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- A Simple Act of Fogiveness - by Submitted on Feb 05, 2008 from Cory KempFour Amish girls were buried on a hill in Nickel Mine, Pennsylvania, this morning. Charles Carl Roberts IV, the shooter who invaded their schoolhouse, took their lives and shattered their community's private world, took his own life as well. Roberts' wife and three children live nearby. Two ...
Views: 1611 - Discovering Secret Ideas To Come Up With A Beauty Salon Logo Design - by Submitted on May 08, 2011 from Beverly HoustonStealing ideas from one person is plagiarism stealing from many is research The above quote is so true but can you claim that the place you took idea from is not plagiarized as well? It is said that nothing is original is this world that is every creative idea is inspired from another ...
Views: 1610 - How to Forgive and Forget - by Submitted on May 11, 2010 from Susan LiddyWe have all heard the phrase, “Forgive and forget,” but how easy is it do either of those things? If only we could forget… maybe it wouldn’t be so hard to forgive. And sometimes we’ll offer someone our forgiveness… but the truth is that the scar of their unkind words or deeds remains. How do ...
Views: 1610(2 votes) - 12 ‘Don’ts’ for Fighting Fair - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2015 from nancy traversConflict is tough for most people. We don’t like it. It threatens us and makes us feel bad. Makes us feel defensive. But we can feel a whole lot better about fighting if we have rules to guide us. When the same rules apply to both you and your partner, you have something you both can depend ...
Views: 1609 - Forgiveness: Words to Encourage You - by Submitted on Nov 30, 2009 from Janice Brooks,Have you ever had a moment that you needed to be forgiven? I have had many along the way. There is something healing within that process, when it is genuinely given or received. Forgiveness is not forgiveness if we seek it or gives it from a negative place, or to show we are better than, or ...
Views: 1609(3 votes) - Free Yourself to Forgive - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2018 from Guy FinleyBy Guy Finley It is impossible to change the relationship we have with the world around us without changing the relationship we have within ourselves. This is the secret teaching of the ages. Our task, if we want to be free human beings -- if we want a life in which we no longer carry ...
Views: 1607 - Get Your Boyfriend Back - New Discovery Reveals How - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2012 from Josh TuttleThe first place to start off to get your boyfriend back is to know what men want. Men typically don’t express their feelings and emotions making it tough for a woman to understand what they want. The predisposition for a man is to bottle up things adding to the challenge of resolving issues ...
Views: 1607 - ***To Really Trust a Woman - by Submitted on Apr 04, 2016 from Barry and Joyce VissellTo really love a woman is to give her your complete trust. I love the line in Bryan Adams’ song, “… and when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms, you know you really love a woman.” To lay helpless in her arms, you need to give up control and be vulnerable. You need to trust that she ...
Views: 1605 - Fair Fight Guidelines - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2014 from Tina TessinaThirty years of marriage counseling and twenty-five years of a second marriage have convinced me that fights are not necessary in a marriage. Married couples need to have discussions, they need to solve problems, and sometimes they need to disagree, but they don’t need to squabble, argue, ...
Views: 1605 - Make a list of your grievances - by Submitted on Jul 12, 2011 from Kristin EcklundStart by listing the judgments that you hold against the person you have in mind. And be honest, very honest. The more real you are with yourself, the better this will be. It’s best if you can write it out, on a piece of paper, because then you’ll have the physical evidence of all that your ego ...
Views: 1605(1 vote) - How to Get Your Ex Wife Back - 3 Steps to Get Her Back into Your Arms Once Again - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2011 from Simone BrownSo you messed up and find yourself losing your marriage. Nonetheless, realize that nearly all of shattered relationships can be repaired if you are prepared to put a real effort into it and here's the first essential three steps. When a marriage ends, not only does it shatter two lives but ...
Views: 1604 - Why is This Happening to Me? - by Submitted on Dec 17, 2010 from Kara Oh“The spiritual path is a process of clearing away everything that is not you, clearing away the blocks to love.” Sharon Gardner, Unfolding Journey There are times in each of our lives when we throw up our hands and ask why me? Many get bogged down in frustration, anger, and blaming of ...
Views: 1603 - Karma and Forgiveness - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2009 from Intent.com AuthorsQuestion: First of all I want to thank you from my heart very much for changing my life. You put the light on my way to get to know God better than ever! Your words are just the message that God ever wanted me to know! I have a question for long time: In the law of karma what happens ...
Views: 1600(2 votes) - The Divine Invitation - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2012 from Kathryn EriksenYou have been invited to participate in a wondrous dance with the Divine! You chose the pace, the tempo, the direction and the form. The Divine supplies the very substance of creation to and through you for this creative dance. It is ongoing, ever-evolving dance of creation with the Master ...
Views: 1599(1 vote) - The 12 Steps of Joy - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2012 from Karin VoloHave you ever wondered how best to teach your children about love, forgiveness, faith, hope, intuition, or peace? What about attraction, appreciation and power? Or have you tried to discuss the Source, the Journey, and the Universal Mind? And what about visualizations and affirmations? These ...
Views: 1597 - A Look at Life and Death - by Submitted on May 03, 2011 from Janis EricsonRevenge is a confession of pain.” Today it is hard to think of much else. The news that Osama Bin Laden was dead arrived last night, and I wasn’t alone in my shock. It is news I thought would never arrive. We all remember 9/11 and where we were that day. None of us was alone in our grief ...
Views: 1595(1 vote) - 3-Steps To Asking Better Questions by Michael Harris, PhD - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2011 from Michael HarrisEveryone knows one of THOSE PEOPLE; someone whose language patterns are so negative that you wonder if anyone can help them out of their “self-imposed messes” that they have created. I get those too, not a lot of them, but occasionally. I have a client that for a while now; I’ve been ...
Views: 1594 - WHEN WE MASTER LOVE WE MASTER LIFE - by Submitted on May 01, 2011 from Nancy ShieldsEdwin Markham (1852-1940) stated, “all that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own.” This is now called the Law of Attraction. What a brilliant man Edwin Markham must have been. So if this statement reigns true then when we send love and light into the lives of others, this ...
Views: 1594(2 votes) - Apology: Magical, Cleansing, and Healing - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2010 from Elinor Robin, PhDAs a professional mediator I have seen the power of the apology first hand. Practicing the 12-Step directive to "make a list of all persons we have harmed, become willing to make amends to them all, and make direct amends wherever possible" may be one of the best life practices you can ...
Views: 1590(1 vote) - Get Back Together With An Ex Today - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoEveryone who is experiencing a breakup with their ex should contemplate if a reunion is what is best for them. Occasionally, folks want to get back together with an ex before realizing that it's potentially not the best action to take. If you are currently considering this option, you should be ...
Views: 1590 - The Three Faces of Forgiveness - by Submitted on Jan 16, 2017 from Sandra MiniereWhen we allow a past disappointment or betrayal to linger in our minds and bodies, we pay a price. Anger, guilt, hatred, resentment, bitterness, and despair can lead to disruptive relationships, emotional illness, physical disease and less enjoyment in life. When someone says, “I cannot forgive ...
Views: 1590 - 6 Steps To Overcome Trust Issues In A Relationship - by Submitted on May 15, 2018 from Alvina JenniferTo be honest, we are all worried when it comes to giving our trust to someone. No one knows if the other person is worthy of it and so many times it happens that they’re really not. Once someone plays our trust, we don’t give it away so easily anymore. But to the person who stole our heart, ...
Views: 1589 - Learn how to Control your Emotions - by Submitted on May 03, 2011 from cedric riceMost times handling your reaction is just about the most unnatural thing that you can do. It can be done however with a lot of practice and patience. Once you master getting over the urge to react you can win every emotional battle that you will have to go through in life. ...
Views: 1589 - Second Chances - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2016 from Holly BryantSecond Chances. The title sounds like you screwed up on the first try and are graced with another shot. The trick is to not give that first experience any more credit than it deserves. I have made plenty of mistakes as a daughter, woman, mother, and wife. If I wore my flaws like a medallion I ...
Views: 1588 - 5 Ways You Are Practicing Self-Hate Without Knowing It - by Submitted on Jan 30, 2017 from Kemi SogunleWe all experience pain in some form but not knowing how to move “Beyond the Pain,” may result in self-hate. Here are 5 ways you may be practicing self-hate without knowing it: 1. You believe everyone is against you. You cannot seem to accept anyone who tries to show you love or care but allow ...
Views: 1587 - 3 steps to effectively Deal With Negative People - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2012 from Lois FrancisNo matter who you are or what you do – at some point you’re likely to run into someone who makes it their life’s work to be negative! It may be someone in your professional or social circle, perhaps someone who is critical, depressing or just has a dark outlook about life in general or a ...
Views: 1583 - Being a Mother - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2012 from Ken ThomMother's Day is just around the corner. This is a time of family gatherings to celebrate mothers. Family traditions of cookouts, picnics and dining out are fairly common. It goes without saying; mothers play a very important role in our lives. Many articles and books have been written about ...
Views: 1583 - Co-creating Love - by Submitted on Feb 21, 2012 from Meghan GehanA dream of relationships imaging co-creating from the pure “seed” of love. Surrounded and supported through hopes and dreams working through the imagination to allow the Space of love, from the pure intent of all that Love is and what Love is to teach you. You see you create to see, feel and ...
Views: 1583 - Do You Think Free Church Logos Are Worth Using For Your Church? - by Submitted on Jan 18, 2011 from Beverly HoustonA church cannot be purely defined in words; it is a divine feeling which can only be expressed by the people who believe in the religion of Christianity. It is an all-inclusive place for the people who believe in the existence of God, they get together on a single platform to find spirituality, ...
Views: 1582 - The Benefits of Turning the Other Cheek - by Submitted on Aug 27, 2015 from Jess O'BrienWhat if we have more control over peace and conflict than we realise? I believe that we, as a species, have a very good knack for "talking the talk" but not so much "walking the walk". We can affect the world's dynamic and rhythm so easily through our words and actions. You'd think we'd be more ...
Views: 1582 - Forgiveness - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2011 from Elizabeth Wallmann-FilleyWe all have experiences that are deeply painful or frighten us. Some feel anguish from loved ones; others from a stranger. Some people feel taken advantage of in their most vulnerable states, while others experience violent assault. Some have had the intensity of a single trauma while others ...
Views: 1581(1 vote) - African Americans Now Is The Time to Forgive! - by Submitted on May 07, 2013 from Andrew BozemanLet’s face some facts. We have made tremendous progress in reducing the torments of discrimination and isolation and oppression as results of racism. However, there is still a very long way to go. We are still imprisoned more often, less well educated, dying faster, more underemployed, more ...
Views: 1580(1 vote) - The lies we tell ourselves - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2011 from Manfred LuckMy appreciation for the gift of EFT is enormous. I've been using it in my practice for about 4 years mostly over the phone and on myself and I've yet to see a condition that it cannot relieve. While relief of pain and suffering and even major increases in peace and happiness are pretty much a ...
Views: 1580(1 vote) - 5 Tips to Handle Conflict - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2010 from Rhonda NeelyDo you find yourself arguing more and more? Would you like to turn your arguing into communicating? Here are 5 tips to help you out. 1. First and foremost, build your relationship with God. When your relationship with God is strong, very little can cause conflict in your life. 2. ...
Views: 1579(2 votes) - I'm Running Out of Cheeks: How Do I Forgive Those Who Hurt Me? - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2009 from Aaron WelchOne of the most difficult scriptures to apply in our lives is Jesus’ teaching on “turning the other cheek” when somebody attacks us or insults us. For many of us (including yours truly) our first reaction to an attack is to defend ourselves. In fact, when it comes to dealing with a perceived ...
Views: 1578(2 votes) - Be the Master of Your Universe—Without Bloodshed - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2016 from Noelle NelsonSummer blockbusters are full of Masters of the Universe—Superheroes/heroines, Emperors and Kings—in righteous battle. And, when someone storms your castle – be that of your thoughts, your actions, your behavior—don’t you defend it with all your might? “You’re wrong!” “You messed up, not me!” “I ...
Views: 1577 - Four Colors and Their Psychology Explained In Social Networking Logo Designs - by Submitted on Apr 29, 2011 from Beverly HoustonIt was once Orkut and now its Facebook. Things keep on changing with time as nothing is constant in this world! There was a time when people did not know what social networking is and now every single person has a Facebook account. The core purpose is to provide intercommunicative facilities ...
Views: 1573 - Passing On: Playing the Dark Role - by Submitted on Sep 04, 2009 from Jelaila StarrDuring these times of great change, it seems that every day brings another opportunity to learn from the painful challenges that come our way. In some cases several lessons are learned through the same challenge. Such has been the case with the passing of my father and the circumstances ...
Views: 1572 - Dear Dr. Romance: He said I was a false friend. - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance, I love reading your articles here and on Divine Caroline, and I always look forward to the new ones. I have a long time online friend. We have been friends for about three-four years, and I even felt I was in love with him for a while - and told him so. He said he ...
Views: 1570 - You are Not Your Emotions - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2013 from Tracy CrossleySometimes it seems impossible to shake a feeling. Perhaps, it’s a feeling of dread or something missing, which makes us feel off-balance or slightly funky. We may look outside of us for the answer. The answer is actually within us, which should be a relief. Either our emotional state is ...
Views: 1568(1 vote) - Forgiveness - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2008 from Debra SledgeEveryday we have an opportunity to get offended. People are humans and they will do and say things that will make you very angry. Knowing how important an issue is will determine how upset a person can make you. People that are the closest to us can hurt and wound us the most. Learning to ...
Views: 1567 - You Hold the Key - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2012 from Charmaine HammondMy friend, and media coach, Shawne Duperon is an expert at helping people refine their message, manage their fear, and get more publicity. Shawne says “People do business with people they like. People buy from people they like. People talk about people and services they like. People post and tag ...
Views: 1567 - Resentment Soup - by Submitted on Oct 11, 2013 from Merna Throne, M.S.Resentment is a word and a feeling we all try to avoid, sometimes at all costs. It is a hard word to swallow when we need to look in the mirror, but is a word that we can’t get enough of when we give it away. We can see it so easily in others, but is very easy to deny when we look in the ...
Views: 1565(2 votes) - An Angel in Disguise - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2011 from Tim ReynoldsHave you ever had something happen to you that was so bad it made you feel worn down? For me, that event was my first marriage. It was a nightmare. To be honest, I married a guy I should never have married. Even on our wedding day, I felt it wasn’t right. But I walked down the aisle ...
Views: 1563(3 votes) - How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back - 3 Things You Can Do Now - by Submitted on Aug 19, 2010 from K.W. BellSo, you want to know how to get your ex-boyfriend back. I understand. I've been in your shoes before and I know how bad breakups can hurt. I realize that it's of little comfort to you now, but do know that things will get better whether you get him back or not. I would be lying if I said ...
Views: 1563 - How to Repair a Relationship Broken by Addiction - by Submitted on Feb 10, 2016 from Hannah WhittenlyRelationships and addiction are different in regards to the environments in which they thrive. Transparency and trust form a firm foundation for the future of two people making a go of it in this world. Addiction thrives in the shadows, where it can remain hidden from the light of day. Often ...
Views: 1561 - The Road to Global Peace - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2010 from Craig LockTHE ROAD TO GLOBAL PEACE In the light of the current state of the world, here are a few personal thoughts that may be of interest, based on the "rather miraculous" transformation of South Africa. From one time "pariah" apartheid state wracked by violence and conflict... to a relatively ...
Views: 1559(4 votes) - Why Spirituality Cannot Help You Overcome Your Issues - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2011 from David SamuelMany people complain that their parents did things to them as a child which have negatively effected them emotionally as an adult. These emotional issues are based on the memories. The memories are real, but the reality today is that the problem is in fact just memories. The problem is not ...
Views: 1558(2 votes) - The Invitation of Ecstatic Forgiveness - by Submitted on Apr 24, 2009 from Ana HolubThe deeper I go into forgiveness...in the ecstatic, radical sense of the word...the more I see that its invitation is surrender. Forgiveness is the golden door, the way past all fear and grief, and an entry into life beyond dictatorship of the ego. What is radical about radical forgiveness? ...
Views: 1556 - Remember Civility in America? - by Submitted on May 31, 2016 from Michael MantellMiley Cyrus who believes Donald Trump is a “F—king nightmare,” has said she’d “move out da country” if Trump wins. But wait there’s more. Far more. And in an age of positive psychology, meditation, gratitude journaling, “Namasta-ing” each other, and of course the multitude of mindfulness ...
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