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Three Myths of Sexual Desire - by Valeria ChubaHow Unusual Are Your Sexual Fantasies? - by Valeria Chuba- The Health Benefits Of Sex - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from Al Link and Pala CopelandThe Health Benefits of Sex By Al Link and Pala Copeland - 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra Lose weight. Reduce stress. Lower your cholesterol level. Improve your circulation. Live longer. Stay younger. Sounds like an ad for a new wonder drug right? In fact it’s a partial list of the ...
Views: 2834 - The Health Benefits of Sex - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2020 from Tori UtleySex and sexuality constitute a major aspect of life. Sex should not only be for procreation. It also increases the intimacy between two persons and is also a source for pleasure. Sexual activities which include penile-vaginal intercourse (PVI) as well as masturbation can provide surprising ...
Views: 834 - The High Cost of Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2012 from Benny GilbetIt's well known that worry, stress, and anxiety contribute negatively to premature ejaculation. In addition to the degeneration of the feeling of control, when a man is "uptight," his lover will usually perceive it. If she then starts to stress about his anxiety, she is prone to have issues with ...
Views: 1883 - The Hunt For Discreet Vibrators - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2008 from Hysteria ShopIf you want to take a sex toy with you, especially in a world where purses and suitcases are searched at the airport and work, you’ll need something discreet. That’s where discreet vibrators come in. Because with discreet vibrators, only you know you have them. It always helps to be ...
Views: 5394 - The Idea Of Male Chastity - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2018 from Frederick Ray RayOne of the suggestions behind male chastity cage is that a male is continually searching for his sex enjoyment, it seems simplistic, unoriginal, and even primal but remembers that it does not connect with all men. The sexual energy they can no more wield is normally placed into other uses. Males ...
Views: 1355 - The Importance of Cultivating Self-Acceptance in the Queer Community - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2020 from Tori UtleyMany individuals who identify as queer experience stigma, prejudice, and/or discrimination because of their sexuality. According to minority stress and identity development theories, these experiences can contribute to difficulties with self-acceptance of sexuality. Lower self-acceptance is ...
Views: 844 - The Importance of Listening to your Emotions - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeIf you accidentally touched a hot stove, the nerves in your skin would shoot a message of pain to your brain. The brain then sends a message back telling the muscles in your hand to pull away. Is that a bad thing? No, you would answer. What a ridiculous question, you might retort. Hear me ...
Views: 1187 - The Importance of Touch - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Martha Tara LeeTouch is the medium through which we first become acquainted with the world. It is the first means of communication between the newborn baby and the mother. Research has shown that many babies who are raised in an orphanage and are not handled and touched on a regular basis rarely live past the ...
Views: 1027 - The importance of using lubricant during sex and anal sex - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2019 from Daniel GarrettLubricant is an amazing thing. It makes sex more comfortable, more slippery and just feels awesome. I am sure you have all heard the term ‘wetter is better’, and if you have used lubricant for sex, then you know this is completely true! There are also a whole lot of benefits to using lubricant ...
Views: 1291 - The Improvements That Internet site Design Has Gone Through - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2020 from kingof seoPreliminary Stages Of Website Designing There has been plenty of changes which have taken position so far as site style methods are worried and it has evolved as the time progressed. The first page was merely a dark plain text which was submitted as a webpage on a website. There is no usage ...
Views: 1015 - The Incredible Benefits of Exercise On Your Sex Life - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2011 from Raymond EhomaAs men and women get older, his or her sexual desire along with general sex lifestyle usually wane owing the consequence involving aging along with other life style aspects. Although all of us simply cannot manipulate ageing, we can easily nevertheless influence the particular variables which ...
Views: 1678 - The Intersection of Sex and Relationship Anxiety - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2019 from Sheryl PaulIf you’re familiar with relationship anxiety, you know that it doesn’t take much for a flyaway thought to send you into a tailspin of anxiety that then leads you to question if you’re with the right person. This thought could be, “I’m not feeling in love” or “My partner always irritates me” or ...
Views: 1188 - The Intuitive Pussy - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2017 from Addison BellMy pussy speaks to me. It has a voice. At times in my life this voice has been almost inaudible while at other times it has been loud and robust. Years ago I worked very hard to silence this part of me that was connected on a soul level. The connection felt too much, too intense, and too open. ...
Views: 2714 - The Key Benefits of Prostate Massage Therapy For Men's Health - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2011 from Paul RodgersRegular exercising and maintaining a healthy diet are considered the two most significant issues that lead to a healthy body. This is true for both males and females. However, there exists one routine that is exclusive for males. This is prostate massage. It is a procedure which will cleanse ...
Views: 17237 - The Key to Real Choices - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2007 from FSB AuthorsIn the practical world I grew up in, sexuality and spirituality were not considered poetically. The logic of aiming for a successful life left little room for passion and visions. Practically from the moment I was born, I was urged to join society's routines that would march me through life. The ...
Views: 1362 - The Lover's Touch - by The Lover asked: How would you like me to touch you?
The Lover answered:
I would like you to touch me as if you were going away tomorrow, far far away, and you wanted to remember the feel of my body, the texture of my skin, the hills and valleys that make up the landscape of who I am.
I ...
Views: 1657 - The Lowdown on STD Screening: How it Works, and How to Prepare - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2013 from John DuganBefore a couple slips between the sheets for a blissful interlude, they're often encouraged to visit the doctor for a thorough STD screening, since a remarkable number of very serious medical conditions can be passed from one partner to another during sex. These tests may become a routine part ...
Views: 767 - The Modern Practice of Puja - by Submitted on Oct 19, 2017 from Robyn VogelSUMMARY: Puja is an ancient cultural tradition that has unknown roots. Some scholars believe that the practice began during Vedic times (1500 – 600 BCE) where the word puja has been found in the Sutras (which were composed to describe domestic rites, prayers, rituals). In these years, it ...
Views: 2082 - The Most Common Sexual Fetishes - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2015 from Mike HatcherIf you've always been involved in just normal sexual activities, you may be unaware of the number of sexual fetishes that exist. In fact, you may not have any idea how widely these fetishes are used. Usually, fetishes are something which you execute a lot of times, take delight in observing them ...
Views: 2502 - The Most Important Minute and a Half of Your Month (Not Meant for Children) - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2014 from Michael MantellAlan and Donna Brauer wrote a very fascinating book, “Better, Safer Sexual Intimacy and Extended Orgasmic Response.” Here’s what they found and reported: • The average human orgasm (not lovemaking) lasts only ten seconds • The average frequency of sexual intercourse for most couples is once ...
Views: 1045 - The Most Important Minute and a Half of Your Month (Not Meant for Children) - by Submitted on Nov 06, 2014 from Michael MantellAlan and Donna Brauer wrote a very fascinating book, “Better, Safer Sexual Intimacy and Extended Orgasmic Response.” Here’s what they found and reported: • The average human orgasm (not lovemaking) lasts only ten seconds • The average frequency of sexual intercourse for most couples is once ...
Views: 1307 - The Myth of Celibacy and Spiritual Life - by If you are on the planet to become more loving and to evolve spiritually, how does sexuality fit into the scheme of things? In most spiritual traditions, sex has been held as an obstacle to enlightenment. Vows of celibacy have been praised as seekers try to conquer the "burdens" and "illusions" ...
Views: 6018 - The Myth of Perfect Sexual Control - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2012 from Benny GilbetThe Contest We have grown up inside an ambitious society where accomplishment has been highly valued. We are conditioned to do our best. There is a lot of pressure to do well and there are advantages for doing so. This is what makes our economy work, encourages free enterprise, and enables ...
Views: 1509 - The Only Way To Make A Guy Addicted To Your Love: Make Him Addicted To You - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2017 from Michael UadialeYou don't need to buy a magical potion or undergo plastic surgery and borrow a celebrity's face just to make a guy addicted to your love. If you want someone to fall head over heels in love with you, there are far cheaper and more effective ways of doing so. Tip #1: Look your best. Love at ...
Views: 4042 - The Perils of Impotence: It affects your Lovemaking Big time - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2011 from Radley TaylorWhoever says that physical satisfaction is not necessary and should be kept at the backburner is probably leading a very ignorant life or maybe something is wrong with him. We root for emotional support and stability, but what about the physical aspect of a relationship? What about the intimacy ...
Views: 1486 - The Perils of Peeping - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2008 from Sharon BellLady Godiva was an 11th century noblewoman who was against her husband’s plan of imposing heavy taxes on the people of Coventry, England. As a sign of protest, she rode naked through the market place. This prompted her husband, Leofric, the earl of Mercia, to abandon all taxes except ...
Views: 859 - The Politics of Love: We Are Elizabeth; We Are John - by Submitted on May 19, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsThe same dynamic is at play in our national and private yearnings. We want the same illusion of moral constancy in our politicians as we do in our marriages. But we inevitably find our leaders have feet of clay. And it’s common for couples to not even know what’s going on in their very own ...
Views: 1020 - The power of play - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2012 from Martha Tara LeeI have a question to ask you. Amidst the hustle and bustle of your busy work and personal lives, when was the last time you played? Close your eyes and try recalling some of the happiest moments in your life: What might they be? Whether this memory is of you as a child or as an adult, chances ...
Views: 1508 - The Psychology Of Dating In 2012 - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2012 from Lynn LoopDating has come such a long way in the last decade. These days we have more opportunity and more fantastic and unbelievable ways to meet people than ever before. Once upon a time in a not so distant world people actually used to have to go out and meet people through a friend or co-worker ...
Views: 1360 - The relentless chase - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2011 from Darrell BeagleEverybody knows the typical story. A male will meet a female and start out chasing after her and hoping until this relentless pursuit can make her somehow see that he may be the greatest match for the woman's and she'll fall around love having him. Effectively, as most of us should realize, this ...
Views: 613 - The Role of Sex Toys in the Sex Industry - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2017 from Frederick Ray RayReality and expectations are often very distant. After we come of age, and come to know about physical attraction, we immediately make connotations with romance. In our minds, the pleasures of the flesh can only be associated with ‘making love’ with our special halves. However, that is not ...
Views: 919 - The Role Of Therapy For Sexual Minorities - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2008 from Lauri Allison LaBadie(And even those just questioning) Fortunately, the role of therapy for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender persons (sexual minorities) has undergone a revolution in modern times. In the past, persons from sexual minorities were suspicious of therapists - and for good reason! Often, the ...
Views: 1708 - The Sex Talk: 6 Things Parents Must Know - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2008 from Vanessa Van pettenI want to start off first by saying that I do not have a specific age recommendation for giving the sex talk because I truly believe that every child and family is different with a variety of values. Therefore these tips are simply things that most teenagers I speak with, wish their parents knew ...
Views: 1636 - The Single Man's Guide To Sexual Etiquette With Single Women - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2007 from Don DiebelPlease follow these steps to make a favorable sexual impression with single women: Have you got any sexual problems? If you do, be sure and discuss them with the woman you're with before you start making love. This way she is more inclined to be understanding and helpful if you tell her in ...
Views: 1110 - The Somatic and the Cerebral Narcissist - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2009 from Sam VakninQuestion: Are narcissists mostly hyperactive or hypoactive sexually and to what extent are they likely to be unfaithful in marriage? Answer: Broadly speaking, there are two types of narcissists, loosely corresponding to the two categories mentioned in the question. Sex for the narcissist is ...
Views: 11911 - The Splendor of Fantasy - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2017 from Addison BellIt’s late in the evening, and I’m walking with two of my lovers as the light, balmy breeze blows my hair. I look up and feel deeply connected to the moon and breathe it into my being. As we walk, I give one of my lovers a gentle hug, and then I lean sweetly into the other with an affectionate ...
Views: 1721 - The Story on Sex Books - by Submitted on May 13, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsJoseph Campbell said “I don’t believe that anyone knows what sex is. It’s the greatest mystery in human life…” Starting here, I believe is the most honest place for thinking about books on sexuality. It assumes that we give up our notions of right and wrong about sexual preferences, practices ...
Views: 1423 - The Struggle for Penis Sensation – Understanding and Overcoming Penile Sensitivity Loss - by Submitted on Jun 03, 2013 from John DuganMost men are not comfortable talking about it, but penis sensation loss is common - over 85% of men report some reduction in penile sensitivity. Loss of sensation is sometimes related to aging issues, but in many instances, younger men also experience diminished sensitivity. Loss of sensation ...
Views: 1223 - The Stupidest Trial Ever? - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2008 from Cara InocencioAs a general rule I'm opposed to criminalizing victimless crimes such as drugs or prostitution, and a recent conversation with a friend further confirms my belief. Cary told me that he had recently been called to serve on a jury here in Los Angeles for the trial of a Latin American immigrant ...
Views: 1243 - The Symptoms And Natural Treatments For Sexually Transmitted Diseases - STD Remedies - by Submitted on Jun 23, 2008 from Dawn RowlettSexually Transmitted Diseases. The only sure way to avoid contracting one is by practicing abstinence. And, there are a lot of STD's these days. So many, in fact, that there are ones that are considered Common STDs. Many people are responsible in their sexual activities, but many are not. Unless ...
Views: 11957 - The Syphilitic Narcissist - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2007 from Sam VakninIt is common knowledge that brain disorders, injuries, and traumas are sometimes misdiagnosed as mental health problems. But what about "run of the mill" organic medical conditions? Syphilis provides a fascinating glimpse into the convoluted world of differential diagnoses: the art of telling ...
Views: 1133 - The three most important things your man wants from you sexually - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2019 from Todd CreagerFrom my work with couples in this area, I have found some clear answers to the question, what are the most important things your man wants from you sexually. In my private practice, I’ve been helping couples rekindle passion and keep it alive. I’ve been doing this for over 30 years with ...
Views: 1243 - The three things that make your woman want you sexually - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2019 from Todd CreagerIn my last article, I talked about the three most important things your man wants from you sexually. In this article, I share the reverse side of this topic and cover the three things that make your women want you sexually. The reason I changed the title is that there is more of a ...
Views: 3782 - The Top 6 Sexting Tips You Need To Know Before You Start Sexting - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2015 from Mike HatcherWe're all looking for that special someone with whom we can have a great time, laugh and be ourselves, but if you really want to meet such a guy, then you sure won't be able to if you're not open minded and don't do something about it. And since many people don't really have the confidence of ...
Views: 1746 - The Truth About Lesbian Bed Death - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2015 from patti geierA couple concerned about the lack of sexual desire and activity in their relationship, came to see me for a consultation. They had been living together for two years, loved each other and had no problem being affectionate. Sex, however, seemed to have fallen by the wayside after the first year. ...
Views: 1142 - The Truth About Scents And Your Sexuality - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2008 from Janice WeeWhat attracts a woman to a man? Is it his physique? Hmm. That could be a factor. Or is it his dynamic personality? Or can it be what her nose says about him? Literally. Chemistry. That elusive thing that so many seek in that special relationship. The warm fuzzy feeling a woman might feel ...
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