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We, as humans, share 98% of our genetic makeup with chimpanzees. So, what is the difference between those small apes and us?
As you probably know, the chimpanzee is intelligent, social and has a wide range of sounds and gestures for communication and is probably one of the most expressive of ... Views: 1301
For some, crystal singing bowls are an alien thought. In truth, when we send a normal partners a set as a wedding present, some may very sad to say blunder them as serving containers. Not having further facts, common individuals like you and also me are unsure and will perhaps never know about ... Views: 1314
How many of you feel that you have so many different responsibilities in your life, that you cannot possibly make it all work. You may be focusing on work obligations while trying to keep your household up and running. All of this running around creates a feeling of hopelessness. I have seen it ... Views: 1921
Have you ever heard "DENIAL is not a river in Egypt." Well I have an even better one, Denial stands for: Don't Even Know I Am Lying.
It's hard to believe that denial would be classified as a feeling. I think Denial would be considered a numbing device, like Novocain for the ... Views: 4343
Have you ever noticed how you feel so much lighter and happier after a few dances? Ever notice that people are in good moods and their energy is higher when dancing. There are a few reasons for that ,one being its all about energy movement, the other being that as adults we are allowing ... Views: 1469
For people who struggle with time management, clutter reduction is often the first step to having more time in your life. When you simplify your environment and organize your life, it makes tasks go more smoothly, and helps you make the most of your limited time.
For me a lack of clutter is ... Views: 2307
Dealing with disappointment is something we all have to do at some point along life’s journey. Unfortunately, life is full of unpleasantness, but if you can grasp some vital truths in dealing with disappointment, you can eaze your mind a great deal.
Always remember, it’s not so much what ... Views: 2352
Stress wreaks havoc on our mind and our body. We will examine the impact of stress and use traffic as an example. If you do not commute back and forth to work, just imagine you are leaving town on your vacation.
We are on our way to work; we have traveled the same route a million times. ... Views: 1694
As you begin to decide on the logistics of your support group, one of the first things to consider is who you would prefer to actually attend.
For example:
- Will this be a group for men as well as women, adults, and possibly teenagers?
- Will your group serve those have recently been ... Views: 2172
… and do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live …
—Ephesians 4:30 (nlt)
The topic of health and the environment of our bodies gets big press today and rightfully so because our bodies are the temples of... the ... Views: 1541
Question:
I'm having difficulty understanding detachment, specifically relating to my children. I want to rid myself of material and emotional attachments but I have (as we all do) a deep bond and love for my children. I really want to understand.
Answer:
The concept of detachment has ... Views: 1417
People often poke fun at the thought of having a magic wand. I don’t think there’s anything funny about making your life hard. We each have a magic wand called intention. You have to clarify your request and then make the decision that it will be so.
I’m one of millions (probably even ... Views: 1624
Core Desires are those things you have your heart set on- what you want to be, have, or do most. One might think that identifying these Core Desires would be easy, but people often tell me, "I don't know what I want, please help me." This dilemma affects people of all age groups and crosses all ... Views: 12102
“When the children’s needs are tended to, then the world will change.”
First things first – the common misconception about the name, Divine Parenting, is that it is ‘religious’ and it is about children, and parenting them.
The parenting of children is one aspect of the initiative, sure. ... Views: 1540
Before a recent massage session, my massage therapist (Mary Rose Lam) told me how she made a horrible mess that morning.
She accidentally spilled her blueberry smoothie all over her gray carpet. That left a big green stain. She was frustrated but told the story with a smile. I hadn't been ... Views: 1780
Why help others? Okay, we know we are supposed to because our culture and religions tell us to. But we aren’t necessarily good at following those rules. So, why help others? It will make the world a better place. But so would driving less, not using so much plastic, etc, etc, etc. We know that ... Views: 1563
If you have ever gotten your rubber boots stuck in a muddy garden, you will remember how hard it is to lift your boot out of the mud. Sometimes you can manage it by holding onto the top of the boot and pulling up as you lift your foot. This requires excellent balance and could result in landing ... Views: 2069
According to Deloitte’s recent Shift Index survey, 80% of people are actually dissatisfied with their job. They hate going to work most days. If you’re reading this article I guess that includes You.
What a way to live - I should know, because I was in that situation for the best part of a ... Views: 2023
How committed are you to your own success?
Ask that question of a hundred different people and I'm sure each one of them will tell you they're completely committed to living a successful, more fulfilled life. I mean, after all, who doesn't want more out of life, right?
So where's the ... Views: 2779
““He (or she) who fails to plan, plans to fail.” ~ Winston Churchill
Do you know what you want for 2011?
It sounds like a simple enough question but, do you REALLY know? Or, are you going about life on autopilot and not really thinking about what you want out of life?
When I lecture at ... Views: 1412
Unless you’ve been living under a rock for the past 4 decades, chances are you’ve at least heard of Soul Train if not Don Cornelius himself. Just as a quick reminder, Don Cornelius is the creator of the Soul Train show. He went from being a local DJ in Chicago to creating one of the longest ... Views: 1870
Each of us have people in our lives that just seem to Struggle with Life. Everything that can go wrong does.
Because you are a caring person feelings of sadness, sympathy and an eagerness to help come over you. How can you help, what can you do?
These people can be friends, work ... Views: 1982
“It’s not all about You!” While this phrase is often hurled with venom, intending to hurt someone, actually the truth in this statement can also be immensely healing.
Over the course of my life, I have had many events that were personally “hurtful” to me, that when I was able to view them ... Views: 1112
It’s normal to put off things in life until you have the money to do them. But does it have to be that way?
Absolutely not!
Never wait until the money shows up or you’ll spend most of your time waiting. And while you wait, you’ll be thinking about many things for which you are ... Views: 2924
To begin anew is to recognize the truth that in the present moment, the past does not exist, and neither does the future. The past and future are not here with you in the present, unless you bring them into this moment with you. Therefore, it is your choice what you bring with you into the ... Views: 1765
When I talk about the concept of alignment, I am referring to the synching up of the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual facets of YOU.
When we allow ourselves to express fully as a spiritual, emotional and physical entity – all working in concert – all focused on the highest good; the ... Views: 1492
A few years back I had a personal trainer and friend named Michael “Choppa” Willis (don’t call him Chopper). He had a unique and colorful way of communicating. At the time I was struggling with severe arthritis in both of my hips.
It was a challenge but we worked around it in the workouts. ... Views: 765
With spring-cleaning time on its way, we are all in the mode to clean those closets, get the built-up and hidden areas of our homes cleaned, organized, and eliminate all of the stress points in our lives. How many of us think about cleaning out annoyances in the form of needless ... Views: 1807
The way you speak to yourself mentally and verbally has a powerful impact on your self-image. Berating or belittling yourself, minimizing your achievements or doubting your capabilities will most definitely create a sense of disempowerment, limiting your potential in virtually every aspect of ... Views: 955
Joe Lee was sitting at a table, rapidly counting rain jackets in a small room somewhere above the sumptuous lobby of the Jamaican hotel where I was to speak at a global corporate conference the next morning. I did not know who he was then, although he looked familiar. I was just told that the ... Views: 907
Have you attempted to break family patterns (like improving yourself by going to college) and met with resistance? Perhaps you developed an innovative approach to solve a problem at work only to be told “That’s not how we do things here.” If so, don’t despair. Here is a little story in honor of ... Views: 2874
The outdoors of your home is as important as indoors. We use tiles for enhancing the beauty of our floors both inside as well as outside. However, the type of tiles you use outdoors is slightly different from the ones we use indoors. The difference is based on the finishing, colour, and ... Views: 530
If you thought exercise was merely a necessary evil to keep your body slim and healthy, you’re missing some essential elements of what exercise is about. If you thought exercise was something you had to squeeze in between the demands of life and work because it’s supposed to be “good for you,” ... Views: 7983
One of the greatest obstacles we all face is fear. Fear of the unknown. Fear of the future, of the present. We doubt if we will be able to cope day in and day out. We doubt our medical care. We doubt ourselves. We live in fear.
Fear immobilizes us. Fear does not keep us safe; it keeps us ... Views: 1198
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Fear and Abuse - by Laura Joseph, CMA, RMT, Advocate for Victims of Domestic Abuse
Ever wonder why victims stay with their abusers and DON'T leave? Many are handicapped by the years of fear and control instilled in them by the abuser. Fear of homelessness. Fear of the inability to provide for the children. Fear the abuser will kill the other parent, children, or everyone in a ... Views: 2950
Feel the Fear … And Do It Anyway® Workshops – dates!
Please see dates below of the workshops – bookings and payment (£120.00) to be made 3 weeks prior to workshop and we recommend you read the book by Susan Jeffers prior to attendance.
Dates:-
Glasgow - 2nd June 2012
Inverness - 16th ... Views: 1139
When you feel self-conscious it means you are putting too much
attention on your self, too much focus on what you are doing and
how you are doing it. And this is a formula for poor performance.
The secret then to dealing with this problem is to become other
conscious.
If all you do is shift ... Views: 909
Resiliency is personal. Add money and you get even more personal.
As we strive to become more resilient with life’s challenges and complexities, I would like to provide five basic suggestions to help you achieve Financial Resiliency.
1. Continue to learn and grow. This is ... Views: 4506
Some people see many personal care professionals throughout their lives. For instance, many people have a personal hair stylist, manicurist, pedicurist, make-up consultant, and more. Some people, also, have a personal goat milk soap maker. Finding this person can be very important and ... Views: 899
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Finding Friends - by Adam Benedetto and Zoe Young at Answers in Writing
How do you create a new friendship and find someone who fits you and connects with you? It can feel hard, for if your job doesn’t provide that kind of openness or availability with others, then where do you look? Begin by finding a way to do what you like. If you are doing what you love, you ... Views: 1031
What is happiness to you? Does it mean achievement or success, having a alluring car, or powerful influence? Does it mean having close personal relationships, realistic goals, and sufficient funds in your pension account? Is it an extreme emotional high, or having something go perfectly?
On a ... Views: 986
One of the in demand snoring options inside the marketplace is the stop snoring mouthpiece. These are generally dental devices identified as mandibular advancement splints. A stop snoring mouthpiece works well by repositioning the jaw to allow for standard, non-obstructed air pathways. Except ... Views: 1297
In flight dynamics an important concept is taught called “Attitude Indicator.” Also known by other names like Gyro Indicator, Attitude Director Indicator to name a few, this instrument is used to tell the pilot of the orientation of the aircraft with reference to the ground among other things. ... Views: 926
There are five magic steps which you must follow to link your goals, intention, and purpose, with the power to realise them. That power lives within you and through alignment you can achieve anything you set your mind to.
1. Know Exactly Where you are Right Now.
That is, where you are ... Views: 1446
"Formerly, when religion was strong and science weak, men mistook magic for medicine; now, when science is strong and religion weak, men mistake medicine for magic." -Thomas Szasz
This morning I made an appointment with my physician for my yearly physical. Okay, well sort of yearly. It can be ... Views: 2298
Studies have shown that people’s food intake is susceptible to their surroundings. Simple visual clues like plate size, room lighting, room color and the eating behavior and body size of dining companions were shown to affect the portion and size of food consumption.
While the studies are ... Views: 2557
Forgive them... For they know not what they do...
As we know, everything begins with a thought and many of the behaviors we have built up over life-times become an automatic defense mechanism which can weigh us down with guilt, sadness, anger and frustration, leading us away from the freedom ... Views: 1427
From the inside out….That’s what you have to do – cleanse from the inside out. To spiritually cleanse is a renewing process that will give you a brand new life. It will give you enlightenment, satisfaction, and a new energy you never knew you had. You will be renewed, refreshed, and ... Views: 1860
Any time you have been really caught off guard and you are in a lot of pain, there is always an awakening with lots of wonderful life lessons to follow. The world is in a financial crisis and people are losing their homes, moving in with relatives, wondering about where their next pay check is ... Views: 1720
We all have our own experiences along with our share of challenges, those experiences and challenges created the person we are today. For this reason we all have something we can share with others so that they can learn from our mistakes as well as our victories. And as long as we are alive, we ... Views: 1738