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Human life has got many different phases that people encounter in their daily lives. These include joyous moments that create good moods and depressed moments that create bad moods. Change in mood affects a person's thoughts, feelings and behavior. Nervous breakdown is a short-span period of ... Views: 1432
Many of us ask ourselves how we set bigger goals for work in 2013. How can we get the promotion we have been striving for? Or even a pay rise for recognition of our hard work? A sure-fire way NOT to achieve all these things is by focusing on what people say and not what they actually do. If we ... Views: 1432
I AM A WOMAN
Mandisa Mndela
Author, founder at Stand Your Truth and South African Native, Mandisa Mndela born on September 22 1970 in a small village, Misty Mount in Mthatha, Eastern Cape South Africa.
Taking from her life experiences chronicled in her 3books –
1. ”Stand” – ... Views: 1431
What sparks in your mind when we say, a makeup logo?
Obviously an exquisite beauty with sensuous and seductive outlook sowing the seeds of desire in every woman to look like her, whichever beauty brand marks lucratively wakes such desire in a women gets his investment back with a sizable ... Views: 1431
As we approach Mother’s Day, I am drawn to reflect on the beliefs and feelings that surface as I ponder my experiences of being mothered and on how those experiences directly and indirectly affected my own mothering and continue to influence my grand-mothering. Each night during my childhood, ... Views: 1431
Aloha! Q & A time again!
Q: What's so wrong about "The Golden Rule?"
A: Short form: It's tyranny! Surprised? Read further, please:
A: Longer elaboration:
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."
Ok, so what if others prefer something different done unto them than what it is ... Views: 1431
Dare yourself to dream. No matter how big or how small, just dream. Dream about where you want to go in life. Dream about doing what it is that you wish to do. Dream of a world the way you wish it was. Don’t be afraid to dream, let your imagination take you away. No place is to far nor ... Views: 1430
Soul's Code: Everyone is a Guru
Originally writ for Soul’s Code Website in their “Peak Experiences” department titled,
“The Bearable Lightness of BEing Roni Lipstein”
A little while ago Paul Kaihla, Founder and CEO of Soul’s Code, a fantabulous community of LOVE’s Light, asked if I would ... Views: 1430
Chỉ số thông minh IQ được rất nhiều người chú ý tới bởi vì nó ảnh hưởng tới sự tự hào về bản thân các nhân mỗi người. Ai cũng muốn chứng tỏ mình thông minh xinh đẹp vì vậy IQ được mọi người chú ý tới.
Hôm nay mình xin chia sẻ với các bạn cách tính chỉ số thông minh IQ theo công thức ... Views: 1430
Why is it so hard to slow down – to take ourselves off of the treadmill of our busy lives and just be still?
Why are we not welcoming stillness and peace and serenity? Why are we instead choosing chaos and imbalance and busyness?
I had planned on taking a day off this weekend. I had big ... Views: 1430
What are regrets exactly? I think I’ve come to a place in life where I don’t believe in them….don’t buy into or sign up for them. After all, I love my life today. And the road I’ve traveled to get here has made me who I am. So yes, mistakes have been aplenty but each one has gotten me here, to ... Views: 1430
My wife Michelle read the bestselling book The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up and has transformed our house over the past few months. I’ve enjoyed and appreciated all that she has shared with me about the book, and especially all that she has done to de-clutter and tidy up. However, until ... Views: 1430
It’s not enough to want change, you have to take risks. You have to be prepared and motivated enough to leave the comfort of what you know and move willingly into that very scary place… the unknown.
Yikes! That sounds ominous doesn’t it? It really isn’t all that scary but there are some very ... Views: 1430
Acts 20:22-24 “And now, compelled by the Spirit, I am going to Jerusalem, not knowing what will happen to me there. I only know that in every city the Holy Spirit warns me that prison and hardships are facing me. However, I consider my life worth nothing to me; my only aim is to finish the race ... Views: 1429
If you have a problem, any problem at all, you need a solution and a solution is the answer to your problem, right? To find the answer to anything, you have to do what? You have to ask the (___?___). The more glaring the problem, the more impactful the insight/answer to the question can be. The ... Views: 1429
Everything you say and do should have a loving undertone to it. Every single word spoken to your mate, co-worker, or stranger should be with the mindset of talking to yourself. By this I mean, how do you like being spoken to? Are you short fused with others? How would you like to be spoken ... Views: 1428
Cameras have become an essential part of daily life. Almost every family, if not every person lugs around a digital camera to take snapshots on the go. However, not many people give much thought into maintaining their camera. Your camera is just like any other appliance: ignore its needs and it ... Views: 1428
What are you committed to? Your partner and family? Your neighborhood? Your job?
When you think of being committed to something, what does that mean to you?
How do you feel when you think of your commitments? Light and joyful? In line with your purpose? Heavy and dark, resentful?
What ... Views: 1428
Have you ever had a situation where you had a person in your life, a co-worker, a friend, a partner, with whom you were having an issue but were choosing not to confront that person? Many people have issues with confrontations. They are scary. You are not sure what will happen. Or if it will ... Views: 1428
Recently I went through a period of intense physical pain which lasted several weeks and caused some interesting effects. It reminded me of these words by the poet Emily Dickinson:
Pain has an Element of Blank –
It cannot recollect
When it begun – of if there was
A time when it was ... Views: 1428
I have a picture on my desk that was given to me by a friend. It is a close-up of a stream in Sedona, Arizona and in it is the rush of the water and a few rocks. Obviously when I look at it, I can almost hear the water and see the white of the stream as it flows downstream. When I get upset ... Views: 1428
As human beings we are innately wired to gratify the wishes of others in exchange for their acceptance. It is critical that we learn how to love ourselves well enough in order to avoid this disease to please. Only you can honestly answer the question, "What does loving me better look and feel ... Views: 1428
Abilene Paradox (Part 2)–
Where and how the bug thrives
Madan Tripathy
Welcome back! Here we meet again. I am sure you have gone through my first post in the series “Abilene Paradox – Be Aware of the BUG that plagues us every now & then”. If not, please go through the same first. Here is ... Views: 1427
Take Charge of Your Weight: Give Up versus Take Charge Talk
By Lt. Col. Bob Weinstein, USAR-Ret
Discouraging and disempowering talk and self-talk will drain you of the positive emotions you need to accomplish life’s many tasks, excel at work and nurture relationships. You will discover ... Views: 1427
First, let's get the definitions out of the way:
Entitlement: the fact of having a right to something or, belief that one is deserving or entitled to certain privileges.
Deservedness: something rightfully earned because of something done or qualities show; merited.
I have a Facebook page ... Views: 1427
This started as an article to address women and feelings of isolation, but as I spent time with the topic, I kept coming back to the words “connect” and “connection.” Connecting, I thought, is the opposite of isolation, and if it’s the opposite, then surely it’s also the solution. One study I ... Views: 1426
It’s a beautiful morning as I sit under a willow tree at the edge of Chautauqua Lake – the water is lapping gently on the rocks and the early morning mist is hovering over the great expanse of water. It’s quite a mystical sight.
I’ve returned to this specific spot under this tree for a few ... Views: 1426
One of the main reasons for mental disorders is insomnia or lack of sleep. Along with many physical problems, lack of sleep is responsible for many mental diseases, as well. If you can ensure better sleep every day, you can get rid of many unwanted mental diseases.
So what are the mental ... Views: 1426
We've all heard the phrase "opposites attract." But what happens when that happy union of opposites starts to rub you the wrong way?
At my Soul Blazing Sanctuary, I often work with couples where one person is very intellectual and not interested in social activities, while the other person is ... Views: 1426
Educating yourself about most things in life is pertinent to your success. Having awareness of the truth is a blessing and will enable you to make practical, intelligent, commonsense decisions. When you allow yourself to be consumed by emotions and disregard reality, you will become a follower ... Views: 1425
We’ve all heard the divorce rate in the US hovers around 50%, but did you know the number of single parent households has tripled since 1960? Statistics show that 25% of households in the US are spearheaded by single moms, and that number has been steadily increasing. The Atlantic refers to this ... Views: 1425
What’s humor got to do with it?
Don’t take your self so seriously. You’ll not get out of this world alive.
One’s sense of humor involves the capacity to appreciate incongruity, absurdity, an unexpected future, a pleasant surprise, or a startle.
Humor helps soften life’s blows. For instance ... Views: 1425
Women Embrace Your Truths
1. Never Give Up on Your Dreams
It is okay to help your man achieve his dreams but never ever give up on your own.
Your dreams are just as important as his dreams.
It is okay to encourage him to achieve his ultimate goals but do not lose sight of your own ... Views: 1425
Do you know how stress is destroying your life and what to do about it?
You’ve all heard of stress but most people think of stress as the emotional kind and are not aware of another kind of stress – oxidative stress. Let's talk about emotional stress first.
Hans Selye is known as the ... Views: 1424
We all end up with too much clutter in our homes from time to time. The problem is, how do you get rid of all that clutter and have a more organized home, and life? Sometimes, decluttering your home can seem like a daunting task that you keep putting off because it is so overwhelming. The ... Views: 1424
Before we even realize we need to clean, we have to recognize something is dirty. We see or feel the dirt and grime and we know we have put off cleaning long enough. We can look and know, in just a glance, what we need to clean. When we put off cleaning these things, dirt and grime begins to ... Views: 1423
This is a question I believe everyone needs to answer. Do you fly with the flock or soar above it?
The other day I listened to a CD about the story of “Jonathan Livingston Seagull” which is a story of a bird, his life, his challenges and his decision to fly or not fly with the flock. It’s a ... Views: 1423
I am fulfilled. It’s late, the sun has set and I lay here watching my wife. Every time I see her, not like you think, but every time I really see her, it reminds me of the joy that fills our hearts, the joy that fills our souls, and the joy that fills our Life. We spent our years living with ... Views: 1423
We must first be kind to ourselves so we may be resilient enough to give of ourselves.
The proverbial God helps those who help themselves can easily be misunderstood as an invitation to act selfishly. However, since we live in a society of interconnected individuals, it makes sense to ... Views: 1423
Job interviews can be stressful experiences. Candidates often become flustered or nervous while answering fairly basic questions involving job history or personal values. While this is a normal reaction (employrs expect a small amount of nervousness) it can make or break your chances of being ... Views: 1423
Having a bad day is one thing, but having a bad day that involves an overturned garbage truck is something else entirely. Believe it or not, a garbage truck accident is a fairly common occurrence, according to law firm Abels & Annes. At least it is more common than what most of us would like to ... Views: 1423
During a conversation with one of my VIPs this week, we were discussing how well her life was going and how she's making progress in various areas of her life. But she was sharing that she was antsy and couldn't put her finger on the reason why. She told me "I am waiting for something bad to ... Views: 1423
A good article by a prepper was saying to move out of blue states. (anti-guns) He had some good reasons… “If you own a cracker box home in someplace like Sunnyvale, California, you should immediately consider cashing it in and buying something like a little lot in Montana. (you’ll have enough ... Views: 1422
Summary: God has given set times [mo'ed] as appointments for us. The pope's visit to Congress falls on one of them
Happiness is based on relationships described in the 10 Commandments. People who break them—people who lie, steal, kill or commit adultery are not happy people and will not be in ... Views: 1422
How are you at bouncing back? Is it easier than it used to be? Harder? Seems like everyone and everything is bouncing back from something; unemployment, poor business, faith in America, the economy, the market, the banks, or real estate.
Many marriages and relationships have fallen apart, ... Views: 1422
Are you facing challenges in your life or your business right now? These days, there are some real challenges facing many of us - at work, at home, in relationships, with money, with family, with housing situations, and much more.
The challenges themselves, even the most difficult ones, ... Views: 1422
How to Throw a Successful Pity Party and Then Start Thriving Again
I have discussed this thought in previous articles, but this time I will state it in the form of an affirmation: "There is a reason of greater good for everything that happens."
Acknowledging that there is a greater good ... Views: 1422
When the hard times find you, where do you find yourself? Reaching out to your best friend, someone you trust? Sitting on a sandy beach in the moonlight with nothing but the sound of your thoughts? On an afternoon drive with no destination besides the hope of clarity? Or maybe on your knees ... Views: 1422
Realistically, striving for perfection may somewhat be only a motivator to excel in a certain domain. There should never be a depletion of self-worth or self-confidence when perfection has not been reached. The human factor constantly interferes with the notion of perfection. Whether it is a ... Views: 1422
One of the most challenging things we can face sometimes, is staying positive when people around us are very negative. We all know that this is not easy to do...so here are 3 powerful ways for you to consider.
Firstly, when it comes to other people, there are a couple of key things to keep in ... Views: 1422