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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Newton’s Law Helps Explain the Difference of He and She. - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Colin KennedyAttempts to describe the differences and similarities of men and women have been made by philosophers, church leaders, and day-time TV. All have failed. Our ancestors lived in trees, and we have evolved. Sort of. After centuries of development men still tend to hunt and gather. Men still ...
Views: 796 - Don't Fall Into Spousal Support's 3 Deadly Traps - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Colin KennedyHistorically spousal support or alimony cases were the realm of lawyers, and many deserving people were left out in the cold because they could not afford the large legal fees required to resolve their alimony or spousal support woes. It's all about money, and you need to get it right the ...
Views: 1139 - 4 Reasons Why Your Partner Wants to Dump You - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Colin KennedyThis exclusive article will help you with your day to day dealings with people. You will discover the four key reasons why someone will co-operate with you, do business with you, and like you. Conversely, you will find four key reasons why people will not deal with you, or won’t follow your ...
Views: 640 - Choosing Family Law Solicitors - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from mark baileyA divorce, separation, or a custody battle is bad enough without the whole thing being turned into a legal circus. The key to making the whole process as painless as possible is to hire good family law solicitors to represent you. Family law solicitors are specially trained lawyers in the ...
Views: 605 - The Battle of Relocating Children in a Divorced Family - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Evan H. BaronAs the cost of living continues to climb in South Florida many families have decided to pack up and leave town for hopefully greener pastures. This is a very difficult decision for most families. It is even a greater struggle at times for divorced couples with minor children. Relocation is ...
Views: 469 - Get over an ex by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomGet over an ex by Rosemary Price psychic. Your ex has decided to finish your relationship. How to get over an ex?! While things were going well you were happy or at least content and you probably had no idea that things would turn out so badly. Either your partner changed and there was no way ...
Views: 1647(5 votes) - 7 Ideas to Rebuild Your Life - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Colin Kennedy7 Ideas to Help Rebuild Your Life Recovery from divorce or separation takes time, and work and a few other things. A broken relationship is like a boat with a broken rudder; you are crippled and out of control, and you may end up on the rocks. In time you will recover. 1. Desire In my ...
Views: 692 - Stress Busting Relaxation Exercise for Two - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Colin KennedyDoes Separation + Divorce = Stress? Sometimes moving on through divorce is painful. Stress and anxiety is your body's response to change and uncertainty. The good news: like the divorce process, stress can be managed. How Does Stress Make you Feel? - Stress related to separation or ...
Views: 646 - Are You In Love or In Safe? - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Gina HardyIf you are in a relationship, are you in love or are you with someone who is safe because you can’t bear the thought of being hurt again? Have you ever had one of those partnerships that bounces your heart about like a beach ball? One that takes you high up on a thrill ride, then plummets you ...
Views: 829(1 vote) - Bouncing Back After a Divorce or Rupture - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Ligia HoubenI f you are going through a divorce or a romantic break-up you may be experiencing many emotions....from anger, fear, disappointment, hopelessness toward the future, sadness, to grief (this emotion sometimes is not recognized, but it can be real). In many cases divorce is not a devastating loss, ...
Views: 1848(9 votes) - Stop Stalking Your Ex - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Roseanna LeatonPlease stop stalking your ex; it won't do you any good! Exes come in many forms; girlfriends or boyfriends, husbands or wives, bosses or colleagues, therapists..or even figments of one's imaginary world. Stalking is stalking, no matter who you are obsessing about or how you are going about your ...
Views: 6198 - It's Parental Discord – Not Divorce – That Most Damages Children! - by Submitted on Feb 12, 2011 from Rosalind SedaccaIs it divorce or parental discord that most damages children? Answers are finally coming in! A recent article by marriage and family therapist Ruth Bettelheim has much to say on this topic that is both relevant and, quite surprising for many. That’s because she refutes common misconceptions ...
Views: 1733(9 votes) - Sometimes Love Isn't Enough: Accepting the End of a Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Sil Lai AbramsThere are few things in life more agonizing than realizing that despite our best efforts, an important relationship cannot be sustained. Sometimes the pain of this realization is too much to bear. Instead of accepting the truth, we slip into denial. We pretend that the problems don’t exist. ...
Views: 8851 - Breaking the Stalemate: Using Cognitive Therapy to Change Your Marriage - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Peggy FergusonCouples often come to counseling in a last ditch effort to avoid divorce and save the marriage. They have many goals and objectives in mind, often involving helping the therapist fix the other spouse. The real underlying goal is often the desire to restore the positive feelings toward the ...
Views: 6619 - My Divorce Journal - What's the Focus? - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Dawn SinnottThen - 11/1/2003 “I usually write when things are bad and they are as bad as it gets. ‘Carl’ has been to every doctor known to man, has taken every medicine available and even went to a nutritionist. For 2 ½ years we’ve been dealing with all of his physical ailments – night sweats, heart ...
Views: 945 - How to deal with a workaholic partner now? - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Dia ThabetKelly mentions that her partner is a workaholic. She says that he lives and breaths through his work and it is the number one priority for him. Kelly mentions that she suffers because he is neglecting her and doesn’t spend much time with her. Is your partner a workaholic? Does your partner ...
Views: 1573 - Divorce and Its Effect on Children, Part II - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Cheryl GowinThis article is the second in a five part series of articles that looks at divorce and the children involved in the divorce. This article provided a discussion on the effect of divorce on children. The divorce rate stands at 50% of all marriages, effecting more than 1 million children in ...
Views: 5082(1 vote) - How to find help to save your marriage and stop your divorce now - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Tim PondMarriage is a life long commitment between two people who have realized that life will be more meaningful if every waking moment is spent with the other. It is a binding contract between God and man, and is honored by the state. Marriage forms the bonds of a family, as it is a bond in itself, ...
Views: 1189(2 votes) - 3 Tips to Overcome Divorce Drama and Pain - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Valery SatterwhiteYou're angry. Royally pissed off some, or most, of the time. You were not supposed to be divorced. Especially not at this age - after everything you've been through. You're knocked on your ass, want to get up and move on but can't. Why? Because you've fallen into the deep divorce drama ...
Views: 2126 - What You Should Consider Before Getting Back With Your Ex - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaA relationship, like a favorite article of clothing, can provide a certain level of comfort and familiarity. At times, however, that comfort and familiarity may actually be detrimental. If a relationship has ended, sometimes the loss of that comfort can cause a person to rush right back into ...
Views: 3703 - 7 Tips to Avoid Divorce...From Your Customer! - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Randi BusseWhen you are dating someone, it takes effort, doesn’t it? When you first meet, you are on your best behavior, dressing your best, demonstrating great manners, doing all the right things. You fall in love, plan the wedding, and then get married. One day you wake up and realize the courtship is ...
Views: 886 - Self Defense For Verbal Conflict - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2011 from Radomir SamardzicI asked my good friend Philip, an Aikido practitioner, to wrote this article because when I first time heard of this technique I immediately recognized it as a gold mine for resolving relationship conflicts (although this particular story is about a conflict with a neighbor) and and at the same ...
Views: 2210(1 vote) - How to Find The Best Marriage Counselor For Your Needs - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Peggy FergusonEveryone wants "the best". When you are looking for a marriage counselor it is important to find someone who is specifically trained in marriage counseling and has the credential of "licensed" or "certified" marriage counselor". This indicates that they demonstrated some level of competence ...
Views: 1407 - Motherhood and the Financial Consequences of Staying at Home - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2011 from Lori Anne ChanceToday – more than ever in recent history – mothers are choosing to stay home with their kids rather than pursuing a career after childbirth. It just makes sense; employment prospects are few and the cost of childcare is prohibitive. But before you decide to become a stay-at-home mom and give up ...
Views: 3982(6 votes) - Divorce - 6 Tips For Helping Your Children Cope - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from matthew inghamWhen the divorce process is just beginning, chances are you and your spouse have not settled the issue of child custody. This is a very difficult time for both you and your spouse, but most importantly, this is very difficult time for the children. Do keep in mind throughout the divorce ...
Views: 605 - Divorce Is Expensive! Don't Spend More Than You Have To. - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Dana McIntyreAnyone who has been through a divorce can probably tell you the horror stories of how much money they spent just getting divorced. With my divorce, let’s just say that with the amount I spent I could have supported a large village in Africa for a year. At the time, I was willing to pay just ...
Views: 2163(3 votes) - Mediation with the Children in Mind: The Role of the Parenting Coordinator - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesThere is a relatively new emphasis in Divorce Mediation and related court proceedings, the appointment of a Parenting Coordinator, to ensure that the best interests of the children remain paramount. You may think that the best interests of the children have always been the highest priority of ...
Views: 1133 - Mediation and Financial Security for Families - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesDivorce, with all its emotional and financial upheaval, is frequently wrought with stress, fear, and staggering new challenges. In the economic times we now find ourselves in the stress, fear and challenges are being felt by everyone, not just families touched by divorce. The constant media ...
Views: 1054 - Planning Ahead for Summer Fun for Your Children During or After the Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesAs the summer months approach, activities that are unique to summer remind us of how important it is to plan year-round. With your children out of school, many parents look for programs and activities to bolster academics, spark interests and passions, or supplement athletic talents by ...
Views: 1044 - Surviving the Emotional Loss of a Loved One: Mediation can Help you Deal with the Causes of Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesMediation, by nature and definition, bridges the emotional gulf that can exist between couples, both during and after a divorce. The need to assess priorities, explore opinions, and achieve compromises requires mediators to learn as much as possible about their client’s current relationship ...
Views: 1289 - Teacher Conferences and School Progress - Important for Divorced or Divorcing Parents - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesIn many parts of the country, the school year has just started. If you are going through a divorce or are already divorced, have you talked about or planned how you and the other parent are going to communicate about your child’s school activities? Sadly, when parents are going through a ...
Views: 2654 - The Benefits of Co-Mediation: Seeing Both Sides of Every Story - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesEvery situation has two complex and unique perspectives and the ability to interpret, empathize and identify with each side is a benefit divorcing couples must not take lightly. Having a mediation team composed of a male and a female allows C.E.L. and Associates to offer an approach to ...
Views: 1811 - The Dilemma of Health Insurance after Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesWhen looking at this issue it is easy to be misled into thinking that there are easy solutions to this problem. Current research gives some very pat answers to a question that is extremely complex. The key to understanding the insurance dilemma facing divorced spouses is to look at long term ...
Views: 1170 - The Division of Assets and Debts During a Divorce — How Mediation Can Help you Divide These in a Way That Makes Sense to Both of You. - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesWhether you have $10K or $10M in assets, the division of marital assets does not necessarily determine how much your divorce will cost you. The divorces we see on television, with high priced attorneys and high powered experts, do not have to be the rule, but the exception. Divorce mediation ...
Views: 1402 - The Fork in the Road: Which way you travel is Important - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesWhenever we meet bumps in the road, there is usually more than one path to choose. We make these choices as we choose a school, a career, a home, and a mate. But these choices, like all choices, are rarely written in stone. One of the beauties of life is that we get to evaluate and consider ...
Views: 1048 - What Is Divorce Mediation - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesDivorce mediation is about you and your soon to be ex-spouse deciding your own divorce and what is best for the both of you and most importantly, your children. In mediation, you and your spouse meet with a neutral third party, the mediator, and with their help, you work through the issues you ...
Views: 1123 - Wise Decisions: Cost Issues in Divorce Mediation vs. Litigation - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesWhen approaching the ending of a marriage and how to go about it, divorcing couples are faced with many hard decisions. Whether to choose mediation over litigation is fundamental and primary in the divorce process. When couples weigh the pluses and minuses of both choices, the factor of cost ...
Views: 1185 - Divorce - When Children Are Involved - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from matthew inghamYou love your children and you will do what is necessary to protect them from the difficulties of the divorce process. Oklahoma law makers understand what you and your spouse are experiencing and they have incorporated two additional steps into the divorce process that are designed to help the ...
Views: 631 - Divorce - 5 First Steps Of Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from matthew inghamThere are a lot of steps to follow in the divorce process. Below is a list of the 5 first steps that you can anticipate…keep in mind, the whole purpose of the divorce process is to get husband and wife together face to face enough times that they are able to negotiate a full settlement outside ...
Views: 955 - Breakup Survival - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Deb KluggerSurely divorce or the breakup of a long term relationship is one of the most difficult emotional experiences we have. Recently, I was working with Carrie Ann who had just painfully decided to end her 5 year relationship to Peter. She loved Peter very much. However, she had reached the ...
Views: 1330(3 votes) - I Think I'm Going To Be Single For Awhile... - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Bill McLeodIt seems that I am always getting emails from people asking me what the secret to happiness is as a single parent? So many of these people are just plain unhappy being single as, a single parent. They seem to believe that they need to be with someone in order to validate their life. Then I get ...
Views: 2063 - Save Your Marriage - 4 Simple Steps From The Expert On How To Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Johnny WayneIs it worth the time and effort to save your marriage? If you answer YES, then expect that the process is going to be hard and rocky at some point. The steps will be challenging for you but believe that it's going to be at all worth it. But, before you start down that path, you have to answer ...
Views: 826 - Avoiding A Love Break Up - 2 Best Signs For An Impending Love Break Up You Can Avoid - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Johnny WayneIf you have had a love break up many times, you will really know how hurtful and painful it can be. And if you thought back after the relationship ended, you probably saw all the signs that you didn’t recognize before. If you’ll remember those signs and keep them in mind, they can help you ...
Views: 1721 - How to Win Your Husband Back Without Dirty Tricks - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Matthew JohnsonWhen you’re starting to think about “how to win my husband back”, then the problem is really serious. He might have told you his decision or you may even have signed the divorce paper. Either way, none of them signifies that you have lost your chance. Countless couples reconnect every day and ...
Views: 1055 - Married But In Love With Someone Else - by Submitted on Sep 20, 2011 from Joe BeamYou probably never meant for it to happen. It’s not as if you went looking for a lover. However, once you fell in love with another person than your spouse, things got rather intense. You’re already in what some refer to as an emotional affair. Perhaps you’ve gone further and the relationship ...
Views: 16930(2 votes) - Why some people never recorver from break ups. - by Submitted on May 07, 2012 from Raymond FohjemA research was carried out on the level of break-ups after which it proved that more than 60% of relationships end in breakups. These people who broke up was not because they do not love their partners but due to the fact that they used the relationships to satisfy their unmet needs . After ...
Views: 2204 - Truth Behind Why Men Cheat On Their Wives! - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2011 from Daniel TangSo why do men cheat on their wives? There are many answers to this question and a lot of times, it's not exactly what women would like to hear, such as men are biologically wired to seek out as many suitable partners as possible or because they're not getting as much action at home or it's due ...
Views: 891 - There Are Two Sides To Every Story. Let Yours Be The Positive Side. - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2011 from Dana McIntyreDivorce is one of the hardest things a person can go through so it’s really easy to push the blame on someone else for why you are going through it in the first place. People always want to deliver a smart alec answer when they are asked why they got divorced – at least I did - especially if ...
Views: 2572(3 votes) - 4 Ways Subliminal Divorce Self Help Can Help You Overcome A Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2011 from Nelson BerryBy The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online. Have you recently been through a divorce or are you right in the middle of it? Breaking the bonds of marriage can be a heavy blow to your emotional well-being. No matter how tough the marriage has become, divorce always brings about an intense ...
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