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New View, New You, New Life - by Rob White5 Primal Principles of Communication - by Rob White- Mother Wounds: Can A Man See Women As His Enemies If He Had A Cruel Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhat a man may find, if he was to step back and reflect on his life, is that he doesn’t have a very positive view of women. He could see that he largely sees them as people who are against him and want to cause him problems. As a result of this, he could do his best to keep his distance and ...
Views: 356 - False Self: Can A Man Have The Need To Act Tough If He Had An Emotionally Distant Father? - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIn general, a man could come across as though nothing fazes him and this could mean that a number of men look up to him. If this is the case, he could be seen as an example of how a man should be. Like a big oak tree, then, he is rarely going to be affected by what is going on around him and ...
Views: 341 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man Controlled By His Unmet Developmental Need To Be Loved? - by Submitted on Jan 09, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperNot only could a man find it hard to understand why he is so focused on his mother but some of the people in his life could be just as confused. So, even if he is not currently in an intimate relationship, some of his friends and perhaps family members could also wonder what is going ...
Views: 344 - Anxiety: Can A Man Suffer From Anxiety If He Had An Abusive Father? - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man was to step back and reflect on how he experiences life, what could soon stand out is that he often feels on edge. He might see that he has only just started to experience life in this way or it could be something that he has experienced for a little while. Regardless of how long he ...
Views: 356 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can A Mother-Enmeshed Man Experience Extreme Inner Conflict? - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperFor as long as a man can remember, he might have had the need to be there for his mother. He may find that this is generally something that he doesn’t have to think about doing as being there for her is something that just happens. But, as time has passed, he might have started to experience ...
Views: 330 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother Enmeshed Man Feel Bad When He Doesn’t Focus On His Mother? - by Submitted on Jan 03, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperAfter a man has come to see that he is overly focused on his mother and her needs, he could wonder what is going on. Also, what could soon stand out is that he has been this way for as long as he can remember. He will see that he has his own life to live and needs to meet but he will have ...
Views: 318 - Being Seen: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Engage In An Unconscious Struggle To Be Seen? - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperBeing seen is important but it doesn’t mean that everyone on this planet generally feels seen. When someone does feel seen, it will be a time when another person not only looks at them but also tunes into what is going on for them and displays empathy. Therefore, they are not going to see ...
Views: 408 - Passivity: Can Child Abuse Cause Someone To Be Passive? - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone could find is that they often lack energy and find it hard to do things. In general, they might only leave their home when they have to go to work and need food. Along with this, they could go out to see friends, watch TV and they may exercise every now and then. But, even when ...
Views: 348 - Avatar 2: The Way of Water - ‘I See You’ - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperThe other night, I ended up watching the new avatar film with a few friends, and I must say, that it was spectacular. I watched it in 3D but I think that it would be even better if I had watched it in 4DX. Throughout the film, a number of parts stood out and had a strong emotional impact on ...
Views: 403 - Self-Ownership: Can Child Abuse Stop Someone From Developing A Felt Sense Of Self Ownership? - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperNow, even though it could be said that someone owns their body and mind and that no one has a right to control them or make them do something that they don’t want to do, it doesn’t mean that this is something that they actually realise. Thanks to this, they could often be controlled by others ...
Views: 347 - Becoming The Best Employee - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2022 from asad aliBecoming the best employee you can be requires a combination of hard work, dedication, and continuous self-improvement. It's not always easy, but with the right mindset and approach, you can set yourself up for success in your career. Here are some tips to help you become the best employee you ...
Views: 537 - Child Abuse: Will Someone Be Trapped Forever If They Need Their Abusive Parents To Acknowledge What Happened? - by Submitted on Dec 31, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIt could be said that it will be normal for someone to want to talk to their parent or parents about what happened, if they were to see that they were mistreated by them during their formative years. They might want to know why they treated them in this way and for them to express remorse, among ...
Views: 358 - Sense Of Badness: Can Someone Embody Their Parents Disowned Sense Of Badness If They Were Abused As A child? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone is in a position where they have the tendency to feel bad about themselves, their life is unlikely to be very pleasant. It is then going to be normal for them to be in a very low place and their life could be very unfulfilling. And, as they rarely feel good about themselves, it ...
Views: 349 - Child Abuse: Can Someone Treat Themselves Like An Object If Their Parents Treated Them Like One? - by Submitted on Dec 30, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough someone is a human being that has a number of needs, feelings and inherent value, it doesn’t mean that they will realise this. Instead, they could treat themselves like they are nothing more than an object that only has a few basic needs, no feelings and no value and purely exists to ...
Views: 302 - Who Will You Choose to Be In 2023? - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2022 from Noelle NelsonThe great thing about a New Year is we get to make a fresh start. The not-so-great thing about a New Year is we get to make a fresh start. Which we often abandon within a month or so. We then feel guilty or bad about ourselves for not being able to stick with whatever it was. But what if you ...
Views: 688 - Early Deprivation: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Have A Dysfunctional Relationship With Their Sexual Side? - by Submitted on Dec 28, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperWhen it comes to someone’s sexual side, it can be like another food that they have as part of a meal or it can be something that they have late at night. In other words, it can be something that is just part of a relationship that they are in or it can be something that they engage in with ...
Views: 326 - Drive: Can Someone Unknowingly Be Driven By Their Unmet Developmental Need To Be Loved? - by Submitted on Dec 27, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s world, if someone is highly driven, they can be seen as having high self-esteem and as an example of how to live. They are then going to have it together and be a well-adjusted human being. Thanks to how driven they are, they might have made a lot of progress in at least one area ...
Views: 374 - Inner Conflict: Can The False Self Cause Someone To Experience Inner Conflict? - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone could find is that they are often in a position where part of them has the need to do one thing whilst another part of them has the need to do something else. Naturally, this is going to cause them to experience a lot of unnecessary stress and confusion. Not only this, they could ...
Views: 363 - False Self: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Have The Need To Adapt To Others? - by Submitted on Dec 25, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone went on a drive and a road was closed, they would need to change their route. As frustrating as this may be, it would be a minor inconvenience and it would, ultimately, allow them to reach their destination. This is then an example of someone adapting to a situation and, at the ...
Views: 359 - Disembodied: Can Developmental Trauma Cause Someone To Be Disembodied? - by Submitted on Dec 24, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperWhat can be normal is for someone to live in their head and to have a weak connection with their body. In fact, this part of them can be seen as simply being there to support their head. By having the tendency to live in this way, it can mostly be as though they are nothing more than an ...
Views: 365 - Relationships: Can Someone Push Love Away If They Were Mistreated During Their Early Years? - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperWhat someone may find is that although they want to be in a loving relationship, they have pushed at least one person away who was like this. It might have taken them a little while to see this, though. The reason for this is that for a little while after, they might have believed that they ...
Views: 500 - Resident Disability Insurance - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2022 from Shubham VermaThe term resident disability insurance is particularly referred to individuals practicing medicine such as doctors or physicians in a hospital. They are salaried employees taking care of their patients in different medical branches of the hospital.Why to buy resident disability ...
Views: 452 - Being Seen: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Continually End Up In Situations Where They Are Not Seen? - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperJust because someone has the need to be seen, it doesn’t mean that they will generally be able to fulfil this need. They could often feel invisible and as though they don’t even exist. But, if this is just what is normal, it is unlikely to be something that will stand out. This is then just ...
Views: 391 - Rage: Can A Man Carry A Lot Of Repressed Rage If He Had An Abusive Mother? - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough a man may carry a lot of rage, this might not be something that he is consciously aware of. But, even if this is the case, it doesn’t mean that this won’t have an effect on how he experiences life. There is a strong chance that he will spend a lot of time in a collapsed physical ...
Views: 345 - Love: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To Unconsciously Look For Love? - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperEven though just about everything that someone does can be a way for them to try to be loved, it doesn’t mean that they will be consciously aware of this. Instead, they can just see themselves as someone who is highly motivated and wants to be successful. Being this way can mean that will ...
Views: 356 - Unlovable: Can Someone Find It Hard To Accept That They Are Lovable If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Dec 21, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to step back and reflect on their relationships, what might soon stand out is that they have pushed at least one person away. They could find that this person was warm and that the relationship was going well and then, before long, it ended. Being in a relationship that was ...
Views: 328 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Expect To Be Humiliated By A Woman If He Had An Abusive Mother? - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man was to think about the interactions that he has had with women over the years, he could find that he has often felt ashamed and worthless in their presence. He could see that in most of these cases, it was because he was often put down. Due to the experiences that he has had, he ...
Views: 342 - Power Struggles: Can Someone’s Life Be Full Of Power Struggles If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperInstead of having the odd moment when they end up in a situation where another person is trying to cross their boundaries and control them, one could continually end up in this position. For example, they could be in a relationship with someone who is like this and they might work with some ...
Views: 340 - Self-Expression: Can Child Abuse Take Away Someone’s Voice? - by Submitted on Jan 01, 2023 from Oliver JR CooperWhen someone is connected to what is taking place inside them and this information directs their life, they are going to freely express themselves. Their life is then not going to be a reflection of how other people want them to live or how they think they want them to live. Moreover, when ...
Views: 366 - Child Abuse: Can An Abusive Parent Carry Too Much Pain To Be Able To Acknowledge That They Were Abusive? - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperAfter someone has come to see that their early years were anything but nurturing, they can soon have the need to talk to one or both of their parents about what took place. They can hope that this will end up being a time when their experiences will be validated and remorse will be ...
Views: 368 - Self-Abandonment: Can Someone Abandon Themselves If They Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Dec 03, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was able to step back and reflect on their life, what they might soon realise is that they are rarely there for themselves. In other words, they are going to be like someone who owns a dog but who typically leaves the dog outside and forgets to feed it. As a result of this, they ...
Views: 419 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Can It Be Harder For A Mother-Enmeshed Man To Liberate Himself If He Is In Doing Mode? - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperAfter a man, who is emotionally entangled with his mother, comes to see what is going on, he could end up having the need to change his life. Before this takes place, though, he could feel deeply frustrated and totally helpless. However, after a while, assuming that this doesn’t take place ...
Views: 335 - Happiness: Can Early Deprivation Give Someone The Need To Be Happy All the Time? - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIn general, someone can come across as happy or at the very least, as though everything is fine. Due to this, the people in their life could describe them as a ‘happy person’, and, because of this, they might feel uplifted after they have spent time in their presence. However, while this is ...
Views: 374 - Flip Holiday Stress Into Fun for You! - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2022 from Noelle NelsonIt seems the topic uppermost in so many of our minds at this time of year is stress. AKA Holiday stress. Too many gifts to buy, too little money. Too many cards to send out/email, gifts to wrap, people to visit – too little time. Too many relatives and others to be considerate of – too little ...
Views: 673 - Inner Enemy: Can Someone Have An Inner Enemy If They Were Abused As A Child? - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperJust as a group of individuals will be able to make more progress when they work together, someone will also be able to make more progress when they are able to work with themselves. Of course, unlike a group of people, they are one person but they will be made up of many different parts. As ...
Views: 369 - Self-Worth: Can Someone’s Worth Be Externalised If They Experienced Conditional Love As A Child? - by Submitted on Nov 29, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperSomeone could spend a lot of time doing things and very little if any time relaxing and taking it easy. This could be how they have been for most of their life, though, so it might not be something that stands out. Nonetheless, if they live in a society that is generally focused on the doing ...
Views: 323 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Why Would A Mother-Enmeshed Man Feel That He Would Die If He Lived His Own Life? - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man, who is overly focused on his mother’s life, was at the stage where he is aware of what is going on and is able to step back and reflect on this behaviour, he could find that not behaving this way is seen as something that would lead to his demise. He is then going to have two options: ...
Views: 344 - Needs: Can Early Deprivation Cause Someone To See Their Needs As A Burden? - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIn general, someone could hide their needs and thereby, create the impression that they are needless. This could be something that takes place automatically as opposed to something that they consciously choose to do. If a friend or a family member needs something, then, they could be only too ...
Views: 365 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Need To Realise That He Is Not Responsible For His Mothers Well-Being? - by Submitted on Nov 26, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough a man might not be consciously aware of this, his main priority could be to make sure that his mother is ok. Then again, there could be times when it goes further than this, with him having the need to make sure that she is happy. As a result of this, it is likely to be normal for ...
Views: 396 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Was A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Father Emasculated? - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperAfter coming to see that he is overly focused on his mother, a man could believe that he would be different if his mother hadn’t used him during his early years. This could show that he has thought a lot about what took place when he was a boy. He will then have come to see that he was forced ...
Views: 323 - Father Wounds: Can A Man Repress His Anger If He Had An Abusive Father? - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is in a position where he rarely if ever gets angry, he could struggle to understand why he is this way. What this can mean is that it is normal for him to be walked over, taken advantage of and not stand his ground. This could be something that he experiences each week if not every ...
Views: 364 - Belonging: Can Early Deprivation Stop Someone From Developing A Felt Sense Of Belonging? - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was to step back and reflect on their life, what might soon enter their mind is that they often feel unwelcome and as though they don’t deserve to be somewhere. This could be something that they experience when they are at work, with friends and even with family. Due to this, they ...
Views: 416 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Is A Mother-Enmeshed Man’s Mother Emotionally Underdeveloped? - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperSomeone doesn’t need to be a psychologist to realise that something isn’t right if a man is overly focused on his mother and neglects himself. The average person is likely to be able to see that he is living in a way that is not serving him. But, although this is something that can be ...
Views: 373 - Inner Security: Can Someone Be Consumed By Their Need To Feel Secure If They Experienced Developmental Trauma? - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf someone was able to take a step back and reflect on their life, what might soon stand out is that they spend a lot of time trying to settle themselves down. This is going to show that they find it hard to feel at ease. But, even if this is not something that they are aware of, what is ...
Views: 327 - Mother-Enmeshed Men: Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Need To Redefine Himself? - by Submitted on Nov 22, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man has spent most if not all of his life focusing on and doing things for his mother, he is unlikely to have a very empowering view of himself. Even so, this doesn’t mean that he will be aware of this. But, if he has been this way for a very long time, why would he be aware of this? How ...
Views: 330 - Mother-Enmeshed Man: What Does A Mother-Enmeshed Man Have In Common With A Spartan Warrior? - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperOver two thousand years ago, in a place called Sparta, males were trained from a young age to fight. As part of their training, they went through numerous challenges in order for them to be moulded into warriors. It then didn’t matter what any of these males wanted to do with their life as ...
Views: 331 - Anger Problems: Can A Man Use Anger To Mask His Hurt? - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperWhat can be normal is for a man to feel angry and this could be something that the people in his life are only too aware of. The reason for this is that he could often come across as intense and rude. It might go further, though, as there could be moments when he is violent and destroys ...
Views: 329 - Emotional Problems: Can A Man Feel Isolated If He Has Mental And Emotional Problems? - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperIf a man is not in a good way, it doesn’t mean that they will end up reaching out for the support that he needs. He might not even share what is going on for him with his friends or family, for instance. As a result of this, he could have a number of people in his life that would be happy to ...
Views: 300 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Have A Strong Need To Be Seen By Women If He Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperA man could put a lot of effort into his appearance, with this being a way for him to receive a woman’s attention. This can mean that he spends a lot of time exercising, a lot of his money on clothes and is often at bars and clubs. When he receives attention from a woman who he finds ...
Views: 314 - Mother Wounds: Can A Man Have A Strong Need To Be Seen By Women If He Experienced Early Deprivation? - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2022 from Oliver JR CooperA man could put a lot of effort into his appearance, with this being a way for him to receive a woman’s attention. This can mean that he spends a lot of time exercising, a lot of his money on clothes and is often at bars and clubs. When he receives attention from a woman who he finds ...
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