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- Why Men Are Afraid of Commitment (And How To Help) - by Submitted on Oct 25, 2012 from Brenda ShoshannaAfter a relationship ends, women ask what went wrong, again and again. In this revealing article we see that often it has nothing to do with the woman. The article explores some patterns and needs that cause men to run from relationships. It also offers specific guidelines and advice to help. ...
Views: 7918(1 vote) - Why Men Pull Away - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2021 from Sahib BerwalAnd how you can tap into his deep desire for commitment... Maggie was confused. Rick had blown her away on their first two dates. No guy had ever worked so hard to impress her. And impressed she was. He was attentive, respectful, gentle and engaged. But then, just when she decided she'd ...
Views: 899(1 vote) - Why Your Boyfriend Is Jealous Of Your Sexual Past (And What To Do About It) - by Submitted on Oct 12, 2016 from Jeff BillingsIf you’ve found yourself in a relationship with a jealous boyfriend, it can be quite a confusing and exhausting experience as you probably know. Especially when he’s not jealous about guys in the present, but about guys in the past. A man who gets all angry and upset about his girlfriend’s ...
Views: 13214(1 vote) - Your personal Power, Love and spiritual/psychological Wisdom, the first three Rays or Personalitys of GOD! - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2011 from Ralf FritzingerWELCOME! SHALOM! NAMASKAR! BARAKA! BASHAD! MAY THE BLESSINGS BE! NAMASTE! ADONAI! OM SAI RAM! OM MANI PADME OM beloved Reader! I hope that this note finds you very well and happy and healthy and in inner peace!:) The Integrated Ascended Master has enormous personal power ...
Views: 1458(1 vote) - How to Catch a Man and Keep Him Happy - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2011 from Jonathon AslayIt doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that men are attracted to gorgeous women, but it does get complicated for women to understand what keeps men interested. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind women are always asking me what men are looking for in a woman. They want to know what he needs ...
Views: 2676(3 votes) - Oprah's advice to women about men -- from Tuchy's book "Oprah In Her Own Words" - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2011 from Carl Tuchy PalmieriOprah Winfrey– “If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.” —“Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship ...
Views: 13433(3 votes) - ***How Do I Get My Ex-Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.You don’t. I’m sorry, but no matter who you are, who she is, and how many crazy skills in dating you have learned, you will never. ever get back that particular person. Why? It’s been programmed into us since the dawn of time, and it’s called COURTSHIP. There’s an actual set of ...
Views: 4155(3 votes) - ***How To Meet Women - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.How to meet women is a different subject than where to meet women, and WHETHER you will meet women at all. Do you have particular goals with women? Or in the skill to meet them? Do you know what you even want in a woman? Or in what you will share with her? Do you want casual dating? Or a serious ...
Views: 3159(3 votes) - Do Opposites Really Attract? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraJake is an atheist; Stacy is a devout Christian. Bill loves to spend; Cristy loves to save. Victor loves a vacation out in the woods, camping in a tent; Amy prefers a nice condo on the beach. Steve gets up at 6:00 am in the morning; Megan believes the day should start around 10 ...
Views: 1315(1 vote) - Hero of Middle East ‘Muammar Gaddafi's’ Death? - by Submitted on Jul 06, 2012 from Abdul Haye AminHero of Middle East ‘Muammar Gaddafi's’ Death? After almost 41 one years in the land of almighty Lord as a ‘Leader’ of the own country, second to non in the nation to rule as a ‘LIBYA’ in the Middle East the Prime Minister of Libya, ‘Muammar Gaddafi’ died, ...
Views: 2408(1 vote) - How Our Past Affects Our Relationships Today - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThere are many dynamics to a relationship and I think most of us can agree that we rarely see everything going on under the surface, yet we feel the discomfort. As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind I would like to reveal three elements that can cause relational distress and ...
Views: 2145(2 votes) - Men's 7-Step Mediation Technique For Overcoming Shyness - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2014 from Chris ChandraYes, there is such a thing. A meditation technique that helps you to overcome shyness. It’s a meditation technique I’ve used for over 6 years and it’s helped me a great deal. If you follow any of my articles or read about me then you know I’ve overcome shyness and gotten to the point ...
Views: 1865(1 vote) - Mother Enmeshed Men: What Causes It? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to understanding what enmeshment is, it helps to look at what boundaries are. Boundaries are what create a sense of individuality between people. And although we are all physically separate, it does not mean that we are emotionally separate from another person. This becomes what ...
Views: 23868(2 votes) - Regardless of the cause, cheap Viagra can help you beat ED - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2019 from Alice JonesErectile dysfunction (ED) is experienced by millions of men worldwide. This being said, it is important to note that experiencing ED once in a while does not necessarily warrant concern. This article will provide you with insight into some of the most common causes of this problem, thus helping ...
Views: 1351(1 vote) - The World Needs A Man's Heart - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2016 from Heather Fraser -“By and large, these days men suffer greater deprivation than women, because women are allowed to play the power game, but men have been blocked from expressing their femininity” – Richard Rohr, author, A Wild Man’s Journey The world needs a man’s heart. When I first read these words in an ...
Views: 1408(2 votes) - ***Why Do Women Go Out With Jerks? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Women go out with jerks because of reasons you would not suspect. None of them are logical. None of them are “right” or “fair” in a fair world. It is unfair that sexual attraction and dating are “unfair” once you learn the nature of human instincts between the genders. The reason that they ...
Views: 3500(10 votes) - ***What To Do On A First Date With A Woman - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.A first date with a woman had better not be the only date on your social horizon. Get that straight right from the beginning. I don’t care if you are short, fat, bald, “ugly,” haven’t ever played a guitar or rode a motorcycle. I don’t even care if you can’t dance, have a small penis, and ...
Views: 3233(9 votes) - How to Survive Dating Men - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeOne of the most common questions asked by women is ‘What do Men Want.’ The most painful question is ‘Why?’ These two questions put together cause heartache and distrust in millions of women. It is easy to start seeing every man as a commitment-phobe, or someone with attachment issues, but this ...
Views: 3388(4 votes) - Reuniting With Your Beloved Is Never This Easy If You Know Which Emotional Hot Buttons To Push! - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2017 from Katarina PhangHave you had a relationship with a man that has unfortunately always been on the on-and-off track? Wanting him back is a completely normal reaction to a breakup, regardless of whether the feelings come right away, or over time. Here are some proactive tips for turning your ex to be in love with ...
Views: 13585(4 votes) - ***He's Probably Not Emotionally Unavailable After All: Beware Of Mislabeling - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangFreedom, separation, aggression, conquest, goal seeking and sex are the basic nature of testosterone. You’ve seen how many wars and conquests have been waged by men since the beginning of time. That’s the side effect of testosterone. It has also contributed to so much magnificence in the ...
Views: 18734(3 votes) - ***Managing Expectations Goes A Long Way In Keeping Your Man Attracted To You - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangMen have a love-hate relationship with their mothers. They love their moms to death, yet they loath the feeling of being mothered (i.e. being told what to do/not to do). Now they are adults and live on their own, they don't need another woman -and much younger at that- replacing their mother's ...
Views: 12405(3 votes) - ***Why Less Is More In Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangThe key of dating an emotionally unavailable man who wants to take things slow is to let him set the pace. Expect that he will go hot and cold. Mirror him in everything he does. When he's hot, reciprocate that, this is your time to establish bonding. When he's cold, also keep a distance. ...
Views: 32671(3 votes) - How to Date a Nice Guy - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeI constantly work with women who are tired of cycling through ‘bad boys’ or dysfunctional relationships. They want to find someone worth spending the rest of their lives with. The problem is that they may not be able to identify the ‘nice guys.’ Even if they can, there is baggage they cannot ...
Views: 10855(3 votes) - In Celebration of Sensitive Men - by Submitted on May 29, 2013 from Judith OrloffSensitive men are incredibly attractive. They are path-forgers in the new paradigm of the evolved man. Strong and sensitive. Intuitive and powerful. They’re able to give and receive love without ambivalence, being “unavailable,” or commitment phobia. In my book Emotional Freedom to help you ...
Views: 1580(3 votes) - Poker Players and Dating Slayers ~ Men Playing Poker May Reveal How They Date Online - by Submitted on May 17, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe way a man approaches online dating could be the exact way he plays poker (like Texas Hold’em). If you can figure out how a man plays poker, you might easily see how he dates. Some men are just bad poker players. They don’t have a lot of experience, aren’t invested in learning, rather ...
Views: 5411(3 votes) - Sometimes It Takes Only One Person To Change And Save Your Relationship/Marriage - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangIf you are feeling desperate because you are trying to save marriage alone, do not despair. There are many others in the same boat as you and such cries for help can be heard from both men and women alike. This is probably because they have made the same common mistake; entering a relationship ...
Views: 9965(3 votes) - When Relationships Hit a Rough Patch - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2011 from Jonathon AslayThe evening was planned a week ago. Romantic dinner, tickets to see your favorite band in concert, just a night of fun with the man you love. But in what seemed a moment of time everything changed. Oh, you still had the dinner and tickets, but what you didn’t see coming was the temperature ...
Views: 5245(3 votes) - ***Why Do Women Like Players? - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.It’s often asked to me why women like Jerks, Badboys, and Players, and while I teach that much of the reason rests in the fact that to the brain, arousal due to danger and threats can be easily confused with arousal due to sexual appeal, there is a bit of a difference between a guy who is a ...
Views: 10393(5 votes) - The Love Language of a Man - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, I frequently get asked questions that could be issues of concern for many re-entering the dating scene. One gal was distraught over the lack of appreciation she felt from her man due to his memory loss when it came to special anniversary dates. She also felt he ...
Views: 7425(5 votes) - ***Are You a "Badboy?" Or "The Life of the Party?" - by Submitted on May 10, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.It's no surprise that women respond to bad boys. They complain about doing so, try to stop themselves from doing so, ban themselves from dating them and swear they will never do so again... but sometimes to a fault they do so anyway. At my company, we know why - and the reason is in having ...
Views: 4578(2 votes) - ***How To Ask A Woman Out - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.The best situation is of course, for a woman to ask YOU out, but that presents a different set of challenges than those around how you’re going to “get up the nerve,” whether or not she is already with someone else, or any other manner of concerns you may have that prevent you form what comes ...
Views: 2937(2 votes) - ***How To Get A Woman's Number - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Under most circumstances with a woman, it’s utterly fruitless to get a woman’s number if she is a.) not sexually attracted b.) not friendly or feel a sense of fun or friendship from you, or c.) not a good match for you intellectually, in maturity, culture or tastes. Why would you even bother? Or ...
Views: 3274(2 votes) - 14 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Cheating On You - by Submitted on May 22, 2011 from Sulagna DasguptaAre you of late wondering if something has changed in your relationship? Does it seem to you that your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore? Is it possible that he’s cheating on you? This article brings to you fourteen powerful signs to tell if he’s cheating. 1. Use your woman’s intuition: You ...
Views: 14098(2 votes) - Dating Divorced Men ~ The Real Mission Impossible? - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from Jonathon AslayIf you choose to take on this mission, you must know before entering the territory that the terrain can be a very challenging. The agents of change will manifest in the dark and the baggage has not necessarily been left at the terminal. You will encounter emotional assaults from Agent “Ex” ...
Views: 3620(2 votes) - Finding Mr. Good Guy - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2011 from Jonathon AslayFrequently I receive emails from women that desire a romantic relationship yet never go anywhere or do anything that would help facilitate meeting good men. Landing a partner for life does not usually happen at the grocery store, nail salon or single moms club. Even if you go register with ...
Views: 1951(2 votes) - How To Inspire Him To Commit Without Having The Talk - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangWe've been told that the way to love is pretty linear and straightforward with guys. They take us to a first date, they like us, they make plans and ask us to be exclusive within a month or two, they fall in love and pop the question. Trust me when I say that very often guys don't know how they ...
Views: 17340(4 votes) - What It Feels Like When You Overcome Shyness - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2014 from Chris ChandraThe thing is, there really is a difference in how you feel after you overcome shyness. I'm not talking about overcoming shyness where you get bold for a brief moment and then anxiety creeps back in. I'm talking about a full blown recovery where there is no going back. A few years ago I ...
Views: 1697(2 votes) - ***How to Play Hard To Get The Correct Way - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2014 from Katarina PhangThere is an excellent discussion going on in my private group: "For years we read from women that we should play hard to get. There are countless books written by women on this topic. What are your thoughts on why women believe we should play hard to get and men believe we should not? Do you ...
Views: 23066(5 votes) - ***Bacon Flavored Red Meat Treat You Don't Have to be a Man to Eat (Recipes for You, You Don't Cook!) - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Emily Erickson-SandstromPeel about half a head of garlic and leave it in tiny pieces in your food chopper. If you don't have a food chopper, get one – and for now just smash the garlic in a baggie with a hammer. This will motivate you to get a food chopper. I know this! Cut any red meat into bite-sized thin ...
Views: 3511(6 votes) - ***Being a Man of Inaction - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2012 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.We just finished another bootcamp for men in Chicago and are about to head to New York City for another one for men this friday-saturday, and I have to tell you how one thing strikes me: so often, men think that they have to be perfect in so many ways - perfect at their dating skills, finding ...
Views: 4351(3 votes) - ***How To Know If A Woman Likes You - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.A woman likes you if she looks at you, if she talks to you and lets you talk, if she touches you or lets you touch her, and certainly if she kisses you or has sex with you. You see, there are DEGREES to “liking” and a DURATION to how long and how much you are “liked.” Through this all there ...
Views: 4433(3 votes) - ***Is He Really Not That Into You Or Are Your Expectations Too Skewed? - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangMy editor Brenda who helped me edit my book out of her gratitude for the advice I have given him in the past dealing with her own emotionally unavailable man, told everyone how profoundly transformational my book is. She thinks this book is an excellent rebuttal that every woman should read to ...
Views: 12140(3 votes) - How To Cultivate Emotional Attraction So You Can Keep The Man You Adore - by Submitted on Jul 13, 2017 from Katarina PhangMen are visual creatures, while looks will get you in the door, in the long run it is emotional attraction that will keep him glued to you. What is emotional attraction to a man? It is everything in a woman that makes him feel supported, accepted and respected because all of that is the ...
Views: 20154(3 votes) - ***He Says He's Not Ready For A Relationship, Should I Agree To "Friends With Benefits" Instead? - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangA fan wrote me a heartfelt email: Hi Katarina, me and my bf of almost 2 years broke up about 3 and a half months ago. It was not a bad break up, but he felt like he could not handle the pressure of a full-blown relationship. In the time that we have been apart I have learned a lot and recently ...
Views: 20118(8 votes) - ***SEX AS A SOCIAL CURRENCY - by Submitted on May 18, 2011 from Paul Dobransky, M.D.Sex is a social currency. It's pleasurable, and it's emotional, which are the criteria we human beings often use to judge the value of something. Has a woman ever asked, "How much do you value me, really?" Remember your first old junker car that you bought for, perhaps, $500? The car transported ...
Views: 6405(4 votes) - How To Make Him Emotionally Attached To You So He Can't Let You Go - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangHow many of you are confronted with a situation that the guy you are dating and attracted to is not really ready to move your relationship to the next level? Or that he hasn't taken down his profile from the dating site yet after a few months seeing each other? It feels scary for you now that ...
Views: 46489(4 votes) - He’s Distancing Himself! – What Does it all Mean? - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2011 from Jonathon AslayAs a Relationship Confidant, women come to me frequently with this same perplexing question: What does it all mean when the man in my life is distancing himself from me? As a Guy Spy into the Male Mind let me help clarify this male phenomenon. Women as we know tend to be extremely relational ...
Views: 21466(5 votes) - How To Become A Goddess That Men Adore By Not Pining For Any Man - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangSome women get really hurt from just a few month fling? Why? Because they invest too much, too soon in the relationship and have soaring expectations of it. They buy into the fairy tale they concoct themselves that this is it: he's the One and they're "in love" not realizing that the dizzying ...
Views: 18375(5 votes) - What To Do If Your Man Rarely Initiates Sex: Make Yourself An Irresistible Sex Goddess He Worships - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2017 from Katarina PhangI want to address an important issue from my reader, about guys who lose their sexual mojo when they're settled with you (something that isn't very uncommon -surprise, surprise- which is the main reason why my marriage fell apart). So here it goes: I have been with the same man for almost 3 ...
Views: 24695(5 votes) - "If You Hate Popeye, Think Again." - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Hal Wechsler“If You Hate Popeye, Squinting & Smiling, Forgettaboutit”. • 1. “I find your columns boring and mostly irrelevant, but you have wandered off the cliff when you drag in Exodus 3:14. What on-this-planet does the Bible have to do with your damn SpeedReading101? • 2. Oh yeah Professor, your ...
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