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New View, New You, New Life - by Rob White5 Primal Principles of Communication - by Rob White- The elephant trainers method to success - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2004 from Michael MartinezThe Elephant Trainers Method to Success Are you an elephant? When I ask this question during my lecturesI get one of three responses. Some people laugh at the question. Some put on a face of getting offended. Others get this confused look. My purpose is not to make you smile, or offend you. For ...
Views: 4082 - GET YOUR NOSE OFF THE GRINDSTONE - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2004 from Noelle NelsonYour alarm goes off – too early, much too early. As you struggle your way out of your warm comfy nest, you say to yourself: “Another day, another grind,” and off you go, to the land of work. It doesn’t matter what kind of work, whether in an office, a factory, a home or on a space ship, you’d ...
Views: 1383 - "Pass It Along" - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2004 from Chuck BauerSitting on a Delta airlines jet waiting for pushback from the gate, the senior flight attendant politely asked, "What can we do for you?" I was silent for a moment as I thought about my reply as she continued to speak, "Mr. Bauer, we checked your Delta file and you have about a zillion miles, ...
Views: 1987 - Four Words That Create Unstoppable Power and Success - by Did you ever stop and wonder what life would be like if Wilbur and Orville Wright hadn't given us the airplane? What about Thomas Edison and the light bulb?
Helen Keller was deaf and blind before the age of two. Yet she accomplished great works that have benefited others tremendously and ...
Views: 1258 - LOVE IS NOT A POWER STRUGGLE - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2004 from Noelle NelsonYour husband grips the remote with a mighty hand, surfing the channels relentlessly for something to pique his interest. You say “Oh, that looks interesting;” he says “Boring.” After half a dozen (failed) polite attempts you snap at him: “Well I’m getting dizzy from all the channel-surfing, ...
Views: 1285 - NO MORE VICTIM: STAND UP FOR YOURSELF IN LIFE - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2004 from Shoshanna KatzmanHow many times have you been victimized or witnessed it happening to someone else? No matter what the particular situation, someone is the victim while the other is the victimizer. This can develop into a mind-set called “victim consciousness” that can become a pervasive trap that is difficult ...
Views: 13678(5 votes) - Discovering YOU CAN - by Submitted on Jun 11, 2004 from Danish AhmedWhat has people feel empowered? What has people make things happen? Choice. We become conscious of the options that are available to us, we pick something, and then we act upon that choice. It's simple, but it's not easy. Are you with me? Let's take a closer look at what we're talking ...
Views: 1168(3 votes) - Chaitua Palayan (Migration): A Problem of Tribals of Patalkot - by Submitted on Jun 10, 2011 from Dr Deepak AcharyaChaitua Palaayan: It’s a common word among the tribals of Tamia and Patalkot valley of Chhindwara District, Madhya Pradesh, India. Chaitua, a word derived from Hindi “Chait” means beginning of summer. Tamia, a hilly block of Chhindwara is rich in flora and fauna. The Tamia region of ...
Views: 5961(1 vote) - Who Me, Stressed? - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2004 from Noelle NelsonYou love your family dearly, but right now, they are driving you positively buggy. You’re waging the battle of the belly-button/nose/tongue piercings with your teenage daughter, your husband is jammed with deadlines at work and can’t help out with chores; your five-year-old has a persistent case ...
Views: 975 - The Three Mighty Forces of Power – Desire, Belief, Expectation - by Submitted on May 22, 2004 from Burt GoldmanHow to Exercise Enormous Power Over the Events of Your Life Events can be manipulated to solve problems you are faced with. You can change things you’re not satisfied with. While there’s no disputing the fact that you can’t always get what you want, it’s also true that you can exercise your ...
Views: 9695(1 vote) - Bad Luck ... Or Blessing In Disguise? - by Submitted on May 19, 2004 from Michael LeeThere was a woman who was in such a hurry to go to the airport.She told the cab driver to step on it. She was so engrossedwith her own thoughts that she was not aware they were going on a different route. Suddenly, a man went inside the cab and took her handbag whereshe placed her visa, ...
Views: 1279 - MISERY LOVES COMPANY - by Submitted on May 04, 2004 from Noelle NelsonYou were terminated from your job. Oh, how you hate that word – terminated! Why don’t they call it like it is: you were fired! Unjustly, for no good reason (other than the boss wanted a job for his new love interest), with virtually no warning. You--who gave 10 good years to the company. You of ...
Views: 807(1 vote) - MISERY LOVES COMPANY - by Submitted on May 04, 2004 from Noelle NelsonYou were terminated from your job. Oh, how you hate that word – terminated! Why don’t they call it like it is: you were fired! Unjustly, for no good reason (other than the boss wanted a job for his new love interest), with virtually no warning. You--who gave 10 good years to the company. You of ...
Views: 1024(1 vote) - MISERY LOVES COMPANY - by Submitted on May 04, 2004 from Noelle NelsonYou were terminated from your job. Oh, how you hate that word – terminated! Why don’t they call it like it is: you were fired! Unjustly, for no good reason (other than the boss wanted a job for his new love interest), with virtually no warning. You--who gave 10 good years to the company. You of ...
Views: 959(2 votes) - The Best Investment You'll Ever Make - by Submitted on May 02, 2004 from Marie Jones“The Best Investment You’ll Ever Make” Every where you turn today, people are talking about stocks and trading and investments. What was once the domain of professional brokers has now even gone “fast-food,” as more and more people become do-it-yourself traders via the Internet. Many people ...
Views: 866(1 vote) - The Best Investment You'll Ever Make - by Submitted on May 02, 2004 from Marie Jones“The Best Investment You’ll Ever Make” Every where you turn today, people are talking about stocks and trading and investments. What was once the domain of professional brokers has now even gone “fast-food,” as more and more people become do-it-yourself traders via the Internet. Many people ...
Views: 741(1 vote) - The Best Investment You'll Ever Make - by Submitted on May 02, 2004 from Marie Jones“The Best Investment You’ll Ever Make” Every where you turn today, people are talking about stocks and trading and investments. What was once the domain of professional brokers has now even gone “fast-food,” as more and more people become do-it-yourself traders via the Internet. Many people ...
Views: 990 - Three Simple Steps to a Beautiful Day - by Submitted on May 01, 2004 from Danish AhmedWhat makes your day a great day? When you get an unexpected visit from that special someone, when pleasant surprises happen, or when serendipitous moments occur, things are great! How do you have a great day when you feel stressed, when activities become routine and mundane, or when your life ...
Views: 853 - Three Simple Steps to a Beautiful Day - by Submitted on May 01, 2004 from Danish AhmedWhat makes your day a great day? When you get an unexpected visit from that special someone, when pleasant surprises happen, or when serendipitous moments occur, things are great! How do you have a great day when you feel stressed, when activities become routine and mundane, or when your life ...
Views: 903 - Three Simple Steps to a Beautiful Day - by Submitted on May 01, 2004 from Danish AhmedWhat makes your day a great day? When you get an unexpected visit from that special someone, when pleasant surprises happen, or when serendipitous moments occur, things are great! How do you have a great day when you feel stressed, when activities become routine and mundane, or when your life ...
Views: 1171 - Lessons From the Creek - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2004 from Deborah MartinEverything is in flow here in Northern Michigan. Buckets of water have flowed off the snow-covered roof. That water, along with the melting snow banks is finding its way down the hills to my driveway. I no longer walk to the mailbox, I wade. The maple sap is flowing too. Drive by a good stand of ...
Views: 1482(1 vote) - How to Create and Run a MasterMind Group - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2004 from Karyn GreenstreetThere is synergy of energy, commitment, and excitement that participants bring to a MasterMind Group. The beauty of MasterMind Groups is that participants raise the bar by challenging each other to create and implement goals, brainstorm ideas, and support each other with total honesty, respect ...
Views: 1318 - Bills, Bills & More Bills! - by Submitted on Apr 12, 2004 from Noelle NelsonBills, bills, bills! That’s all you see. And here it is tax-season, which for some lucky people might mean a refund, but for you all it means is worry. You’re a perfect bear at home, all you do is stomp around and grumble. Or that’s what you’re doing when you’re not completely depressed ...
Views: 1061 - What Does It Mean to Have Boundaries? - by Submitted on Apr 08, 2004 from Susan Dunn“The purpose of having boundaries is to protect and take care of ourselves,” writes Robert Burney, in “Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls.” The term “boundaries” has been around for some time, and if ever a term needed an adjective before it, it would be “boundaries.” For instance, we ...
Views: 1635(1 vote) - The 5 Words That Are Ruining Your Life - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2004 from Sopan Greenehttp://www.InspiredEnoughToChange.com How would you like to stop feeling like your life isn't good enough? (I realize advertisers would go broke if this happened, but it's better for you!) Imagine feeling joyful, whole and complete when you look in the mirror at the end of the day. What if I ...
Views: 1113(1 vote) - Keys to an Unshakable New Self - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2004 from Guy FinleyAny weakness we may harbor in our present character persists only because we have yet to see how its presence compromises our happiness, but a growing awareness of this interior shakiness changes everything. Our awakening stirs within us a Celestial Character created for the purpose of ...
Views: 1491(1 vote) - Challenge Life - by As I talked with my 85 year old Grandpa Eddy the other night he told me that he still likes mowing his lawn. "I mow the front first. Then I take a break and mow the back. I look at it as a challenge not a chore," he said. Then he added "When mowing my lawn becomes a chore and I have trouble ...
Views: 982(1 vote) - How your Thinking drives your Behaviours - by How your Thinking drives your Behaviour
This is a critical analysis technique for identifying your Utility / Hard-coding Profile. This personal exploration provides insight into your unique personality and behaviours. Perform the analysis, discuss the result with somebody you trust, and then ...
Views: 1401(1 vote) - How to upgrade your ENERGY - by Submitted on Mar 24, 2004 from Jon GordonWhat does your personal energy meter read? On a scale of 1-10, with 10 representing “completely energized” and 1 indicating “It’s a miracle you can get out of bed”, think about what your energy level is right now? Now, think about what your meter reads most of the time? When I ask these ...
Views: 1804(1 vote) - Chinese Gooseberries and Oprah? - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2004 from Fran BriggsFew individuals have neither understood, nor have even come close to emulating Oprah's success and ability to ingeniously-but simply-reinvent. Let's all learn from the expert. Oprah and Harpo Productions, consistently reap awe-inspiring progress and record-breaking profits even after 25 ...
Views: 1342(2 votes) - Control Your Fear Before It Controls You - by Submitted on Mar 19, 2004 from Michael Lee"Fear Factor" is one of my favorite TV shows. It highlights the courage of the participants to engage inthe most fearsome and disgusting acts. Most of the contestants are willing to sacrifice theirdignity for the sake of the prize money. So what doesthat imply? It implies that with the ...
Views: 974 - Please read this... It will mean a lot to me. - by Submitted on Mar 16, 2004 from Danish AhmedPlease read this... It will mean a lot to me. Thanks. I appreciate you taking the time to read this. Now, why do you think this means a lot to me? Take a moment and think about it. What got you to start reading this? If you don't read "every" issue, what got you to start reading this ...
Views: 1504(3 votes) - The Blame Shame Game - "Get Over It!" - by Submitted on Mar 07, 2004 from Katie ByrdIf you could do just one thing to change your life and improve your odds for happiness, productivity and success, my recommendation would be to give up blame and take full personal responsibility for the results in your life. Whenever we become victims of circumstances, blaming others for our ...
Views: 1331(1 vote) - Some Reasons Why People Hire a Coach (And You Might Too!) - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2004 from Susan Dunn1. You’re stuck in your career. It isn’t pleasing you any more, you aren’t getting the promotions, it’s a drag to get up every morning, you’re missing deadlines, failing to produce at your best level, or being less effective. Or you’ve been “written up.” 2. You want to increase your ...
Views: 1116(1 vote) - "Why is Everyone Picking on Me?" - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2004 from Noelle NelsonThings are going along OK at work, you're doing what needs to be done, you think everything is hunky-dory, and then your supervisor says: "Haven't you finished that project yet? You should have started on the next one by now," and you're instantly plunged into a horrible upset. You're so ...
Views: 1432(1 vote) - 7 Destructive Habits of Incompetent People - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2004 from Michael LeeWARNING! If you want to have a fantastic life, never engage yourself in these 7 deadly habits that incompetent people do. NUMBER 1 - They Think, Say, & Do Negative Things. Yup. They see problems in every opportunity. They complain that the sun is too hot. They cursed the rain for ...
Views: 1499(1 vote) - Using Breath as a Focus - by Submitted on Mar 02, 2004 from Melissa LeathWhat is your focus? What is the main focus in your life? Is it finding a job, orkeeping the one you've got, just to pay the rent everymonth? Or is it always searching for that special someonewho can make you happy? Society has evolved a way of believing, that keeps us alwayslimited to the ...
Views: 1639(1 vote) - Letting Go Of Your Excuses - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2009 from Ramona CreelAt this point, you have probably run across some belongings that don’t exactly serve a practical purpose in your life. Some items simply cannot be judged according to their function alone. Certain objects, such as artwork or collectibles, are kept because they are aesthetically pleasing. Others ...
Views: 1657(2 votes) - Your Big Life Plan - by Submitted on Feb 25, 2004 from Jon GordonIt’s big but you can’t see it. So great that if you could see it you wouldn’t believe it. It’s your destiny and it’s calling you. If you don’t believe me just remember Albert Einstein. He could not speak until he was four years old. He did not read until he was 7. His parents thought he was ...
Views: 2052(1 vote) - The challenge of Choice - by Submitted on Feb 23, 2004 from Maria DohertyIt is not just at New Year that we can wipe the slate of the old year clean and chose to start again. Although we can chose to make this the star point for our new choices or the time to jettison some old ones, we know that there is nothing intrinsically magical about the New Year Bells. The ...
Views: 1098(1 vote) - Voice of the Monkey Boy: A Parable - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2004 from Arthur JosephThis is a parable I wrote a few years ago with a student, Krysta Tabuchi. I’m using it here to illustrate the journey of Vocal Power. Long ago, a wood carver named Matsugoro found himself gazing at The Tall One. Standing proud and almighty, this tree cast the longest shadow in the village. ...
Views: 1230 - Taking Control of Your Life - by Submitted on Feb 06, 2004 from Donna KarlinAre you looking in a specific place? Expecting something to happen? What energises you.....makes you feel alive? Life is yours. It isn't what happens to someone else, it's what happens and how it happens to you. And, no matter good, bad or indifferent, it's how you process the experience and ...
Views: 3828(2 votes) - Setting High Personal Standards - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2004 from Steve BrunkhorstIn his book, "The 22 Non-Negotiable Laws of Wellness,"author Greg Anderson wrote, "Let us be about setting highstandards for life, love, creativity, and wisdom. If ourexpectations in these areas are low, we are not likely toexperience wellness. Setting high standards makes every dayand every ...
Views: 4611(1 vote) - Transform Your Behavior Painlessly by Using the 5-Minute Success Strategy - by Submitted on Jan 28, 2004 from Della MenechellaRecently, I coached a young woman whom I’ll call Mary about how to make critical lifestyle changes. Mary had always struggled with her weight. She had no control over her eating and she could not maintain a consistent exercise program. That’s when I suggested that Mary try the 5-Minute ...
Views: 1423(1 vote) - Dreams and Hopes of Spirit - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2004 from Melissa LeathSometimes it's important to look at things through the eyes of a child. That way, we are able to see life and our experiences in a simpler way--without being complicated. If we search too deeply and try to explain concepts philosophically, we tend to get lost and forget what we really want to ...
Views: 3968(1 vote) - Speak Up For Yourself, Create and Communicate Boundries - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2010 from Kimberly FulcherDo you have internal rules about how you expect the people in your life to treat you? Are you comfortable speaking up for yourself when someone crosses one of those lines? Are you able to say no when you don't want to participate in something you've been asked to consider? Your ...
Views: 2721(3 votes) - Embracing Reality - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2004 from Mary AllenAcceptance simply means "EMBRACING WHAT IS". Acknowledging the "what is"......may include yourself, your spouse, significant other, job, house, health or a set of circumstances. With ACCEPTANCE, we embrace PEACE. And, it's in this peace that miracles happen. For those of us that thrive on ...
Views: 4626(1 vote) - A NEW YEARS RESOLUTION: YES or NO? - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2003 from Dave ShieldsI've heard it said that by the end of January, over 90% of individuals who make New Years resolutions don't remember what they were. Why is this so? People are often sincere, however, they are not yet in the right place for big changes in their lives. Many others want to continue same ...
Views: 2853(1 vote) - How To Get Promoted! Take control of your destiny. - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2003 from Frank LunnIt Is Up To You So, you want to get promoted. The possibility really lies in your own hands. Remember the trite but true saying, “If it is to be, it is up to me!” Don’t wait for things to happen. Set yourself apart from the crowd and make things happen. Most people look outward for success. ...
Views: 3267(1 vote) - 212º the extra degree™ - An Excerpt - by At 211 degrees, water is hot.
At 212 degrees, it boils.
And with boiling water, comes steam.
And with steam, you can power a train.
One degree. Applying one extra degree of temperature to water means the
difference between something that is simply very hot and something that
generates ...
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