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At times, even when using the best parenting tactics, teens may need outside help in order to get over their problems. It’s important to know that there are many useful resources in your community that can be called upon when your teen’s depression or anger issues become out of control and more ... Views: 1221
Who does not want the best futures for his/her children? So what is the most important age for the development of a child? The first six years -- we learned most of our thinking and our behaviors, including how to succeed, how to deal with stress, and how to stay healthy, from the people close ... Views: 1220
It is difficult to shield our children from all of the world's dangers. It seems that with every turn of the page there is some evil in the shadows ready to take any opportunity to destroy a Child's happy and secure world. The newest threat to our children’s lives is the vile presence of online ... Views: 1220
One of the most encouraging things a parent can do for their child is to spend regular, scheduled time with them. Many parents may think they already spend a lot of time with their children, however there is a difference between "family time", "have-to time" and "scheduled special ... Views: 1220
November is Adoption Awareness Month, so it seems appropriate that I share with you about one of my success stories, Trey.
My first encounter with Trey was at a day care that was in the home of a family where I was providing in-home services. We also crossed paths during one of my ... Views: 1219
Children with ADHD and ADD are intelligent and capable. However, they need extra support to help them manage their ADHD symptoms. Implementing the following suggestions will increase children with Attention Deficit Disorder’s ability to manage their ADHD symptoms while minimizing factors ... Views: 1219
One of the most challenging tasks for parents is to avoid simply forcing patterns of behavior on their children by actually developing the character of their children. There is no easy formula for character development, but here are six steps a parent might consider taking:
Step 1: What Kind ... Views: 1218
Tom Cruise joins Madonna in abstaining from TV
Tom Cruise has come out of the closet. The world-famous actor does not allow his adopted children, Isabella, 13, and Connor, 11, to watch TV, except for movies on weekends. He joins superstar Madonna in parenting decision that will benefit his ... Views: 1218
The culture we live in is having a huge impact on our children. Our daughters are influenced to judge their bodies and begin dieting in 4th grade – already striving for the air-brushed perfection offered in glossy magazines and TV programs. Our sons are getting lost behind masks that tell us ... Views: 1217
The internet is such a part of our everyday lives now. In fact, we probably don’t even give it second thought. If you want the answer to something, just google it. How convenient!
Your children’s generation is the first to grow up with this advanced access. It’s no surprise if they know more ... Views: 1217
Surrogacy is the agreement between a surrogate mother and intended parents to carry and nurture a child from conception until birth. The process of surrogacy can be classified into two main types:
1. Traditional surrogacy – in traditional surrogacy the surrogate mother will be an egg donor ... Views: 1216
When Kathryn told her five year old son Jeremy that she was going to marry Frederick, little Jeremy became very happy. Jeremy finds Frederick a helping friend who is always there to help him out. Kathryn is a divorcee. She separated from her husband when Jeremy was just 1.5 year old. That time ... Views: 1216
Few days ago, after thanking one of my students for helping me to accomplish a teaching task, I was surprised by, yet proud of, her graceful response.
The genuine exchange occurred naturally without any pretentiousness from either my student or I. I uttered the words of gratitude “Thank you ... Views: 1216
If envy had a color, it would be black and blue, like a bruise. Those were the colors reflected in my two daughters eyes all too frequently during the past two years.
For eight and a half years, my older daughter, now eleven, was an only child. She was adopted from China when she was four ... Views: 1215
Parents going through a custody battle or divorce will find that the child visitation schedule is the core of any custody agreement. The schedule will set forth the details of when the child will spend time with each parent. It should contain a regular residential schedule as well as schedules ... Views: 1214
Many people wait their entire lives in order to have a baby but when it actually comes time to bringing the baby home, they are ill-equipped to do so. It is very important for you to consider everything that needs done before the baby comes into the house. This is not only important for the ... Views: 1214
"There are little eyes upon you and they're watching night and day. There are little ears that quickly take in every word you say. There are little hands all eager to do everything you do. And a little child who's dreaming of the day he'll be like you."
-- author unknown
What are values and ... Views: 1212
While it is true that your role as a parent begins before childbirth, you begin parenting the moment your child comes into the world. Should you breast-feed your baby or allow him to drink from the bottle? Should you bathe him twice a day or more? What kind of food should you give your baby? For ... Views: 1212
Newborn Senses
Conclusion
A newborn can respond to and readily differentiate between substances with a number of different taste sensations, such as sweet, sour, bitter, and salty. However, it should come as no surprise that, of all of these, there is a marked preference towards ... Views: 1212
When it comes to a baby's bowel movements, there is no normal number or schedule - every baby has a different "normal" schedule. Some babies pass stool after every feeding, and some will make a bowel movement every other day. His individual bowel movement schedule depends on his nutrition, how ... Views: 1211
Alright parents, you probably know what bullying is, but do you know what cyberbullying is?
Despite popular belief, cyberbullying is much more complex and harmful than “just a couple mean comments online.” Cyberbullying is an intimidating, harassing, and/or hurtful online action to another ... Views: 1211
In addition to my counseling practice for most matters of family life, I frequently provide workshops. This week, three: one for parents of high school students, one for parents of elementary students and the third for students in grades 5, 6 and 7.
As in all my parent workshops, I ask what ... Views: 1210
I received the following question which poses many challenges related to divorce and parenting. While there is never a one-size-fits all answer to relationship questions, I’m sharing my response with you as a perspective worth considering. This may be useful to initiate conversations with your ... Views: 1210
Infertility can be defined in two ways: as inability to conceive after a year of regular sexual intercourse without contraception, or as repeated ectopic pregnancies, miscarriages or perinatal loss. Male and female specific factors account for about 30% of the infertility causes ... Views: 1210
A New Look At “Mis-Behavior”
by Dr. Jane Nelsen
One of my favorite scenes from the movie Kramer Vs Kramer shows Billy shouting in anger at his Dad, “I hate you.” Dad picks him up and carries him to his room, throws him on his bed, and shouts back, “I hate you too, you little shit.”
Did this ... Views: 1208
Would you allow the person behind the counter at the burger place to make your lunch selection for you?
Would you let the girl folding T-shirts at the mall select clothing for you?
Would you let the manicurist at the salon choose your nail length and color?
For the majority of people, ... Views: 1208
What makes mobile walkers dangerous? Experts say their very design helps kids move easily - often much too easily for them to sustain serious injuries.
“About three million baby walkers are sold in the United States each year. They are generally used in the 2- to 4-month period after a ... Views: 1208
Parenting any child, biological or otherwise, takes patience, love, and commitment. However, foster parenting can be a bit more challenging and require an extra effort to exhibit each of these qualities at times. Foster children have frequently undergone conditions of abuse and neglect, and ... Views: 1207
While it is always advantageous to maintain consistency when a couple is establishing two separate households there are always some gaps. One primary area where some coordination is required is the question of child care. Whether it is a nanny, housekeeper, or babysitter, it is often difficult ... Views: 1207
If your child has frequent health and/or emotional problems, consider that a lack of sleep may be all or at least part of the problem.
Every function in the body is affected by sleep. And for a child, the risks of sleep deprivation are much more serious than simply waking up in a grumpy mood. ... Views: 1207
There is a Jewish word that doesn’t translate directly into English, but it informs my attitude to people who have undergone hardship and need help.
Translated, the word is a hybrid of several concepts, not standing alone on any one, but really the combination of all.
The concepts or words ... Views: 1206
resiliencyMimi Is My Name and Positive Words Are My Game!
A few years back I was trying to help one of my grandkids figure out how to ride a scooter. He is the youngest and was getting pretty frustrated because his older cousins could ride one and he couldn't. I actually got on the dang thing ... Views: 1206
As conscious parents working to create a better world, we know that the work - and joy - of it begins at home. Here are seven steps that offer you a foundation for clear and healthy communication with your most precious focus; your children.
1. Honor your kid's questions with answers.
If your ... Views: 1206
I remember watching Cheryl Richardson tell Oprah that women must start putting themselves at the top of their own priority list. Even above the needs of their children. I also remember watching the audience; perhaps for the first time ever, boo a guest of Oprah’s.
Now this was about ten years ... Views: 1206
Child psychologists tell parents to listen to their children, and they should. I have learned in my practice and in my life as a parent that it isn’t always clear how to get children to talk when you want to listen.
When children get home from school or parents arrive home from work, ... Views: 1205
Many students benefit from working with a qualified tutor. Tutors are a great way to jump start your student's enthusiasm and motivation for a subject.
With sports, extracurricular activities and all the homework that kids have nowadays, it's easy for them to fall behind in their coursework. ... Views: 1204
The highest-paid actress in the world, with her films grossing over $5.5 billion worldwide, Jennifer Lawrence is often cited as the most successful actor of her generation. She is thus far the only person born in the 1990s to have won an acting Oscar.
Jennifer Shrader Lawrence was born August ... Views: 1204
Have you ever said or done something to your child only to question whether you could or should have said or done it better? Being reflective is an attribute of a highly successful parent, but that is very different than second guessing oneself. Second guessing can be so detrimental to a ... Views: 1204
Nanny personality assessments can help parents learn more and choose better
Selecting a caregiver for our children is a difficult task and the risks in making a wrong choice are frightening. Most articles on this topic advise parents to interview the nannies, check their references and ... Views: 1204
Like any good relationship, the relationship with your child can benefit from thoughtful gestures that help your child feel special and deeply loved.
It's so easy to get caught up in the day-to-day responsibilities of parenting that we sometimes forget to add touches of love that can deepen ... Views: 1202
One of the biggest differences between adults and children is long-term planning. While adults have to think ahead, children tend to live more in the moment. This can be admirable in many respects, but children have to eventually learn about how to think ahead. The best way to do so is not ... Views: 1202
A few months ago, I was with a group of friends, and while talking with two women, I learned how one was now caring for her Mother In Law. It was a change in plans for her and her husband, and it meant putting some things on hold. The other friend talked about how her mother would likely come ... Views: 1202
I’ve had interesting discussions lately about the Chinese culture and how it compares to our own. First, a high school teacher and I approached our students by comparing and contrasting the education systems within the two countries. Our students seemed taken aback as we discussed how China ... Views: 1201
Let’s say you ask your child to do a simple task like feed the dog. The next thing you know, you hear “Why do I always have to feed the dog?”
Or maybe you hear sarcasm and a smart-alecky tone of voice while your child says, “You don’t really expect me to do that?”
Makes you long for the days ... Views: 1200
Parents choose enroll their children in home school programs for a variety of reasons. Some feel their child needs the small structured environment of home, some do not want their child exposed to the standardized requirements of public school, some are needing to avoid social problems or ... Views: 1200
If your school morning routines are stressful, change them! Here is a morning routine for you to consider, it helps you to make plenty of time in the morning so that you can get out of the house happier and ready for the day. You can adjust the routine to suit you for example changing the ... Views: 1200
Traditions are the spice of life, and you may be looking for activities that your children will want to carry on for generations to come. While everyone may look forward to trick-or-treating, you don’t have to limit yourself to the activities of that night. Here are a few ideas for new ... Views: 1199
Child discipline is very important for you to create a happy and healthy family at home. However, a lot of parents did not know what child discipline is all about and often times misunderstood it for punishment.
So, what are the difference between child discipline and punishment?
Here is a ... Views: 1199
Are you tired of playing joint-custody tug-of-war with your Ex? Would you rather be paying for your kid's needs than paying your custody attorney? Discover the How-Tos of mutual respect with your Ex and co-operation in your shared parenting plans. Find advice that's miles apart from the usual ... Views: 1199
My son and I are in the Goleta gas station an hour and a half into our drive to San Francisco to look at colleges, and the car decides not to start. I try it again, and it apparently still believes it's a good idea to pretend it has a dead battery or some such thing. We wait a few minutes and it ... Views: 1198