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Once upon a time, greed and ruthless ambition ruled the Halls of Business. Maybe not really, maybe not in every case, but such was the common perception. You made it to the top of the corporate ladder by climbing on the backs of others. If someone seemed to be gaining on you, well, you crushed ... Views: 1968
It is paradoxical: No matter how many books you read about awakening, you won't experience awakened consciousness using the part of your mind that's doing the reading!
Some of the best books I've read on Awakening help the reader get beyond the "self" and integrate aspects of that expanded ... Views: 1967
Whether we love a good argument or we don’t like arguing at all, this type of low-level conflict is a very important part of our day-to-day learning.
When next you find yourself in an argument, take a step back and take a look at what’s in play for you.
1. There may be an emotional trigger ... Views: 1966
If you’ve been following my blog for a while, you know the drill. You know you have to feel emotions that arise on a daily basis, because avoiding and therefore storing them in your body creates tension and pain. Obviously, no one is going to be perfect at feeling emotions. However, I, like you, ... Views: 1965
A mistake, no matter how large or how small, is still a mistake. It doesn’t matter if it happened on a personal or a professional level; you have to learn how to recoup from it. If you are a perfectionist, this is a bitter lesson to learn, you are human. Some people mentally beat themselves ... Views: 1965
I remember breakfast time one morning, some 7 or 8 years ago. I was standing in front of an open cupboard in my kitchen, my eyes flicking between a box of Frosties and a box of Cornflakes, trying to decide which to have for breakfast. I stood there for 5 minutes, until - utterly frustrated - I ... Views: 1964
Today's article is on the importance of Deep Breathing and the amazing benefits it has on the mind, body and spirit.
As most schools getting ready to break for the holiday's, you may begin to notice and experience in your kids some extra pent up energy, possibly leftover from the classroom ... Views: 1964
Comfort and ease and luxury are the really hallmark of Sleep Number beds. The company also provides a wide range of Sleep Number bed accessories and even pillows which promises you luxurious sleep and so are proved to be beneficial to a lot a postural problems. Sleep Number bed pillow are very ... Views: 1963
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"The Winter of your soul" And six simple steps for the soul!
It happens! So heres how to bring on a soulful Spring!
The " Winter of your soul" is somewhere we have all visited. None of us our strangers to this murky place. Best described as what it is not, as ... Views: 1963
When you give to others your gift is abundance. Giving doesn’t always mean in the monetary from. When you donate anything of yourself, you are giving. By helping someone else you are making their life easier and it makes the heart and soul feel good.
When you donate your time it will come ... Views: 1962
Don’t think about that elephant in the room.
Whatever you do, do not think about the elephant.
Just ignore it. Maybe it will go away.
Of course, when you are told NOT to think about something, that is about the only thing you can think of.
Even though there is no actually elephant in ... Views: 1962
Thomas S. Kuhn introduced the concept of paradigms to the scientific world twenty-five years ago in The Structure of Scientific Revolutions. Kuhn, a scientific historian, considered paradigms a whole new way of looking at and predicting possible outcomes. He wrote that scientific paradigms are ... Views: 1961
The world news is grim; the possibility of World War III and its frightening implications hang like a shroud heavy around us. Hundreds of thousands of people are dying in Iraq, while major concerns about possible nuclear weapons proliferation in Iran and North Korea and their apparent political ... Views: 1961
Worry Is A Dangerous Pastime
Worry is imagination, dangerously misused. Why would I call worry dangerous? Because our thoughts not only create our reality; they are our reality! So, by imagining the worst, you set the stage for that feared outcome to happen. When it happens, your worry then ... Views: 1961
For most of us, the garage has become a sort of dumping ground for our most infrequently used items, tools, construction leftovers, toys, garbage, and the list goes on and on. A vast majority of garages are in some form of disarray, and with all that mess it's sometimes hard to remember that in ... Views: 1960
For most homemakers, just like you, one of the most irritating things they have to deal with is carpet stains. These stains are ugly and can easily disrupt the entire room decor. However, you do not really have to worry about things like this if you know the exact carpet cleaning solution that ... Views: 1960
We’ve all got limiting beliefs. You know some of them. Others you don’t. You may have gone to personal growth workshops and thought you discovered them all. I’m sure you didn’t.
Do I have a limiting belief about you not knowing all of your limiting beliefs? Yep.
It’s all a story.
... Views: 1959
The unconscious mind that produces your dreams criticizes your behavior in order to help you transform your personality and evolve. For example, other people in your dreams are parts of your own personality. This means that whenever you dream about someone else, you behave like this person, ... Views: 1958
I found the key to life and happiness on a Golf course. Golf Course, you might wonder? How could a game that makes grown men cry like babies and throw their clubs like toddlers hold the key to anything but frustration and pain? The answer came to me a few years ago when my family and I moved to ... Views: 1957
"Sickness and health are not simply physical states that the methods of science will eventually analyse completely and make understandable. They are rooted in the deepest and most mysterious strata of Being." Andrew Weil
It's really quite amusing that in our society we are so interested, and ... Views: 1957
Many relationships are suffering from a lack of empathy. This is often mislabeled as a communication problem. This communication problem manifests as being able hear the words our partner says, but failing to hear the message they are trying to give us. We do not understand how they could think ... Views: 1955
What is opportunity, and when does it knock? It never knocks. You can wait a whole lifetime, listening and hoping, and you will hear no knocking. None at all. You are opportunity, and you must knock on the door leading to your destiny. You prepare yourself to recognize opportunity, to pursue and ... Views: 1955
As a multi-talented person, you've got a lot going on. It's very easy to be pulled in multiple directions, pretty much every day. Sure, you intend to write that novel/update that reel/submit that painting to the juried competition...but then the car battery dies and your sister gets sick and ... Views: 1955
Each men and women put a whole lot of time, emotion and resources into their property and real estate endeavors. These valuable and essential assets could be damaged profoundly by the improvement of sinkholes beneath them. You are not confident, but you think that you may have a sinkhole beneath ... Views: 1954
If you’ve always allowed everybody to influence your judgment about the function that ‘procrastination’ has in your life, I’m sure you’d have already decided (and probably long time ago) that ‘in fact’, that is indeed a very bad word…
Or it isn’t?
‘Procrastination’ could sometimes be ... Views: 1951
The versatility of chicken makes it a top choice in making several recipes for main course, snacks or appetizers. This meat is rich in protein, which helps build strong muscles and healthy cells. Moreover, chicken is low in fat; hence, it is the ideal kind of meat for those who are watching ... Views: 1951
1. Fear of loss, especially financial loss is considered by many as the greatest human motivator. You could lose your home and it's contents by failure to act ahead of “economic collapse, 2015,”if the 36 million results on Google mean anything. When it comes to such events, a year early is ... Views: 1950
Most people get by with just enough money to pay their bills, splurge on a toy once in a while and take a yearly vacation. Many business owners want more than this but settle for less. They focus too much of their time on lame marketing and putting out fires.
There is a practice that could ... Views: 1950
Giving and receiving love are two of the most beautiful feelings on Earth. When you are the receiver of love, you experience the joy and passion that is not only revitalizing, but it is equally intoxicating. Once you receive it, you want more and more of it. To receive love, however, you must ... Views: 1950
We’ve all been there. Your sister calls you to let you know how many calories she burned at the gym tonight or one of your friends fills their Facebook status with self-hating nonsense about how much they loath their body.
It seems like something is always waiting to trigger us
In ... Views: 1950
Coaching developed because it met a need. People who weren’t in need of psychiatric therapy needed more in terms of advice and guidance than friends or family could, would or should provide, and were seeking this from various professionals in their lives – doctors, financial advisors, ... Views: 1950
Have you ever wondered why your parents did some of the things that they did. I did lots of times. My dad had so many regimented activities that I thought he had a screw lose or something. I’m only going to talk about two here because there are too many to put into one essay. I really spent time ... Views: 1948
ACOA DOUBLE BINDS - Either way we lose ourselves, to stay loyal to the family
If you’d like to know about double binds, go to pg. 10 of www.acoarecovery.com.
ACoAs have a terrible dilemma:
1. On the one hand we desperately want to be loved, acknowledged, seen, heard. We complain bitterly ... Views: 1947
Do you ever have one of those weeks where you just seem to have a series of things that go wrong.
Well last week was one of those for me.
Fortunately for losing our telephone line at home was solved with some intensive communication, but it was solved.
Our Washing machine broke ... Views: 1946
It takes a lot of hard work and dedication to open your own business. There are many businesses that stood the test of time and have hung around for years. It is so sad when you see a business close its doors, for whatever reason. As you drive through the neighborhoods in your community, you ... Views: 1946
Hey there! Are you still sitting with the cup of coffee in your hand and wondering on the marvellous and magical taste it has for charming up that mood of yours? Well, the fact is that coffee does come with a lot of variety and has made a permanent place in the hearts of humankind since the day ... Views: 1946
I've realized something that is quite disturbing about some singers. In the survey we sent last month, many of you said that you did not believe you had talent and you even went on to explain how you hate your voice. As I mentioned in my last newsletter, I didn't buy it for a minute! And now I ... Views: 1946
"The meaning of our existence is not invented by ourselves, but rather detected." - Victor Frankl
There comes a time in life when we stop trying to play and start focusing on our life goals. For some, this happens very early. Sadly, others will never recognize this revelation no matter how ... Views: 1945
Everyone regardless of what age experiences boredom. The kids are the first usually to say the words “I’m Bored” but us adults have at one point or another in life experience it too.
Have you ever wondered why you are feeling bored? It can be a feeling of laziness, or exhaustion or even a ... Views: 1944
This is part 6 of an 8 part blog series titled, “Become the Person Who Can Move Mountains.” This blog is about Giving Back. Other blogs to follow in this series are: Self-Esteem, Visualization, Knowledge, Patience, Understanding, Giving Back, Love, and Faith & Fear.
We all possess ... Views: 1944
It could be the answer to the prayers of a vast sea of sufferers of eczema and other itchy conditions. When Marilyn Strube caught chickenpox from her toddler daughter, she was told that nothing available would stop the incessant, maddening itch. The one thing that worked wasn't even supposed to ... Views: 1944
Advocacy Coach is a term that we have not heard much, but this is a very important role that someone plays in the life of the disability community. Before the laws few people acknowledged that there is a disability community. Today, we're still on the outskirts looking in.
People with ... Views: 1944
Building a cheap computer is not as hard as you think. By doing good research and having a laundry list of what you want in your computer will save you money and give you a great computer at the same time.
There are basically 3 types of computers used by consumers today
1. General purpose ... Views: 1943
I read a joke once about a husband’s preemptive strike in the bedroom. He walks in holding two aspirin and a glass of water. When his wife asks what it’s for he says it’s for her headache. She replies “But I don’t have a headache.” “Gotcha!”
Headaches are no fun, so we might as well get ... Views: 1943
Which sort of Life Production have you chosen for yourself?
Is it a thriller?
Is it a romance?
Is it a horror?
Is it science fiction?
Is it an adventure?
Is it comedy?
Or maybe something else?
What role do you fulfil in your Life Production?
Is it a starring ... Views: 1942
Objections: Buying signals in which emotions are expressed.
People buy on emotion. Whether they are introverts or extroverts is immaterial, if emotions are not expressed, no purchase will be made. Just because not all people are vocal about their feelings does not mean they do not have them. ... Views: 1941
Now that all the mega-lottery winners have stepped forward, the overwhelming odds are you didn't win. Americans spent $1.5 billion in their quest to win the jackpot, fantasizing about how they would happily spend the $656 million to be paid out to the winner. As it happened, there were three ... Views: 1940
Sometimes we women just need a break every now and then. Sometimes if the smallest chore is done for us, it will totally make our day. Sometimes a compliment will carry us through a hard day. Sometimes when we face a challenge we have the self confidence that we need to conquer it. Sometimes ... Views: 1940
Legal office staff, including paralegals and others very often find themselves at an impasse with voluminous medical records to organize and manage. The difficulty mainly stems from the fact that these professionals may not be trained in medical record review. Time is a crucial factor in both ... Views: 1939
This is the third instalment on how to defend yourself the smart way. We have covered the biggest mistake in self defense and the secret to winning against an attacker twice your size. This article is about how to address your fear.
Fear
Fear is a natural reaction when you know your safety ... Views: 1939