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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Recharge Your Relationship - by Now you may ask why we would write an article about developing better relationships. The reason is because I believe that those who are in a relationship will be significantly and directly affected in all areas of their life by how that relationship is going, and how healthy that ...
Views: 2283 - Should a Relationship End Even If You Still Love Each Other? - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2011 from Joyce SorianoThere will always be a pain in 'goodbyes'. No matter how much we seem to understand everything, it breaks our hearts to ever see anything beautiful die. It seems we weren't really made for sad endings, or any kind of parting. And yet it is only by allowing some things to end could we ever ...
Views: 2283(1 vote) - Your First Steps To Changing - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2010 from Therese BenedictYour First Steps To Changing By Therese Benedict In this world we walk around thinking that we are good people inside, yet we do such hurtful acts. In the beginning of our change, we need to recognize what belongs to us in those hurtful acts. Face them, say hello and put the actions with ...
Views: 2283(1 vote) - ***How to Know if He is Merely Hot...or Maybe Husband - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerLooking for a life partner but keep picking players, paupers, or just plain zeros? Finding a partner is like finding a good job: you only need one, but making a bad choice wastes your time and sticks you in an unpleasant situation. To avoid that, you need to make a grown-up decision about ...
Views: 2282(14 votes) - My Husband Makes Me Feel Like An Inconvenience: Tips On Coping When Your Husband Says He's No Longer In Love - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackMy Husband Makes Me Feel Like An Inconvenience: Tips On Coping When Your Husband Says He's No Longer In Love I have been receiving emails asking about "ways to make my husband love me again" and most of the women wanted almost the same thing from their husband. They wanted to have more of ...
Views: 2282 - Should You Play Hard to Get? Playing Hard To Get In a Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2017 from Banks RobertWhen you're interested in a guy, should you ever play hard to get? Do you worry that you sometimes come on too strong with a guy? How can you make a guy really sit up and take notice of you? Every girl and woman has struggled with the dilemma of how much attention she should give a guy, ...
Views: 2282 - ***Relationships: Why Do You Attack and Blame? - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2009 from Margaret Paul"A woman who I was dating and who I really liked ended our relationship and is dating someone else. I see her all the time at the market and I feel like yelling at her." "I keep vowing not to, but I keep getting really angry at my husband when he is distant." "I lost my temper with my ...
Views: 2281 - New Ideas for Things to Do This Weekend - by Submitted on Jun 14, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerWhen I was single I had a love/hate relationship with weekends. I loved having the extra time off work; I hated that I didn’t have a man to spend the time with. The truth is, though, that I didn’t need a man to have fun or accomplish something meaningful. In many cases, I just needed ME! I ...
Views: 2280(4 votes) - The Meaning of Dreams and Your Life – Carl Jung’s Dream Theories and Real Love Challenges - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2011 from Christina SponiasCarl Jung was the only one who managed to discover the real meaning of dreams. I continued his research, proving that his theories were important discoveries. All the other methods of dream interpretation are misleading attempts to understand the meaning of dreams based on suppositions. You ...
Views: 2280 - Unwitting Double Standards: The Bane of Human Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Azriel WinnettWhen the phone rang at the local drug store, the pharmacist was shaken to hear the booming voice of a very angry doctor on the line. The doctor demanded to know why the pharmacist had dispensed medication to his patient completely different to what he had prescribed. Just how careless can a ...
Views: 2280 - Georgia Swingers Can Revive The Magic In Their Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2015 from Mike HatcherBecoming a swinger in Georgia has great benefits. Marriage was always considered to be a sacred institution and people always believed that sex is something that should be done only with your spouse. However, times have changed and so the mindset of people. Today, there are different types of ...
Views: 2279 - Fixing Relationship Problems In 3 Simple Steps - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2011 from Michael LeeFixing relationship problems can be tricky; but if you're sincere about it, then it's always worth a shot. The first thing you have to understand is that there is no guaranteed happy ending. Even if you tried your best and gave it your all, there's a chance that you might not resolve it ...
Views: 2278 - Sarcasm: Is It Humor or Something Sinister? - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2014 from Janet PfeifferI hate sarcasm. It's rude, hurtful, and offensive. Yet I have met many people who insist that it is humorous. "Sarcasm can be funny, " my friend John told me. "I beg to differ", I replied. "There is nothing funny about saying something hurtful to another person." "Yes, but...", he continued, ...
Views: 2278 - Why Mindfulness 101 is a Career Saver - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2010 from Hal WechslerWhy Mindfulness 101 is a Lifesaver Are you curious about new scientific research on baby-easy meditation that can help overcome chronic insomnia, reduce high blood pressure, and support self-control over anxiety? Would you be interested in scientific research on how about 9 minutes of ...
Views: 2278(2 votes) - Let your Love open the Door - by Submitted on Aug 10, 2010 from Joan Marie WhelanIn Pete Townsend’s song, he sings “Let my love open the door.” From this moment on, I want you to let your love open the door to your own heart. What I mean by that is that you must love yourself first in order to discover the love and positive energy that surrounds you. It is more prevalent ...
Views: 2277(1 vote) - THE POWER OF SELF-TALK - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2017 from Darlene LancerAre you aware that you talk to yourself all the time? We all do. Our self-talk makes a huge difference in our lives for better or for worse. The question to ask yourself is whether your inner voice is your friend or foe. Our unconscious is impacted by the words we say in the same way that it ...
Views: 2277(2 votes) - How to Stay Positive…With a Negative Vibration Spouse or Partner - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2009 from Jackie LapinPeople who are making the change to a conscious and spiritually-driven life often discover that they are yoked to someone who is not prepared to come along on that journey. The partner is mired in his or her own negative thoughts and emotions, and meets any topic of spiritual enlightenment, ...
Views: 2275 - Relationship Coaching - What To Do If Your Relationship Isn't Working - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2007 from David Bonham-CarterBeing in a relationship which doesn’t feel as if it is working can be a stressful experience and usually doesn’t help your self esteem. If you are not careful you can end up spending most of your time, worrying about: * What you should do * Whose fault is it * What if I get the decision ...
Views: 2275 - When communicating with someone seems impossible... - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Lena ChenIs there at least one person in your life that you have trouble communicating with? Here are some tips that may help you with that conversation that is sorely needed but seems almost impossible to create. 1) Do it in the head or put it on paper It can be surprisingly effective to carry ...
Views: 2275 - Infidelity - How to Help your spouse Heal from Your affair - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Nicola Beer* If you’ve had an affair, are regretful and desperate to save your marriage, don't let another mistake-ridden day go by without reading these tips. * If you are the betrayed spouse and your cheating partner is unintentionally hurting you in his/her attempts to make you feel better, put this ...
Views: 2273 - Law Of Attraction Coach: Do You Tell Yourself You Can't Have What You Desire? Learn To Expect And Believe You Can Attain Anything - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2010 from Nanette GeigerAre You getting what You expect out of life? What are your expectations on attracting money, financial success and wealth? What are your expectations on thriving in your life and career? What are your expectations for joyous and fulfilling outcomes in life overall? Most likely they are ...
Views: 2273(3 votes) - Why We Argue - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2012 from Susan Schwartz, Ph.D.In the midst of an argument with your partner there is no time to step back and ponder why this is happening, or to evaluate what about this disagreement is upsetting you so much. You can rely on the fact that when any of us are reactive in a variety of ways it shows we have some old issues, ...
Views: 2273(1 vote) - How To Introduce the Idea of Dating and Remarriage To Children - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2011 from Ellen GerstAfter the loss of a spouse – whether from death or divorce – dating and remarriage may be considered. However, this time around, it is not just about you! Your children will play a very big role in the next partner you choose. The adaptability of your children will also determine if the ...
Views: 2270 - How To Start A Conversation With A Guy: 3 Simple Tips To Follow - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2011 from Michael LeeDo you want to know how to start a conversation with a guy? Well, have you ever started one? Whether you've tried but it didn't work out well, or you've never tried at all, then this article is for you. Talking to men is actually very easy, as they're usually less guarded than women. Why ...
Views: 2269(2 votes) - How To Get Liked By People in 4 Simple Steps - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2012 from Michael LeeWhether we’re talking about your personal life or your career, learning how to get liked by people will open a lot of opportunities for you. Individuals who have that magnetic personality or irresistible charm can use it to their advantage, not only to be successful socially, but also to ...
Views: 2267(1 vote) - Why Every Married Couple Ought To Date - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2010 from Greg BakerFor some reason, many couples find that much of the intrigue and interest in their relationship dwindled after marriage. One reason may be that the effort of pursuit and being pursued as evidenced by dating is no longer a part of the couples’ lives. Dating, at least once a week, will renew the ...
Views: 2267(8 votes) - Good Conversation Starters: Questions that Get Conversations Rolling - by Making conversation, or "small talk", at a party, work function or other social event can sometimes be frustrating. There is a skill and an art to speaking with people in a casual or fun way.
Avoid those awkward conversational lulls with these tips and sample conversation starters. ...
Views: 2266 - Has my Ex Moved On - How To Make Your Ex Come Back - Signs Your Ex Has Moved On - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldHas my ex moved on? It is very important to learn how to get back with your ex because this person may be the very best for you. You may have broken up over something silly and if the two of you can work it out, everything may be just fine. Signs your ex has moved on; This can apply to a married ...
Views: 2264 - Relationship Coaching ~ 3 Reasons It Can Transform Your Life! - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2017 from Laney Zukerman The Relationship CoachHi Friends, Relationship Coaching is empowering! It will help you transform your relationships (including the one with yourself!). Relationship Coaching is all the craze these days and you don't need to spend countless months or years in therapy. Here are 3 Reasons why it can ...
Views: 2264(1 vote) - Too nice? Have I lost my edge? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2014 from Adele McDowellI have been called nice – a lot – frequently. I know people mean well, but nice can be…er, well…nice. It is so fluffy, so sweet, so damning with faint praise. There is no bite in nice – and that is precisely the point. Nice is toothless and gummy. It leaves no marks. Nice lacks gravitas. ...
Views: 2264(1 vote) - Want to Get Over Your Fear of Getting Rejected? - by Submitted on Sep 19, 2009 from Royane RealHow do you feel about getting rejected? Does rejection devastate you, or do you shrug it off? Rejected. It can be such an ugly word. One of the reasons why rejection can cause us so much difficulty is that in our minds we often tie rejection to so many other ugly words that cause us even ...
Views: 2264 - How Do I Get Back With My Ex Girlfriend? Communication Is Key to Any Relationship - by Submitted on Aug 30, 2012 from Michael LoisHow can I Get my ex girlfriend Back? Ask yourself--How were you at communicating? It truly is essential to share right here among the list of most standard underlying factors for break ups and that may be: Poor Communication. You might think, No, it was Sex or Infidelity or Income Concerns, ...
Views: 2263 - Dear Dr. Romance: Now That We're Together, Things Have Changed - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I have been dating this girl for 3 months now but we were talking and going on occasional dates for a good 5 months before we finally made it offical. Now that we are together things have changed. She ignores me when we are around friends and family. When I ask her if she ...
Views: 2262(1 vote) - First time sexual intercourse - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2011 from Fixxx MeDoes it mean no disco, or dinner, or even a date. Better to have all of these as ice breakers, and a lot of sex and enjoyable company will follow. But you have to look for it on the net, in your neighborhood and you office. Amateur Amateurism can be both a negative and a positive trait. ...
Views: 2262 - Getting Back Together After a Break Up- 3 Positive Steps - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2010 from Tom JanicAfter the breakup – you will be hurting, you cannot believe it is over and you will not accept it. All you think about it getting back together after your break up, you can make reconciliation possible if you really work at getting it to happen. If you absolutely love your ex-partner and want ...
Views: 2262 - Husband Upset About My Past: My Husband Left Me Because Of My Past - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHusband Upset About My Past: My Husband Left Me Because Of My Past No greater emotional pain can be inflicted than the words from your husband, I Want A Divorce! Even when you both realize that it has been coming for some time, the actual facing it is still very painful. No matter who made ...
Views: 2262 - Signs Your Ex Misses You: How To Know If Your Ex Misses You - by Submitted on Sep 03, 2017 from Michael BradJust because you have not spoken does not mean your ex doesn't care. They may have entered a highly indecisive time, or perhaps they feel that though they love you things simply won't work out. You may still be able to repair your relationship! Look for these signs your ex misses you before you ...
Views: 2262 - 5 Things to Never Say to a Woman - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2009 from Lisa DailyIf you’ve ever said something you considered to be completely innocent, only to have your wife or girlfriend flip out, you may have stumbled on to one of these taboo topics: 1) “Relax” You may think you’re being helpful, but to us, it feels like you’re being dismissive of how we’re feeling — ...
Views: 2260(10 votes) - Making It Fair: Sharing Household Tasks - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2008 from John SchurmannHOW TO SHARE RELATIONSHIP ROLES Making It Fair: Who Will Do What and Why? (Includes a Couple Exercise) WHY ROLES ARE IMPORTANT? 1. Roles relate to how couples handle leadership responsibilities and divide household tasks. 2. As a couple, you will be involved in an almost endless number of ...
Views: 2260(1 vote) - How To Better Your Conversation Starters And Attract A Guy - by Submitted on Feb 20, 2010 from Joshua UebergangIt can be tough enough starting a conversation with someone you don't know, yet alone trying to start a conversation with someone you think is attractive! You are confused with what to say. You wonder if he likes you. You want to know how to make him like you. You are anxious! All this is only ...
Views: 2259 - Relationships: Why Are Some Men Attracted To Women Who Need To Be Saved? - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2018 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man was to find out that a woman is unable to handle life and needs other people to prop her up, he could soon come to the conclusion that it would be better for him to move on. It will be only too clear that being with a woman like this is going to be more trouble than it’s worth. Two ...
Views: 2258 - What are the Akashic Records? - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Denise JonesThe Akashic Records is a dimension of consciousness that contains a vibrational record of every soul and its journey. It exists everywhere and is available at all times. It is the past, present and future knowledge of all things. The Akashic Records contain everything that every soul has ever ...
Views: 2258(2 votes) - 7 Dating Tips for Women from Men - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2012 from Marni BattistaWhile our male counterparts can confuse the heck out of us Dignity Daters, sometimes they can be the best when it comes to dishing out dating advice. Now that you have access to the Dating with Dignity’s Men’s Advice Column (Starting with these seven dating tips for women from men!), you’ll ...
Views: 2257(2 votes) - Recovering From Affair - How To Get The Truth From My Husband About The Affair - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Brenda StewartFinding out certain details about your husband's affair is not always the best thing to do, especially when there are some information that is better left as it is because once you know something it is impossible to take it back and you will have it forever in your mind preventing you recovering ...
Views: 2257(1 vote) - Law Of Karma: How To Use The Law Of Karma To Enhance Your Life - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2011 from Michael LeeThe law of karma is very simple and easy to understand. Basically, it is as the old adage says: Do unto others what you want others to do to you. This is something we have learned ever since we were little children. Beat someone up and you're likely to get beaten up in return. But how does ...
Views: 2256 - Real Love Making: The Key To A Great Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2011 from Bob LancerReal love making is the formula for a great marriage, and a great marriage is like a springboard to great success. Real love making is about making love, not war, in your marriage. A truly great marriage means more than just sticking it out together. A great marriage means real love making - ...
Views: 2256 - Three “Ice Breakers” For Starting Conversations With Women - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2014 from Chris ChandraSo you’re standing at the counter in the grocery store, there’s no one else in line and there’s a really cute girl at the counter. What do you say to start a conversation? Just saying hi usually doesn’t lead anywhere, and if you make it too obvious it’ll be embarrassing if you get ...
Views: 2256(1 vote) - Enlightened Relationships: Quality vs. Safe Problems - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraLet’s face it, no relationship is perfect, and there’s always room for improvement. The relationship that stops growing, evolving, and developing will suffer the consequences: problems. It is important to realize that relationships are a partnership, a team, and cannot be dependent (long term) ...
Views: 2255(1 vote) - Be Your Own Person – 5 Tips to Say Goodbye to Co-Dependency - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Nelson BerryBy The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online. Have you ever heard about the subject of co-dependency? Co-dependency is no mystery, and yet, there is a need to ask that question because many people are deeply co-dependent on key persons in their lives without knowing it. This means that you ...
Views: 2254(1 vote) - Relationship Advice - 3 Steps to Create a Passport to Passion - by Submitted on Jan 29, 2010 from Sherri NickolsBe honest. How's your love life these days? Is it hot and fiery or are you and your man stuck in a bit of a romance rut? The most important relationship advice you need to know about dodging the ditches and creating a passport to passion is that the first step involves you recommitting to the ...
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