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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- Dating Advice: Be A Match For What You Want - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Susie and Otto Collins“There are no good men left in the world!” At least this is how it feels to Liz. She has met and dated many men, but none of them are what she's looking for. Liz has had horrible experiences with men. She's dated guys who were disrespectful, guys who took her for granted and guys who lied ...
Views: 1671(2 votes) - Make Your Way Out of Abusive Relationships with Subliminal Messages - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Nelson BerryBy The Pioneer of Subliminal Messages Online. A lot of people nowadays let themselves get trapped in abusive relationships. What always happens is that they put all the blame on the one doing the abusing and thinks that the other person is the only one who has to make a change. But the ...
Views: 1007(1 vote) - ***Are You Making These 4 Mistakes? - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Margaret PaulI, like many of you, was brought up and programmed to believe in a number of ideas that have turned out to be untrue. These false beliefs led me to make various life and relationship mistakes. I didn't like making mistakes any more than you do, but it is from my mistakes that I've learned so ...
Views: 3027(4 votes) - How To Approach Girls - Five Secrets - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from How To Get GirlsThe thought of approaching a beautiful girl, and attempting to start a conversation, makes the average guy feel stressed and intimidated. There are some proven techniques, however, that you can use to make approaching women a fun part of your daily routine. It's very important for you to handle ...
Views: 881(1 vote) - 5 Ways To Instantly Improve Your Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from Kara OhWomen are the leaders in the relationship. Men know it better than women do. A woman can change the tone and energy more easily then they realize… and it’s fun to watch a man respond. The quickest way to shift the energy in the moment–and as the primary way you interact with each other–is to ...
Views: 1803(4 votes) - The Differences Between Emotional Maturity And Immaturity - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from George BielayWhy should you care about emotional maturity? Because it can mean the difference between a happy, rewarding and satisfying life and relationship versus a stressful unhappy existence with crises that never seem to go away. This newletter introduces the signs of emotional immaturity, qualities and ...
Views: 31707(1 vote) - How To Start Difficult Conversations - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2011 from George BielaySome conversations with your partner can be very difficult, and potentially conflictual. Relationship researcher and psychologist Dr. John Gottman has learned that the way a conflict discussion begins can determine the course and tone of the entire conversation. Dr. Gottman's research suggests ...
Views: 1745 - How Well Do You Practice Empathy Quiz? 5 Tips to Raise Your Empathy Quotient - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Monica Strobel"Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing." Rollo May Empathy. This pleasant-sounding attribute—like the overlooked compliment—is one of the most important skills we can acquire. Through empathy, we gain recognition and understanding of ...
Views: 2977(1 vote) - Why No Contact with Ex-Girlfriends Is the Best Way to Win Her Back - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Andrew HunterHey buddy, I know that if you’re reading this, then you’re probably struggling with a break up. If your girlfriend dumped you and you’ve seemingly tried everything to get her back, but she just won’t listen or you can’t seem to get through to her, then let me tell you why no contact with your ...
Views: 15481 - How to Get Your Girl Back After a Break Up in 5 Simple Steps - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Andrew HunterHey buddy, do you want to know how to get your girl back after a break up? I understand your pain. I’ve been there myself and I know only too well the emotional anguish that you’re going through. Sometimes you just feeling like staying in bed all day long, and it can be hard to pull yourself ...
Views: 1217 - Discover 3 Ways You Can Improve Your Communication Skills In Your Marriage - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Mika MaddelaCommunication is one of the leading causes to many marriage problems. Being able to communicate with your spouse can be really difficult when communication is not your best skill and the stresses of day to day life gets in the way. Here are a few steps you can take to improve communication in ...
Views: 1052(1 vote) - Relationship Reality Repair - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from William CottringerRelationship Reality Repair by Bill Cottringer “Man is a knot into which relationships are tied.” ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. Successful relationships are all about keeping things in proper perspective. This is especially true about the different perceptions of the realities of the ...
Views: 1676(3 votes) - Rising Above Betrayal – 3 Tips on How to Overcome Betrayal - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Nelson BerryBy The Pioneer of Betrayal is one of the uglier things in life, but sometimes it cannot be helped. Have you ever been betrayed by someone? It could be some acquaintaince you wouldn’t mind losing in your life, but it could also be a close family member, a best friend, or a partner. Whether ...
Views: 3783(2 votes) - Relationship Willingness. Do you have it? - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Annie RamThe greatest help any relationship, especially the one with your partner, can have is willingness. When there is willingness present, most relationship trouble can be addressed, worked on, and healed. Willingness allows the doors of communication to be and remain open as well as for positive ...
Views: 902 - Communication with Your Partner is Vital! - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Annie RamYou’ve probably heard it before, but good communication is absolutely necessary for enduring and fostering any healthy and loving relationship. I’d like to point out the word “good” in good communication. Truth is, anyone can communicate. Anyone can tell, talk to, talk at, share with, ...
Views: 680 - Finding Help for Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Annie RamEvery couple goes through tough times as well as peaks and valleys, that is normal. However, if your relationship is stuck in a negative place, it may be time to reach out for some assistance. Help for a relationship comes in many forms. It truly depends on the individual relationship as to ...
Views: 715 - Keeping Your Relationship Together through this Economy - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Annie RamFinancial stress is one of the leading causes of divorce in the United States. It can tear apart even the best relationships. Here are some Tools for facing down money troubles and staying together! 1. Absolutely No Finger Pointing or Blaming: The core issue is that partners often take the ...
Views: 584 - Rekindle An Old Flame – Subliminal Messages Can Help - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Nelson BerryDid you lost what you now realize is the love of your life? Or have you recently come across an old flame you realize you still love? Finding or getting back together with a lost love is the goal of many individuals out there. A lot of people just have this one person they can’t seem to get ...
Views: 3779 - Signs Your Ex Boyfriend Still Loves You and How to Win Them Back - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Charles UadialeAre you missing your ex boyfriend? Are you wondering if he has the same feelings? The signs your ex boyfriend still loves you are not usually that noticeable. however if you know what signs to take note of it can help you know where you stand and what the odds are of reconciling. We are going to ...
Views: 4663 - Signs Your Ex Still Loves You And Wants You Back? - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Charles UadialeHas your ex boyfriend moved on? Does he act as if he doesn’t care? Or perhaps he is dating a new girl. Perhaps he is giving you confusing signs and when you ask him the way he feels he simply nod it off. Signs your ex boyfriend still loves you are not all the time noticeable. It is significant ...
Views: 3569 - Can You Survive These 4 Stages And Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back After A Breakup? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Charles UadialeYou will have to fight if you actually want your ex boyfriend back, are you all set? This road is not easy to travel, however I can lend a hand. With the exact approach and tackle everything is achievable. Have you considered this before; are you prepared to do what it takes to get your ex ...
Views: 6246 - What's love got to do with it? part3: "We must grow." - by Submitted on Mar 30, 2011 from Eric LittleHey! I know it's a truly a stretch to establish real conversation beyond the superficial as it relates to love and relationships. I will passionately press this topic as far as I must to offer a helpful contribution to the conversation. To those that may be following this conversation I thank ...
Views: 1431(3 votes) - Align With What You Desire for Powerful Purposeful Action - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Nanette GeigerA common misconception about positive manifestation is the idea that your problems and shortcomings are simply going to vanish just because you want them to. If you've ever heard a life coach or self-improvement guru say anything, you've probably heard of the phrase massive action. The question ...
Views: 1832(1 vote) - Stop The Madness! How Can Two Walk Together Accept They Agree! - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Ginger London,Amos 3:3 Do you find yourself repeatedly having heated conversations with someone you are in a relationship with? Have you ever been involved with someone who was all wrong for you and not realized it until months or even years later? Have you had a habit of mistaking drama and tension ...
Views: 1965 - 5 Ways You're Setting Your Marriage Up to Fail - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Mika MaddelaDo you have a great relationship with your spouse? Do you think that nothing can ever tear you guys apart? Well, many failed marriages start off with that mindset until they begin to make these mistakes. Take preemptive measures to prevent your marriage from becoming a statistic in divorce. Here ...
Views: 894(1 vote) - Friends: My Interpretation Of What They Are - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperI was thinking the other night while I was getting to sleep, how being on one of those flat elevators at the airport is a great metaphor for describing how friends come and go in our life. While we are on them some people stay at the same speed as us, going only as fast as the elevator takes ...
Views: 2336(2 votes) - Tethered to Mobile Devices: Effects on Relationships - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Kristina von RosenvingeHow connected are you to your mobile device? Did you know that many teenagers are sleeping with their I-phone or smart phone right under their pillow. They want to be able to text in the middle of the night and not miss incoming messages. However, there are also many parents who are tethered to ...
Views: 1388(1 vote) - When Saying Nothing Is Best - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Karen KleinwortI have been noticing there is a fine balance between being able to express your thoughts, perspectives and observations to another individual and it being seeing as such – just observations and being taken as “this is what is wrong” or “this is what you should do.” People seem to think that ...
Views: 1558(1 vote) - ***Is Neediness Part of a Healthy Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Dr. Neill NeillAs you contemplate entering a committed relationship, the greater your neediness, or his, the more likely codependency, dysfunction and disappointment will follow. Focus on what you want, not on what you need. I once knew a woman who as a teen dated a man in his twenties. He had a strong need ...
Views: 1826(3 votes) - The Value Concerning Astrological Compatibility - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Marie MalacamanIn a relationship-personal and also professional-compatibility is a must. Personal associations particularly, expect compatibility in its most complicated levels. That is why each time looking into particular factors of personal emotional bonds, men and women will search almost everywhere in ...
Views: 1249(1 vote) - Wanting vs Ready to Be in Love - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineSo many people want to be in love. It's a great place to be when it is healthy and satisfying your requirements, needs, and wants. Yet so few people are really clear about what these are for them. If you've been in relationships that have ended, and you have allowed yourself time for grieving, ...
Views: 942(2 votes) - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Happiness Attracts Happiness - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineIt is nearly impossible to escape hearing the words “Law of Attraction” especially with the explosion of “The Secret.” While it is great that this book and movie have helped more people become aware of the power of this law, there is so much more to it than simply just wanting something and ...
Views: 1329 - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Setting Boundaries In Life and In Dating - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineSetting personal boundaries is important in relationships. It allows you to be centered, indicates to others how to treat you, and helps you find the right person. If we do not set personal boundaries, we can become resentful, stressed, and quickly disappointed in attempts at dating. We ...
Views: 1183(2 votes) - Finding Mr. Mrs. Or Ms. Right - Where To Find Them? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Cheri ValentineIn searching for Mr. Mrs. or Ms. Right, I am often asked, “Where Can I Find Them?” Many do not enjoy going to bars and feel like a fish out of water when they do go. Other people think they are too busy to look. First of all you can find them anywhere doing what you already do. This works ...
Views: 780(1 vote) - Can Opposites Be Compatible? - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Jay LindsayMary, a young wife, sat in my office looking at me with a hopeless expression. "We're just too different," she said. "We don't get along... and we never will." Her husband Tom nodded solemnly. "Yes, we're complete opposites. We clash constantly. We're incompatible, and I don't see that ...
Views: 999(3 votes) - Needs You Are Not Aware of Might Harm Your Relationships! How to Identify Them and De-activate Their Power - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Doron GilThere are many needs of which you are NOT aware that control you and harm your interactions with your partner. It is only when you develop Self-Awareness and get a grip of these needs that you can de-activate the power they exert over you and stop harming your relationships. KATE’S ...
Views: 1216 - Spring is the Perfect Time for a Relationship Make-Over: 3 Simple tips to Brighten and Rejuvenate Your Love Life - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from Dr. Patty Ann TublinSpring is in the air and many people are getting out into their gardens and making plans to spring clean the attic, or the entire house! Time to dust, get rid of those pesky cobwebs and throw out what you don't need anymore. Do this for your relationship, too. The same old, same old can get ...
Views: 715 - Proven steps to defuse any argument...fast - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2011 from George BielayConflict is the number one reason couples seek relationship advice and couples/marital counselling. When two people come together in a close relationship, "exposing" themselves emotionally and making themselves vulnerable with one another, it is inevitable that misunderstandings and conflict ...
Views: 2708(1 vote) - Are You Fulfilling Your Spouse's Needs? If Not, Your Marriage May Be In Trouble - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Mika MaddelaThere are a lot of married couples that goes through a period in their marriage where they think that the relationship is starting to unravel. If you and your partner are having these problems in your marriage then you might be thinking for an answer to the questions, “How can I save our ...
Views: 1158 - How to Know If You Are in a Serious Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisYou meet, you date, and you have fun. You go out together and you look forward to seeing each other when you are apart. You start to spend more time with one another and less time doing things you used to do separately. Is this the point when your relationship begins to get serious? When do ...
Views: 1415(2 votes) - If You Think All Women Are Evil, Mean, or Picky Then Maybe the Problem Is You! - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Bellaisa FilippisSo many men complain about how women are picky when it comes to dating men. You may think that women want the perfect looks, intelligence, personality, and attitude from a man. You may wonder why you always meet these women who are so picky and uninterested in you. You may wonder why you can’t ...
Views: 1172 - Is it Time to Break Up Your Relationship? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeI like to talk to people for a few sessions, and let them determine why they want to break up. In many cases there are good reasons for the break up. In others, the emotional reasons are superficial leaving regret and pain on both sides after the break up. Sometimes a little ‘house cleaning’ and ...
Views: 1494(3 votes) - You’re Ready for Change – Good for You! - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Curt GorlickAre you finally at the point in your life when you’re ready for change? Do you really want to change or are you hoping other people and circumstances will change? If you’re hoping people and circumstances will change then you can stop reading this article now and be prepared to see ...
Views: 1014 - Avoid Dangerous Dating Personalities - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Suzanne WiebeWhen coaching post divorce, one of the first things I do is introduce clients to the different types of people they will run into. It is vital to understand that some people have baggage. Also, some personality types just do not mesh. In the past people dated from work or social settings. There ...
Views: 2918(3 votes) - Do You Know How To Make a Long Distance Relationship Work? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Beverley WattsWhen one partner is forced to move away with their job, neither partner has any real idea how to make a long distance relationship work. Perhaps they begin by declaring undying love and promising to speak every day on the phone, telling each other that distance is no object. But if you’ve ...
Views: 777 - Making a Long Distance Relationship Work: Using Your Imagination - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Beverley WattsMaking any relationship work is a challenge but >making a long distance relationship work can be especially difficult. Once the domain of traveling salesmen and military personnel, the advent of the internet has made the world a much smaller place, and relationships have now become global ...
Views: 1990 - Tips For Keeping a Long Distance Relationship Alive - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Beverley WattsOne of the most difficult things about keeping a long distance relationship alive is the imagination involved in keeping the romance kindled, and unfortunately for many people, their imagination only extends to text messages and e-mails. Of course both of these are absolutely vital methods in ...
Views: 935 - Is It Good To Date A Married Man Who Is Not Happy In His Marriage? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Francis NmeribeOut there, there might not be any issues with the question of whether it is good to date a married man who is not happy in his marriage. However, in some religious orders, this is completely unacceptable. Dismissing with a wave of the hand any questions asked by young single adults, no matter ...
Views: 5428(2 votes) - Why Should Sex Be Saved Till Marriage? - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Francis NmeribeIf you are wondering why anybody should ask this question when the answer seems obvious, think again. This question is surfacing at every seminar, meeting and session with young single adults, including girls who pay the highest price for premarital sex. Many relationships are started based on ...
Views: 1774 - We Make The Most Out Of Our Relationships When We Integrate Higher Awareness - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Matthew ButcherMany relationships can come to a time where there's a gap and we probably look to outside sources to fill that void. When we look to outside sources to fill in that gap we also walk away from our personal evolution. The voids we experience are supposed to challenge us to look within to see where ...
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