What to Do when His Friends Don't Like You

By The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online.

Do you feel like his friends don't really like you? Do you wish that you could at least get closer to them? One of the things you have to consider when you're in a relationship is the people that surround him. As much as possible, you don't want to develop animosity with any one of them to avoid complications within the relationship.

But there are certain things that cannot be helped, including getting cold shoulders from his circle of pals. To learn to cope with it better, take note of these tips:

Be friendly. Perhaps they are treating you that way because they don't know you too well. It's time to be friendlier toward them. You may want to ignore their cold shoulder first. If they know that you're actually nice in person, they will start to loosen up. Don't forget to be nice even when your boyfriend is not with you.

Let go of the small things. There are certain things that you should just let go simply because they don't matter. Besides, there's a good chance they are testing you how you are going to react. By choosing your battles, you prevent starting a lot of issues.

Talk to them. If you truly feel the animosity and the tension, be brave enough to talk to them. You can do this while in the presence of your boyfriend. Be more open in discussing the issues you have about them, as well as allow them to share theirs with you. You may not really like everything they are going to say, but remember that one of the reasons for the meeting is to give you time to clear things out.

Treat your boyfriend well. Perhaps they have met a lot of girls who have broken their friend's hearts. They are just trying to be protective over him. You should not take it against them. Rather prove to them you are not like that by becoming the best girlfriend he can ever have in his life.

Increase your self-confidence. It's easy for you to feel insecure or jealous over your boyfriend's friends especially if they are too testy. However, you can get rid of these negative emotions by improving your confidence. You can utilize subliminal messages or positive statements to help you with that. You can speak of the following subliminal messages:

I am confident about who I am.
I am proud of my strengths.
I am very secure of myself.

However, be careful about becoming too cocky or arrogant. This will only drive his friends farther away.

Tell your boyfriend about it. It's possible that your boyfriend has inkling about the issues but thinks you really don't care much about it. If you need help in settling the tension down, ask for your boyfriend's assistance. He is the best mediator available.

Distance yourself. If all things fail, know that you can always distance yourself from them. You don't have to deal with them all the time. When you see each other in certain occasions, treat them as acquaintances and be very civil. At the end of the day there's no rule that says you cannot date anyone without befriending his friends.