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Advice on relationships by Rosemary Price psycihc. Did you know that most of the people who seek out advice from strangers are wanting help with relationship issues. They are wanting to get together with someone they like a lot, or they are in a relationship and it has troubles that they hope ... Views: 1081
It has become "normal" and not just accepted but expected that people turn to a problem page when they are in need of advice, support, sympathy, understanding, care, a listening ear, a sounding board and advice. For this reason there are now various websites offering their advice columns, ... Views: 973
You know that feeling when it seems like you and your partner just can't seem to agree on anything? While this is frustrating in any relationship, it is even more frustrating when you are trying to negotiate and decide how to settle a divorce. When couples can't agree on a few or all of the ... Views: 531
Last week I was contemplating an eye opening question previously posed by our marriage counselor, this week I’m defensive about an eye opening question posed by my husband
Then – 12/23/2003
“Last night was quite interesting. When ‘Carl’ came home from his AA meeting he was in a bad ... Views: 992
If you’re heading for a divorce you may be surprised to hear this but the best part of your life is about to begin. Gone is your husband and his demands on your time and now you have a fresh start and a welcome return to the girl you once new and loved. It’ll be different than from when you were ... Views: 684
When most people think about divorces, they probably picture a long drawn out process where both parties are forced to spend a lot of time, money and energy as they try and resolve their marital differences. While many people do choose to go to court in order to finalize the details of the ... Views: 564
You don’t.
I’m sorry, but no matter who you are, who she is, and how many crazy skills in dating you have learned, you will never. ever get back that particular person.
Why?
It’s been programmed into us since the dawn of time, and it’s called COURTSHIP.
There’s an actual set of ... Views: 4155
On the list of major life stressors, divorce comes in second; only the death of a spouse is first. It used to be that the death of a spouse was the number one reason why marriages ended. Now it's divorce (Steiner, Suarez, Sells, & Wykes, 2011). And, even though people are aware of the ... Views: 1684
Discover 5 critical things for dating ex-husbands. Dating your ex-husbandarmight be good or it might not. Although you might bring back the prior passion you had, it could also be your biggest error. Dating an ex-husband can be very complex. You should think about the children, custody of them, ... Views: 1172
Have you ever had something happen to you that was so bad it made you feel worn down? For me, that event was my first marriage. It was a nightmare. To be honest, I married a guy I should never have married. Even on our wedding day, I felt it wasn’t right. But I walked down the aisle ... Views: 1438
Most people are a bit "shell shocked" and anxious after a divorce. Good judgement often is lacking during this time. Learn 5 simple principles to remember so that you can come out of your divorce as a happy, healthy person. Refer to these simple principles when you feel shaky about your future ... Views: 1338
Is it possible to reunite with each other and how? Primarily, it is very possible for both of you to reunite with each other but the way and factors differs on how. For one thing, why did the two of you separated? Is it you who was left or you left? How long have you been broken up for? ... Views: 796
Do you believe that a broken marriage can still be mended? Restoring a marriage is possible if you know the “hows” of doing it. Love needs to be protected, secured and preserved. You have to give in to its “necessities” in order for it to develop to its fullest. Nobody can eradicate a ... Views: 1449
Then - 12/11/2003
“The big topic that came up during our argument was that he feels I don’t even want to be in a relationship. He feels that when he’s recovered I don’t even want to stay around; he thinks I’ve already made up my mind on the subject and that nothing he does to get better is ... Views: 957
Traditionally February musings are all about love, romance and partnership, yet many couples are not on this same train as they are experiencing relationship hurdles, unfortunate scenarios of love petering out, while others are going down the path of becoming unmarried and enduring the aftermath ... Views: 1690
I was on the MRT train with a new friend the other day, and he asked me what caused my marriage to end.
We were both standing, dangling from different handrail supports. I looked around. We were surrounded by a lot of other commuters. This person is not exactly soft-spoken either.
I ... Views: 1850
Have you ever poured ‘cold water’ over somebody else’s happiness?
In a literal translation from the Chinese language, ‘pouring cold water’ means dousing the flames of passion. This usually happens when the opposite party is feeling elated about a new love, promotion or business deal, and ... Views: 753
Preventing a divorce can be accomplished well ahead of time if couples recognize the warning signs and take steps to correct the areas in which the relationship has gone wrong instead of waiting until the marriage "blows up" and those dreadful words are spoken, "I want a divorce".
All ... Views: 851
Divorce: Why It's Important Not to Alienate Children from Their Parents
by Rosemary Fansher, M.A. aka HighConflictExpert
I have been a High Conflict Expert for many years. Sometimes I feel like I have seen and heard it all! One of my jobs as a high conflict expert is being ... Views: 2050
Certainly not; your wedding wasn't. Let me try and explain, but first let me say what prompted me to write this article. I'll make it short. I recently talked to the parents of a couple who was about to get divorced and they said: "We cannot do anything about it. It's their business and their ... Views: 1765
Events and Adventures is a company unique unto itself in that it is designed exclusively for singles but it does not waste its efforts trying to match make two people. In this instance, then, it is not a dating service like Match.com or Chemistry.com those companies are nothing more than passive ... Views: 782
Then - 12/10/2003
“Last night when ‘Carl’ got home from his meeting and was in ‘Dan’s’ room saying good night, I thought I smelled liquor on him. I told him and he rolled his eyes and got huffy. It still bothered me so before he could go downstairs I asked him if I could smell his breath. ... Views: 1158
It is an unfortunate American reality that half of all first marriages and nearly 60% of second marriages end in divorce. When business partners divorce‚ the financial and emotional challenges become more complex.
In addition to negotiating the separation agreement‚ dividing marital assets‚ ... Views: 1406
64 years old, unemployed and closing the book on a 26 year marriage, Beverly needed to make sure that she had explored all of her financial options. She was coming in out of the dark, because during the entire time she had been married, she had never closely managed her finances.
As her ... Views: 1274
While it may seem counter-intuitive, the more common divorce becomes, the more complicated it gets. One might expect that because about half of today’s first marriages end in divorce (and around 60 percent of second marriages) the law, the process, even the outcome would become standardized, ... Views: 1297
Hi, it's your wingman Dean Cortez and I've got a few quick tips on how to use INFLUENCE and PERSUASION tactics to get hot Asian girls attracted to you.
A few nights ago, my buddy Hunter and I visited a bar in San Francisco. The place was packed with beautiful Asian girls, who were sticking ... Views: 2440
When a couple separates or are about to separate, emotions are using running very high and stopping a divorce is probably the last thing on either spouse's mind, but this is actually where one of the most important steps to restoring the marriage occurs.
Giving each other space during this ... Views: 1005
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
There are plenty of reasons why couples would decide to divorce, but the bottom line is this: no matter how much a former husband and wife say it’s going to be all right and it’s an amicable decision, it’s never going to be worth celebrating. A ... Views: 1474
Although marriage has become less desirable and there are more and more people choosing to live with their partner, see them regularly but live in different homes, or stay single, people still choose to get married and put their trust into another person. Why they choose to marry may seem ... Views: 1064
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
Divorce, no matter how you look at it, is still very nasty. It’s not easy to end a relationship, especially if you’re married in the first place. However, there are thousands of couples who have survived divorce, and you can too.
How to ... Views: 566
By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.
You have been single just recently, but you have accepted the fact that at some point you should meet new people, particularly women. The problem is you're a single father and a divorcee. It can get quite complicated, knowing there are kids and ... Views: 732
DISCOURAGEMENT
SATAN'S DEADLIEST WEAPON
& LAST DAY PLAGUE.
This is a word for all of us, especially if you are following Jesus. This is where we sometimes say "the rubber meets the road".
When you get to a place in your life where absoultely nothing is going right. No matter ... Views: 896
It is just too easy to walk away from a relationship that has gone south. This article examines our journey from love to flight and includes practical help with the whole process.
In the beginning, you both try to impress the other; there are numerous questions and answers and the great joy ... Views: 571
Marriage it seems has become just a little more serious than dating these days. So many marriages are disintegrating everyday and many would like to know how to stop divorce from happening in the first place.
Some people have no business being married to each other, but then there are lovely ... Views: 874
Divorce is one of those rare times in life when one must ask serious questions about the self…
Who was I with this partner?
Who am I now?
How did this happen to me?
What should I do now?
There are few such significant, life-changing moments…some of us have ... Views: 1975
Remember that old 80’s song with Rockwell and Michael Jackson that said "I always feel like…somebody’s watching me???" Well, if you are one of the millions of people currently going through a divorce, the feeling of someone watching you may ring a little too close for comfort.
Many people ... Views: 2450
He wore braces and his hair parted in the middle with heavy gel, I was 2 years older than him and thought he was a brat… but we ended up being high school sweethearts, got married and had two wonderful children. Around the seven year itch the ‘non fights’ began, what do I mean by this? He would ... Views: 1322
Do you realize what to look for when it involves cell phone signals of a dishonest partner? You will discover numerous details that might serve to clue you in that the adoring partner might not be rather as adoring as you imagine. But, what do you think you're and is there nearly anything you ... Views: 908
Dumping a partner is difficult, no matter what the situation. You may be torn because of family or other commitments or problems but the odds are that you have thought about this for quite some time and you know that this is what is best for you. This does not mean it will suit your partner or ... Views: 2556
Practically everything valuable is worth doing it correctly. Succeeding at recovering from divorce is truly a circumstance that illustrates this aim.
Preparing carefully up front, attaining helpful guidance and following it, could make a major distinction in your instances for success or ... Views: 2176
Many Support for Divorced Men articles address solely with reference to what men is aimed to do in the course of divorce. So how about moving on after the process? Considering that even after the divorce procedures, men will still undergo to its aftermath; they still have to deal with its cost ... Views: 1279
Divorce can be a very tiresome undertaking. It requires potency, mental, emotional, and physical stability, financial resources, as well as time to go through it. Considering the mentioned things, who may not get stressed out? So to overcome divorce and the stuff it includes, let us bring ... Views: 1559
Are you and your partner worried about money in these uncertain times? During any economic crisis, couples have to face tough financial decisions. This can lead to an increase in stress and aggravate problems that already exist in your marriage.
As you look back to when you first met, what ... Views: 1358
A - Acknowledge the abuse - past, present and future
B- Break the Silence
C- Confront your fears & Call for help - There is nothing to be ashamed of
D - Don't Blame Yourself - Deliberately set intentions towards empowerment
E - Everyone Can Heal
F- Fear is worse than the abuse ... Views: 1633
Coping With Depression After Divorce for Men can be a difficult thing when everyone seems to have turned against you. I know a couple of months after my separation, after I finally realised that this was not going to go away I fell into a state of extreme sadness that it seemed would never leave ... Views: 1335
I was speaking with a acquaintance of mine the other day who was a eager ‘watcher of people' as he names it and he asked me “are guys more content after Separation? He was puzzled as I seemed content and well adjusted (currently), while he knew an extra guy who was totally down and lost his job ... Views: 1341
The effects of divorce on men have been skillfully documented, but unusually not advertised quite as prevelentlyas the consequences on females. Females of course struggle and go through many of the same problems men go through and many special troubles as well, but the damage done to the mental ... Views: 6630
Then - 11/1/2003
“I usually write when things are bad and they are as bad as it gets. ‘Carl’ has been to every doctor known to man, has taken every medicine available and even went to a nutritionist. For 2 ½ years we’ve been dealing with all of his physical ailments – night sweats, heart ... Views: 1086
If you knew me 15 years ago you wouldn't recognize the author, coach and public speaker - with a lot of Moxie - I am today.
I was once the shiest person I knew. As a child, I dreaded the first day of school because I usually had to stand up and tell everyone what I did on my summer vacation. ... Views: 1642