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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- How to Set a Personal Boundary - by Submitted on Feb 24, 2011 from Fred TracyOur personal boundary is like the armor that allows us to make it through each day unscathed. Without it, our emotional well being is at great risk. People are able to access our emotions and do whatever they want with them. We also lose a lot of personal freedom, our lives becoming subject to ...
Views: 1380 - Don’t Drown in the Sea of Love: 6 Tips for Couples - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Scott & Stephen PetulloMost people strive to be part of a happy couple. Unfortunately, the result is often the opposite. Humans learn great lessons, often through difficult times, from love relationships. But if you take a spiritual approach and remember the following tips, you’ll be able to create more happiness and ...
Views: 1321 - Why Won't My Ex Boyfriend Call Me Back? - Trick to Make Him Call You - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Charles UadialeAre you saying to yourself at the moment, why won't my ex boyfriend call me back? Have you called him a few times or on one occasion however he is simply not returning your texts or phone calls? I recognize the way how you feel. However luckily, there is a means to get him to call you ...
Views: 5092(1 vote) - What Can I Say to Get My Ex to Call Me Back After A Break Up? - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Charles UadialeRelationships start and end around the world every minute. Usually, after break up it’s possible to make up again, however how? Is there some "magic phrase" someone can make use of once all contemplation is "I need to get my ex boyfriend back"? There may not be an exact set of words to make use ...
Views: 1650 - Yesterday is History! Tomorrow is a Mystery! - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Larry JamesCouples who dwell or live in the past seldom are the ones you notice moving forward with anticipation to the future. My belief it that you should only look back to see how far you've come and to learn from the experience. To break free from the past you must look at the future as a mystery. ...
Views: 984 - Two Main Ingredients Why Relationships Fail - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Maxine WhitfieldEveryone has had a relationship at least one time in their life. Love and relationships are challenging that is for sure. People are fearful of commitment, afraid of being rejected, and actually it's the fear that keep us in problematic relationships. The two main ingredients, other ...
Views: 1742(1 vote) - A Psychological Persepctive on Quantum Healing - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Cathryn TaylorTHE BASICS – “Where it all begins!” In the last decade an explosion has occurred. The Laws of the Universe – the laws of attraction – the laws of abundance are now being made available to the masses. An electrical current is running through the planet as a plethora of information reaches the ...
Views: 2022(2 votes) - 10 Steps to Creating Positive Momentum - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Ron BroussardThere is positive momentum and negative momentum. Are you creating positive momentum in your life, drawing the things you want in your life, or you pushing it away? Here are ten suggestions (or reminders) to help you focus on what really matters. 1. Take some time to decide what you want ...
Views: 2948(1 vote) - Be Consistent - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Ron BroussardJason is a longtime Imagine student... he's used my techniques to create success in his life a few years ago... but recently the economic downturn threw him for a loop. He got laid off... something he wasn't expecting and it happened just as he was preparing to get married. Jason ...
Views: 1753 - Struggle In Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2011 from Adam BenedettoWhen we are in a relationship we often have a hard time seeing the bigger picture, for under all the emotions and thoughts is the purpose for you being together. We are brought together with another person to find balance and love, not struggle, resentment, and confusion. Often we let the parts ...
Views: 777(2 votes) - The Key To His Heart and Your Happiness - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Kara OhThe Feminine Grace is the foundation of everything I teach. It is what causes a woman to be truly happy. It’s actually the key to enjoying more fully every aspect of your life. We think we’re our own person, able to choose how we live our lives. But a lot of how and why we make the choices we ...
Views: 2408 - Learn to Pay Attention to Your Life by Using Your Internal GPS - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2012 from Don NenningerHow you live a great life by learning how to discover and follow your path (excerpt from the book The 5 Laws of Conscious Living) Living life from your center means that your experience of life is not determined by external life situations. As you grow, you learn about yourself, and you ...
Views: 1235(3 votes) - Someone May Be Watching You...And It May Be Coming From Your Own House - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Dana McIntyreRemember that old 80’s song with Rockwell and Michael Jackson that said "I always feel like…somebody’s watching me???" Well, if you are one of the millions of people currently going through a divorce, the feeling of someone watching you may ring a little too close for comfort. Many people ...
Views: 2577(4 votes) - Don't Let Another Person Become the One That Got Away! - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisIf you find that you are constantly kicking yourself about the one that got away, then now's the time to stop that from ever happening again! It doesn't matter whether you were dating them and screwed up, or they were attracted to you and you didn't take action. Either way you did some key ...
Views: 677 - The First Stage of Breaking Up Can Be the Hardest - Here's How to Handle It - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisBreaking up happens in stages, and it can be a long and painful process if you don’t understand the stages and how to deal with them when they come along. But with some knowledge about the process of breaking up and why it occurs you can either save the relationship or speed up the breakup to ...
Views: 506 - How to Attract a Man By Stroking His Ego - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisAttracting men with the ego stroking technique should be used with caution and as a part of a bigger plan of how to attract a man to you. You don't want to create a monster who thinks he's better than everyone else, including you, after you are done with him. You just want to let him know that ...
Views: 7312 - How to Deal With Conflict About Different Beliefs in New Relationships - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisThe first disagreement can turn into a fight quickly! And that can lead to questions about the solidity of the relationship and whether or not you want to move forward with it. It’s natural to feel like that. The first bit of tension in a relationship is going to be upsetting to the core because ...
Views: 1257(1 vote) - How To Sustain A Healthy Relationship With A Boyfriend Who Doesn't Understand Your Needs - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Ram GuptaIf you are looking to sustain a healthy relationship you must understand that there are many things that can cause a strain on a relationship, but one of the most common ones is when a person feels that their partner is almost incapable of being properly sensitive to their needs from a ...
Views: 625 - Getting Back Together With Your Boyfriend Who's Losing Interest In You - 4 Facts You Should Know - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2011 from Ram GuptaYou must understand that getting back together with your boyfriend means that you first take actions to save your relationship. A lot of women complain about how their boyfriends switch off at times and drift away into their own zone. It is fairly natural, up to a point, but if it starts to ...
Views: 697 - How to Meet and Impress Single Women With a Cigarette Lighter - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Don DiebelLet me tell you about a golden opportunity that comes up quite often for meeting and making a good impression on single women. Whenever you see a single woman about to light up her cigarette, offer to light it for her. And whatever you do, don't use a match or one of those cheap lighters you ...
Views: 1978 - 4 Ways to Say No Effectively in Any Situation Without Drama - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2011 from Stephanie OwensThe 4 No's of being a No Pro Saying “No” can be difficult because Pleaseaholics are concerned about hurting people’s feeling or damaging a relationship. I know how difficult it can be to even imagine telling someone no. Having the right tool for the job makes it easier because you don’t have ...
Views: 3043(2 votes) - The Relationship Dilemma - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2011 from P Nalagy BrowneUnlike popular belief, marriage should almost certainly never be considered as being one’s most important relationship! In fact, marriage merely acts as the end-product or proving grounds, if you will, of the relationship one has developed, nurtured, and encouraged with oneself all along - now ...
Views: 722 - A Couple's Guide to Intimacy...When One of You is a Sexual Abuse Survivor - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Susie and Otto CollinsJeanette really wants to have a “normal” sex life with her husband Carl. The problem is her memories of being sexually abused as a child by a neighbor. It seems like whenever Carl touches her or talks to her in a sexually suggestive way, she freezes up. This has been a struggle for the two ...
Views: 2373 - How to Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back: 3 Ways to Use Touch to Get Him Begging For You Again - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2011 from Luke DigijamGuys are easy to understand. They like sex. Or at least, they are motivated by it. When it comes to how to get your ex-boyfriend back, you can use that sexual interest to create romantic interest. Using touch can help you make him sexually excited again, and that desire makes it possible for you ...
Views: 453 - Lessons After a Marriage and a Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Justin HansenHe wore braces and his hair parted in the middle with heavy gel, I was 2 years older than him and thought he was a brat… but we ended up being high school sweethearts, got married and had two wonderful children. Around the seven year itch the ‘non fights’ began, what do I mean by this? He would ...
Views: 1444(2 votes) - 10 Best Places to Meet That Special Someone - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Justin HansenIf you're single you probably already know how hard it can be to meet a new love interest. No matter if you live in a small town or a big city, now a days it just seems to be a challenge to meet someone different with whom you click and feel that there is an opportunity for a possible ...
Views: 2258 - Top 10 Lasting Celebrity Couples and Their Relationship Success - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Justin HansenRelationships are not easy, be it marriage, romantic or even with friends. It happens, people change, times change, we grow with time and sometimes time just makes us grow apart. Marriage takes a lot of work, those of you who have been married know exactly what I mean, now imagine having to do ...
Views: 2496 - How Often Should I Buy My Boyfriend or Girlfriend a Gift? - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Justin HansenA while back I dated a guy for about two years, he was the best "gift giving" guy I've ever met in my life. We lived quite far from each other so there was a lot of traveling involved, but every time we got together he would always go out of his way to make me feel special. He'd plan activities ...
Views: 13210(7 votes) - Fun Ways to Spend a First Date - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Zuri EberhartMemorable Date Ideas to Jumpstart Your Romance From the hip twenty-something to the experienced dating diva, everyone’s always on the look out for fresh, fun ideas to spice up a first date. Check out my list of thoughtful ways to make your time together memorable and special: 1. A ...
Views: 2761 - Recovering From Affair - How To Get The Truth From My Husband About The Affair - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Brenda StewartFinding out certain details about your husband's affair is not always the best thing to do, especially when there are some information that is better left as it is because once you know something it is impossible to take it back and you will have it forever in your mind preventing you recovering ...
Views: 2264(1 vote) - Intentional Aligning and Creating Your Life Making use of Law of Attraction - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Nanette GeigerWhat does aligning energy even mean? And How do I do it? I keep in mind I initial heard the phraseology "energetic equivalent" numerous years ago and couldn't really figure out what the speaker meant. I by no means ended up discovering out what the idea meant mainly because I thought ...
Views: 1247(3 votes) - How to end a friendship by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomHow to end a friendship by Rosemary Price psychic. Only we can decide whether or not we wish to end a friendship. I will tell you how to make sure you want to and how to end a friendship if you really do want to... There are all different types of friendships and there are all different ...
Views: 1785(2 votes) - How to dump your partner by Beth Shepherd psychic - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomDumping a partner is difficult, no matter what the situation. You may be torn because of family or other commitments or problems but the odds are that you have thought about this for quite some time and you know that this is what is best for you. This does not mean it will suit your partner or ...
Views: 2677(1 vote) - How to get rid of an unwanted admirer by Rosemary Price Psychic - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2020 from Pearls of WisdomWhile we all feel the need to be loved and enjoy good company and relationships there comes a time when we are getting attention from someone or have been seeing someone that we are not really interested in. Either we were never interested in them in the first place or we have had a relationship ...
Views: 6621(2 votes) - How To Save Your Marriage After an Affair - Reignite The Spark That Brought You Together - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Brenda StewartYour spouse cheated on you and you finally found out. You are feeling that the whole world is falling down around you and despite all these negative and painful emotions you still want to save your marriage after affair. You may have different reasons why you would want to rebuild your marriage, ...
Views: 2544 - ***Holding Your Heart Through Sadness and Heartbreak - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Margaret Paul"I've finally learned how to lovingly hold my heart when my heart hurts from the pain of disconnection with loved ones," said Meagan in our phone session. "I've discovered that it's possible to feel peaceful even in the midst of loneliness and heartbreak."Does it seem like a ...
Views: 3144(1 vote) - What To Do When Your Husband Is Having An Affair - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Brenda StewartRebuilding a marriage after an affair is a very daunting task that need a lot of efforts from both partners. Even if your husband cheated on you if you really want to rebuild your marriage then you have to understand that this process can only be done in two. If you don't know what to do when ...
Views: 1772(2 votes) - Top 5 Signs Of A Husband Having An Affair - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Brenda StewartFinding out that the only person that you love and trust the most in this world has cheated on you it is the most painful experience that someone can live. In order to catch you cheating husband you have to look for some evident signs of a husband having an affair. Telling your husband that you ...
Views: 1430(1 vote) - The Signs That Your Ex Boyfriend Hates You After the Break Up! Or Does Your Ex Boyfriend Still Love You Anymore? - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Charles UadialeEven though you have had a beautiful, long relationship, you have as well had an awful clash that has left you questioning: does your ex boyfriend hates you after the break up! Or does your ex boyfriend still love you anymore? Here's how to know certainly the way your ex boyfriend feels about ...
Views: 9107 - Tips To Help Heal A Broken Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Neill ThompsonAll relationships go through challenges. Some people seem to think that a "good" relationship is one that never has any problems and that it's always just happy and loving. The truth is that all relationship require dedication and work if you want to make it great. If you don't give yours the ...
Views: 987 - How to spice up your love relationship - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Debbie HaughtonI’ve been married for over 26 years and some people ask me how I stay happily married. I believe staying happily married takes commitment, humility and effort. Stay committed! Once you spend a lot of time getting to know someone you start to see their flaws. I believe you have to decide ...
Views: 537 - Finding New Love ... Start Today! - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Dr. Rick SchaeferI would like to help you discover new love today. Heightening self-love is the ideal pathway to loving others more. I am sure you have heard the phrase “You can’t give away what you don’t possess.” If you can increase the love you feel for yourself to a very high level, you will magnetically ...
Views: 1193 - ***Ten Tips to Kick-Start Positive Change - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerAll right, ladies. I trust we all got through Valentine’s Day, right? But let's make this your last February fourteenth when you don’t have a fab date! To do that, you’re going to have to make some changes. Put simply, stagnation is never good. When you refuse to change or embrace new ...
Views: 1808 - Expression of Love and Romance Through Interiors - by Submitted on Feb 17, 2011 from Aroon AjmeraLove and Romance through Interiors (By Aroon Ajmera) “WHOEVER LOVES TRUE LIFE WILL LOVE TRUE LOVE” Elizabeth Browning Love and romance between two people makes the union of their two souls into one happy soul and ...
Views: 2428 - Is Jealousy Normal? - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Greg BakerWe are taught that jealousy is wrong. Indeed, it often leads to disastrous results. But is it normal? Or is it the result of some wrong thinking or wrong decisions? Find out. First, it is essential to accurately define jealousy as compared to two other terms—envy and covetousness. Since I am ...
Views: 4530 - 7 Signs Of A Husband Having An Affair - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Brenda StewartHow do you know if your husband is having an extramarital affair? The first clue comes from your instinct and because you know him very well and you feel that something is not right. But to be sure that your husband is really having an affair is better so look for some of the most obvious signs ...
Views: 3321(1 vote) - How To Recover After An Affair - Coping With Painful Memories - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Brenda StewartIf you are in the process of rebuilding your marriage after an affair and you are still struggling to make it work then this is the moment when you should start learning how to recover after an affair. The most difficult part of rebuilding a marriage after an affair is coping with the images and ...
Views: 2422(1 vote) - 5 More Easy Ways to Heat Up the Flames of Love & Passion on Valentine's Day, and EVERY Day! - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Dr. Patty Ann TublinEven if February 14th crept up on you, you still have time to make this month your best ever! Here are five more ways to make Valentine's Day, and EVERY day, the passionate and romantic! 1. If Wheaties is the breakfast cereal of champions, then champagne is the drink of lovers! Champagne, in ...
Views: 881 - Do You Have A Fear Of Embarrassment? - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2011 from Greg BakerMaking mistakes is part of life. But making mistakes in front of your peers, family, friends, or loved ones often brings a sense of embarrassment. Fearing this embarrassment will invariably cause you even more humiliation. Find out why and what you can do. Embarrassment is the natural result ...
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