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Marriage Therapy: 8 Signs You Should See a Marriage Counselor - Dave Turo-Shields- How Do You Get Over A Boy - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2013 from robert tingThe heart spent a lot of time caring on the other person but now that it’s over it doesn’t know what to do, so it continues using the momentum and force of love that has been moving it. Closure is needed on this chapter in your life, but do you think you're clinging? If the relationship were ...
Views: 1635 - 3 Effective Parenting Techniques for Really Effective Parenting that Works to Produce Happy, Self-Disciplined Children and Teenagers - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2013 from Bonnie LiottaWe have all heard and used the word “rules.” When you go to a swimming pool there are a list of rules, which tells the child or teenager what not to do: no running, no diving, no eating, no drinking, no horse play, no, no, no. Are you getting the picture? It’s like the child is thinking, “What ...
Views: 1282(2 votes) - Finding Your Soul Mate with Parents' Help - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2013 from Farheen RizviCultural practices largely affect how we might select a partner to marry. In the western society, the responsibility of finding your spouse lies solely on your shoulders. Whereas in many areas of the eastern world, this job is solely for the family and sometimes to the extent that your opinions ...
Views: 1792(2 votes) - Tips on How to Get Your Ex Back - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2013 from Franklin FashayaAre you in search for the techniques that can assist you get back your ex boyfriend? Then this article is for you. In this write up we are going to look at some of the ways that can assist you get back your ex boyfriend without having to compromise on yourself esteem. When you're in a ...
Views: 892 - 5 Enablers of a Civilized Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2013 from Jane WarrenReal things you can do to make all the difference to your divorce negotiation experience. When I pick up the phone to answer a new inquiry it’s not unusual for the person on the other end to say something like “Is this Civilized Divorce?”“Yes it is.” “I want one of those.” To which my ...
Views: 1715(2 votes) - Top Ways To Get Over Your Break-Up Faster - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2013 from Team AstroyogiHave you been dumped by your partner recently and you are left with a broken heart to nurture? Are you trying to get over your break-up but haven’t been able to do so, yet? Break-ups can be quite harsh at times, and if not handled carefully, can leave you in a state of despair and agony for a ...
Views: 1031 - What Can We Learn About Intimacy from Horses? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraA horse, you may ask? Well, we will get to that later… Many people will make resolutions for their relationships this time of year, such as improving intimacy. If you want to improve your intimacy—or make any other changes—you must first have a clear idea of what needs improvement and how it ...
Views: 1435 - Enlightened Relationships: Quality vs. Safe Problems - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraLet’s face it, no relationship is perfect, and there’s always room for improvement. The relationship that stops growing, evolving, and developing will suffer the consequences: problems. It is important to realize that relationships are a partnership, a team, and cannot be dependent (long term) ...
Views: 2254(1 vote) - Do Opposites Really Attract? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraJake is an atheist; Stacy is a devout Christian. Bill loves to spend; Cristy loves to save. Victor loves a vacation out in the woods, camping in a tent; Amy prefers a nice condo on the beach. Steve gets up at 6:00 am in the morning; Megan believes the day should start around 10 ...
Views: 1428(1 vote) - Enlightened Relationships: T.E.A.M. - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraEvery intimate relationship goes through cycles—whether new or old—and one thing is certain: There always will be change involved in the process. It all comes down to how we handle change and the kind of energy that we want to create in a relationship with our partner. It is easy to get caught ...
Views: 1477 - Choose Happiness in Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraA couple of days ago I was enjoying a beautiful day in nature exploring with my daughter and Natalie (my other half). We walked through the trails, caught bugs (my daughter loves bugs), canoed, and stared in amazement at the trees—but most importantly we laughed and enjoyed the simplicity of ...
Views: 1375 - Shift Your Relationship Through Forgiveness - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraBreaking down the prison and letting the inmate free is one of the best things you can do to truly free yourself and create the life that you want or the relationship that you desire. You may say, “I am not holding any one in a prison,” but in reality everyone creates a prison—and the inmate you ...
Views: 1209 - Communication Strategies that Work - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraIn your relationship, are you trying to live a dream that you were sold or are you creating the reality that you want? Throughout our lives we are sold two dreams; however, neither of them paints a realistic picture of a truly rewarding relationship. The first dream unfolds when we are ...
Views: 1050(1 vote) - Addicted to Love - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. Rivera“How can I love her one minute and dislike her so much the next?” “I feel he’s my soul mate, so why do we constantly fight?” Sound familiar? If so, you are not alone. Most “love relationships” turn into love/hate relationships, where feelings of love can turn into drama—hostility, attack, ...
Views: 1902(2 votes) - St. Valentine's and the Languages of Love - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Joeel A. RiveraWe all have a past, and some would say we all carry baggage. We are quick to think of ways to get rid of the baggage that we perceive as holding us back. However, what if we have gotten it all wrong? What if we are trying to get rid of our road map for life? It’s like asking a boat captain to ...
Views: 1074(1 vote) - Reflections from Childhood - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Natalie AmsdenFrom the first time we open our eyes we begin imitating our parents. When our caretakers smile at us we learn to smile. When our caretakers get frustrated we learn frustration. When we meet other children, especially in early elementary school, it is often comical how much they act and talk like ...
Views: 4285 - Make Your Own Decisions in Finding a Partner & Developing an Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction The “choices” you make when choosing a partner as well as when reacting and behaving in a relationship are often unconscious and affected by many factors from the past which control you, and are liable to harm your relationships. Self-awareness enables you to understand which ...
Views: 1324(2 votes) - Why are people appealed to jerks - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2013 from Howard HainesI know I made a blog on this but I'm curious to see if everyone else has had the same problem as I have had... Why do people go out/like the guys that are total jerks, but wont settle for a nice guy? Why are they appealed to the jerk and not the guy with the caring heart? I mean I was ...
Views: 506 - Seduce and Conquer Women - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2013 from Payton KaneGentlemen, Welcome To Seduce & Conquer... I am Dr. Payton Kane, Image Consultant and Dating Coach to the Stars. I am a Radio Talk Show Host and the Master of Seduction and Dating in the New Millennium! For the past 20 years, I have dedicated my life to empowering both men and women to ...
Views: 3441(2 votes) - How to Tell if He Is Second-Date Worthy - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2013 from Bobbi PalmerI read this quote recently: I love that feeling of being in love, the effect of having butterflies when you wake up in the morning. That is special. ~ Jennifer Aniston I love her, and no offense meant, but how has that butterfly-thing been working for Jen so far? During my 35-plus years ...
Views: 2178(1 vote) - Does Your Success with Dating Make You Spin Your Head? Know When to Stop & Develop a Serious Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction “Enjoying life” and “winning” date after date might give you a good feeling – a boost to your ego, to your sexual drive, to your availability. But don’t let it distract you from your initial goal of finding a partner with whom to develop a truly intimate relationship. Knowing and ...
Views: 1205(2 votes) - Why Men Need Women and Why Not to Stay Single - by Submitted on Nov 09, 2013 from Jenny TranMen should take a look at women for themselves if they are single. The problem with many processes involving men looking for women is that they often fail due to men thinking that they can simply get by as single people. However, the truth is that men need women to have to get married at some ...
Views: 1442 - How to Get Back With Your Ex Girlfriend After Months - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2013 from Patton PhilopLosing your girlfriend to another guy could be an emotional wreck. If she told you that she wanted to get back with her ex-boyfriend, the wording would trigger your frustration. This emotional anger would eat you up inside and unable to control yourself and you broke up with her. After a couple ...
Views: 5343 - how to be successful with women - by Submitted on Jan 05, 2013 from johnny berbaFlaking is one of the most common frustrations that men have when it comes to dating women. I think flaking is something that is just human nature; I guess its procrastinating being lazy etc. I’m sure we can all agree that when we have an arranged appointment to go to an event if you like, when ...
Views: 986 - The Power of Self-Love - Is Your Anger Running Your Life? - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2013 from Marieme FayeAs I am awakening to the beauty of who I am, the ugly part of me shows up in the form of anger. I mean real anger; the evil witch in me shows up and has no mercy. Well, a few days ago, that evil witch almost cost me the love of my life. I got so upset and angry when John and I were having an ...
Views: 1091(1 vote) - The Unchangeable - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2013 from Womens Recreation, Inc.We can’t get back the time that we spent trying to change someone else. The energy and time is irreplaceable. You truly have to look at each and every circumstance and evaluate the time and energy that you’ve put into it and come to the conclusion that it is unchangeable. It could be the ...
Views: 1672(1 vote) - 4 Tips To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Fast & Easy - by Submitted on Jan 02, 2013 from Robert RoberetIf you are yearning to get your ex girlfriend back after a break up, you need to be equipped with the best information. If you do not know what to do, it will be like going to a battle without any armor. After a break up, you need all the help and courage you can get. You must be willing to do ...
Views: 859 - New Year’s Resolution 2013: Strengthen Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2013 from nancy traversIt’s easy to guess the number one New Year’s resolution of 2012—Lose Weight. Others in the top ten included Enjoy Life to the Fullest, Spend More Time with Family, Help Others in Their Dreams, and Fall in Love. What do these resolutions have in common? All have to do with relationships, often ...
Views: 748(1 vote) - ***Compatibility in Marriage: The Core Values of Love - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Dr. Charles and Dr Elizabeth SchmitzBy America’s #1 Love and Marriage Experts. Over the past 30 years, we have learned much about what makes great marriages tick – about what makes them successful. Even in spite of ominous odds from time to time, the best marriages survive and thrive, and we know why! They survive and thrive ...
Views: 3906(8 votes) - What is Needed to Clear a Withhold - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Robyn VogelIn relationships, resentment can often build and build. An amazing tool that can help reduce the negative feelings is ‘clearing a withhold.’ In clearing a withhold with your partner, family member, parent, child, neighbor or friend, the following elements need to be present: 1. Safety: ...
Views: 2408(1 vote) - How to Empty Your Basket of Resentment - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Robyn VogelAre you ready to go deeper into working on your relationship? Ready to learn how to clear a withhold? Yep. That's right -- a "withhold" - something you are holding back from sharing with your sweetie. You know...how you were angry that he left the toilet seat up? Or she didn't buy your ...
Views: 2322(1 vote) - #1 Tool to Help Your Relationship: Sharing Appreciations - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Robyn VogelIn this article I'd like to take the conscious communication tools a bit deeper -- and teach you how to skillfully share one of THE MOST VALUABLE love tools: Sharing Appreciations. But not just any old appreciations, any old time -- it needs to be 'right' in order to pierce your sweetie's heart ...
Views: 2398(1 vote) - The Best Place to Meet a Single Military Man or Woman - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Ema HarperMany people say that military men and women make great partners in life. Their nearness to risk, danger, and unpredictability are said to help give military men a better grasp at reality. Greg Zorraya, author of an article entitled “Cupid’s Arrow Lands in a War Zone,” published in USA Today ...
Views: 3683(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: How Can I Let Him Go? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2012 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I read "Letting Go Takes Love" and it really spoke to me. I am in a situation and I was wondering if you could give me quick advice. I feel the need to let go of someone because he basically doesn't know what he wants. We have been going back and forth with the issue over a ...
Views: 1969(4 votes) - Here Are 5 Fantastic Reasons to Give Roses - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2012 from Williams BistlineThe beautiful rose is considered a favorite flower with everyone thanks to it's lovely fragrance and beauty. The perfect arrangement of roses can speak volumes and convey a meaningful message when you don’t have the words to state how you feel. It is not a surprise why roses are so popular and ...
Views: 4504(1 vote) - 6 questions to ask - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2013 from chari farmer ogogoSix Questions to Ask yourself 1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school 2. Name 3 friends who have helpfed you in a difficult time 3. Name 5 people who have taught you something worthwhile 4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special 5. ...
Views: 1260(2 votes) - What Makes Asian Women the Best in the World? - by Submitted on Oct 26, 2013 from Jenny TranIt’s interesting to see how many people look for Asian women when it comes to finding dates. There are a number of reasons why so many men are willing to go along with these women when it comes to not only setting up relationships but for considering marriage in the future just as well. One ...
Views: 2702(2 votes) - The Capability of Blushing! - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2012 from Katrina GurlThis is a true story that every couple should ponder for today... A man went on break at work and as he sat down to to drink a cup of coffee, he scrolled through some of the pictures he'd secretly saved on his cell phone. After scrolling through about 12, he decides to text his ...
Views: 1105(2 votes) - Dr. Romance Happiness Tip: Give Yourself a Gift - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2012 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance writes: Want to give yourself a holiday gift that will last the rest of your life? Try giving yourself the gift of happiness. Research shows that happiness and satisfaction depend more on the inner person than on external circumstances. The secret to living a happy life is ...
Views: 1764(4 votes) - Discover 5 Easy Steps To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2012 from Robert RoberetA relationship is a process. It starts with a once-upon-a-time story and ends with either a happy ending or a tragic finale. Relationships that are not fortunate enough to be successful usually end in broken hearts. Some guys can let go and move on. Some are willing to take another shot at the ...
Views: 732 - Single & Dating? Use New Year to Learn 5 Steps to Finding a Partner and Developing a Satisfying Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2012 from Doron GilThere is no time like New Year to contemplate your successes and failures regarding intimate relationships. If you find you long to have a partner with whom to develop true intimacy and haven’t succeeded until now, why not use New Year as a time to look inwards and see, once and for all, what ...
Views: 1200(2 votes) - Learn How To Select Your Wedding Flowers - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2012 from Williams BistlineSecond to the stunning bride, lovely wedding flowers are definitely the most noticed feature at the ceremony or reception. Wedding flowers set the atmosphere for romance, and with the right choice, the flower bouquets will complement any kind of a wedding, such as casual, country, beach or ...
Views: 926 - 3 Lethal Dating Flaws that Doom Your Dating Life Plus What You Can Do to Correct Them - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2012 from Lisa CMistake #1 Not being in places where you can be seen and found by available men on a DAILY BASIS! Men can’t find you if you hide every night at home snuggled up with your beloved cat or dog reading your book or watching one of your favorite TV shows like “Dancing with the Stars” or “Glee.” ...
Views: 1471(2 votes) - Get Over Your Break-Up, Faster! - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2012 from Team AstroyogiDid you break-up with your partner recently and wondering how to cope with the dilemma? Break-ups, at times, can be pretty cruel and harsh, and may take a huge toll on you. To make matters worse, you are also likely to get quite miserable, too. Consulting an astrologer or checking your love ...
Views: 1092 - Free Online Dating Advice for Men - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2012 from James AdamOnline dating is a relatively new way to find new people to make a connection with as it has just started to enter the mainstream with the continuing improvement in internet access and the proliferation of internet enabled mobile devices. Now, a lot of men without experience in the field of ...
Views: 633 - Is Runescape a Good Place for Real Relationship? - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from mary liI’ve been a RS player for 5 years, and in the game there are several girls who are quite close and talkative to me. In real life, I don’t have a girlfriend. My elder brother suggested me to date with one from my RS female friend. And I think it is may be too impulsive. The Runescape ...
Views: 2726(2 votes) - Relationship Blog - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2012 from Devango BobsRelationships 101 Have you been in a relationship for long and things are starting to get shaky and pretty boring? Well, you’re not alone! There are many people out there who are sharing your feelings and you’d be surprised at how many people can relate to you right now! What can probably be ...
Views: 946 - Guy Advice on Keeping a Girl Happy - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2012 from Devango BobsKeeping a girl happy is very important in a relationship. If you don’t keep a girl happy, then she will break up with you sooner or later. Being in love is not easy and it is the guy’s job to preserve it and take care of it. You don’t need to put a lot of effort to keep your girl happy. Girls ...
Views: 1227 - Dating Advice for Women Out There - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2012 from Devango BobsIf you’re single and ready to mingle, you may want to keep yourself updated with some dating advice for women only though. First things first, as a woman you have to be sure that you are not just physically ready to plunge yourself in the market, but you should also be emotionally and ...
Views: 942 - Dealing with a Relationship Break Up - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2012 from Devango BobsHaving a relationship break up is one of the most difficult things that you need to get through life. This is commonly experienced by various age brackets, particularly those from the teenage years, early adulthood, and late adulthood. The following are some of the tips that you have to do after ...
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