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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- How To Approach Girls - Five Secrets - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from How To Get GirlsThe thought of approaching a beautiful girl, and attempting to start a conversation, makes the average guy feel stressed and intimidated. There are some proven techniques, however, that you can use to make approaching women a fun part of your daily routine. It's very important for you to handle ...
Views: 878(1 vote) - How To Attract Women – Attracting A Girl - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2012 from Joan RiversIt's no secret that women are a mystery. What makes them tick? How does a guy grab the attention of a girl he's interested in? Why is talking to a girl for the first time so difficult? If you're like most men, you've probably asked yourself these questions more than once. You can use ...
Views: 924(2 votes) - How to Avoid a Blissful Law of Attraction Relationship From Turning Sour - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Karen KanOne of the interesting questions I received lately: Hi Dr. Karen, About 3 years ago I began learning about the Law of Attraction. Single at the time, I immediately made a list of the qualities I desired in a partner and began imagining meeting him. It worked VERY quickly: in 10 days I'd ...
Views: 2698(1 vote) - How to Avoid a Breakup - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2010 from Andrew HunterA lot of people out there today don't know what to do to keep a breakup from happening. You got to agree that it's not easy to prevent a breakup from occurring. Schools don't provide classes on how to have great and meaningful relationships. I'm getting off topic here..but these are the most ...
Views: 1460(2 votes) - How To Avoid Loving a Jerk - by Submitted on May 29, 2015 from Tina TessinaAs I was swimming last week, a young couple came into the pool. Instead of doing laps or walking, like most of the gym members, they were just enjoying themselves. He started splashing her, and she said “Joey, stop it!” but she said it in a placating, whiney voice. He just kept ...
Views: 1613(2 votes) - How to Avoid the Most Common Problems People Make When Getting Back Their Ex - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2009 from Andrew HunterIt is actually really easy to get back with your ex after breaking up, but most people will find it very difficult due to some pretty typical mistakes that they make from the start. They typically end up harassing him with constant phone calls, e-mails, and text messages. This sort of ...
Views: 1813(1 vote) - How to Balance the Need For Independence and Intimacy - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2012 from Margie UlbrickTalking Relationships: Independence and Intimacy: 5 Tips to help get the balance. 1) Take responsibility for becoming independent and developing your own life. This is the mark of maturity in a relationship, being able to stand on one’s own feet and come together with a synergy that is ...
Views: 3968(1 vote) - How to be Mentally Positive in Reuniting With Your Ex - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Raymond EhomaA break up in actual fact one very difficult problem to address and which often causes sadness. Additionally there is a great propensity of the person being affected by low self-confidence. All of these behaviors sometimes tend to make the individual to make a whole lot of wrong choices which ...
Views: 1562(3 votes) - How to Beat Anxiety: How To Meet 'Quality' Women Without Fear Of Rejection - by Submitted on Jan 27, 2010 from Chris PadgettApproaching women can seem daunting to any man who doesn't know exactly what he is doing with women. If you are letting your low self-esteem with women stop you from meeting the kind of women that you really want to meet, then you could use some approach anxiety advice, too. Learn how to beat ...
Views: 1390(3 votes) - How To Breakup With A Controlling Partner - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraWhoever said that breaking up is easy must be on crack. Of course it’s never easy, but it’s one of the inevitable things in life that any relationship has to go through. Everyday people change, as well as circumstances, needs, and feelings. This is but normal, for there are relationships that ...
Views: 733(1 vote) - How To Build Trust In A Relationship: 3 Easy Tips To Get Trusted By Your Partner - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Michael LeeLearning how to build trust in a relationship is very important, as trust is the basic foundation of any union. Without trust, the relationship will always be filled with uncertainty, and that doesn’t exactly promise both parties a happy ending. If you want to know how to build trust in a ...
Views: 2299(1 vote) - How to Choose the Best Partner for Life (and Make Other Important Decisions) - by Submitted on May 05, 2004 from Susan DunnHow to choose the best partner for life? Let’s use the investment analogy. Here’s how it works. I’m a fan of Warren Buffett, the world’s greatest investor. He took $100 and turned it into a multibillion-dollar company. In the latest Forbes “richest ...
Views: 3808(2 votes) - How To Commemorate The Wedding Anniversary - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2009 from Menno SpijkstraI know a couple who take note of their engagement anniversary monthly. Surely this couple gives much more meaning to the celebration of their wedding anniversary which finalized their vows and made them into one. They are just happy to remember the memorable times of their lives. Taking note ...
Views: 954(2 votes) - How to Create a Fun Valentine's Day Date on a Tight Budget - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2009 from Tracey BennettRomantic Valentine's Day date ideas don't have to bust your budget. Here's a recipe for cooking up a memorable occasion with a few simple and cheap Valentine's Day gift ideas. Dazzle your sweetie with a feast of sensory delights. The most important one, good conversation, is free. Ingredients ...
Views: 1362(2 votes) - How to Deal with a Cold Man and Bring His Love Back - by Submitted on Aug 08, 2010 from Gerry RestriveraIn a relationship couples usually share feelings, interest and love with each other. When men start to get cold, distant and uninterested with the relationship; women may feel uneasy, bothered and confused. Women should know how to deal with a cold man to bring his love back. He may stop ...
Views: 6562(2 votes) - How To Deal With Breakup - by Submitted on May 03, 2011 from Gery WriterAlmost all relationships are going to end, which typically implies that someone will get hurt. Sometimes we can see that things are getting bad, but in other cases we might be completely blindsided by the break up. Regardless of what situations, this really is almost always a painful situation. ...
Views: 839(1 vote) - How to Deal With The Emotional Pains of a Breakup - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2012 from Raymond EhomaRomantic relationship split ups have the habit of putting someone into a world of pain, hopelessness, haunting thoughts and emotions. And the longer the relationship, the more powerful these behaviors become and getting over your boyfriend or girlfriend gets much harder and can take ...
Views: 1471(2 votes) - How to Experience The Perfect Now - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2009 from Nanette GeigerI just told my husband “this is not the best part of the day for sparking my creativity.” It's later in the afternoon when my mind will turn to caffeine or sugary delights. He said: “But you can make it your best time now”! And I wondered ... hmmm, yes, I could. So that's the thing I am doing. ...
Views: 1004(2 votes) - How to Fix a Broken Heart - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2009 from Andrew HunterIt just seems to come out of the blue. That "Let's take a break" moment when it seems like your relationship is in danger. Your life seems to be caving in on you and your heart is left in ruins. Sure your friend and family are trying to comfort you and make you feel better, but they really don't ...
Views: 2171(2 votes) - How to Fix Your Social Life - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2012 from Eduard EzeanuOne thing that’s plain as day to me right now is that your social life contributes immensely to your overall life satisfaction. Sometimes even more than your career or dating life. This is why it’s important to have a rich, active social life. If you’re in a situation where you only have a ...
Views: 3315(1 vote) - How To Get Back Lost Love In 3 Simple Steps - by Submitted on Jul 04, 2011 from Michael LeeThere are various ways on how to get back lost love and survive a break up, but not all of them will work the way you expect them to. That's because you can't always predict how your ex will react to your efforts. You may want your ex back but is the feeling mutual? Perhaps your ex is ready ...
Views: 11298(2 votes) - How to Get Free From Limiting Beliefs When trying to Attract your Ideal Soulmate Love? - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2009 from Nanette GeigerNanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes... ... Tina from New Zealand wanted to know “How do I get free from my limiting beliefs when I'm trying to attract my ideal soulmate love”? Great question because negative thinking plays a big role in success or failure especially in ...
Views: 1708(1 vote) - How To Get Over A Love - 5 Helpful Tips - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2010 from Andrew HunterGetting over a broken heart is difficult enough, but the more meaningful the relationship was, the harder it is to get over it and move on. If you're at the point where you realize the relationship cannot be rescued, you should read these tips. These tips will help in a number of ways - they'll ...
Views: 1490(1 vote) - How To Get Relationship Counseling - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2009 from Sara ApplesEveryone of us at one point or another may need relationship counseling. Some people think that relationship counseling is for couples, while in reality all couples-to-be, family members, employees with their employers, and clients with their professionals can make use of it during troubling ...
Views: 1048(2 votes) - How to Get your Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Kingsley ModozieLet us say you separated from your ex boyfriend and you are here because you need a solution to get them to want you again. Even if the breakup was a fault you made leading to them dumping you, there is still a way to get around things. Your ex may not remain for a long time without you once she ...
Views: 984(1 vote) - How To Get Your Ex Back? Act Like You Really Love This Guy. - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2009 from Chris BelleDo you remember when you were just a young child? Do you remember play acting like you were someone or something else? There's a freedom in that. A child knows when he/she is safe and can let their imagination run wild - they can literally be anyone. Well, it's the same when it comes to your ...
Views: 1006(1 vote) - How To Get Your Ex Back? Kissing is a Vital Part. - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2009 from Chris BelleYou remember how it was, right - that first kiss? Two people, wanting to know each other better, ready to risk it all just to get a taste of that “undiscovered country” of the other person. It starts with a glance, then you position your bodies closer and closer, there’s a sweet hesitation ...
Views: 829(1 vote) - How To Get Your Ex Back? You Gotta Get Away From it All. - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2009 from Chris BelleYou feel the walls closing in around you. Your man is there with you, but not really there with you - know what I mean? You swear that if you stay in here another minute with him, you’re going to go absolutely crazy. It really doesn’t matter where it is, if you feel this way about your ...
Views: 598(1 vote) - How To Get Your Ex Back? You Gotta Reach Out and Touch. - by Submitted on Sep 22, 2009 from Chris BelleReach out and touch a person - see what happens. A touch can say so many things, especially today when so many of us are physically touching less than ever. Some are afraid a touch will be misconstrued. Some are afraid of being touched physically because of some past tragedy or trauma. But to ...
Views: 632(1 vote) - How to Get Your Family to Like Your Partner - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2011 from Brooke AlexandriaJust as your relationship with your parents is more than likely pretty important to you, your partner's relationship with your parents is also critical to having a strong, healthy relationship. If your parents do not get along with your partner, or do not know him or her well, this could put ...
Views: 1823(1 vote) - How To Get Your Partner To Listen - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2010 from Susan DerryHave you ever felt like you were talking to a wall when you were trying to talk to your partner? Getting your partner to listen, especially to your concerns can be difficult. Remember that you deserve to be heard in your relationship. There are some things that you can do that will make it ...
Views: 1987(1 vote) - How to Get Your Wife Back When She Is Mad At You And You Have No Clue Why - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2011 from Mika MaddelaFor some men, women are the world's greatest mystery. You never know what they may be thinking at any given time. They say one thing and sometimes do another. They worry about things that we wouldn't stress out about. Lets just say, women can drive us nuts, but we love them. So what do you do if ...
Views: 826(1 vote) - How To Give Yourself What You Want and Stop Getting Mad - by Submitted on May 27, 2010 from Dr. Jeanette RaymondI do what you want, but you never let me do what I want! Justin had his heart set on the new BMW sports car, but Bernice wondered whether it was the best way of spending money at this point. There were other more important priorities like her business start up, the kids school fees and house ...
Views: 1858(2 votes) - How to Have Social and Sexual Confidence With the Opposite Sex - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2011 from Belinda DalyEvery one from time to time has felt inadequate with the opposite sex - even Giovanni Casanova must have had his off days - but many people let this inadequacy ruin their lives. For example say a chap likes this pretty girl who works in the same building as him, but every time he sees her he has ...
Views: 3827(1 vote) - How To Impress A Guy: 3 Cool Tips To Catch A Guy’s Attention And Affection - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2010 from Michael LeeIf you want to know how to impress a guy, then you’ve come to the right place. I’ll tell you all about what makes guys tick, how to get them to laugh, and the way to their hearts. Let’s face it. Guys are pretty laidback creatures. Only a handful can be called high maintenance so getting a guy’s ...
Views: 10308(3 votes) - How To Improve Marriage And Slow Down Life At The Same Time - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsEverywhere you look, things are moving at a fast pace. Hurry up is a common phrase. When I want something, I want it right now. “What? You mean I have to wait 45 seconds for the book I just bought to download? Where’d I put the number for my Internet provider, I need a faster connection!” The ...
Views: 1118(2 votes) - How to Know If You Are in a Serious Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou meet, you date, and you have fun. You go out together and you look forward to seeing each other when you are apart. You start to spend more time with one another and less time doing things you used to do separately. Is this the point when your relationship begins to get serious? When do ...
Views: 1412(2 votes) - How To Know When Someone Is Thinking About You - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2008 from Linda KayeAre you feeling the warm fuzzies for someone? Have you ever asked yourself why it is so difficult to stop thinking about someone? We are all psychic in one way or another. When you connect to another man/woman in a deep way, you are connecting with your souls. Most people don't realize how ...
Views: 28573(1 vote) - How to Live a Better Life - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2011 from cedric riceWhen I use the term better life here I am not going to attempt to put my own definition on it for you. A better life for me may not be a better life for you. Some people see a better life as a life of luxury. Some see it as a life of comfort. It may be a life of happiness or contentment to ...
Views: 1357(1 vote) - How To Make A Girl Like You If You Are A Nerd? - by Submitted on Aug 16, 2011 from Steve KoenigOK, guys, YOU ALL KNOW that being a nerd isn’t really a turn on. Chicks don’t dig nerds. Well, at least not until they get rich. But until then, these guys will spend MANY HOURS trying to figure out: “How to make a girl like you?”. There are a lot of nerds out there. Many of you guys are ...
Views: 2773(1 vote) - How To Make A Perfect Relationship Using 3 Easy Tips - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2012 from Michael LeeBefore you can figure out how to make a perfect relationship, you must first find out what the word perfect means to you. In the universal sense, there is no such thing as a flawless relationship, except within your standards and preferences. You have your individual preferences, of course, ...
Views: 2663(1 vote) - How To Make Time For The Ones You Love - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from Candace CzarnyImagine if you will the life of Suzy - the busy, married mother of two wonderful children. She works a full time job, both inside and outside of the house; she is busy trying to be a devoted daughter and sister to her parents and siblings. Suzy is somehow managing to keep her head above water. ...
Views: 1258(1 vote) - How to Overcome and Avoid Dating Rejection - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2011 from Kim SarrasinThere's nothing that crushes your ego more then when a guy doesn’t ask you out again or he decides to end the relationship. Its one thing to be rejected when you apply for a job, entirely another when this occurs in your love life. The sting of rejection penetrates deeply because this is the one ...
Views: 1692(2 votes) - How to Reconcile With Your Ex-Girlfriend - Get Her to Want You Back - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2010 from Chris TylerThe hardest part of going through a breakup with your girlfriend is when you get the feeling that you want to be back with her. If you want to reconcile with your ex-girlfriend, then you probably are going through a lot of emotions right now. Sometimes she's all you can think about and then ...
Views: 7370(3 votes) - How To Save A Relationship Not Easy Thing To Do But Still Possible - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Velma MerrickEven though your relationship started out with joy and excitement, it could end up with pain and heartbreak! Are you wondering where all the love and caring has gone? Before your relationship goes haywire learn how to save a relationship by following some simple rules and laws that are ...
Views: 985(1 vote) - How to Save Your Marriage: Coming Back from the Edge - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2010 from Jack PowersOne of the most challenging moments as a coach or a counselor comes when your client tells you that their spouse just stormed out saying that they want a divorce. But would you believe that it’s possible for the SAME couple to be doing better than EVER just two weeks later? If you think this ...
Views: 1334(2 votes) - How to Save Your Relationship Even If You've Broken Up - Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend Now! - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2011 from Charles UadialeYou are about to find out the initial move on how to save your relationship. It doesn't really count if you are separated, divorced, or just broken up - this article very much applies to you. When a break up occurs, it is at all times preceded by clear signals. A good number of us don't focus ...
Views: 1107(1 vote) - How to Self-Coach Using the Law of Attraction: Law of Attraction Coach Shares - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2010 from Nanette GeigerHave you ever wonder how it is you're receiving what you are getting in life? What you're imagining and feeling is perpetually going to be a match to what is showing up in your life. You can easily see if you are a vibrational match to your wants based on you are creating. Your ideas are ...
Views: 1112(1 vote) - How to Start First on Online Dating - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2019 from Chandni SiddiquiOnline dating has become so popular these days that everyone wants to try it. So, if you are also looking for a partner through online dating but are clueless on how to start the first conversation on it. If you have fears about ruining your image when you start talking or do not know how to ...
Views: 869(1 vote) - How to Stop Letting Self-Consciousness Ruin Your Relationships - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2010 from Jack PowersSelf-consciousness can certainly make it difficult to attract and to keep healthy relationships. Not only can it keep you from building new relationships, it can cause needy behavior, jealousy and clinginess...all the things which kill attraction and which drive people out of your life. However, ...
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