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- You Had Sex with Him on the First Date: I Slept With Him on the First Date Now What - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2017 from Banks RobertYou had sex with him on the first date. I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that you regret that decision. It likely wasn't even so much as a decision as a compulsion. He was attractive, you were feeling adventurous and things just happened. Now, looking back you wish you would have had ...
Views: 3132 - He Says He Isn't Ready For A Relationship: He Is Not Ready For A Relationship Should I Wait - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2017 from Banks RobertYou're crazy about a man and he says he isn't ready for a relationship. What exactly does that mean? In your eyes, a committed relationship is the next obvious step. Obviously he sees things much differently. Essentially what he's telling you is that he's not ready to date or see just you. ...
Views: 2633 - He Doesn't Want You to Move in? I Want to Move In With My Boyfriend but He's Not Ready - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2017 from Banks RobertYou're crazy about your boyfriend. You two have been together for a while and you've been dating exclusively. You feel that it's time to take things to the next level but he doesn't want you to move in. It hurts. You want nothing more than to spend as much time with him as possible, but he ...
Views: 1005 - He's Not Sure If He Loves Me: My Boyfriend Says He Doesn't Know What He Wants - by Submitted on Aug 14, 2017 from Banks Robert"He's not sure if he loves me!" Ouch. Saying that hurts. Knowing that the man you are absolutely wild about isn't sure he cares for you is painful. Nothing can prepare you for that at all. Maybe he told you that he was never sure he truly loved you or perhaps he's just now feeling emotionally ...
Views: 4873 - How to Beat Perfectionism - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2017 from Darlene LancerPerfectionism can be a blessing or a curse. It can become a painful, inescapable trap. Its self-sabotaging side effects undermine our goals and creativity and spill over onto our co-workers and loved ones, damaging our relationships. At worse, it can be dehumanizing and compromise our ability to ...
Views: 1417(2 votes) - My Boyfriend Takes Me For Granted! He Takes Me For Granted What Can I Do - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2017 from Banks Robert"My boyfriend takes me for granted!" That's never a good thing to be saying or thinking is it? The scenario is almost always the same. A very caring and compassionate girl (you) falls in love with a charming and likable guy (your boyfriend) and over time he stops doing all those little things ...
Views: 2150 - Is Your Boyfriend Tired Of You? My Boyfriend Is Tired Of Me What Should I Do - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2017 from Banks RobertIs your boyfriend tired of you? Maybe he hasn't come right out and said that to you directly, but you can read between the lines. The man isn't as into you as he once was and it's painful. You miss the days when you felt utterly adored and cherished by him. Now you wonder if he's on the verge of ...
Views: 7937 - How Do I Get My Husband To Pay Attention To Me? Not Getting Enough Attention From Husband - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2017 from Banks Robert"How do I get my husband to pay attention to me?" This is a common question that many women find themselves asking at some point in their marriage. It often seems that when a couple settles into the day-to-day routine of raising children and maintaining a household that the relationship between ...
Views: 3979 - My Husband Doesn't Appreciate Me: I Feel Unappreciated By My Husband - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2017 from Banks Robert"I feel that my husband doesn't appreciate me anymore," is a phrase that unfortunately many women say each day. Marriage isn't always an easy road to travel and over time we can start to feel that our spouse is taking us for granted. If you feel that your husband just doesn't value or cherish ...
Views: 3185 - How To Get Your Husband to Do What You Want - How to Get a Man to Do Anything for You - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2017 from Banks RobertWe all wish we knew the answer to the question of how to get your husband to do what you want. Most married women have found themselves, at times, wondering whether or not their spouse can even hear them. Men seem to have a natural talent for blocking out certain things and those things ...
Views: 1168 - Secrets Of How To Treat Your Husband So He'll Love You More - How To Connect To A Man's Heart - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2017 from Banks RobertThe day we get married we often have a very skewed view of what the future will hold. When you're walking down the aisle towards your future husband it's easy to believe that he'll feel the same way about you years into the future as he does now. Unfortunately, for a good number of marriages, ...
Views: 1310 - 3 Reasons Why Moving On After Breakup May Not Be The Answer - by Submitted on Aug 07, 2017 from treena murphyWhen one of the parties in the relationship is thinking of moving on, break up focused conversations can be difficult to have. If your boyfriend or girlfriend approaches you with talk about a breakup, it may be difficult for you to hear what he or she has to say to you. Still, ...
Views: 1033 - How Do I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back When She Needs Space?Do This - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2017 from treena murphyBreak ups are, to put it mildly, a pain in the tush. The causes of splitting up vary, but whatever the cause, it is quite common for one person to want to get back together. Let's assume that you are reading this because you're a guy, and you have already tried to work things ...
Views: 1387 - Get Back An Ex With These 3 Techniques, To Show That You Are Confident - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2017 from treena murphyIt may sound incredibly superficial, but if you want to get back an ex after a break up, then how you look could give you just the edge you need to make that happen. Whether you're a natural born looker, or if you need a bit of work, it doesn't matter. There are things ...
Views: 1131 - What Are 3 Examples Of Complicated Relationships, Does Your Relationship Stack Up ? - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2017 from treena murphyMany of us want a little comparison to see where our relationships stack up. These occasional "check-ups" are pretty important to a lot of people, but I think that for most people, if you are asking these questions you already know there is a problem. So, if you are looking for ...
Views: 1015 - Your Husband Says He Loves You But Is Not In Love: He Loves Me But Isn't In Love with Me - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2017 from Banks RobertSo your husband says he loves you but isn't in love with you anymore? If you're a woman who has heard this recently you know it stings. It's incredibly difficult emotionally to hear the man you love tell you that the spark just isn't there for him anymore. If you fear that divorce is going to be ...
Views: 1356 - My Husband Doesn't Find Me Attractive Anymore: How to Make My Husband Attracted To Me Again - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2017 from Banks RobertWhenever a woman says, "my husband doesn't find me attractive anymore," my heart goes out to her. It is incredibly challenging to be in a relationship with someone who bluntly tells you that they don't desire you the way they used to. When you are married to that person it's even more difficult. ...
Views: 4080 - My Husband Never Makes Time for Me: Ways to Get Your Husband to Spend Time with You - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2017 from Banks RobertFor some people, once their marriage matures, they find themselves drifting apart from their spouse. Typically this process begins when children enter the relationship. There's an obvious shift in the dynamic between the partners when they have to go from being lovers into being co-parents. If ...
Views: 2626 - My Husband Is Angry With Me: Husband Always Angry and Irritable - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2017 from Banks Robert"My husband is angry with me and I feel like he doesn't love me anymore." Sadly, that statement is one that many women make on a daily basis. Being married to a man with a temper is not easy. It's even more challenging when the rage overshadows your relationship and you don't know exactly what ...
Views: 3071 - I Wish My Husband Would Listen To Me: How to Get Your Husband to Listen To Your Feelings - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2017 from Banks Robert"I wish my husband would listen to me." Obviously there isn't a married woman anywhere who wants to hear herself saying that. It's frustrating when your spouse always seems to ignore you. How often have you been talking to him only to realize that he hasn't heard a word you said? Or perhaps he's ...
Views: 881 - How to Reinvent Yourself After Heartbreak - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltToday, are going to take those lessons and learn how to apply that divorce gift so you can continue to move on with your life. Don’t think of yourself as just a “divorcee.” You are so much more than that. For years, you probably defined yourself as spouse, partner, and caregiver. Those ...
Views: 1437 - Drop Neediness and Become More Attractive In Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 31, 2017 from Nicola BeerOvercome the top 5 signs of being too needy, give your partner space and increase your attractiveness! Neediness will kill the passion and attraction in your relationship. We all want to be cherished and desired in our relationship that makes us feel good but being needed and pampering to a ...
Views: 1772 - Commitment In The New Year ,Can You Follow The Simple Rules? - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2017 from treena murphyIf one of your resolutions for the New Year was to find, or improve, a relationship that you can be committed to then it may be easier than you thought. Commitment in the new year, or anytime, isn't that hard to achieve but you must follow some simple rules if you want to succeed. ...
Views: 1254 - My Husband Is Selfish: Why Is My Husband So Selfish and Inconsiderate - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2017 from James UadialeAny time a woman says that it's with a sense of sadness and regret. You didn't marry a selfish man or at least it didn't appear to be that way, did it? At the time you two met he was so attentive to your needs and could almost predict when you could use his attention. That's all changed now. ...
Views: 5023 - My Husband Looks At Other Women: Is It Disrespectful For Men to Look At Other Women - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2017 from James Uadiale"My husband looks at other women and I hate it." You've said it. Most of us, who are married, have at some point. What is it about men? Why do they always have to turn their heads to look at a pretty woman as she walks by? Do they not understand how it makes us feel inside? They actually don't. ...
Views: 4243 - My Husband Never Says "I Love You" To Me: Husband Doesn't Say I Love You Anymore - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2017 from James UadialeMy husband never says "I love you" to me is a complaint that is made frequently. Once a marriage has settled into a predictable routine, some men just start to neglect their wives. They no longer put in the effort to make her feel special and they certainly don't go out of their way to ensure ...
Views: 2895 - Christian Singles Dating , There Could Be Concerns And Bright Spots - by Submitted on Jul 28, 2017 from treena murphyPracticing Christians often find that the modern world of dating is confusing and somewhat disturbing. Christian singles dating has its fair share of concerns, but there are, as you will see, many bright spots as well. If you identify yourself as a Christian, then it shows your ...
Views: 1104 - My Husband Expects Me to Do Everything: My Husband Expects Too Much From Me - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2017 from James UadialeWhen you recited your vows on your wedding day you really had no idea of the roller coaster ride that awaited you, did you? None of us do. We all seem to think that our marriage will be completely different than everyone else's. We believe our charming, doting, loving husband will only grow to ...
Views: 4623 - My Husband Forgot My Birthday: Husband Forgets Birthday Every Year - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2017 from James Uadiale"My husband forgot my birthday!" Oh no. Any woman saying that isn't in a good place emotionally. How is it that we can live with a man for years, tend to his every need and he somehow can't remember the one day a year when we were born? It's exasperating, isn't it? You feel neglected and taken ...
Views: 6857 - How Do Men Act When They Are In Love? How Do You Know When A Man Loves A Woman - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2017 from James UadialeHow do men act when they are in love is a question that almost every woman has wondered about at some point in time. Not all men scream from the rooftops when they are in love. The women in a man's life may have to second guess exactly what he's feeling simply because he's not open and honest ...
Views: 1668 - How Can I Tell If My Boyfriend Really Loves Me: Does He Really Love Me or Is He Using Me - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2017 from James UadialeDo you ever wonder to yourself how can I tell if my boyfriend really loves me? It's easy to question a man's devotion to you if he's not telling you on a regular basis that he can't live without you or that he'd be lost if you two weren't together anymore. Short of having the ability to read his ...
Views: 1074 - How to Build a Relationship with a Man: What to Do In a New Relationship with a Man - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2017 from James UadialeUnderstanding how to build a relationship with a man that will be long lasting and fulfilling is something all women want. Many of us believe that our Prince Charming will just stroll into our lives, magically fall in love with us and we'll ride off into the sunset together. Unfortunately, ...
Views: 1226 - What to Say to Make a Guy Melt: How to Melt His Heart with Words - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2017 from James UadialeAll women wonder at some point in their lives, what to say to make a guy melt. We all wish we could be that alluring seductress who sweeps a man off his feet through the use of simple words. Unfortunately we don't all know exactly what to say to our man and sometimes we end up feeling as though ...
Views: 4797 - He Doesn't Love Me As Much As I Love Him: When You Are the One Who Loves More - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2017 from James UadialeIf you've ever said this phrase, you were living or are living in an unbalanced relationship. It's tough when you fall hopelessly in love with a man whose feelings clearly aren't as deep as yours. He may tell you that he loves you but women have an instinct that tells us whether he's as crazy ...
Views: 1280 - Make Him Think about You All the Time: How to Make a Man Think about You Day and Night - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2017 from James UadialeWouldn't your relationship be amazing if you could make him think about you all the time? Most women secretly dream about this. The idea of our man being so completely crazy about us that he can't go more than a few minutes without thoughts of us invading his mind. It may be a wee bit ...
Views: 7543 - Secrets of How to Make Him Adore You: What Makes a Man Adore a Woman - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2017 from James UadialeSo you want to know how to make him adore you? It's something a lot of women wonder about once they've met a man they believe just may be the one for them. Although some people may tell you that there's nothing you can do to draw a man closer, they're wrong. There's actually plenty you can do to ...
Views: 10009 - I'm In Love With A Man Who Doesn't Love Me: I Love Him But He Doesn't Love Me Yet - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2017 from James Uadiale"I'm in love with a man who doesn't love me." You never want to hear yourself saying this. If you do, you're obviously in an incredibly difficult place emotionally. Loving someone who doesn't love you back leaves you feeling a whole host of conflicting emotions. Most of your friends will tell ...
Views: 1075 - How To Support a Partner Struggling with Symptoms of Depression – Relationship Advice - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2017 from Nicola BeerWhen one spouse is depressed, a marriage is depressed. As depression often erodes emotional and sexual intimacy. It also floods the relationship with negativity that can cause resentment, anger and isolation. Even the happiest, strongest spouse may get pulled into the depressions strong ...
Views: 1376 - Discover How To Get A Man To Open Up To You: Questions To Get Him To Open Up - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2017 from James UadialeOne thing that most women want is a close, loving and trusting relationship with the man in their lives. Men aren't always as committed to this ideal as we are and this can make things less than perfect. One area where women often struggle with their men is in understanding exactly what he's ...
Views: 1222 - He Doesn't Call As Much: When He Doesn't Call For Days - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2017 from James Uadiale"He doesn't call as much, why?" That's an all too familiar question for women everywhere. When you're in the throes of a new relationship and your man is attentive and charming, you have hope that it will always be that way. Unfortunately, in most cases, it won't. Once a couple becomes ...
Views: 2947 - He Says He'll Call But Doesn't: He Said He Would Call But Didn't Should I Call Him - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2017 from James UadialeBeing in a relationship can run the gamut from being fulfilling to frustrating. The problem is that it can change from one to the other in the short span of a few minutes or seconds. Many women find themselves involved with a great guy who has one major shortcoming. He can't seem to pick up the ...
Views: 7711 - My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Me Everyday: What to Do When He Doesn't Call - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2017 from James UadialeMy Boyfriend Doesn't Call Me Everyday: What to Do When He Doesn't Call "My boyfriend doesn't call me everyday, what does it mean?" That's one of those ages old dating questions women continue to wonder about. Women and men approach dating from very different places. When a woman is crazy ...
Views: 9183 - How Often Should a Boyfriend Call You? Should You Talk To Your Boyfriend Everyday - by Submitted on Jul 20, 2017 from James UadialeThe question of how often should a boyfriend call you isn't the easiest to answer. It seems that most women have at least one female friend who has the ideal boyfriend. He's the one who calls several times a day just to see how she is. Looking at her relationship it can make the rest of us ...
Views: 7775 - Ways To Keep The Romance Alive - by Submitted on Jul 18, 2017 from Harshad JethraBy keeping the romance alive in a relationship, you can ensure that your relationship passes the test of time and sees through even the most troublesome situations. Valentine's Day is the day to celebrate romance, but true romance lasts all through the year! Let's now run through some ways ...
Views: 1445 - Secrets Of How To Get A Guy To Call More: How To Make Him Call You Everyday - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from James UadialeSecrets Of How To Get A Guy To Call More: How To Make Him Call You Everyday One area of relationships that always seems to confuse women is the problem of when and if to call men. This is something that virtually every woman has a strong opinion on. Some women believe that you need to wait a ...
Views: 8509 - He Just Stopped Calling Me: What to Do When He Stops Calling Suddenly - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from James UadialeHe Just Stopped Calling Me: What to Do When He Stops Calling Suddenly Most of us have said this at least once or twice. It's always a bit baffling. You're dating a guy who you believe has amazing potential. Your dates have been great. You've felt comfortable with him and then suddenly there ...
Views: 5332 - Should I Wait For Him to Contact Me? Don't Call Him and He Will Call You - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from James UadialeShould I Wait For Him to Contact Me? Don't Call Him and He Will Call You Should I wait for him to contact me? We've all asked this question. It typically comes up when the guy you're with disappears and that call he promised he'll make, never arrives. You're left wondering what you did wrong ...
Views: 8902 - Is It Normal For A Man Not To Call The Woman He's Dating? How Often Should A Guy Call If He Likes You - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from James UadialeIs It Normal For A Man Not To Call The Woman He's Dating? How Often Should A Guy Call If He Likes You Is it normal for a man not to call the woman he's dating? Obviously you're asking this because your guy is one of the ones who doesn't call. When this happens it results in so many conflicted ...
Views: 874 - What to Do When He Doesn't Call When He Says He Will: When A Guy Says He Will Call You Back But Doesn't - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from James UadialeWhat to Do When He Doesn't Call When He Says He Will: When A Guy Says He Will Call You Back But Doesn't Your guy tells you he will call and then he doesn't. It's happened to all of us at some point. It's frustrating to be expecting a call from the person you are crazy about and the call just ...
Views: 26408 - How to Stop Disagreements From Escalating in Your Marriage – Relationship Advice - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from Nicola BeerWhen couples begin my private online 1-to1 or group coaching packages, one of the first things they say to me is they have a problem with their communication. I often hear the following: “We can’t communicate” “They don’t listen” “Everything ends up in a row.” “We sometimes don’t ...
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