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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Social Media: Can Social Media Erode Real Relationships? - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to the people one has on their friends list, there can be the people they know and there can also be the people they don’t know. As a result of this, just because someone is classed as a friend it doesn’t mean that this is actually the case. The Same School For example, one ...
Views: 1548 - Social Media: Can Social Media Make People Flaky? - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperIt is now easier than ever before for people to stay in contact with each other, and this can happen through words being exchanged on a screen or through a conversation taking place with a camera. The only piece of equipment someone needs, in order for this to occur, is a Smartphone. For ...
Views: 1779 - Social Media: Does Social Media Encourage Cheating? - by Submitted on May 31, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperIf a woman has been with men who have cheated, she might come to the conclusion that all men are the same. And if a man has been with a number of women who have cheated, he could also come to the same conclusion. As a result of what they have been through, it would be normal for them to say ...
Views: 3880 - Social Media: Does Social Media Encourage Voyeurism? - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperNowadays, someone no longer needs to get in touch with their friends in order to find out what they have been doing. The only thing they need to do is to go online and to use a social media site. During this time, they could get an in depth understanding of how their friends have been ...
Views: 1175 - Social Media: Is Something Only A Good Deed When It Is Mentioned On Social Media? - by Submitted on May 07, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIf one had something on their mind in the past, they may have kept it to themselves or they might have spoken to someone. Nowadays, one has another option, and this is to share what is taking place for them on social media. As a result of this, not only can one share the kinds of things they ...
Views: 1395 - Social Media: Why Do Some People Look Towards Social Media To Give Them Approval? - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperIn the beginning, it could be said that people generally used social media to get in touch with their friends and family; the people who they actually knew. But as time has passed, this is no longer why a lot of people use it. As for the people who only use it to stay in touch with their ...
Views: 1233 - Social relationship-Responsible For the overall growth of an individual - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2012 from Niyaj HaqueBy social relationship we mean the various ways and means by which people of the society interact with each other while living with the people of that society. They form a relationship with each other which forms the basic structure of a society. If a person lives in the society then, he cannot ...
Views: 771 - SOCIAL-EMOTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2012 from Barbara MillerWe as women must feel in harmony with our surroundings with a certain sense of order and balance, which in turn gives us a presence of peace. This harmony in our lives helps to unleash our creative instincts and allows us to look deep inside for strength and direction. We live by the choices we ...
Views: 1069 - Society's Impossible Expectations from Returning Soldiers - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2014 from Abigail FazelatCivilians will never know the struggles and torments that soldiers endure while in combat. Because of the highly-stressful and volatile atmosphere of war, it is no wonder that combat veterans find it hard to shake their wartime experiences when returning back to civilian life. It’s as though the ...
Views: 1337 - Sociopathic Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2008 from E. (anagarika eddie) Raymond RockAlthough you may never know it, people you look up to, love, and respect could easily be sociopaths. They give themselves away by exhibiting strange combinations of controlling behaviors, such as being charismatic, calculating, extremely confident, while warmly embracing those who fall under ...
Views: 1572 - Solving Problems In Your Relationship - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2012 from Michael LoisConflicts are undoubtedly reasons why most mature or immature relationships end in a break, and you definitely need to be sure to avoid them as much as possible. Humans are very emotional to some degree. Therefore, if you want to get your ex back and get him back, you have to make before ...
Views: 1419 - Solving Relationship Problems with the Help of a Life Coach - by Submitted on Apr 16, 2012 from Dr. Joseph AbrahamProblems exist in all relationships. Not even the strongest relationships between individuals with who are very understanding of each other are free from it. A relationship may have problems as soon as it has started, or may develop slowly over time. Initially, some of these problems may start ...
Views: 2058 - Solving The Problems Of Couple - by Submitted on Sep 12, 2013 from Michael LoisIs a fact that couples do not always agree on everything and the fact that at times or in the course of the relationship are disagreements between the parties does not necessarily mean that the relationship is coming to an end . Definitely , it is logical that matches or not always be thought ...
Views: 729 - Solving The Root Problem In Infidelity - by Submitted on May 26, 2011 from Barbara LongsworthMarriage is a two-way street and there are a number of things that can put a marriage at risk. But when it comes to divorce, the number one reason has been related directly to infidelity. In most cases, just the idea of a spouse cheating is cause enough to begin divorce proceedings. However, ...
Views: 670 - Some Helpful Tips to Get Your ex Boyfriend Back- Strategies to Use to Get Him Back - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Franklin FashayaA break up is bad no matter the reason why broke up happened. If the break up was initiated by him, you are bound to feel cheated and sad. No wonder you want him back just because you liked the way you felt when you were with him. Get you ex back by implementing these strategies and get back to ...
Views: 1243 - Some Nice, Handy, Sweet and Very Useful Gifts for Your Loved Ones at TeleSky Shopping - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2016 from Harshad JethraThe world is geared up for the New Year celebrations, and all set to welcome 2017 in style. It’s the time to party and celebrate, get together with loved ones and make some new friends, strengthen bonds, remember the days gone by and look forward to the New Year! During the holiday season, it ...
Views: 1065 - Some Simple, Easy and Practicable Tips How to Get Your Ex Back - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2013 from Jill InsleyStarting a relationship is hard, even harder is nurturing it. So many things can go wrong and the relationship comes into a halt. Breaking up with someone you have shared so much with can be painful and distressing especially if you still love him or her. This is why you need to learn how to get ...
Views: 699 - Some Strategies you can use to get your Ex-boyfriend back - by Submitted on May 26, 2012 from Franklin FashayaGetting your boyfriend back is easy if you have the right information on how,and when to get him.These are strategies to follow. This article will help you more about this problem. Here are some methods or strategies you could use win your boyfriend back: 1. Be that someone whom he fell in ...
Views: 803 - Some Thoughtful Gifting Ideas for Your Loved Ones This Holiday Season - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2016 from Harshad JethraWith the New Year just around the corner, the environment is abuzz with celebrations. It’s all fun and frolic, excitement and anticipation. People like to celebrate New Year in their own way, some party hard, and some just relax with close friends and family at their home. Gifting is one of ...
Views: 1175 - Some Thoughts on Relationship – Part I - by Submitted on Sep 17, 2012 from Michelle MorandThe other day I received an email from a dear friend who has been actively doing his own personal growth work. He was sharing about some insights he has been having about how his ego creates distress and distance in his relationships with others. He then reminded me of something I “learned” a ...
Views: 1823 - Some Tips for Astrology Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2011 from Riki clarkRelationships tend to be dominated by emotionality or mutual devotion. One leads to problems and the other success. Emotional Relationships Examples of relationships characterized by emotion would include those where there is a great deal of conflict, an anger problem or a histrionic ...
Views: 683 - Some tips for couple looking for third for threesome - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2019 from Fur LindaIf you are a married bisexual couple, do you want another woman to be with you three way? Have you found it difficult to find mature women to join you and your partner. More and more couples think that threesome dating sites are their first choice for find a threesome, which is great! But here ...
Views: 1350 - Some Tips to Get Your Ex Back – What You Will Need to Remember - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2013 from Franklin FashayaSome people say that there is no way that they want to go back with their ex girlfriends or boyfriends. On the other hand, there are men and women, who are still hopeful for having a second chance. Depending on the kind of relationship a couple had, getting back together can still be considered. ...
Views: 758 - Some Unique Ways To Declare Wedding Vows - by Submitted on Feb 08, 2010 from Edna LoveWeddings are considered to be the most beautiful moment in the couple's life. Everything they do on the day creates special memory in their minds. Many couples wishing for a unique way to celebrate their weddings opt to declare their wedding vows in completely different way. However, many are ...
Views: 516 - Some ways to understand a good Partner - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2021 from Dr.Purushothaman KollamA happy and married life is very important for everybody. There should be a mutual understanding and good relationship with the partners for leading a happy and balanced married & model family life. Each partner should try to contribute a lot to maintain the harmony & happiness of the ...
Views: 666 - Some We Get Along With And Others We Let Go On Their Way - by Submitted on Jul 08, 2008 from Deborah HillRecently, a member of my family wrote me an email and stated that she felt we were very different and our energies didn't "mesh." She said that after family affairs were no longer necessary she did not want me in her life. This hit me like a crushing blow and landed in my heart with a thud. I ...
Views: 532 - Someone Really Really Difficult To Get Along With? - by Submitted on Nov 07, 2007 from Gary DirenfeldSomeone really really difficult to get along with? Most people get along with others. There might be the odd bit of friction between a person or two, but for the most part, most people get along. There is a sub-group of people however, that don’t seem to get along with almost anyone. These ...
Views: 1033 - Sometimes Love Isn't Enough: Accepting the End of a Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 11, 2011 from Sil Lai AbramsThere are few things in life more agonizing than realizing that despite our best efforts, an important relationship cannot be sustained. Sometimes the pain of this realization is too much to bear. Instead of accepting the truth, we slip into denial. We pretend that the problems don’t exist. ...
Views: 8983 - Soul Dance or Ego Dance: Attracting and Creating Fulfilling Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Sunil AhujaAre you looking for that perfect relationship, or is your relationship not quite as perfect as you want it to be? That's because our intimate relationships are mostly based on fantasy -- a subconscious, idealized image, and a belief that a partner that matches this fantasy image will bring us ...
Views: 3852 - Soul Freedom Exercise (10): The End Comes First - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandTHE END COMES FIRST "The end comes first" means that your consciousness tends to manifest (bring into reality) that which you focus your attention on and think about. By having a clear picture in your mind of what you want the end result to be, you greatly increase your chances of getting ...
Views: 1202 - Soul Freedom Exercise (11): Flow In The Glow - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandFLOW IN THE GLOW Time for Exercise: 15 minutes Properties Required: none Steps: Take turns describing for your lover a peak experience that you have had: an experience of feeling connected to everything, an experience of superb confidence and mastery, an experience of profound ...
Views: 1131 - Soul Freedom Exercise (19): The Circle - by Submitted on Dec 09, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandSOUL FREEDOM EXERCISES Exercises To Do Together by Al Link and Pala Copeland THE CIRCLE What is left unsaid? In the book Mutant Message Down Under by Marlo Morgan, a doctor working with an indigenous tribe asked the people to name their physician or medicine person. The villagers replied ...
Views: 1169 - Soul Freedom Exercise (2): Eyes Wide Shut - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandSOUL FREEDOM EXERCISES Exercises To Do On Your Own by Al Link and Pala Copeland EYES WIDE SHUT Your eyes are windows to your soul. Do you allow people in or lock them out? Time for Exercise: five minutes to one hour (several sessions are an option) Properties Required: magnifying ...
Views: 748 - Soul Freedom Exercise (8): Points Of Candlelight - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2008 from Al Link and Pala CopelandPOINTS OF CANDLELIGHT Dimming the lights, or turning them off and lighting candles instead, is one of the easiest ways to add romantic ambiance to your lovemaking experience or to change an ordinary dinner into something very sensual. Candles are also one of the most useful aids for creating ...
Views: 890 - Soul Mates - by Submitted on May 08, 2009 from Christina GikasSoul mates. The phrase conjures up visions of that perfect someone—the one and only one. THE perfect mate. The one with whom we have spent many lifetimes together. That one person who knows us inside out, who will make every dream come true, who will be the perfect mate. This person will be so ...
Views: 758 - Soul Mates: Discovering Yours - by Submitted on Feb 09, 2008 from Joan Marie WhelanNamaste, a Hindu expression, roughly translates into "that which is of the Divine in me greets that which is of the Divine in you." And when we reflect on this simple expression, we find that the Sanskrit language of the soul resonates with us all on a deeper, more spiritual level -- and this is ...
Views: 868 - Soul-Mates vs Twin Flames - by Submitted on Jul 15, 2008 from Carol GuyWe are all longing for that special someone to share our lives with and open our heart too. We go through many different relationships hoping for the right one. Hoping to find our soulmate. But, it isn’t our soulmate we are longing for. It is our twin flame. There is so much talk about ...
Views: 2227 - Soulful Relationships - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2011 from Sylvester FohjemWhat determines the quality and quantity of your personal relationships? I think the #1 factor is your mindset towards relationships. There are many ways to frame the role of relationships in your life, and some options are more empowering than others. Look at relationships one way, and ...
Views: 652 - Soulmates: Do They Really Exist? - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2007 from Joanne ParrottaSoulmate Relationships: Do They Really Exist? You bet they do! In fact, I am so sure of this that I even wrote a book on the subject, entitled A Matter of Destiny: How to Find and Marry Your Soulmate (BookSurge Publishing, an amazon.com company, 2007). However, the soulmate mania we are ...
Views: 1990 - Sour Echoes: Why the Law of Attraction Isn't Working for You - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2015 from Carisa HolmesLife is a concert hall and we are the singers. Whether we are actually trained vocalists or not, each of us embodies a unique song, and we are charged with standing on the stage of the concert hall of life and singing it, no matter how much noise is around us. Unfortunately, the most ...
Views: 1729 - Spark Up Your Love Life: Ways To Spice Up Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2017 from James UadialeSpark Up Your Love Life: Ways To Spice Up Your Relationship Do you need to turn your dating life into your love life? Would you like to build something more substantial between you and a new man? What if you had a few simple tips to help put some excitement into your relationship? Here are ...
Views: 1130 - Speak Confidently to Sustain a Happy Relationship - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2011 from Susan BlackburnDo you care about the feelings of your partner and others to the point that you have trouble speaking up for yourself? If you answered yes, you're in good company. When you focus on whether you're going to hurt your partner's feelings, the person who gets hurt is YOU. The unfortunate part ...
Views: 1931 - Speak Out: How to Ensure Your Needs Are Being Met in a Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from nancy traversWhen we enter relationships, we do so with the knowledge that we will be providing the person with emotional commodities and that they will be doing the same for us. Every relationship is filled with needs. Each individual will have different needs, and each relationship will provide different ...
Views: 1143 - Speak Up or Sit Down! - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2009 from Maryann ReidSome of you may know her. That woman who speaks her mind and gets what she wants. All the while soft, vulnerable, and smart. This has nothing to do with having a big mouth, but only big dreams. What I'm talking about is being honest about your needs and feelings with people, specifically ...
Views: 957 - Speaking From Your Feminine Power - by Submitted on Oct 22, 2014 from Tatia DeeTalking sweet is about finding your "sugar" even if you're not happy and want to discuss a problem with your man. This is about speaking your power and speaking from your feminine. Using words describing your feelings in order to say what does not feel good to your man is how you talk ...
Views: 1650 - Speaking The Truth In Love - 8 Tips To Overcome Difficulty In Expressing Your Thoughts - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2012 from Karla DowningDo you struggle with speaking the truth in love in your relationships? If you answered yes, this biblical truth and tip will help you. Some people are not naturally verbal and have difficulty expressing their thoughts, especially in emotionally volatile and unpleasant circumstances. When they ...
Views: 1447 - Speaking The Truth In Love - Don't Let Your Truth Be Invalidated - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2012 from Karla DowningDo you struggle with speaking the truth in love in your relationships? If you answered yes, this biblical truth and tip will help you. One of the major pitfalls to avoid is allowing yourself to be easily invalidated by the other person's defensiveness, abuse, arguments, disagreement, denial, and ...
Views: 1004 - Speaking The Truth In Love - Don't Take Personalities Personal - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2012 from Karla DowningDo you struggle with speaking the truth in love in your relationships? If you answered yes, this biblical truth and tip will help you by showing you how not to take personalities personal. Taking the person's response personal will hinder you in speaking your truth. Instead, DETACH! DETACH! ...
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