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- Needs: Why Do Some People Feel Selfish For Putting Their Needs First? - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are some people who feel comfortable putting their needs first, there are others who don’t. Even so, this doesn’t mean someone will be aware of this even though this is the case. Instead, they could simply have the tendency to focus on other people’s needs, and this is ...
Views: 1276 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Only Feel Valuable When They Are Rescuing Others? - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to being there for others, there are some people who can’t help but extend themselves. It might not matter what is taking place in their life, as they can be happy to put it to one side. What someone else is going thorough is going to be seen as something that is far more ...
Views: 1286 - Relationships: Why Are Some People Drawn To People Who Come Across As Certain? - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes what someone can do in order to be able to influence others, there are a number of things that are often put forward. One thing that they could hear about is how important it is for them to have the right body language. Through using their body in the right way, it will allow ...
Views: 1140 - Guru Worship: Do Some Peoples Childhoods Set Them Up To Follow Gurus? - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has the desire to develop themselves, they can end up getting into self-development. On one hand, this could be something that they only dip their toes into, so to speak, and on the other hand, it could consume their whole life. One Outlook When it comes to the former, it could ...
Views: 1122 - The Media: Does The Mainstream Media Edit Videos In Order To Control People? - by Submitted on Dec 18, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen one wants to find out about what is taking place in the world, they can end up looking towards the mainstream media. This could be something that has taken place for as long as they can remember. In the past, they might have listened to the radio, watched TV or read a paper when it came ...
Views: 1063 - Ambition: Do Some People's Childhoods Set Them Up To Be Ambitious? - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are some people who have absolutely no desire to do anything, there are others who find it hard to sit still. When it comes to the former, one might be only too happy to stay in bed all day. Yet, when it comes to the latter, they may be only too happy to get out of bed and to get ...
Views: 1389 - Relationships: Can Self-Development Condition People To Believe That They Need To Be Perfect To Have A Relationship? - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen one is used to having relationships that are not very fulfilling, they could begin to wonder what is going on. As a result of this, this area of their life is likely to cause them to experience a lot of pain. However, even though this is the case, the main thing is that they have taken ...
Views: 1262 - Relationships: Why Would Someone Accuse Their Partner Of Cheating? - by Submitted on Dec 15, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf one is in a relationship, they could begin to wonder what has happened to it. This could be a sign that it is no longer having the same effect on them as it used to have. What this could show is that they haven’t been putting in as much effort as they did in the past. Perhaps they have ...
Views: 1728 - Weight Loss: Why Do Some People Become Attention Seekers When They Lose Weight? - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s world, there are all kinds of things that someone can do when they are carrying a few too many pounds. When it comes to what one will do to lose weight, it can all depend on their personality. Active If one has a lot of energy, they might decide to engage in some kind of ...
Views: 1415 - Energy Vampires: Is It Harder To Realise When Someone Is An Energy Vampire When We Feel Low? - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to have a fulfilling life, it is often said that someone will need to spend time around the right people. This comes down to the fact that human beings are interdependent, and are therefore constantly being influenced by the people around them. If this wasn’t the case, it ...
Views: 1298 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Alternate Between Being A Victim And A Perpetrator? - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperBefore one goes out into the world, they can wonder who they are going to come into contact with. Perhaps they will think about if they will see one of their friends, or it they will make a new friend. As a result of this, they are going to look to forward to going out, and this can be a ...
Views: 1101 - Exercise: Can Someone Become Addicted To Exercise When They Can’t Regulate Their Emotions? - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperIn order for someone to be able to function at their best, there are a number of things that can be done. For one thing, it will be important for them to eat the right food, and what is right for them won’t necessarily be right for another. And if one doesn’t know what is right for them, ...
Views: 1460 - Boundaries: Does Someone Need To Embrace Their Masculine Nature If They Are Used To Being Walked Over? - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone is able to stand their ground, they are not going to have to worry about being walked over. Now, this doesn’t mean that they will never be walked over by others; what it means is that is that it won’t be something that happens on a regular basis. As if it was something they ...
Views: 1391 - News: Should Someone Always Pay Attention To The Same News Source? - by Submitted on Dec 11, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone has the urge to find out about what is taking place in the world, there is a strong chance that they will have a certain news source that they go to. This could be a source of information that they have followed for most of their life. Since the beginning of their life, they may ...
Views: 1275 - Relationships: Does The Fear Of Abandonment Cause You To Attract People Who Are Dependent? - by Submitted on Dec 10, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some people can have the tendency to end up with people who they are dependent on, there are others who can attract people who are dependent on them. As a result of this, someone can feel as though they have no control, or as though they have all the control. A Weaker Position If ...
Views: 1279 - Loss: Is It Possible To Get Over A Loss? - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s fast-paced world, there is often the need for instant gratification, and when something doesn’t happen straight away, it can lead to all kinds of problems. This can be a time when someone will experience a strong emotional reaction, and the sooner they get what they want the sooner ...
Views: 1565 - Anger: Can Repressed Anger Cause Skin Problems? - by Submitted on Dec 08, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIt has been said that every emotion has a purpose, and this means that it is going to be important for one to pay attention to all of them. However, even though this is the case, it can be easier said than done. What this comes down to is that while they might be able to embrace certain ...
Views: 1679 - News: Is It Important For Someone To Limit Their Exposure To The News When They Are Sensitive? - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIt could be said that it is easier than ever before for people to stay up to date with what is taking place in the world. This is partly because they no longer need to go and buy a paper or to turn on a TV, for instance. A Device As long as they have a Smartphone or something similar, ...
Views: 1102 - Relationships: Are Men And Women More Masculine/Feminine Than They Were In The Past? - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIn the past, there was greater pressure on people to behave in a certain way, and it didn’t matter what sex they were. Due to the changes that have taken place in recent years, it is a lot easier for them to behave how they want to. A Challenge Even so, this is not to say that everyone ...
Views: 1352 - Relationships: Do Some People Try To Understand Others In Order To Avoid Themselves? - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone has the tendency to attract people who are not right for them, it can cause them to suffer. This can be something that will consume their whole life, and it will then stop them from being able to experience a fulfilling existence. Alternatively, they could end up turning their ...
Views: 1444 - Celebrities: Why Do Some People Like To Build People Up And Then Tear Them Down? - by Submitted on Dec 05, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperEven though someone can be seen as a celebrity, there would have been a time when no one knew who they were. That is unless their parents were already famous, and this would have given them the upper hand. In The Beginning Therefore, if one doesn’t have famous parents, for instance, they ...
Views: 1603 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Feel Emotionally Unstable If They Are Not In A Relationship? - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are some people who can handle life regardless of whether they are with someone, there are others who are unable to do so. As a result of this, they are going to have a radically different experience when they are not with someone. Two Experiences When one is able to handle ...
Views: 1391 - Relationships: Can Someone Make Other People Feel Worthless To Avoid How They Feel? - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there can be people who one enjoys spending time with, there can be others who they don’t. What this will come down to is that they won’t feel the same around everyone, and this will be the result of how these people behave around them. A Drain When it comes to the people who they ...
Views: 1589 - Success: Are Some People More Concerned With What People Have Achieved Than What They Have Overcome? - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIt is not uncommon for someone to have the desire to achieve things and to move forward in life. This could mean that they have already been able to achieve a certain level of success, or they might just be starting out. If they are only just taking the first step in this direction, it could ...
Views: 1180 - Social Media: Do Some People Look Better On Social Media Than In Real Life? - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone uses social media, there are a number of things that they can do. For one thing, they can talk to people they know, and this can take place through commenting on something they have shared or by sending them a message. As to what option they take can all depend on how much ...
Views: 1627 - Relationships: Is It Normal For Someone To Have Low Self-Esteem After They Have Left An Abusive Relationship? - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some people are going to be used to having relationships that are fulfilling, there are going to be others who are not. In this case, someone could find that they have the tendency to end up with people who are not right for them. A Mismatch This is not to say that they will treat ...
Views: 1631 - Stress: Does Someone Need To Keep Their Stress Levels Down When They Are Sensitive? - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s world, it can be normal for someone to feel stressed, and there are a number of reasons why they would feel this way. For one thing, it could relate to what is taking place in their career. Deadlines One could have the kind of job where they have to complete things at certain ...
Views: 1154 - Success: Is Hunger An Important Part Of Success? - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to achieving something significant, it is generally not going to happen overnight. There is the chance that it could take them a number of years, or even longer than this. The Starting Point But while one could be in a position where they have one thing that they would like ...
Views: 1233 - The Media: What Does The Mainstream Medias Response To ‘Fake News’ Have In Common With Child Abuse? - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperOne thing that mainstream media has been focusing on recently is the amount of ‘fake news’ that is available. This relates to a lot of news that people have been sharing on social media. What brought their attention to this was the kind of things that people were sharing throughout the ...
Views: 1158 - Relationships: Is Your Ex Giving You False Hope? - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a relationship comes to an end, each person can go their own way, or something else might take place. As a result of this, it could only be matter of days or even weeks before they are back together. Round in Circles In fact, this could be something that will take place more than ...
Views: 6852 - Presidential Election: Did 'Fake News' Cause Hillary To Lose The Election? - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperEven though the presidential election has come to an end, it doesn’t mean that everyone is willing to accept the result. There are going to be plenty of people who are still in shock, even though a number of weeks have now passed. One Option In this case, someone could look into what ...
Views: 1172 - Criticising Others: Do Some People Criticise Others To Make Themselves Feel Better? - by Submitted on Nov 28, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperThere are a number of things that someone can do to change how they feel, and it could be said that some of these things are going to be better than others. For example, if one was to reach out for chocolate whenever they need to change their mood, it could set them up to experience negative ...
Views: 1543 - Needs: Is It Important For Someone To Be Comfortable With Their Needs When They Are Sensitive? - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone has the tendency to please others, it is likely to be a sign that they don’t feel comfortable with their own needs. It is then not going to matter that they are a separate human being, as their life won’t be a reflection of who they are. Point of Focus Their day-to-day life ...
Views: 1254 - The Media: Can We Rely On The Mainstream Media To Tell Us What News Is Fake? - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperRecently, the mainstream media has been talking about ‘fake news’ sites, and how these are having a detrimental effect on the world. Thus, if one is not aware of what has been taking place, they will be able to find out about it by reading paper or going online, for instance. Informed ...
Views: 1320 - Self-Worth: Can Someone Realise Their Value By Being Creative? - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are some people who feel comfortable in their own skin, so to speak, there are others who don’t. When one does experience life in this way, they are likely to have a sense of their own value. Self-Worth Through being in touch with what they bring to the world, they won’t feel ...
Views: 1199 - Boundaries: Does Someone Need To Avoid People Who Lack Boundaries When They Are Sensitive? - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIn order for someone to be able to express their true-self, they will need to feel comfortable doing so. If they only feel safe when they are putting on an act, it will still stop this part of them from seeing the light of day. How they generally behave around others is then going to be the ...
Views: 1505 - The Media: Is The Mainstream Media Behaving Like A Petulant Child When It Comes To The Presidential Election Result? - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperNow that the presidential election has ended, it has given people the opportunity to focus on something else. Therefore, if someone was caught up with what was taking place; their life may have gone back to how it was. Alternatively, the whole experience may have had a big effect on them, ...
Views: 1284(1 vote) - Career: Is It Important For Someone To Find The Right Career When They Are Sensitive? - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIt has been said that the average person spends most of their life at work, and this shows why it is so important for someone to do something that is fulfilling. If they don’t, this one area is likely to have a negative effect on every other area of their life. Point of Focus When they ...
Views: 1566 - Free Speech: Do People Need To Be Protected From Other People's Views? - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile it is not as if people have just started sharing their views, there is a difference when it comes to how things used to be. For one thing, the internet has given people a platform to do so. Restricted In the past, someone would have generally shared their views with their friends ...
Views: 1758 - Objectification: Why Do Some Women Say That Women Need To Stop Being Objectified? - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperNowadays, it is not uncommon for people to be part of some kind of movement, and it could be said that this is a partly down to the internet. Through being able to go online, one can connect to people who have the same views as them. As a result of this, the next step can be for them to ...
Views: 1314 - Helping Others: Can We Do More Harm Than Good By Helping Others? - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s world, there are all kinds of ways for people to help others, and it is also easy for them to let their friends know about what they have been doing. In the past, one would have generally needed to be around others in order to make a difference. Another Way But thanks to the ...
Views: 1486 - The Media: Why Is The Mainstream Media Worried About 'Fake' News? - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone has been paying attention to the mainstream media recently, they may have heard them talk about the ‘fake’ news that is circulating. This has been a time when they have spoken about how a lot of what they see on social media, for instance, is not real news. A Common ...
Views: 1154 - Environment: Does Someone Need To Live In A Peaceful Environment If They Are Sensitive? - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to what takes place in the world, it could be said that one has very little, if any, control. However, this is generally not going to be the case when it comes where they live. In this environment, they are likely to have far more control, and the amount of control they have ...
Views: 1276 - Social Media: Does Social Media Define How We See People? - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf one was to think about someone who they talk to on social media, a number of different associations may come to mind. For example, they could think about how they care about the planet, or that they are very knowledge when it comes to a certain area, for instance. There is also chance ...
Views: 1272 - Free Speech: Do Some People Try To Silence Others Because They Can't Handle Their Own Emotions? - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile someone could experience a negative reaction if another person was to say something bad about them, this could also take place if they were to express their views. As a result of this, it could be a challenge for them to feel at peace within. No Escape One could then spend time with ...
Views: 1750(1 vote) - Social Media: Why Do Some People Resort To Slander When They Use Social Media? - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it came to who one would talk to in the past, it would have generally related to the people they knew. This probably would have been their friends and family, and the people who they came into contact with in their day-to-day life. In addition to this, there could have been the people ...
Views: 1379 - Social Media: Does Social Media Encourage Groupthink? - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone talks to people over social media, it is not going to be the same as talking to them in person. It could be said that this is pretty obvious, and that it is not something that needs to be pointed out. What this primarily comes down to is that one is going to be using a device to ...
Views: 3190(1 vote) - Relationships: Why Do Some People Attract Friends Who Are Abusive? - by Submitted on Nov 19, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile someone could be in a position where their friendships are generally fulfilling, they could also have people around them who make their life harder than it needs to be. This is then going to be similar to how one can eat food that is good for them or they can eat food that ...
Views: 1657 - Offended: Does The Fear Of Offending Others Stop Some People From Sharing Their Views? - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2017 from Oliver JR CooperWhile there are some people who generally think before they speak, there are others who don’t. As a result of this, they are likely to come across as being radically different human beings. Holding Back When it comes to the former, it could be said that they are typically not going to say ...
Views: 2020 - Presidential Election: Was It A Shock For Donald Trump To Win The Election? - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperA number of days have passed since Donald Trump won the presidential election, but this doesn’t mean that everyone has come to terms with what has taken place. There are plenty of people who can’t get their head around what has happened. Two Sides This is something that can relate to the ...
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