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- Are You Capable of Leaving an Unsatisfying Intimacy when You Realize the Relationship Isn’t Good Enough? - by Submitted on Mar 31, 2013 from Doron GilI once heard someone describing her wish to separate from her partner in the following words: “I’m in the departure lounge at the airport… there’s some waiting before take-off…there might even be some delay…”. She already knew she should separate, but still hesitated about doing it and ...
Views: 1481 - Letting Go of an Unsatisfying Intimate Relationship: Why Many Don’t Have the Courage for & why it is Healthy and Important - by Submitted on Mar 27, 2013 from Doron GilAt times, letting go is very healthy. Yet there are many who don’t have the courage to let go, and they resort to various reasons and justifications to explain – to themselves and to others – why they stay stuck in a bad relationship. While staying they might be “obsessed” about their partner, ...
Views: 2011 - Saying YES When You Rather Say NO Harms the Relationship. Make a Change and Stop Sabotaging Your Intimacy - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2013 from Doron GilLearning to say “No” is an important step forward in improving your quality of life and relationships. Often, those who can’t say “No” within a relationship (or, for that matter, with new dates even before a relationship has been formalized) are often those who can’t say “No” in other situations ...
Views: 1175 - Fourteen Ways Women Close Themselves Off From Finding Love - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2013 from Joyce Dolberg RoweWhen dating or searching for a relationship, many times we unknowingly sabotage ourselves and undermine our chances for success. Here are 14 common ways we block the very same healthy relationship that we are endeavoring to find: 1. Carrying a big list: While it is important to make sure that ...
Views: 2950(2 votes) - Hot Buttons: 90/10 Principle - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2013 from Joyce Dolberg RoweYour partner has said or done something that really makes you furious. You are outraged. You are hurt to the core. You cannot believe it! If your partner cared for you, they would never have behaved in such a way. The person you have just started to date does not return your call in a ...
Views: 1425(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I can't live like this any more. - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I've seen your website and I think you may be the exact person to be able to help me. My wife and I have been married for just about 10 yrs., we have 3 beautiful children, and we live fairly comfortably (money is not too big of an issue). I grew up in a fairlyaffluent ...
Views: 1914(6 votes) - Less Talk, More Action - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2013 from Tina TessinaThose of you who have read my articles know that I am always talking about the importance of good communication, urging better communication, and giving skills for being better understood. Communication is one of the most important aspects of relationships; positive and negative. However, talk ...
Views: 1803(6 votes) - Choose to Be Happy - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2014 from Emma ViglucciWhen we are in a vulnerable place, triggered, overextended, overwhelmed, stressed, hormonal, whatever, we function from a less than resourceful state and therefore can very easily fall prey to negative thinking, victimization, sabotaging, undermining, deprecating, blaming, abuse, neglect, and ...
Views: 1998 - 5 Ways to Make a Woman Have an Amazing Orgasm - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2013 from Help For YouYou aren’t looking to just be able to satisfy your woman. You want to give her total and complete satisfaction. You want to leave her speechless and breathless once you are through with her. You want to drive her wild in the bedroom and you want to make her scream. You want to become a master of ...
Views: 3640 - 5 Hot Foreplay Tips for Married Couples - Reignite the Flame Tonight! - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2013 from Help For YouWhen your sex life suffers, your marriage suffers as well. You want to get everything at this hot level once again. You want to bring the passion back into the bedroom and you are determined to make this happen today. Foreplay is extremely important to your sex life and if you aren’t ...
Views: 3871 - 3 Things Every Woman Must Know About the Male Orgasm - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2013 from Help For YouIf you truly want to please your man to give him satisfaction beyond his wildest dreams, then you need some help. Right now, you just aren’t satisfying him and his greatest desires. If you worry that he is losing interest, then you need to fix things. You need to learn these 3 things that ...
Views: 1321 - 2 Secrets To Staying Connected In Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2013 from Jennifer JonesWhat’s the secret to ongoing intimacy, in and OUT of the bedroom? Most couples agree that they feel more emotionally, mentally, and physically connected with each other, after a good romp in the sack. But generally that yummy feeling of mutual connection begins to wane over time, ...
Views: 2356 - Boundaries: Why Do Some People Build Walls Around Themselves? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, the term walls may bring up associations to do with the physical walls of a house or walls that divide one garden from another. However, the walls that this article will look into are not physical walls. They are not visible to the eye and yet this doesn’t mean that the impact ...
Views: 27827 - 4 Reasons to Date Your Ex After a Breakup - by Submitted on Feb 22, 2013 from Charles ScholarThere are some occasions when it's the right move to date your ex after a breakup. But, how do you know when it's the right move to make? Obviously, this isn't the right choice for all relationships. Some are just not meant to be. That doesn't mean that yours, with a little work from both of ...
Views: 1689 - Part Two: What is Family Constellation Therapy? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2013 from Carolin HauserWhen a Constellation is “set up,” we always try to start as small as possible. After you state your issue to the group, which generally consists of 15-20 people, I then check in with you about how you are doing. When you are ready, I tell you who needs to be represented in your Constellation. We ...
Views: 1407 - Part One: What is Family Constellation Therapy? - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2013 from Carolin HauserFamily Constellation therapy or better said Family Constellation work (as it is properly named) is a therapeutic process that was developed in the second half of the 20st century, by a man named Bert Hellinger. Today Hellinger is known as the father of phenomenological psychotherapy. ...
Views: 1355(1 vote) - Penis Stimulation – How to Direct Women to the Hot Spots - by Submitted on Feb 15, 2013 from John DuganVery few ladies want orders barked at them during intimate moments, but women also don't have all of the equipment men have, and they may have no idea what they're supposed to be doing when they're spending time down there. Learning about a few penis hot spots could help men gently direct their ...
Views: 6173 - Understand Your Relationship and Keep Love Alive - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2013 from Angelica Galea YoungAfter those first wonderful few months at the beginning of floating on air, filled with love, looking radiant and having someone love everything about us we look back and say what happened? Relationships change of course but the one factor we ignore is that when we are blinded by love we do ...
Views: 1223 - Relationships: Why Do Some People Fear Losing Themselves In Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperThe whole idea of someone losing themselves in a relationship may sound completely ridiculous. And if this was to be taken literally, then yes, it does sound crazy. Because physically it is impossible to lose oneself in another person; there is nowhere to go and it is clearly not possible. ...
Views: 2515(2 votes) - When Do You Know If He's Right? Relationship Advice - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2013 from Uadiale AmberHow many dates does it take to make a decision about whether or not you want to pursue a relationship? I've always been curious about this aspect of dating, because very few women have comparable experiences. With some dates, the knowledge is immediate and instinctual. With other dates, ...
Views: 1160 - How to Get What You Want From Your Man in 3 Simple Steps - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2013 from Uadiale AmberYou KNOW what you want from your man. But he's let you down so many times that it's hard to believe he'll EVER change Fortunately, I've discovered three simple steps that will give you the confidence to start getting what you want from your man. Surprisingly, this actually makes you ...
Views: 997(1 vote) - 3 Things to Never Say To A Man Unless You Want To Be Alone - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2013 from Uadiale AmberThere are three things that women commonly say to men -- especially during conflict -- that cut a man to the core. Saying these things can literally trigger a man to shut down emotionally, and to withdraw from you. Here they are: 1) Anything that implies an inability to provide for his ...
Views: 1195(1 vote) - Why Men Do What They Do and How to Change It - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2013 from Uadiale AmberDid you ever wonder why men do some of the CRAZY things they do? Did you ever feel completely puzzled by your man's behavior? If it seems like sometimes his behavior is completely weird or irrational, don't feel bad... because you're exactly right. You see, science teaches us that while ...
Views: 1021 - Marriage In A Rut - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2013 from Diana Weiss-WisdomMarriage in a Rut Dear Dr. Diana My wife and I used to be sweet to each other. Now we don’t treat each other as well as we treat our friends and even strangers. I’ve talked to my wife about this and she says it’s my fault that I don’t listen to her and that she’s irritated with me most ...
Views: 1461(3 votes) - Love Takes Courage - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2013 from odette worrell“Love is patient, love is kind.” But love, the kind we share with another, requires courage. Courage to stand in the world of unknowns and harness the intimacy that comes with the practice of being authentic with one another. It requires something akin to standing in a room completely naked, ...
Views: 1402 - Kama Sutra and the Penis – Pleasure-Enhancing Tips and Tricks - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2013 from John DuganIt is no secret that men often feel pressure to perform well sexually, and pleasure is the hallmark of any sexual encounter. It is no surprise, then, that people continue to turn to the Kama Sutra for different and exciting ways to improve their love life. Often considered the foremost authority ...
Views: 6630 - Attract Love This Valentine's Day Using Brainwave Entrainment - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2013 from Wanina PetlockIt all starts with you. Will you attract love this Valentine's Day, or any other day for that matter, or are you feeling that you'll never find a good mate? Attracting love is no different than attracting anything else you want in life and brainwave entrainment can help you do that. ...
Views: 2224 - Take the Stress Out of Sex Using Brainwave Entrainment - by Submitted on Feb 02, 2013 from Wanina PetlockStress kills a great sexual experience, on so many different levels, including, and maybe most importantly, in the mind. Brainwave entrainment is a clinically proven neurological tool that uses sound to coax dominant brainwaves into a specific frequency, that is conducive to remove stress, which ...
Views: 2004 - Dr. Romance Video: How Can You Improve Your Sex Life In Marriage? - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2013 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance is delighted to be interviewed by Mind Your Body TV via Huffington Post: How Can You Improve Your Sex Life In Marriage? After years together, is there a lack of sex in your marriage? Is this negatively impacting your relationship? Have no fear -- it is easy to ...
Views: 2826(3 votes) - Should You Stay or Should You Leave an Unsatisfying Intimate Relationship? - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction Whether you decide to stay in an unsatisfying intimate relationship or leave is up to you. But you can make a proper decision only when you are aware of your fears and needs, of what might keep you hanging on to a partner which is not for you, in a relationship which is not ...
Views: 1482(1 vote) - 136. Thoughts about Being Able to Develop a Healthy and Satisfying Intimate Relationship - by Submitted on Feb 01, 2013 from Doron GilMany who are not happy with their relationships. They would have loved to make a change for the better, but they are afraid. At times they themselves don’t know what they are afraid of, still they hesitate to take steps leading to a change. They stay stuck in their unsatisfying relationship, ...
Views: 1175 - "Tantra" Sowing the Seeds of Love, Truth and Beauty - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2013 from Goddess GenieTantra is a manifestation art. It is a place where we can move from mediocrity to the full extent of our joy. Tantra is a joyous art, one that will take us to great places if we allow it. The word Tantra is a Sanskrit word that has more than one English translation. The one that I feel expresses ...
Views: 2103(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: How can I find a good man to love me for me? - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm a single mom, of a teenage son. I was never married to his dad (if you want to call him that). I have the hardest time finding a relationship cuz I am on SS income and I am judged by that. I am a loving person, the good guys want a woman that works or is very ...
Views: 1668(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I want a man in my life that I can trust again. - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: After experiencing alot of physical and emotional abuse in my life, my last relationship was very damaging emotionally and physically. Now, many years later, I haven't had a serious relationship or even a date since. I've had two opportunities this year, but one wanted ...
Views: 2057(2 votes) - Are You Willing to Receive Feedback from Others in order to Improve Your Success with Intimate Relationships? - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2013 from Doron GilA good friend of mine is writing a novel. But he resists getting any feedback from anyone: “Feedback?”- he says – “Anyone knows better than I how I should write my book? No way!” Success at writing a best-seller Just like my friend, so millions of people fantasize about writing and ...
Views: 1356(2 votes) - How to Get My Ex Back - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsThere are various ways on how to get my ex back. All you have to do is to have a clear mind so you will not be clouded with the effects of rage and other similar emotions. Aside from this, you should make it a point to put yourself first before your ex-lover. That way, you will not have any ...
Views: 1131 - Relationship Advice.The Secret To Lasting Relationships - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsAre you in an unstable relationship? If you don’t get to stay with one person for long, you probably are. Unstable relationships are very unsettling. They can affect your life mentally, emotionally and even physically. If you don’t want to get that feeling of uncertainty about relationships, you ...
Views: 883 - I Want Him Back But How Do I Get Him? - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsWhen separation between couples happens, one or both of the parties would naturally miss the times they had together. If this has happened to you and you realize you want your ex back, there are things you should do to achieve that reconciliation. Just do not force yourself or the reconciliation ...
Views: 890 - I Miss My Boyfriend And I Want Him Back - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsYou find yourself constantly saying, “I miss my boyfriend” and it all the more makes you miss and want him back in your life. You may have reasons to push him away and such is a natural occurrence in many couples. Relationships may turn sour due to lack of patience and communication. There are ...
Views: 962 - How To Win Him Back - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsSo you are wondering how to win him back. You have come to the right place if you feel gaining him again is worth your effort and time. Follow these tips and your ex boyfriend will be back in your arms once more.Do not communicate with him to allow him space. Do not cling as you may look ...
Views: 875(1 vote) - How To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back.I Want My Ex-Boyfriend Back - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsThe matter of how to get my ex boyfriend back can be complex. There is a reason why he chose you in the first place. Remember why he fell in love with you and find the person that you used to be. This may seem hard for a continually evolving and dynamic person; however signing up to get your ...
Views: 1190 - How Do I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsBreaking up or being dumped by someone you love is tough. It can send you into depression and misery for days. And it sends you into desperation of getting your ex-lover back. You constantly text and stalk her to get back. But you know what, you are doing it all wrong. Women find it annoying ...
Views: 900 - Best Tips for Getting Over a Break Up - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsGetting over a break up is an experience that most people have to go through in life. It is not easy to get over a break up especially if it is your first time or you have been together for a long time. The emotions that you feel can affect your work performance and social life. After a break ...
Views: 822 - Dealing with a Relationship Break Up - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsHaving a relationship break up is one of the most difficult things that you need to get through life. This is commonly experienced by various age brackets, particularly those from the teenage years, early adulthood, and late adulthood. The following are some of the tips that you have to do after ...
Views: 766 - Long Distance Relationship Advice. How to Keep Your Relationship Intact - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsMaintaining a long distance relationship is surely not the easiest thing to do. When you are living far away from each other, your relationship becomes more vulnerable. For one, there’s the lack of intimate contact. Then there’s also the problem with miscommunication. Given these possibilities, ...
Views: 2407 - How to Get my Girlfriend Back - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2013 from Devango BobsDating and falling in love is a dangerous game because you are putting your heart on the line. When a relationship fails, emotions run high and the girl ends up leaving the guy. However, most relationships can still be fixed after they are broken. Many guys search “how to get my girlfriend back” ...
Views: 922 - Relationships: What Causes One Sided Relationships? - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperLife is made up of what are often described as opposites and giving and receiving is part of this dynamic. When one of these is done and not the other, it will lead to an imbalance being created. One may receive from another and be unable to give in that situation. Or one may give in one ...
Views: 5519 - Don’t Try to Change Your Partner. Change YOURSELF Instead! This Can Help Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 20, 2013 from Doron GilMen and women alike often try to change their partners. They believe that “only when” their partners will think, feel, react and behave the way they themselves do – the relationship will be satisfying. But how often does it happen that just because they try to change their partners their ...
Views: 5093(1 vote) - Increase Your Sex Drive Using Isochronic Tones - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2013 from Wanina PetlockIsochronic tones are the strongest brainwave entrainment on the market today and using this technology can increase and enhance your sexual desire and drive. We all live stressed-out lives today, and the fall-out of that is, a diminished sexual libido. Sex gets put on the back burner, and ...
Views: 5236 - Intensify Sexual Stimulation With Brainwave Entrainment - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2013 from Wanina PetlockBrainwave entrainment, a powerful audio and/or visual technology that entrains the brain to a specific state, can and does have the ability to stimulate brainwaves that will increase your experience of sexual stimulation. Yes it can make you excited. It can turn you on and up. It will lift ...
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