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- My Husband And I Don't Talk Anymore. What Does This Mean? What Can I Do About It? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2020 from Leslie CaneI strongly believe that one early indication that your marriage might be in trouble is the fact that you and your spouse rarely talk anymore. This was one warning sign that I missed, assuming that my husband and I had just hit a "comfortable phase" where we were mostly just reading one another's ...
Views: 784 - My Husband And I Never Have Fun Anymore: He Says I'm No Fun And Boring So He Wants A Separation - by Submitted on May 06, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear from people who are facing a separation and who don't necessarily agree with the reasoning that their spouse is offering up. And even if they do see some validity to their reasoning, they often just don't how to change who or what they already are. Here's just one example. I ...
Views: 652 - My Husband Annoys Me On Purpose: What To Do When You Can't Stand Your Husband Anymore - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Annoys Me On Purpose: What To Do When You Can't Stand Your Husband Anymore What are your spouse's most annoying habits? Is it the way they talk, eat, sit, clean up? Do they perhaps hum an annoying tune or crack their knuckles? And when was the last time they did something that ...
Views: 4499 - My Husband Blames All Of Our Problems On Me. Why Is Everything Wrong In Our Marriage My Fault? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives who feel constantly blamed by their husbands. Many of them will admit that the issues where the husband places the blame DO exist. They also admit that these problems harm their marriage. Unfortunately, though, the husband refuses to see his part in any of these ...
Views: 734 - My Husband Doesn't Act Like He's In Love With Me: My Husband Says He Loves Me But Doesn't Act Like It - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackMy Husband Doesn't Act Like He's In Love With Me: My Husband Says He Loves Me But Doesn't Act Like It After a certain time in the marriage, and this time can be years to just months; certain things might have happened to make you question if your husband truly loves you - so you want to learn ...
Views: 768 - My Husband Doesn't Appreciate Me: I Feel Unappreciated By My Husband - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2017 from Banks Robert"I feel that my husband doesn't appreciate me anymore," is a phrase that unfortunately many women say each day. Marriage isn't always an easy road to travel and over time we can start to feel that our spouse is taking us for granted. If you feel that your husband just doesn't value or cherish ...
Views: 3196 - My Husband Doesn't Believe We Were Ever Really In Love With Each Other: Apparently, He's Never Loved Me And Wants To Separate. - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives who are struggling with the reasoning that their husband is using for pursuing distance, a break, or a marital separation. Sometimes, the husband will try to tell the wife that the feelings are no longer there, if they were ever there in the first place. This can be ...
Views: 603 - My Husband Doesn't Find Me Attractive Anymore: How to Make My Husband Attracted To Me Again - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2017 from Banks RobertWhenever a woman says, "my husband doesn't find me attractive anymore," my heart goes out to her. It is incredibly challenging to be in a relationship with someone who bluntly tells you that they don't desire you the way they used to. When you are married to that person it's even more difficult. ...
Views: 4091 - My Husband Doesn't Help Out Around The House. Does This Mean That He Doesn't Love Me Or Care About Our Marriage Anymore? - by Submitted on Apr 26, 2020 from Leslie CaneThere are certain behaviors that wives start to notice when they suspect that their husband has begun to check out of their marriage. One example is when he is no longer interested in making sure that the home runs smoothly. Perhaps he used to take an interest in household maintenance (even if ...
Views: 599 - My Husband Doesn't Listen to a Word I Say - by Submitted on Jun 17, 2010 from linda lipshutzMy Husband Doesn’t Listen to A Word I Say!! By Linda Lipshutz, M.S., LCSW Sherry K. writes: “No matter what I do, I just can’t get through to my husband. He’s in his own world and completely tunes me out. I don’t have any trouble getting along with anyone else, but somehow Ted always blows ...
Views: 6327 - My Husband Doesn't Support Me Emotionally: How To Get My Husband To Love Me The Way I Need Him To - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyMy Husband Doesn't Support Me Emotionally: How To Get My Husband To Love Me The Way I Need Him To If your husband does not show affection it can leave you feeling neglected and alone. Affection is an important part of any marriage and when a wife no longer gets that type of attention from her ...
Views: 1167 - My Husband Expects Me to Do Everything: My Husband Expects Too Much From Me - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2017 from James UadialeWhen you recited your vows on your wedding day you really had no idea of the roller coaster ride that awaited you, did you? None of us do. We all seem to think that our marriage will be completely different than everyone else's. We believe our charming, doting, loving husband will only grow to ...
Views: 4630 - My Husband Feels That Our Marriage is Not Workable - Tips and Advice That May Help When Your Spouse Feels Your Marriage Is Broken - by Submitted on May 08, 2020 from Leslie CaneThe other day, I received an email from a wife who said that no matter what she says or does, she can not convince her husband that their marriage can be made better or can be saved. She said in part: "I just can't get my husband to understand and believe that if we were both committed to doing ...
Views: 671 - My Husband Feels Trapped In Our Marriage. He Says He's Miserable. How Am I Supposed To Take This? - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2020 from Leslie CaneSometimes, you have a feeling that your marriage is deteriorating, but you hope that perhaps you are making things worse than they are. That is until your spouse says something that leaves you with no doubt that you were right. Sometimes your spouse uses extremely hurtful adjectives that can ...
Views: 1022 - My Husband Forgot My Birthday: Husband Forgets Birthday Every Year - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2017 from James Uadiale"My husband forgot my birthday!" Oh no. Any woman saying that isn't in a good place emotionally. How is it that we can live with a man for years, tend to his every need and he somehow can't remember the one day a year when we were born? It's exasperating, isn't it? You feel neglected and taken ...
Views: 6865 - My Husband Has Become So Boring: How To Deal With A Boring Husband - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackMy Husband Has Become So Boring: How To Deal With A Boring Husband Most couples find that after they have been married for awhile it becomes more difficult to stay together. One of the reasons is that as a couple you run out of things to talk about and you settle into a rather dull routine. ...
Views: 2847 - My Husband Has Changed So Much: My Husband Has Changed the Way He Treats Me - by Submitted on Jun 26, 2017 from James UadialeMy husband has changed so much since we got married. That's a very common complaint among married women. The man you walked down the aisle with on your wedding day isn't exactly the same man that you wake up to each day now. Physically he may have put on a few pounds and his hair may be ...
Views: 4777 - My Husband Has Changed Towards Me: My Husband Has Changed For Worst - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Has Changed Towards Me: My Husband Has Changed For Worst Are you hanging on by a thread, at the moment, trying to figure out where it all went wrong? How are you supposed to know what to do when your marriage is falling apart and your entire world seems to be caving in around you. ...
Views: 1310 - My Husband Has Checked Out Of Our Marriage: Can Our Marriage Be Saved If the Husband Wants Out? Yes, Here's How. - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2020 from Leslie CaneI get a lot of emails from women who feel like they are fighting a losing battle. For whatever reason, their husband has indicated that he wants out. Or, he hasn't spoken but it's obvious that he has completely checked out. Of course, the wives don't want a divorce, but the harder they try to ...
Views: 534 - My Husband Has Emotionally Checked Out And Is Cold And Distant. How Can I Make Him Love Me Again When He's Emotionally Detached? - by Submitted on May 06, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany of the women who visit my blog can literally feel their husband or their boyfriend slipping away from them. The distance is a feeling that has become so real that you can almost touch it. I often hear things like "our relationship today is just so different. He's cold, indifferent, and ...
Views: 585 - My Husband Irritates Me: Everything My Husband Does Irritates Me - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Irritates Me: Everything My Husband Does Irritates Me The most bugging problem in a married life is dealing with an irritating partner. When your partner is always interfering and over meddling, it is very difficult not to lose control of your temper. Dealing with such a partner ...
Views: 1600 - My Husband Is Always Making Negative, Nasty Comments Toward Me. Sometimes, He Is Hurtful, Insensitive, And Mean - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often hear wives recount mean, nasty, and negative things that their husbands have said. Examples are things like: "you are so selfish," Or "none of my friends' wives make the demands that you do," Or "it's sad that I don't even look forward to coming home after work because I know that you ...
Views: 718 - My Husband Is Angry With Me: Husband Always Angry and Irritable - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2017 from Banks Robert"My husband is angry with me and I feel like he doesn't love me anymore." Sadly, that statement is one that many women make on a daily basis. Being married to a man with a temper is not easy. It's even more challenging when the rage overshadows your relationship and you don't know exactly what ...
Views: 3080 - My Husband Is No Longer Attracted To Me: My Husband Doesn't Find Me Attractive - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyMy Husband Is No Longer Attracted To Me: My Husband Doesn't Find Me Attractive Do you want to seduce your husband and have him wrapped around your little finger? Would you love the attention and adoration that you may have once enjoyed earlier in your relationship? Have things just grown a ...
Views: 758 - My Husband Is Not Interested In Me Anymore. Does A Husband's Distance Mean He No Longer Loves You? - by Submitted on May 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneI get a lot of correspondence from wives lamenting a husband's distance, coldness, and aloofness. Some of these come from wives who are already separated and others come from wives who are still married, but who suspect that their spouse may be contemplating a break or separation. These wives ...
Views: 664 - My Husband Is Selfish: Why Is My Husband So Selfish and Inconsiderate - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2017 from James UadialeAny time a woman says that it's with a sense of sadness and regret. You didn't marry a selfish man or at least it didn't appear to be that way, did it? At the time you two met he was so attentive to your needs and could almost predict when you could use his attention. That's all changed now. ...
Views: 5032 - My Husband Is Unhappy With Family Life: He No Longer Wants The Responsibility Of A Wife, Marriage, And Family - by Submitted on May 06, 2020 from Leslie CaneI sometimes hear from wives who honestly believe that they are losing their husbands due to a situation that is very difficult to change. Many people believe that if you know why your spouse isn't happy, then the logical thing to do would be to fix the problem causing the unhappiness and then to ...
Views: 519 - My Husband Is Very Distant And Emotionally Detached Lately. I Think He Longer Loves Me: Tips To Get Him Invested Again - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2020 from Leslie CaneI often get emails from wives who ask me to suggest ways to get their husband's love back in their marriage. Usually, with a bit of prompting, I can get them to tell me that they really fear their husbands are no longer "in love" with them. This is usually just a feeling or suspicion that they ...
Views: 554 - My Husband Leaves For Days When We Fight: Leaving House During An Argument - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyMy Husband Leaves For Days When We Fight: Leaving House During An Argument Fighting is normal in a marriage. Once in awhile, it is natural to encounter feelings of dissatisfaction and distress in a relationship. The responsibility of daily life can affect even the best relationship. However, ...
Views: 1593 - My Husband Looks At Other Women: Is It Disrespectful For Men to Look At Other Women - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2017 from James Uadiale"My husband looks at other women and I hate it." You've said it. Most of us, who are married, have at some point. What is it about men? Why do they always have to turn their heads to look at a pretty woman as she walks by? Do they not understand how it makes us feel inside? They actually don't. ...
Views: 4251 - My Husband Lost Interest in Sex: When Your Husband Has No Interest in You - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2017 from James UadialeMy Husband Lost Interest in Sex: When Your Husband Has No Interest in You Your husband lost interest in sex and it's left you feeling alone and neglected. Intimacy is a very important part of any fulfilling and mutually satisfying marriage. When one partner loses their interest, it leaves the ...
Views: 1514 - My Husband Makes Me Feel Like An Inconvenience: Tips On Coping When Your Husband Says He's No Longer In Love - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackMy Husband Makes Me Feel Like An Inconvenience: Tips On Coping When Your Husband Says He's No Longer In Love I have been receiving emails asking about "ways to make my husband love me again" and most of the women wanted almost the same thing from their husband. They wanted to have more of ...
Views: 2289 - My Husband Never Kisses Me Anymore: My Husband Doesn't Kiss Me When We Make Love - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Never Kisses Me Anymore: My Husband Doesn't Kiss Me When We Make Love Intimacy is crucial in any love relationship, more so in marriage. This is what most couples crave for yet what most also fail to achieve because of various reasons. Many married couples find themselves too ...
Views: 3679 - My Husband Never Makes Time for Me: Ways to Get Your Husband to Spend Time with You - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2017 from Banks RobertFor some people, once their marriage matures, they find themselves drifting apart from their spouse. Typically this process begins when children enter the relationship. There's an obvious shift in the dynamic between the partners when they have to go from being lovers into being co-parents. If ...
Views: 2634 - My Husband Never Says "I Love You" To Me: Husband Doesn't Say I Love You Anymore - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2017 from James UadialeMy husband never says "I love you" to me is a complaint that is made frequently. Once a marriage has settled into a predictable routine, some men just start to neglect their wives. They no longer put in the effort to make her feel special and they certainly don't go out of their way to ensure ...
Views: 2899 - My Husband No Longer Desires Me: Feeling Sexually Undesirable - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband No Longer Desires Me: Feeling Sexually Undesirable In any marriage it's common for the level of sexual intimacy to decline as time goes on. But if you are living in a marriage that is lacking in intimacy, that is natural. Baring a physical or medical condition which interferes with ...
Views: 1215 - My Husband Puts His Friends Ahead Of Me. He Does Not Fully Meet His Commitments To Me Or Honor Our Marriage Vows - by Submitted on May 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneIt's not uncommon for me to hear from people who have discovered that their marriage hasn't turned out how they thought that it would. Many see this as a negative thing because they perceive that their spouse is falling short in some way. And many feel as if their spouse isn't meeting his or her ...
Views: 651 - My Husband Raises His Voice At Me: How To Get My Husband To Stop Yelling - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Raises His Voice At Me: How To Get My Husband To Stop Yelling Relationships can be so much fun. It's amazing how much you can enjoy the company of another person in this thing we call life. It is great to go through life with a friend or partner. The flip side to having a ...
Views: 1625 - My Husband Refuses To Change. He Tells Me What I Want To Hear But Nothing Ever Changes - by Submitted on May 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneMany people are pretty clear about what they need from their spouses in order to be happy in their marriage. And sometimes, the more unhappy you are in your marriage, the more you spell this out for your spouse. That's why it can be very frustrating when your spouse assures you that you are ...
Views: 712 - My Husband Refuses To Work On Your Marriage. He Thinks That He Should Not Have to "Work" At A Relationship - Tips and Advice That May Help - by Submitted on May 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneOver the holiday weekend, I got an email from a wife who was asking for my advice on getting her husband's cooperation in helping to improve and save their marriage. She wrote, in part: "my husband feels that a marriage shouldn't be work -- that if two people are compatible and are a good match ...
Views: 737 - My Husband Rejects Me Emotionally: How To Deal With Emotional Abandonment In Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Rejects Me Emotionally: How To Deal With Emotional Abandonment In Marriage Do you have many friends who are good at understanding men? If you don't hopefully I can help you understand a bit more about us and how our minds operate. There's this banking concept of deposits and ...
Views: 1267 - My Husband Resents Me and Wants A Divorce: My Husband Resents Me How Do I Fix It - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesMy Husband Resents Me and Wants A Divorce: My Husband Resents Me How Do I Fix It If you've been putting in a lot of effort trying to get better at understanding men, then you may have already stumbled upon this perplexing predicament when you are trying to work together with your man. There ...
Views: 1451 - My Husband Said He Wished He Never Married Me: Is It Normal To Regret Getting Married - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackMy Husband Said He Wished He Never Married Me: Is It Normal To Regret Getting Married We have never spoken to a wife who enjoyed living with an unhappy husband. One who is evasive, non-communicative and emotionless. Some wives would prefer to have a an argument than to experience silent ...
Views: 2635 - My Husband Said I Was A Mistake: What Should You Do If Your Spouse Says Your Marriage Was A Mistake - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackMy Husband Said I Was A Mistake: What Should You Do If Your Spouse Says Your Marriage Was A Mistake In case your spouse has proceeded to start legal proceedings to end the marriage, there is very little you can do about it, but in case you still have time to make your marriage take a positive ...
Views: 2045 - My Husband Says He Doesn't Love Me Like He Used To: Why Would A Man Stay Married If He Is No Longer In Love With His Wife - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Says He Doesn't Love Me Like He Used To: Why Would A Man Stay Married If He Is No Longer In Love With His Wife Marriage problems can be very devastating, especially when your husband is emotionally disconnected and distant. It can also be the case that your husband ignores you and ...
Views: 805 - My Husband Says He Has Lost Himself: My Husband Wants To Separate Because He Feels Like Being Married Is Holding Him Back - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2021 from Maci AspenMy Husband Says He Has Lost Himself: My Husband Wants To Separate Because He Feels Like Being Married Is Holding Him Back If you need marriage separation advice, it must mean that your marriage seems pretty bleak right now. Maybe the two of you are fighting all of the time. Or maybe your ...
Views: 1479 - My Husband Says That He Feels Neglected And That I Never Listen To Him So He Isn't Sure About Our Marriage - by Submitted on May 11, 2020 from Leslie CaneIt is difficult to listen to your spouse complain about a flaw that he sees within you. This is especially true if you disagree about the severity of the flaw and have trouble controlling it. Most of the time, this is a reoccurring frustration. However, sometimes this issue escalates to the ...
Views: 762 - My Husband Straight Up Told Me He Doesn't Love Me Anymore - by Submitted on May 04, 2020 from Leslie CaneI recently heard from a wife who recently had a very upsetting exchange with her husband. They had recently exchanged some pretty heated words and the husband threw up his hands and said their whole marriage was a "farce and a joke." This stopped the wife cold in her tracks because normally when ...
Views: 1020 - My Husband Wants Constant Attention: My Husband Left Me Just To Get Attention - Husband Wants All My Attention - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyMy Husband Wants Constant Attention: My Husband Left Me Just To Get Attention - Husband Wants All My Attention When a couple is first married, they think that they will always be happy. Other people may have problems in their marriage, but it won't happen to ours. All marriages have problems. ...
Views: 1056 - My Husband Wants Me Out Of The House. Sometimes I Feel Like My Husband Acts Rude To Get Me To Leave Him. But I Don't Want To Leave My Home. - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2020 from Leslie CaneOften, there's a period of time in your marriage where you know that a separation could be just around the corner. During this time period, you and your husband can kind of circle one another. Both parties can feel that one of them is going to make the move to leave. The question is WHO it is ...
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