A Change In Behavior Always Something To Worry About? Because My Spouse Is Acting Weird. - by Submitted on May 14, 2020 from Leslie CaneA common worry that many wives have is whether or not they should be worried when their husband shows "weird" or "unusual" behavior. The first inclination of many is to just ask him about this. Unfortunately, though, many husbands do not give you a completely straight answer. Many will tell ...
Views: 2295 - My Husband Is Never Satisfied With Me. I'm Never Enough. How Do I Make Him Want What He Has? - by Submitted on May 06, 2020 from Leslie CaneIn a perfect world, your spouse would be your biggest cheerleader. He is the one who should lift you up and defend you against all others. When you're feeling bad about yourself or have doubts, he is the one who should tell you that you are more than fine just the way you are - or at the very ...
Views: 571 - My Husband Is Selfish And Uncaring. It's All About Him. I Want To Write Him A Letter And Tell Him So. - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from folks who are so angry at their spouse that they are not even sure that they can address the problem face-to-face. Many are looking for pointers as to how to write a letter to get their point across because they do not trust themselves to state this verbally. They worry ...
Views: 807 - My Husband Is So Needy And Demands Constant Attention. He Says That I Don't Show That I Care. I Resent His Neediness - by Submitted on May 14, 2020 from Leslie CaneIt would be wonderful if we were always on the same page with our marriage. It would be nice if we would automatically know what our spouse needs and then be able to magically provide it, but this rarely happens. One reason for this is that people don't always indicate what they need or they ...
Views: 2086 - My Husband Is So Stressed Out And Now He Wants To Walk Out On Me. How Do I Help Him Handle The Stress So We Can Save Our Marriage? - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from people who are sure that the stressful situation in their lives is directly behind their marital problems, their separation, or their upcoming divorce. They will tell you that they had a wonderful marriage before the event reared its ugly head. And they don't know how to ...
Views: 559 - My Husband Is Trying To Sort Out His Feelings To Decide If He's Going To Stay With Me. How Am I Supposed To Act While He's Thinking About It? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives who are extremely worried because their husband has made it very clear that he isn't sure that he's completely happy with the marriage. Often, the husband will begin to hint that he needs time to think or to sort out his feelings. As often, the wife will hover or ...
Views: 585 - My Husband Isn't A Happy Family Man Anymore. He's Lost Interest In Me, Our Kids, And In Home Life - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives who are not yet separated, but who worry that a separation may occur in the future. Many of these wives can feel their husbands' interest and affection slipping away. One of them might say something like this, "my husband and I actually became closer when we became ...
Views: 846 - My Husband Makes Me Feel Invisible: Sometimes I Want To Leave Him Because He Doesn't Appreciate Me. - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from people who feel desperately unappreciated by their spouse. At first, they will sometimes try to tell themselves that they are expecting too much or being too needy. But, with time, when it doesn't ever get any better, it starts to wear on you. And you begin to wonder if ...
Views: 507 - My Husband Never Initiates Affection: Why Wouldn't A Husband Want To Show His Wife Affection? - by Submitted on May 06, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from married folks who are quite distressed by the lack of affection in their marriage. Many want to understand why this pattern may exist so that they can come up with a plan to change it. A wife might say: "for the last five years or so, my husband hasn't wanted to show me ...
Views: 643 - My Husband Never Takes My Side, Defends Me, Or Has My Back. It Hurts Me And Makes Me Doubt My Marriage. - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2020 from Leslie CaneIn a good marriage, we would do just about anything for our spouse. A marriage is a relationship where, ideally, you would go to war for your spouse if you had to. People who are happily married generally have the outlook that they and their spouse are a pack of two and that they will defend ...
Views: 976 - My Husband Refuses To Grow Up. He Claims He'll Change And Act Like An Adult To Save Our Marriage, But I've Heard It Before - by Submitted on May 07, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany people are skeptical about their spouse's claims that they will make drastic changes in order to save their marriage. Often, this whole speech sounds very familiar because they have heard it all before. And this leaves them with more doubt than confidence. A wife might complain: "For the ...
Views: 1223 - My Husband Sabotages My Happiness: He Could Care Less Whether I'm Happy Or Not. - by Submitted on May 06, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from folks who think that things are lopsided in their marriage. One example is the spouse who thinks that although she values her husband's happiness above her own, he doesn't return the favor. And over time, she has come to believe that he could care less whether her happiness ...
Views: 743 - My Husband Says He Doesn't Care If I Leave Because We're Not Happy. I Guess He Tried To Call My Bluff - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2020 from Leslie CaneIn certain circumstances, I do not find it unusual for married couples to threaten the very thing that they fear the most. In other words, it is not uncommon for a wife who dreads a separation to threaten that very thing in order to get her husband to reassure her that there will be NO ...
Views: 750 - My Husband Says He Doesn't Love Me Anymore and Wants a Divorce - How Do I Cope With This? - by Submitted on May 05, 2020 from Leslie CaneI recently heard from a wife who was devastated and not sure that she could cope. Her husband had just dropped a huge bombshell when he announced that he no longer loved her and wanted a divorce. She was highly emotional, understandably, and she didn't know how to begin to process this (much ...
Views: 640 - My Husband Takes Me (And Our Marriage) For Granted: He Alway Says He Will Work On Our Marriage But Then He Doesn't Do A Thing - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2020 from Leslie CaneIt can get very frustrating when you've become dissatisfied with your marriage, but are also very unhappy with your spouse's attempt to resolve it. His complacency can make you feel as if he is taking you (and the marriage) for granted. You may get up your courage to tell him that this just ...
Views: 526 - My Husband Wants To Leave Me But I Still Love Him. What Can I Do? - by Submitted on May 05, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives who are fairly certain that their husband is going to leave them. Some of them just have a strong feeling or suspicion that their husband is unhappy. Others have husbands who have been very honest about the fact that he is considering moving out. Many of the wives do ...
Views: 598 - My Husband Will Leave Me If Something Doesn't Change Soon. I'm Running Out Of Time To Save My Marriage. - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from folks who feel as if they are running out of time to save their marriage. And they typically feel this way because their spouse has made it clear that he is getting very impatient. Some spouses go so far as to threaten divorce or separation if something doesn't change very ...
Views: 689 - My Husband Won't Fight For Me. Why Won't He Step Up And Fight For Our Marriage? - by Submitted on May 13, 2020 from Leslie CaneAdmittedly, not everyone who tells their spouse that they want them to leave, take a break, or pursue a trial separation is telling the absolute truth. In fact, many spouses will make these claims simply because they want to get their spouse's attention or they are trying to get their spouse to ...
Views: 1017 - My Husband's Job Loss (And The Stress From It) Is Hurting Our Marriage So Bad We Might Be Headed For Separation Or Divorce - by Submitted on May 13, 2020 from Leslie CaneI've started to get a lot of emails from people whose spouses have lost their jobs in today's economy. Often, this eventually puts a huge strain on the marriage even if the couple had a very strong relationship before the job loss. Even when the spouse who is still working is quite supportive, ...
Views: 1934 - My Separated Husband Came Home To See If The Spark Would Come Back. He Says It Hasn't. What Now? - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2020 from Leslie CaneOften, when you are separated, your greatest obstacle seems to be getting your separated husband to be willing to come back home. Many wives hope that if they can just find a way to overcome this obstacle, then things will just fall back into place once he returns home where he belongs. But what ...
Views: 445 - My Separated Husband Demands Space, But I Feel Like A Liar When I Hide And Fight My True Feelings. - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from spouses who realize that it's important to give their spouse some space during the trial separation. Many are also fully aware that this time is best used for working on themselves and for allowing the distance to create a longing for one another so that their marriage ...
Views: 468 - My Separated Husband Has Said Mean, Hurtful Things That I Can't Get Over. How Can I Even Begin To Save My Marriage After These Unforgivable Comments? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2020 from Leslie CaneSaving your marriage with two willing people can feel daunting and overwhelming at times. But saving your marriage when one spouse is not participating and has said very hurtful things can feel downright impossible. A wife might be dealing with a marriage in which both parties have said ...
Views: 813 - My Separated Husband Lies And Hides Things From Me. Why Won't He Just Be Truthful? How Hard Is It To Just Tell The Truth? - by Submitted on May 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneWhen your spouse pursues a separation, it's natural to be concerned about his motivations. One common concern that I hear a lot about comes from women who are concerned that their husband truly wants a divorce because he wants to start seeing other women. These concerns are understandable. ...
Views: 1665 - My Separated Husband Never Comforts Me When I'm Upset. Should He Still Care For Me Emotionally? Tips For Improving His Emotional Intelligence. - by Submitted on May 06, 2020 from Leslie CaneIt's common for wives to feel that their husband is not as emotionally connected as they are. This can be true whether you are currently separated or not. (A separation does add another complication to the mix, but most wives have wondered if their husband is as emotionally invested as he should ...
Views: 1154 - My Separated Husband Says It's Over Between Us. He Wants To Know Why I Won't Accept It. - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives who want to believe in their hearts that there is still a chance for their separated marriage. However, their husband isn't nearly as optimistic and he will sometimes try to convince the wife that she should just accept that there may not be a reconciliation. Often, ...
Views: 437 - My Separated Husband Wants Nothing To Do With Me. How Do I Get Him Back If He Doesn't Call Or Come Around? - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2020 from Leslie CaneThere are many difficult situations one must navigate during a marital separation. Here is a common one: You been asked to give your husband space. You know that you should comply. However, once you do, how will you ever reconcile? If you rarely see him and no one is calling or visiting, how can ...
Views: 599 - My Spouse Is Asking For A Separation. I Say No And Ignore His Requests. But He Keeps Asking. What Now? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from people who want to get their spouse to stop constantly asking for a separation. Much of the time, they have considered many tactics in order to help them to achieve this. One common tactic is to respond with a firm "no" and then to ignore their spouse. They are hoping that if ...
Views: 565 - Narcissist Loves Pain: His and Others' - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2015 from Sam VakninBy Sam Vaknin Author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" Most narcissists enjoy an irrational and brief burst of relief after having suffered emotionally ("narcissistic injury") or after having sustained a loss. It is a sense of freedom, which comes with being unshackled. Having ...
Views: 2748 - Narcissists, Social Media, and Porn - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2013 from Sam VakninSocial media, such as Tumblr.com, have become the playground of narcissists, psychopaths, and sadists who post extreme and, at times, illegal porn and revel in the reactions to it, thus garnering vicarious narcissistic supply. Via such postings, they express their rabid misogyny by objectifying ...
Views: 3829 - Neechey Lagna – a toxic concept of Patriarchal Culture of Pakistan - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2018 from Dr. Mona AeyshaIn Pakistani culture, many sayings/ concepts have taken the place of cultural things, and people consciously/unconsciously accepts them and adopt them in their life. One of those concepts is, “ to be overly obedient to your wife” ( beewi key neechey lag jana). It means that if someone is taking ...
Views: 2454 - New Study: Strong Link Between Men, Money, and Mojo - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2013 from Derek WhitneyAmerican and Danish university researchers suggest men are more likely to experience mental and physical anguish when their female counterparts are the primary breadwinners. The new study, In Sickness and in Wealth, posits the potential psychological and sexual costs of income disparity in ...
Views: 1395 - NFL Football Tickets - Watch It Live - by For football fans, being able to get your hands on a National Football League (NFL) football ticket would be a dream come true. These NFL football tickets generally sell out days before the actual game is scheduled to take place. It's a common scene to witness queues packed with fans anxiously ...
Views: 214 - Nice Guys: Why Are Some Men 'Nice Guys'? - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to the modern day descriptions of men, there are two that are often mentioned. One is the bad boy and the other is the nice guy. And while on paper and in person these men can come across as being radically different, in many ways, they are simply two sides of the same coin. ...
Views: 1917 - Oh, NO!! Not Again!! Preventing Relapse in Sex Addiction Recovery - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenRelapse in sexual addiction recovery is a reality. While all addictions are relapse prone, it is the sexual recovery community who suffer most from the demoralization of repeated relapse. After all, we can live without ever being around alcohol or drugs, but our sexuality is ever-present. ...
Views: 4865 - On line Procedure of Processing Money Tax Reunite Has Basic the Method - by Submitted on Jun 08, 2020 from kingof seoShare of every person is necessary for the growth of every nation. For the progress of any state, the key attribute which will be required is finance. Every country wants money to be able to grow up and to greatly help its people to reside an improved life. To be able to build the state, ...
Views: 1318 - Our Marriage Is In Serious Trouble. What If My Husband Leaves? I'm So Anxious About This. - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2020 from Leslie CaneMost people who value their marriage see their spouse leaving them, initiating a separation, or filing for divorce as the worst-case scenario. No one wants to be abandoned by their spouse or unsure about the future of their marriage. And, if you think that any of these things are possible, then ...
Views: 464 - Our Marriage Is Inconvenient For My Husband. He Feels Tied Down And Old. I'm Afraid He's Going To Leave Me - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany wives are struggling to deal with disappointed husbands. Often, the husband has alluded to the fact (or he has come right out and said) that he's disappointed in the marriage because it isn't what he was expecting or hoping for. It's nearly impossible to hear these types of discussions ...
Views: 582 - Powerful, Nonintuitive Tactics to Get Your Husband Back - by Submitted on May 12, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes tell wives that very often the most powerful tactic to getting your husband back is doing those things that work but don't feel intuitive. It's not necessarily thinking about what you want to do and then doing the opposite, but often the things that feel right at the time are the ...
Views: 850 - Progress and Healing: 4 Alternatives to Psychologists - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2014 from Anica OaksLife can feel like a perpetual classroom. You’re constantly learning. Sometimes you make mistakes and other times you get a gold star for your achievements. Once in a while, a particular lesson alludes you, no matter how many times you experience it. When frustrations build, you might consider ...
Views: 1239 - Proper guidance of sexual health for male to avoid low sex stamina - by Submitted on Sep 15, 2015 from Margaux DiazOverview To last long in bed is every man’s desire and as well as their partner’s desire. Every woman wants their man to be a man in bed. Low sex stamina is a curse to a man and everybody should take care of their sexual health to avoid low sex stamina. To keep your partner happy in bed or to ...
Views: 2996 - Proven tips on ” How to get over someone quickly? “ - by Submitted on Jun 20, 2020 from Your Career Club“How to get someone quickly?” is the question every person ask after breakup. From T.V series to movies we all heard that the relationship is about a bicycle-based on two wheels. Here we discuss all information about “How to get someone quickly?” If anyone of the wheels is damaged or ...
Views: 1274 - Psychodynamic Psychotherapy: The Crux of Sexual Addiction Healing - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenIn my opinion, long-term psychodynamic therapy is the most efficient way to cultivate healthy personality development. The most comprehensive treatment combines the empathy, insight and relational abilities of a psychodynamic psychotherapist with the 12-step orientation and cognitive-behavioral ...
Views: 3953 - Psychopharmocology and Sex Addiction - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2013 from Dorothy HaydenSex addiction recovery typically involves at least psychotherapy,twelve-step groups self-help groups and medication. Medication, while not always necessary, can serve as the “water wings” for negotiating the changes necessary for growth. Certain psychiatrists believe that addiction is ...
Views: 1486 - Putting the Broken Humpty-Dumpty Narcissist Back Together - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2014 from Sam VakninBy Sam Vaknin Author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" Positive feelings (about oneself or pertaining to one's accomplishments, assets, etc.) – are never gained merely through conscious endeavor. They are the outcome of insight. A cognitive component (factual knowledge regarding ...
Views: 2501 - Q&A: She Doesn't Love Me Anymore - How Should I Fix This? - by Submitted on Oct 09, 2011 from Mika MaddelaDid your girlfriend recently tell you she was questioning her feelings for you? Perhaps, she told she isn't in love with you anymore. Either way, I know that right now you're feeling hurt and confused. If you are experiencing the heartache of a potential breakup, please check out some frequent ...
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