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There is an old proverb that says: If you love someone set them free.
If they come back to you it was meant to be.
For years I thought this quote was about letting go in our relationships. Not holding on too tight, giving them freedom to leave without being possessive or controlling.
OK, ... Views: 1318
What is the message you would tell the world, if you had only 5-10 minutes? How do you condense a lifetime of lessons, wisdom and growth into such a short window? Obviously, you would have to write everything down, prioritize and edit, until you had a gem, highly polished and ready for public ... Views: 1317
Dear Dr. Romance,
I would like your advice in my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been living together for a year and a half and known each other for 3 years. He calls me names and puts me down when i try to communicate with him and every time i want to break it off he tells me we should ... Views: 1317
Anger is a natural, healthy, protecting emotion.It can be a very positive emotion when it motivates you to turn your life around , to suit you better. Its a powerful tool to let people know your wishes- hopefully in a non aggressive, assertive way. The anger caused by the end of a relationship ... Views: 1317
It’s the Release That Teaches!
“That’s not fair!”
“You promised!”
“Why won’t you listen to me?”
“Why should I change, what about You?”
*Are you tired of the same old stuff day in and day out?
*Are you sick of being the only one who is changing?
*Do you wish people would simply “Get ... Views: 1316
Here is an excerpt from the book “Equality: The Quest for the Happy Marriage”
A life-altering conversation
Only about a month later I would have a conversation with my friend Kent that would change my life forever. I call this day the most important day of my life. I had an epiphany. ... Views: 1312
What Exactly Is Persona?
The character is all that the normal Blueprint of believing, sense, and behaviours which create somebody exclusive.
As Soon as We state that somebody comes with a"great Individuality" we imply they're likeable, enjoyable and agreeable to function with.
Everybody ... Views: 1312
Tips on getting your ex boyfriend back; Are they any tricks you can use to get your ex back? Well, in wisdom yes there are. What it really is, is the use of psychological methods to get your ex back. There are emotions we humans have that if use properly can be used to our advantage.
Is my ex ... Views: 1312
As we pause to celebrate our nation's freedom, it's apparent that we as individuals determine its value to us.
We can -- and must, if (SET ITAL) we (END ITAL) are to be free -- declare individual freedom; and we can do it on the same grounds:
(SET ITAL) We hold these truths to be ... Views: 1309
Forgiving someone when they have said or done something to hurt you isn’t always easy. In fact, for the most part you would probably rather do just about anything than forgive someone that has caused you pain. People go through life carrying grudges and never understanding the impact it’s ... Views: 1309
Most people can survive natural disasters medical conditions life events but for some of us we would rather cling to the Titanic and go down than spend Sunday lunch having our buttons pushed by our Mother. We would rather run with the bulls than confront our siblings over behaviors that annoy ... Views: 1307
Kelly Manu receives a Black Essence Award and a place in their Hall of Fame for impacting lives in such a positive way, she was also nominated for a Covenant Award for Country Album of The Year via GMA (Gospel Music Association) Canada.
When you hear an inspirational story one would think ... Views: 1306
We have all been hurt by the things others have said or done (notice I didn’t include “to me/us” at the end of that sentence).* Very often, we say or do things that are inconsiderate or hurtful to the other party. Sometimes, we commit an offense by failing to do what we need to. Whether ... Views: 1305
Opulence and luxury attracts everyone, whether you are a peon or an entrepreneur. It lures human being from every class of the society. Cars are one of the most alluring objects that define luxury. Mercedes and BMW is the status symbol today; who wants to get a small car?
With such a drastic ... Views: 1303
Men have been known to be the stronger half of the species, and while many today will generally argue this fact, it is one that has already been proven time and time again. Whether in physical or emotional aspects, men have been known to show resistance and resilience against breakdowns – but ... Views: 1303
Have you ever lain awake at two o’clock in the morning, feeling stressed and overwhelmed because your dreams are not being accomplished? Do you constantly remind yourself that you have made mistakes in the past? Do you worry about whether or not you are making the right decisions about your ... Views: 1300
A relationship is similar to a amusement park ride. You'll notice downs and ups, round and round, backwards and forwards, and even sideways. Occasionally the ride is dull. In other cases it can be exciting; and in some cases it can be frightening. However, you'll also find instances when the ... Views: 1299
On top of your game? Right on! Things are going well? Good news!
However, when circumstances don’t go our way, that’s another story. The first thing we usually do is blame another party. “Why didn’t he ___ ?” “Well, you see if she didn’t do ______ everything would have been fine.” The blame ... Views: 1298
i want my ex back what do i do; What does it take to get my ex boyfriend back? If he left you for some vague or unexplained reason, your goal is to find out exactly what it was. Maybe you left him and now realize that it was a mistake and want to get him back.
Can I want my ex back; A ... Views: 1295
what does this mean exactly... when you hinge on the words of others and rely on this to know exactly what you feel.. this is not enlightenment and it is not who you are... Ever seen a dog with self esteem issues. Or a bird who was depressed cause it couldn't fly straight.. what about a horse ... Views: 1293
Do you find yourself entering into the same type of relationships again and again? Ones which just end up in tears leaving you feeling hurt and drained? Or perhaps ones which make you feel so low and down that it's hard to get out of bed in the morning? Or maybe relationships in which you ... Views: 1287
Listen, I like making money…
And sometimes, it feels like there would be easier ways to make money than to do what I feel called to do which is to support you, spirit-driven leader in growing your business, getting more clients, impacting more people and increasing your wealth…
After all, I am ... Views: 1286
Dear Friends
Part XXXVI - Some early morning thoughts:
. Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned. - Buddha
. Forgiving is all about letting go of: anger, resentment, sorrow and the victim ... Views: 1285
I forgot a friend’s birthday this month. A friend that I’ve known for over 20 years.
I really have no excuse, as it just so happens that 7 birthdays of close friends and family fall in the first week of January. So I’m usually prepared for this week and quite aware of each birthday on each ... Views: 1285
It’s unfair to yourself to keep trying to justify why you’re holding on to toxicity. There are lessons in letting go and moving on.
Ah, if only moving on, especially after a divorce or break-up, were so easy.
There are so many obstacles that hold us back when recovering from divorce, ... Views: 1285
I want to get back with my ex girlfriend; Do you have an ex girlfriend that you would like to get back? You have probably been struggling to keep your self-control while trying to get over your break up, you will need to get yourself together before you proceed. If you can't calm down enough to ... Views: 1281
If pure consciousness is at the core of everyone, your environment starts with your body. Most people look to their environment to find quality, but the highest quality exists at your center. When you develop habits that aspire to connect to your center, you can deal with every challenge with ... Views: 1280
If you find yourself in need of a bail bondsman, time might not be on your side as you may want to get out of jail really quick. However it is very important that you try to find a way in which you can quickly assess the genuineness of a bail bondsman before you can entrust them with your jail ... Views: 1274
What does it mean to forgive? First, let’s look at what it means to NOT forgive, that is, to hold onto old regrets, judgments, or lower vibrations of emotions when you think of that person – anger, resentment, frustration, sadness, etc. When you are unable to totally love someone, freely and ... Views: 1270
Dearest Darling readers,
One of the greatest challenges for us is to ‘enjoy’ people and therefore ‘enjoy’ life. Other turbulences, do have an impact. They do leave lessons and scars. But, relationships gone wrong can leave behind deep throbbing hurtful wounds that blur vision of ... Views: 1266
"Forgiveness involves letting go and surrender of judgment and condemnation. With compassion, we can help others become aware of their divine nature and become lovers instead of haters. Most of all, we must not forget to forgive ourselves. We can give up the victim mentality and become victors ... Views: 1266
She loved you, you loved her. At one time something occurred and because of you or her, your relationship became unbearably so you both decided to put an end to your relationship. But you do not really reconciled to the idea and you are still thinking about her and want her back in your life. ... Views: 1264
How do I get my ex to want me back; No relationship is perfect and you should not expect yours to be so. Every couple has some problems together at some point and in some cases many times. It's how they handle their problems that make or break them.
Does my ex want to get back with me; A ... Views: 1264
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Forgiveness - by Nataxja Cini at Family-Therapy.ca
As we go through life we discover that people will hurt us by their behaviours or actions. we are usually hurt the most by those who are the closest to us , who know us the most intimately. We have all been emotionally or physically hurt by someone. We can all recall the sting of a harsh word, ... Views: 1263
... but it does.
I hear this from clients: “Grrr. I’m so mad at her. I can’t believe she did that! She does this all the time. Why do I let it get to me so much?!” Or something along those lines anyway.
Sound familiar?
I’m sure you can think of a time where (1) you were frustrated with ... Views: 1258
Google banned online essay adverts from essay writing companies on its search engine in June 2007, the action was finally taken after so many complaints from the university officials who believe that free online essays help creating a detrimental effect on the students education, most people ... Views: 1257
When everything seem to went wrong, you might think that the end of the relationship is near and there's nothing you can do about it. But I’ve got some good news: even at its lowest point, things can be fixed. Saving a relationship is not an easy thing to do, but it can be easier if you know ... Views: 1254
After those first wonderful few months at the beginning of floating on air, filled with love, looking radiant and having someone love everything about us we look back and say what happened?
Relationships change of course but the one factor we ignore is that when we are blinded by love we do ... Views: 1254
Words hurt. Words can cause a wound. A deep wound. That wound can cause a scar. A scar that can cause difficulty in life from that point on.
Sometimes when we fight, we throw out hurtful words. Words that we do not actually mean but in the heat of the moment, we use to hurt someone. And ... Views: 1252
As an intuitive guide, healer, counselor and spiritual life coach, Kate has facilitated personal growth, transformation and soul awakening throughout Texas and the U.S. since 1992. Through her own life journey, as well as her experience as a spiritual "midwife" to others in their healing, she ... Views: 1250
A logo is a brand ambassador of your business that will be always there to talk on behalf of your company whether you are present there or not. A perfect corporate identity will provide strength, credibility and sales to your business by expanding the exposure to the millions of people.
I ... Views: 1249
Few of us ever escape the chains of our reality and see beyond the forms before us. We mire in our knowledge and all the things we gather to us, forming a shell that hardens with time. For me I have seen past it only a few times and always in the strangest of ways.
He came to me so subtly ... Views: 1247
It's common to experience intense emotional hurt when the relationship has come to an abrupt end, and you each part. And in many cases depression can manifest as a result of the feelings of hurt. But letting yourself to become discouraged and disheartened is not healthy and won't aid in your ... Views: 1246
Breaking up is easier said than done, and you would most likely be astonished with the number of couples that are both brokenhearted over the fact that they have broken up. A lot of people approach me asking, help me get my ex back and make things return to how it use to be again. Even though ... Views: 1244
• LoveNote. . . If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
Forgiveness works! It is often difficult, AND it works!
We often think of forgiveness as something that someone who has done us wrong must ask of US. There is always another way of looking at ... Views: 1241
In no other arena do we struggle or triumph more passionately than in relationships.
A Gift in My Life
My friend Nel is a woman whom I can never forget. She is bright, funny and very excited about energy work—a part of my life that is very important to me. It really pleased me that she was in ... Views: 1241
Recap
So, to recap Part One, we discussed our history as women as it relates to our relationship with men and how up until the middle to late 20th century we didn’t have laws to protect us from abuses. Women, along with children, were the property of men. Men could abuse us with no ... Views: 1240
Vomit on God. Psalms 142. The Bible says pour out your complaint to God. Tell Him all of your hurts, your pains, your anger, your hatred, your sorrow, whatever it is that torments your thoughts and emotions. Buried feelings never die; they always come back to ... Views: 1239
When I was thirteen, I remember coming home from school one day and waiting for my mom to come home that evening, she never did. She had gone from drinking to using drugs again, it was the late eighties at that point, so crack was her drug of choice. Some of the past is still very blurry for me, ... Views: 1235
Sisyphus does not usually tread the dusty streets of Jerusalem. He has never appeared in a Paschal reading, nor was he ever mentioned in an Easter sermon.
But this Easter, I thought of him. That ancient man of Grecian myth, forever doomed to roll the stone of his judgment up the hill, forever ... Views: 1233