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"If we don't change direction soon, we'll end up where we're going." Professor Irwin Corey
Today's new moon is in Cancer, a symbol of family (among other things). Earlier today I was standing at the kitchen sink and wondering how to approach my newsletter and I could see a photograph of my ... Views: 1981
When a baby is born, it is usually with a lot of preparations and planning that is gone into preparing for its arrival. Many a gift are packed, and sealed only to be touched on the baby’s arrival. Both the parents see many different sentiments before the baby is welcomed into the world. They ... Views: 1978
Why is it important for every good parent to send their children to school? I know, I know, it’s a generic answer, which, is to offer our children a better life. So, is it important for them to go to school or important for you to have them go to school? Interesting question, isn’t it?
I ... Views: 1976
There is NOTHING WRONG with choosing these men–but be sure you can trust your intuition to know how to detect the difference between a “take charge” man and a man who wants to take charge of YOU!
These tips come from my research with thousands of women for my book “Smart Relationships: How ... Views: 1971
Many couples are aware of Couvade syndrome, or “sympathetic pregnancies,” where husbands experience some of the same symptoms as their pregnant spouses. But did you know that a similar psychological episodes exist with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, or PTSD?
It is usually assumed that ... Views: 1971
Q: I love my partner very much, but how do I manage that we are so opposite when it comes to being outgoing and social?
A: You've probably heard the expression "opposites attract." But what, exactly does this mean? And is it true? Of course, nothing is true for all couples, but, in ... Views: 1969
Serving Your Country
Most people believe you must be in the military or be voted in to serve a community, state, or country. Such as a Mayor, Congressman, or Judge someone that the people approve to be a servant of the people.
We serve our families, neighborhood's, communities on up, in a ... Views: 1969
Currently, more than 5 million Americans are living with Alzheimer's, and 1 out of 3 seniors in America will die from some sort of dementia. These numbers are staggering in and of themselves, but these are only a small fraction of the people whose lives are impacted by Alzheimer's and dementia. ... Views: 1966
Creating your own gifts for people has always been deeply satisfying, due mainly to the delight with which such items tend to be received. In the past, the craftsmanship required has limited the options available to most people, but digital technology now means that absolutely anyone can create ... Views: 1964
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Dr. Romance on Holidays with Family and In-laws
Marriage means relating to in-laws and extended family. This is what "cleave to each other, forsaking all others" in the old marriage vows meant: Once married, you are now each other's primary ... Views: 1962
Traditional sex – the heady cocktail of lust and emotional bonding - is all but dead. In a culture of casual, almost anonymous hookups, suppressing attendant emerging emotions is the bon ton and women and men drift apart, zerovalent atoms in an ever-shifting, kaleidoscopic world, separated by a ... Views: 1960
Growing up with a friend or a sibling who has autism can be frustrating if you don’t understand what having autism is all about for that friend or sibling.
Children with autism sometimes have a difficult time understanding what we say or what our facial and body expressions mean. You should ... Views: 1957
HUMANS JUST DON'T GET IT
We had a visitor stay with us over the holidays. It was funny how our cocker spaniel Leaf, our cockatiel Sunshine, and our cat Cuddles reacted to everything being different in the house.
Our visitor was amiable, relaxed, and friendly toward our pets. It was a nice ... Views: 1956
In the days before the widespread take up of digital photography, photo albums tended to be fairly primitive, basic affairs, usually little more than scrap books with individual photographs taped or glued onto the pages. The digital revolution has ushered in a whole new era, however, meaning you ... Views: 1956
I have a true story I want to share with you.
I love travelling and was planning a road trip to Arizona with my boyfriend who had just moved from Australia to be with me in Canada. He had never been to the United States and was anticipating the adventure. I had been to Arizona a few years ... Views: 1955
Colleges Rejected You?
Learn Top Tips of Intuitive Parents and Students—and Get Accepted!
Got rejected or wait-listed by your college or grad school? I got rejected in my senior year in high school by all the colleges I applied to! And, later, I got rejected on my first attempts at ... Views: 1953
You may ask what being a grandparent has to do with Feng Shui. My answer is, ‘Feng Shui is our reaction to the environment.’ Family is a piece of the puzzle.
Reflect back to when you heard you were becoming a grandparent, or fantasize about what it will be like. Did you or will you think, “I’m ... Views: 1953
If this tree could only speak, what would it say?
Well, Vickie and I just arrived back home from a quick little weekend get-a-way at the beach. Time to get ready to get back to work tomorrow, and to the "normalcy" of home life (if there is such a thing!). But, also time to think a little bit ... Views: 1952
The dictionary defines vitality as:
1) Capacity for survival or for the continuation of a meaningful or purposeful existence: the vitality of an institution.
2) Power to live or grow: the vitality of a language.
As a parent, what do you feel brings vitality to your families? How do ... Views: 1950
Even if you are the one saying good-bye in an intimate relationship, you still may not feel strong, wise and happily single and alone again.
It is normal to feel scared and doubtful about your decision to leave.
Whether you are doing the leaving or you are the one who is being ... Views: 1949
DEALING WITH THE STRESS OF GRIEF
How you respond to the stress associated with grief (see my previous article entitled “Grief and Stress”) is directly related to how well you are able to identify your stressors and respond to them in a healthy manner. In this article I will identify seven ... Views: 1949
As I wandered through the garden flowers blooming outside my house yesterday I happened upon some bumblebees as they went about their business leaping from flower to flower in search of nectar and pollen
I happen to like bumblebees and butterflies. They have always been a fascination of ... Views: 1947
Many people find themselves fighting with their partners night after night. They almost wish they could run away and just find a better life somewhere else. The more they fight the more they struggle to find positive feelings about one another. Often, one partner becomes discouraged and ... Views: 1946
Are you tired of spinning your wheels when it comes to getting rid of clutter and it seems to take more time all the time. Try these 3 simple tips to lighten your load.
I remember when I worked in an office someone had the brainstorm that we as workers would every 15 minutes write down what ... Views: 1945
Choosing and sending greeting cards is all about letting the recipient know just how much they mean to you, and that you’re thinking of them. Personalised greeting cards allow you to design and choose exactly the card you want to send, meaning it can be tailored to both your message and the ... Views: 1943
This is important breaking news. There is a pole shift occurring right now and it will definitely affect you and your family. In fact, it may determine the future existence of your relationship and family life altogether.
Men and women have poles just like a magnet.
They each exhibit a ... Views: 1943
How many parents really know how to properly raise their children? I personally believe that there are many parents out there who are really struggling. Just take a walk on the park and try to notice the interaction between the parents and their children. You will hear things like:”Stop that. ... Views: 1941
When it comes to switching from traditional photography to the world of digital image capturing, the first thing you’ll notice is the sheer number of photographs you’re now able to take, free from the constraints of rolls of film and the prohibitive cost of having photographs developed. Having ... Views: 1939
It is hard to believe that it’s November already and Thanksgiving is just around the corner. This is a special time of year that transcends cultures and religions – A time when we all give thanks.
So what is it that makes it so stressful and hectic during this special holiday weekend? ... Views: 1939
The torture of the holidays is upon us once again. I am always of mixed emotions. I love the holidays and they drive me crazy. I think they call that schizophrenia. I don’t think I am alone in these mixed feelings that may require more than breathing techniques or the cocktail hour to begin ... Views: 1937
If you want to select from the selection of photo greeting cards available in high street stationers and newsagents, then the chances are that you may find yourself somewhat frustrated by the choice. Finding an image which perfectly matches the occasion and your personality as well as that of ... Views: 1936
It’s an age old parenting question, but one which still causes a huge amount of debate: should you give your child pocket money for doing chores?
The best answer I can give you is, ‘sometimes’.
One obvious reason for linking the two is to encourage a work ethic. Giving pocket money for ... Views: 1935
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Often, the same quirks, reactions and behaviors that create problems between you and the female members of your famiy wouldn't be a problem if they was someone else's family. If your best friend's mom or ... Views: 1931
We are moving to the Family Category today. (Yes, even posted a pic from a favorite family weekend of Aly’s here). We were tempted to jump into the Career or Financial Category, but we want to cover Family first because when you begin to shape your career brand, you will want to first be clear ... Views: 1931
Political Differences in A Family
Dear Dr. Diana,
The dreaded political season is here. I put it that way because my husband and I get along well for the most part until politics are involved. It’s amazing that two people with such different opinions get on as well as we do. But things ... Views: 1931
Let's face it. As women we give. We do (a lot), we feel, we work, we play (though not enough play!). Do you get tired from so much giving? What I see happening very often with some of my clients is that they get tired, and they feel taken advantage of. But they also get pissed.
All these ... Views: 1930
Driving home from his last landscape design consult, thirty-three year old Craig’s stomach was in knots wondering if Sophie would have gotten over the row she had with her mother the other day. He felt bad for his wife who had tried and failed to arrange a family dinner, taking out her ... Views: 1925
If you take a look at the photo books for sale on the shelves of any high street book shop, the first thing you’ll notice is the sheer quality of every aspect. The paper used, the printing techniques and the way the book is put together are all of the very highest possible quality.
The ... Views: 1923
Wall calendars are a feature of almost every home in the country, due to the ease with which they allow people to organise a busy life. Most of them are dull and anonymous to look at, however, but personalised photo calendars achieve the same aim whilst also being aesthetically pleasing.
If ... Views: 1922
I was recently gifted with my great-grandfather’s original ordination papers and his preaching license! What makes these two documents so extremely special is they are dated back to 1919 and 1927! My great-grandfather’ name is Henry L. Williams and although I have not done a complete genealogy ... Views: 1921
When it comes to Easter gifts, particularly for younger memories of your family, then the temptation is to fall back on old favorites such as chocolate eggs. Whilst the kids themselves may be very grateful for this, there’s probably a limit to the amount of chocolate which their parents are ... Views: 1919
Many people I know don’t find joy in the holidays. Too much stress and work. The chores of cooking, shopping and cleaning are often multiplied during the holidays, leaving you feeling put-upon and resentful. One year a friend had a tree trimming dinner party, and she wouldn’t give her guests ... Views: 1918
One of the hardest parts of caring for someone suffering from Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia is trying to connect in a meaningful way – especially on the hard days. Some days you may feel like nothing you say or do is getting through but you want to find some way – any way – to ... Views: 1916
Many have heard of the “flight or fight” response identified by science as a protective reaction to stressors. Human beings like other species in the animal kingdom have innate responses that are designed to protect them. Sometimes, however, these natural reactions can have unnatural and ... Views: 1916
"My Spouse Wants a Divorce - I've Been Served with a Petition for Dissolution, What do I do Now?" By Lance Claery, Partner at Los Angeles and San Diego Law firm Claery & Green, LLP
If you have been served with a California petition for dissolution of your marriage (divorce), you are likely ... Views: 1916
Here is the age-old question: Can a man and woman be friends and stay strictly platonic? The answer is “Yo and Nes”—each word, as you can see, is a combination of Yes and No. So, how do you know if your friendship with a person of the opposite sex might cross over into “dangerous ... Views: 1915
I have had many memorable moments performing magic over the years.
I have been fortunate to have been honored with awards from my peers. I have been hired by celebrities like Pirece Brosnan, Minnie Driver Steven Segal. I have worked on movies with Sean Penn and Albert Finney and Jack ... Views: 1915
I am a sporadic sleeper, so I have many nights when I am up at 3am. There is really nothing to do at this hour aside from flipping through 321 television channels, and finding nothing good to watch. Then, I try to surf the Internet, but I slowly lose interest. Finally, I try and go back to ... Views: 1911
It was Dr. Anthony P. Witham who once said "children spell love…T-I-M-E." He was definitely onto something. Unfortunately, if you are like most parents, time is a precious commodity that often eludes us. Whether we have a new job, a new baby, or we just need to make the coffee or strip the beds, ... Views: 1910