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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Newly Divorced and Surviving the Holidays - by Submitted on Dec 04, 2009 from Shelley StileThe Holidays are upon us once again and for many of you, this might be the first time around as a new unit, I.E. without your ex. It’s a difficult time, no doubt about it, and just another step in the transition into a new life after divorce. If you plan for this season you can make it easier ...
Views: 1365(1 vote) - How to Not Lose Everything in a Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2017 from Randy SkiltonWell gentlemen, this subject may be lumped into the ‘too tough to answer basket’ along with – ‘How to jump out of a plane at 20,000 feet without a parachute and survive’ and ‘How to get a politician to give you a straight answer’ Nevertheless, let’s take up the challenge - How do you ...
Views: 1363 - My Husband Ignores Me: What To Do When Your Husband Ignores You - by Submitted on Apr 22, 2018 from Sylvester DanialMy Husband Ignores Me: What To Do When Your Husband Ignores You Are you being ignored by your husband? If you are, you're certainly not alone. This is one of the most common complaints of married women. Being married to a man who starts to neglect them and take them for granted. It's very ...
Views: 1363 - Post-Divorce Recovery or Crash Landing (by: Dr. Anne Brown PhD, RN) via DivorceForce - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownIt's April, your divorce papers are signed, and it's a new chapter, scary, exciting, change, and your choice if you recover or crash land! Let's make a list of things to remember. 1. Change is good. 2. Keep a journal. 3. Make a schedule for time when the children are with you AND for when ...
Views: 1361 - Things to Consider Before Divorce - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2012 from Rosen Mooralian“and they lived happily ever after”, all of us have heard this line in fairy tales and that is why we expect our lives to be just like those fairy tales in which all the problems come to an end sooner or later. B However, when the situation of divorce arises in a relationship, both the partners ...
Views: 1361 - The Don'ts of a Breakup - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2011 from Laura SmithI promise that if you do the things on this list, you will someday live to regret it! Okay. Here’s the deal…you miss him. I mean you REALLY miss him. Let me say it one more time – You REALLY SUPER DUPER BEYOND BELIEF MISS HIM! I understand. I’ve been there too. I’ve also made a bloody ...
Views: 1360 - HOW TO GET A DIVORCE THE PEACEFUL WAY - EVEN IF YOUR EX IS NOT ON BOARD! - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2008 from Cynthia Tiano, Esq.In my 26 years as a divorce attorney, and especially the last dozen years that I have been a divorce mediator, a phrase I have heard very often when I get up on my soapbox about Peaceful Divorce is, “but you don’t know my ex!” or “it’s not possible to have a ...
Views: 1359 - How can I quickly get over my ex? - by Submitted on Apr 10, 2012 from Kevin ChonyuiOf recent I got a mail from one of my reader and she said “since I breakup with my ex and I found another guy who is so loving and above all caring. I also try as much as possible to reciprocate the love he has for me but it seem difficult because each time I see my ex picture I keep thinking of ...
Views: 1358 - Trapped in a Relationship? 5 Ways to Cope - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2014 from Scott & Stephen PetulloMany people feel trapped in a relationship, yet fail to do anything about it. The reasons for staying stuck are numerous, including assuming it’s better for the children to stay, illness or lack of physical mobility or stamina, financial restrictions, fear of retaliation, fear of being ...
Views: 1358 - My Husband Isn't Happy In Our Marriage: My Husband Is Never Happy With Anything - Husband Unhappy In Marriage - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaMy Husband Isn't Happy In Our Marriage: My Husband Is Never Happy With Anything - Husband Unhappy In Marriage Do you and your husband argue about everything, even the little things? Is your husband at work more than he is at home? Is your marriage on the verge of ending? If you answered yes ...
Views: 1357 - Divorce Advice: How can an Attorney Help? - by Submitted on May 31, 2013 from Jhon FordThe greater fraction of marriages starts with the anticipation of lifelong success. Wives and husbands alike, embrace these expectations, but the results are not always promising. When, why and how are the typical questions imagined by many. The rationales to dissolve marriages are just too many ...
Views: 1356 - Must Read: Dating After Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 20, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownWhether this is your first time in the dating world or you are newly divorced and entering the dating world, there are some steps you can take to help guard against divorce. There are no guarantees and why not do everything you can to live happily ever after with that someone special? Guess ...
Views: 1356(1 vote) - Dear Dr. Romance: I believe he is a good man at heart - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2019 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My husband left to be with a much younger women. The problem became obvious in our marriage 3 years ago. I thought It would be something we would surpass. I was confused and did not act until one Friday night he did not come home to sleep. He came back that Saturday night and ...
Views: 1355(1 vote) - One Way Love: Is it Time to Move On? - by Submitted on Oct 24, 2012 from Cupid's ArrowWe have all been there. A relationship in which one person is head over heels, but the other is not. How do you cope when you are the person that is not in love? And how do you determine when it is time to move on? Determine the Reason You Aren't in Love One of the biggest ways to ...
Views: 1355(2 votes) - 5 Things You Must Know Before Saying 'I Want a Divorce' - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Ed ShermanThere are ways to go about breaking up that will give you the best chance for a smoother trip through one of life's most difficult passages. This is an exceedingly sensitive time when it doesn't take much to stir things up. Fortunately, because we go through this with other couples a few ...
Views: 1352(1 vote) - How to Divorce-Proof Your Relationship - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2009 from Martin Phillips-HingI am writing this article while flying over some spectacular snow-covered mountains in Northern British Columbia, Canada. In fact, I just read that these mountains have been featured in Hollywood movies as substitutes for the Himalayas.The view is of large peaks and deep valleys. At the bottom ...
Views: 1352(2 votes) - Happily Married? Create a Child Custody Schedule - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2012 from Christal StephensPeople do not get married with the intention of getting a divorce. On their wedding days, people envision themselves spending the rest of their lives with the person they form a union with at the altar. Unfortunately, American divorce statistics indicate that 41-50% of first marriages, 60-67% ...
Views: 1350 - Tips for Coping With a Divorce - by Submitted on May 02, 2013 from Smith BarlayIf you are going through a divorce, then you understand that it is an emotional time in your life. No matter why you are separating from your spouse, it is a difficult and draining process. It is very important that you take the steps necessary to protect your emotional and physical health ...
Views: 1348 - When Le Music Stops: Divorce Your Duet? - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2012 from Marshall ColtWhen Le Music Stops It can happen in many ways. Sometimes, suddenly, out of the blue, with no warning whatsoever. Other times, the music slowly, gradually, fades to a deafening silence. Divorce is the great plague on American families today. More than 40% of adults under 40 are children of ...
Views: 1348 - Do You Know the Secret Ingredient to a Happy Marriage? - by Submitted on Feb 27, 2012 from Jacob ElichmannLeadership. It's something no one will ever tell you is NEEDED to have a happy marriage, and yet it is perhaps the one trait that has the power to single handedly 180 your relationship with your wife. Leadership. It's a trait that men in our time are nearly devoid of, and that women encourage ...
Views: 1347 - Moving On After Your Divorce - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileThere is no single more powerful stumbling block to moving beyond our divorce into a new life than the inability to accept our new reality. Acceptance is the hardest part of the divorce recovery process. Acceptance requires total honesty, courage and the willingness to let go of the life that ...
Views: 1347 - Separated Parents: It’s not Quantum of Time, but Quality of Relationship - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Gary DirenfeldIf you get hung up on the quantum of time, you may lose sight of the quality of your relationship now and for the future. At the end of the day some separated parents fight tooth and nail over how the children’s time will be divvied up between them. Children are even drawn into the dispute, ...
Views: 1345(1 vote) - Emotional Aspects of Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 26, 2015 from Nicky SilohaEvery relationship in the world is essentially built on emotions. Love, affection, passion and belongingness are the base of all kinds of relationships. The reason for break in relationship is because people get emotionally hurt for one reason or the other. Divorce is nothing but the result of ...
Views: 1343 - Finances In Relationships Before and After the Wedding - by Submitted on Jan 23, 2012 from Terry ClarkMoney problems are one of the biggest reasons two people get divorced. Did you know if you had just sat down and talked about how each of you would like to do things before you got married then you would most likely not have problems with finances in relationships after you are ...
Views: 1343 - Husband Only Cares About Himself In Bed: My Husband Has Become Selfish In Bed - by Submitted on Sep 09, 2018 from Jennifer SageHusband Only Cares About Himself In Bed: My Husband Has Become Selfish In Bed When you are looking for inspiration on how to restore intimacy to your relationship, the internet has great resources. There is a simple, but creative place to begin. You may be sensing that you are drifting ...
Views: 1343 - Husband Puts Me Down All The Time: Why Does My Husband Put Me Down In Front Of Others - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHusband Puts Me Down All The Time: Why Does My Husband Put Me Down In Front Of Others In terms of your health, happiness, and deepest values, one of the worst things that can happen is to live with a resentful, angry, or emotionally abusive partner. The worst thing you can do, in terms of ...
Views: 1343 - My Husband's Anger Is Ruining Our Marriage: My Husband Has Anger Outbursts - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband's Anger Is Ruining Our Marriage: My Husband Has Anger Outbursts Most couples are exceedingly poor at resolving conflicts and yet, that is a basic skill that all couples must master. Constant fighting, bickering or arguing will undoubtedly put an enormous amount of strain on the ...
Views: 1343 - Getting Through the 6 Stages of Mediation - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Gary DirenfeldMediation is not a single event, not a one-time meeting where magically issues are resolved. No. Mediation is a process that occurs with very predictable steps. Understanding these steps to the process can help you manage through the process. Separated parents entering mediation may meet ...
Views: 1341 - 11 Important Rules In Mending Your Broken Heart - by Submitted on Sep 10, 2010 from Menno SpijkstraLife is about making choices. Some choices, like who you marry are big… while others are even bigger. Another choice is how to get over a break up. Some handle it calmly, while others jump into rebounds and some get free reign to whine to their friends. Yes, I believe that part of the breaking ...
Views: 1340 - Choosing a divorce attorney - by Submitted on May 22, 2013 from Eric C. CheshireIf you and your spouse are separating, your main question may be “How do I choose a divorce attorney?” Going through a divorce can be overwhelming, but there are specific factors to consider that may safeguard you from hiring the wrong representative. 1. Inquire about fees. When you consult ...
Views: 1340 - Divorce: So-Called Mistakes Are Life Lessons - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileYour divorce is not a failure or a mistake. People miss an incredible opportunity to learn, grow and change for the better when they view their divorce through the lens of failure. A so-called failure is actually a lesson in how not to do something and an invaluable tool for doing things right ...
Views: 1340 - Insider Tips for Choosing Your Divorce Attorney or Mediator - by Submitted on May 30, 2012 from Karen FinnWhether you're a man or woman, the dumper or dumpee, one of the very first things you probably realized you needed to do to get divorced is that you need to hire an attorney. If you're like most people, you probably asked a friend or family member who's been divorced who they used and then ...
Views: 1340 - Life After Divorce: The Power of Acceptance - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileIn Divorce Recovery, as well as any other major loss in life, acceptance is the most important and most difficult step we must take towards releasing the past and beginning a new chapter of life. By acceptance I mean the acceptance of your reality, as it exists for you right now: what is and ...
Views: 1340 - Relationships and Your Love Life--3 Dreadful, yet Very Common Reasons for Staying Together - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2010 from Scott & Stephen PetulloAlmost everyone hopes and strives for a long-term relationship, but few are ever able to find and cement a mutually satisfying, compatible bond that lasts the rest of their lives. Those who place great importance on the fantasy of permanent, romantic bliss may see this as a tragedy, but we ...
Views: 1340(2 votes) - Husband Neglecting Wife: Husband Completely Ignores Me - by Submitted on Jan 06, 2019 from Colten ReeseHusband Neglecting Wife: Husband Completely Ignores Me There is no easy way to answer the question why do men neglect their wives because some of the things I am about to say will not be things that you wish or like to hear. The first reason why men neglect their wives is because they are ...
Views: 1339 - Husband Refuses To Talk About Problems: Husband Wont Talk About Marriage Problems - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaHusband Refuses To Talk About Problems: Husband Wont Talk About Marriage Problems Communication is absolutely key to maintain a healthy marriage. For those experiencing marriage problems communication, you should know that many marriages experience problems in the communication ...
Views: 1339 - Staying Civil: 3 Reasons Kids Come First In Any Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 05, 2017 from Brooke ChaplanThere are many reasons for getting divorced. Unfortunately, few of them can console a child who is going through the process. Even worse, many parents tend to push their children to the side while they deal with this often-complex kind of situation. If you have a child, though, you should make ...
Views: 1339 - Co-Parenting Etiquette When You Don't Get Along - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2019 from Andrew LancasterCan’t stand the sight of your ex-wife or husband but you love your kids to bits and wouldn’t want that to get in the way of your co-parenting? You’ve come to the right place for answers. Children are often caught in the crossfires of matters that should be left between parents. To ensure that ...
Views: 1338(1 vote) - Husband and Wife Not Sleeping Together: Husband and Wife Separate Bedrooms - by Submitted on Jan 07, 2019 from Colten ReeseHusband and Wife Not Sleeping Together: Husband and Wife Separate Bedrooms Love, sex, and intimacy are essential components that great marriages require for complete stability. Real love is the spiritual aspect, sex is physical and intimacy is emotional. It would be difficult to love your ...
Views: 1337 - Angry At Spouse All The Time: Anger Management In Marriage Relationship - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2021 from Maci AspenAngry At Spouse All The Time: Anger Management In Marriage Relationship Anger is a normal, healthy emotion, it's perfectly healthy to feel angry when you've been mistreated or wronged by someone you love, but when it becomes consistent or explosive anger or spirals out of control, it can have ...
Views: 1335 - What is Divorce and Child Custody Mediation? - by Submitted on Jan 26, 2011 from Kathy Memel“The notion that most people want black-robed judges, well dressed lawyers and fine-paneled courtrooms as the setting to resolve their disputes is not correct. People with problems, like people with pains, want relief, and they want it as quickly and inexpensively as possible” - Chief Justice ...
Views: 1335(1 vote) - Dating After Divorce 101 - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2010 from Shane BoydThe dating after divorce topic is a touchy one. Let's face it, dating after a divorce is difficult and sometimes seems impossible. Divorces are stressful and are sometimes a financial strain. You can be emotionally drained after the divorce and the last thing you want to think about is dating ...
Views: 1334(1 vote) - How To Save A Marriage When Trust Is Gone: Rebuilding Trust In Marriage - Regaining Trust In Marriage (How To Heal A Marriage After Lies) - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaHow To Save A Marriage When Trust Is Gone: Rebuilding Trust In Marriage - Regaining Trust In Marriage (How To Heal A Marriage After Lies) It is a well known truth that successful marriages are rooted in mutual trust and they can withstand any stormy circumstances. Such a strong foundation of ...
Views: 1334 - Recovering from Divorce: Honor the Truth - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileDo you remember the old adage that states there’s your side, there’s my side and then there’s the truth? If we were totally honest with ourselves, we too could see the truth of any situation. Once we accept that truth, we have the newfound freedom to gain clarity, discover ...
Views: 1331 - Beyond The White Dress - by Submitted on Sep 07, 2018 from Dominique NicoleAs a Divorce Coach and Consultant, by the time people find me, they are well beyond marital bliss and about to embark on one of life’s major life changing events, we know as divorce. There are woman that sit in my chair and as I listen to their stories and the history of their marriage, I ...
Views: 1330 - Using your phone to communicate with your ex can be a dangerous endeavor. - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2011 from Jainarain (Jai) KissoonIn this world of instant gratification, smart phones have become an incredibly popular way for people to communicate. Whether you are sending text messages, updating your status or sending an email, doing it from your smart phone can have some pretty unforeseen and ugly consequences. Why, how ...
Views: 1327(1 vote) - How can we transmute the emotions of a divorce... to create a happy life? - by Submitted on Oct 14, 2011 from Bertrand DoryOne of the most difficult time in our lives is experiencing a Divorce! Well, there is so much trauma linked to a Divorce, so much hurt, and at a deep level, we may feel that we are trapped in a legal drama, with feeling of not being good enough, of guilt, of pain, of regrets, of resentment. ...
Views: 1326(2 votes) - How to Deal With The Emotions We Experience Following Our Relationship Breakdown, Separation Or Divorce. Part One: Anger. - by Submitted on May 20, 2011 from James RichardsonAnger is a natural, healthy, protecting emotion.It can be a very positive emotion when it motivates you to turn your life around , to suit you better. Its a powerful tool to let people know your wishes- hopefully in a non aggressive, assertive way. The anger caused by the end of a relationship ...
Views: 1326 - Dear Dr. Romance: He wants to call all the shots and refuses to compromise - by Submitted on Jun 30, 2011 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: My husband left me this past April. We are in our early twenties and we have been together since we were teenagers. We grew together so well, until he left me. He is Hispanic and very dominating and controlling. He wants to call all the shots and refuses to compromise. I ...
Views: 1323(2 votes) - Submitting To Your Husband When You Don't Agree: Learning To Submit To Your Husband - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2018 from Jennifer SageSubmitting To Your Husband When You Don't Agree: Learning To Submit To Your Husband To realize the fullness of God's purpose each of us must submit to God, governing authorities as well as each other. This represents God's order to achieve His ideal. But as you well know many of us fall ...
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