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- Reverse Psychology And The Law Of Attraction - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainIs it possible to just 'fake it' and act like you are applying the Law of Attraction? What do you think? The Law of Attraction is a simple concept: whatever you focus on in your life, and however you feel about things, will send a vibration out to the Universe that the Universe will match in ...
Views: 10865(3 votes) - Reverse Psychology And The Law Of Attraction - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainIs it possible to just 'fake it' and act like you are applying the Law of Attraction? What do you think? The Law of Attraction is a simple concept: whatever you focus on in your life, and however you feel about things, will send a vibration out to the Universe that the Universe will match in ...
Views: 10865(3 votes) - Stop Chasing Your Life and Let it Come to You - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainAre you working so hard, visualizing, meditating, pushing, pulling, doing everything you can to make your dreams of the life that you want manifest into your life? Do you figure that by putting more attention toward it ? and giving it your all ? that it will bring it all that much faster? You ...
Views: 5934 - Changing Your Appearance With the Law of Attraction - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainIn today's society, changing one's appearance through hair color, eye contacts, and cosmetic surgery, seems to be the answer to creating the "new you." So is it possible to change the physical appearance by applying the Law of Attraction for new good looks? How your beauty is perceived by ...
Views: 5305 - What Can Jealousy And Envy Do To The Law Of Attraction? - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainYou come home from work and see that your next door neighbor, once again, has another new vehicle. You feel envious and wish it was you. "Why does he get everything? I wish I had his luck!" Or maybe your cousin calls to tell you she's getting married. You tell her how happy you are for her ...
Views: 5079 - How to get Beyond your Negative Thoughts - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainThe power of thought. Isn't it amazing how whatever you focus on becomes the life you lead? Every thought that you invest in becomes your reality through the Law of Attraction. So why is it that the negative thoughts just sneak in and do their best to derail all that you've been thinking ...
Views: 4674(2 votes) - Using Anger Constructively with the Law of Attraction - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainWe were given thought and emotions and while it's our choice whether we use them for positive or negative, why even have negative emotions? It is not realistic to say I don't get angry or frustrated anymore since I found the Law of Attraction. Even the best of us will have negative emotions ...
Views: 3944 - Dream Interpretation the Old Fashioned Way - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2007 from Beth and Lee McCainI remember sitting on my grandma’s big fluffy bed, watching her write in a faded, worn out notebook; squenched, tiny faded lips and her eyes shut tight, remembering a dream she had dreamed the night before. “What are you doing, Grandma?” “Quiet child! I’m going back to the dream world for ...
Views: 3941(1 vote) - Technique In How To Influence People Using The Law Of Attraction - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainToday is the day you have the big meeting where you want everyone to pay attention and really understand where you are coming from. You want others to agree with you and work as a team. Or maybe you have a co-worker that you just want to get along with. No really…you want to get along, not ...
Views: 3817 - Law of Attraction: Mentally Getting Rid of Your Past Mistakes - by Submitted on Feb 26, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainDo you ever feel as if you are repeating your past mistakes over and over again? No matter what you do it seems that a particular past event keeps popping up? Can you ever get rid of the past mistakes of your life and move forward? When using the Law of Attraction intentionally your past is a ...
Views: 3660 - Signs From The Universe - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainYou wake up and shuffle off to the bathroom to find a quarter lying on the sink. You wonder how it got there. You put it in your pocket and forget all about it until lunchtime. You meet a business associate for lunch at the local café. As you sit and wait for him to get there, you notice ...
Views: 3639 - How to Feel Abundance When it's Not Here Yet - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainHow many times have you said to yourself, "Today is the day that all my dreams come true" and then the day passes. You see little progress in the Law of Attraction in your life. You are intentionally watching each thought and living in the now. After a while, those feelings of the day passing ...
Views: 3090(1 vote) - Be the Example in your Child's Life - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainEvery parent wants their child to grow up to enjoy life and be successful. Each and every one of us has something in our past that we don't want our children to experience as they get older. We protect them and nurture them hoping they will never experience hurt yet as they get older they come ...
Views: 3065(26 votes) - Law of Attraction Technique: Retraining the Worry Mind - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2010 from Beth and Lee McCainEverything is going on along perfectly fine and then that thought creeps into your mind: "What if something happens so that everything isn't as good?" Then your worry-mind takes over and decides that it is going to give you a full account of the worst case scenarios for any and everything. ...
Views: 2913(5 votes) - Make your Living through Writing - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2010 from Beth and Lee McCainIf you are a writer, there is only one thing that drives you: writing. If you were unable to ever see your work in print, a true writer would write nonetheless, even if the work was seen by an audience of one. This article will show you how it is completely unnecessary to invest your heart and ...
Views: 2743(1 vote) - Deconstructing Your Negative Thoughts Positively - by Submitted on Jul 30, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainYou have to change if you want your life to change. There is no question about it. When you are living life and not enjoying what it is giving out to you, the only way to change it is by changing your thoughts and feelings to reflect the life that you desire. So how can someone just change ...
Views: 2636 - It Only Matters What You Think - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainEach and every day we encounter an opinion or belief that is in direct contrast to what we believe. We either accept that someone has a different opinion or we become frustrated with that person's opinion. And when you accept someone else's view of your life you then assume a belief about ...
Views: 2600 - New Year's Resolution Law of Attraction Style - by Submitted on Dec 29, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainEach year many of us make New Year resolutions knowing full well that we are going to try to uphold our promises to ourselves. "This year I’m giving up smoking," or "This year I'm going to start and finish that book I want to write," then about three weeks into the New Year we have already set ...
Views: 2600(14 votes) - Is it a Sign from the Universe? - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainYou're driving along and as you tap your fingers to the beat of the radio you happen to notice a billboard with the number 111 in the corner. "Wonder what it is doing there?" you think to yourself but you soon forget about the crazy out of place number as you pull in to the parking lot of your ...
Views: 2579(4 votes) - Your Life Is A Reflection Of Your Thoughts - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainDid you know that everything in your life is a reflection of your thoughts? This particular phrase is a hard pill to swallow as some can't grasp the "thought" that their thoughts caused the bank to make an error, or their significant other to break up with them. But it's true and is nothing to ...
Views: 2417 - Taking Care of your Inner Self - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainI remember the days when I was always trying to catch up, constantly feeling as if I was always chasing down my dreams and my life. Time seemed to get away and I felt like I never had enough time to get it all done. This was before I found the knowledge of what life really is about, and when ...
Views: 2385 - How To Gain Confidence Through The Law Of Attraction - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2007 from Beth and Lee McCainThere are two questions that we are frequently asked regarding the Law of Attraction. The primary questions are usually about money and how to obtain it, but the other question that is frequently asked is: "How do I find the confidence in myself to feel that I can apply the Law of Attraction ...
Views: 2201 - Law of Attraction: Techniques in Bringing Manifestations to Life - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2010 from Beth and Lee McCainYou're going along wonderfully. You're feeling great and your visualization time feels so wonderful then a negative thought pops into your mindset. You shoo it away and get back on track and here comes another one! It's as if they are doing their best to bring you down somehow. The thoughts ...
Views: 2135(5 votes) - The Voice of Fibromyalgia - by Submitted on Jun 04, 2010 from Beth and Lee McCainI am a positive thought author. My life is all about living life through positive thought but not only that, I have Fibromyalgia. Now you would never think that someone with this crazy chronic illness could ever be someone who all day long talks about how to be positive no matter what the ...
Views: 2129(1 vote) - Thoughts of Abundance - by Submitted on Nov 21, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainEveryone seems to want something more than they currently have. Whether it is a better relationship, a career, or just plain old money, we tend to seek and attain beyond what we have at the moment. This is just as it should be. We came to this physical reality to experience and to co-create. ...
Views: 2084(10 votes) - Teaching Children The Law Of Attraction - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainEach one of us possesses all the tools to have all that we desire in our lives through intentionally applying the Law of Attraction. So can you imagine what it would be like to be a child of the Law of Attraction; to apply the Law of Attraction intentionally from childhood? Think of how ...
Views: 1865(5 votes) - Law of Attraction Economics and You - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainEach time the television blares it's as if the whole world is going to financially crumble. Jobs lost, gas costs going up, and no money to be seen anywhere for anyone. Every day that passes seems to be a bit bleaker than the next. So are you doomed to riding out the economy of the world right ...
Views: 1828(1 vote) - Problem Solving with a New State of Mind - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainIt takes new thought to solve a problem. To solve a problem, you can not use the same mind as your former self. In order to solve problems you have to think outside the box and expect change. If you have a repetitive problem that just keeps showing up in your life you have to think differently ...
Views: 1743(3 votes) - Replacing Negative Habits with the Positive - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainJust because it happened before doesn't mean it will happen again. YOU have the power to change it. We can sometimes be under the impression that the situations that seem to keep coming back in life time and time again are there to stay but really…they're not. A repetitive cycle that keeps ...
Views: 1640(6 votes) - Finding Your Natural State of Being - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainOne of the keys to having the Law of Attraction work intentionally is to be aware of your natural state of being. Now what exactly does that mean? Let's take a look at who you really are. Your physical body is like a shell. It is not forever eternal. If it was, you would be immortal, but your ...
Views: 1627 - Living With My Aging Parents - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2007 from Beth and Lee McCainWhen watching the talk shows discuss the subject of aging parents, it's usually about the hospital bills, the doctor appointments, and juggling personal time now that your parents no longer drive; about parent/child role reversals. The one subject that I never hear addressed is of daily living ...
Views: 1627 - Laughter, The Ultimate Law Of Attraction Accelerator - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2007 from Beth and Lee McCainEveryday, Lee and I visualize what we desire in our lives and we always adhere to the basics of the Law of Attraction during our visualization times. You already know the basics: think of things as if they are happening in the now, feel and see exactly what you wish to attain and, when you're ...
Views: 1602 - Creating a Better Life - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2010 from Beth and Lee McCainIn order to create a better life for yourself it is going to take change, and that change starts within your own mind. And as you learn to shift your thoughts from the negative to the positive you will find that life will begin to show a change for the better. When we think repetitive ...
Views: 1586(6 votes) - The Missing Key In The Law Of Attraction - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainYou've been reading about and applying the Law of Attraction for some time now and you wonder if it really is real because what you have wanted and asked for just hasn't come along. So what is causing this in your life? There is a missing key to the Law of Attraction that seems to get lost in ...
Views: 1576 - Grandpa And The Deer - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2007 from Beth and Lee McCainAt first, he thought they were the noblest of creatures. Everyday one or two would visit our meadow, grazing like little brown and white lawn mowers across the four acre expanse. ¡°Beautiful creatures,¡± he would smile. But by the time the whole ordeal reached its volcanic conclusion, the ...
Views: 1569 - Law of Attraction: Getting Beyond the Negatives of Life - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Beth and Lee McCainOh those little things in life. You know the ones... Washing the car, cleaning up the pet poop, eating a bowl of ice cream, getting through all those daily moments that we all go through. The question is, how are you when it comes to those little things? Do you dread the after breakfast rush ...
Views: 1554(2 votes) - Some Sage Advice from Great Grandma - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainFamily stories are amazing to me. You hear of family members long ago and through the retelling of their lives you can get an idea of who they were. And by hearing about who they were, you can find timeless wisdom that can apply to your own life now. My great grandma was one of those people. ...
Views: 1507(2 votes) - The Law Of Attraction Time Delay - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainDon't tell us you haven't thought of it. Why does it seem to take so long to manifest certain desires? Why so easy to manifest a parking spot or a penny on the sidewalk, but so hard to manifest that beautiful home and the financial security you want? And is there a time delay in manifesting ...
Views: 1485 - Is The Law Of Attraction Selfish? - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2007 from Beth and Lee McCainLee and I were in front of a group of corporate employees who would have much rather been spending this time sitting at their computers or having an afternoon break. We had been asked to come in and speak. Their employer said they needed an attitude adjustment. The employees were bickering, ...
Views: 1473 - Shifting Your Focus; A Technique Using The Law Of Attraction - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainWhen applying the Law of Attraction what you focus on is what it is all about. Think of your focus as a laser beam and whenever you focus on something, whether it is negative or positive, you are sending out a laser beam that directly brings something back to you. So when you focus over and ...
Views: 1452 - Law of Attraction: Caution, Don't Attract Lack - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2007 from Beth and Lee McCainCan words keep you from obtaining what you desire through the Law of Attraction? It all depends on how you use your words. Words, of themselves, won't keep you from your desires but the feelings attached to them can. There are many words that we say with such strong emotional attachment ...
Views: 1342 - Manifesting The Big Stuff With The Law Of Attraction - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainSo you're great at manifesting the small stuff; the parking spot, miniscule amounts of money, getting the table you want in the restaurant, but you stop short when it comes to manifesting the big stuff. Why does this happen, and what can you do to change it? It's all about attachments. You ...
Views: 1320 - It Will Happen When... - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainIt will happen when you envision and make a mold of what you want. When you can see it, feel it, and know that it can happen, expect it to come to you and trust how the Universe brings it to you. Then it will happen. It will happen when you stay strong and trust that what you desire is really ...
Views: 1315(1 vote) - A New Thought Creates Change - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainReally think about this. How wonderful would it be to have the life that you want? We don't mean a fast forward version and a 'quick think' of how wonderful life 'could' be. We're talking about really thinking and feeling how it would be to have the life that you truly, really, one hundred ...
Views: 1298 - Law Of Attraction: When One Door Closes... - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainWhen you are faced with a challenge in your life and it feels as if doors are closing right and left, what do you do? Do you just accept the fact that things seem to be falling apart or do you rise to the occasion and keep moving forward? In the Law of Attraction, if you keep the focus on what ...
Views: 1267(3 votes) - Great Law Of Attraction Money Affirmations - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2007 from Beth and Lee McCainSometimes finding a perfect affirmation, just for you, can be a little hard. Here are some great money abundance affirmations that we have used in the past or that other Law of Attraction practitioners have e-mailed to us. The Universe is unlimited. There is more than enough abundance for ...
Views: 1253 - Law Of Attraction: Reality As You See It - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainWhat really is reality? Two different people can be experiencing the same situation yet they have completely different experiences through the situation. Isn't that amazing? What makes the situation different for each person? Their perception of the experience that they have created with ...
Views: 1239 - The Homemade Ice Cream Cake - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2007 from Beth and Lee McCain"Are you sure you don't want me to pick up a cake at the ice cream store?" I ask my twenty-five-year-old son on the phone. He whines like a three year old. "You try to talk me out of it every year, Mom. I want you to make me an ice cream cake for my birthday. I want a mint chocolate chip ice ...
Views: 1223 - The Annual Halloween Costume Drama - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2007 from Beth and Lee McCainMom dreaded Halloween when my brother and I were kids. On the one hand my brother, Kevey, could always be conned by Mom into "being something easy." He was a ghost every year of his young life. But unlike most ghosts, he was never completely white; in fact, he was always the ghost that by ...
Views: 1222 - Don't Wait on Another for Your Dreams - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2009 from Beth and Lee McCainHave you ever blamed someone else for the life you are living? Or expect that someone else is the one responsible for giving you the life you want? Have you ever thought, "If I had different parents, siblings, or life conditions, I would have what I want in life." Guess what...you are the ...
Views: 1193 - Proving The Law Of Attraction - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2008 from Beth and Lee McCainThese days, in order to prove an existence of anything, there has to be some physical evidence of some sort to be deemed "scientifically tested." With gravity, while we can't actually see its force with our eyes, it is obvious that it exists because the undeniable result is "what comes up, ...
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