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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- How to Get Divorce Help Without Paying High Attorney Fees - by Submitted on Apr 23, 2009 from Ed ShermanSynopsis: It's okay to use an attorney, but most people should never retain one in their divorce case unless there is a clear reason for doing so. You can save a lot of time, trouble and money if you don't retain an attorney. Ignorance is the most common trap in the business of divorce, so ...
Views: 1399 - How to Let Go Of a Toxic Relationship - These Tips Will Reduce Your Pain - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2016 from Alex J. StevensonWhen you have recently experienced a breakup, you may feel as if you will never get over the person. Getting over someone is actually not supposed to take very long, however, most people linger in the grieving phase for much longer than they have to. There are things that you should do and ...
Views: 1398(1 vote) - How to let go of your anger before, during, and after divorce. - by Submitted on Apr 15, 2019 from Martha BodyfeltAs you recover from your divorce and move on, there is one all-too-common emotion that causes us way more headaches than you need. Anger. Being ticked off. The persistent rage that will not leave you but could jeopardize your future relationships. To start off with, there is something ...
Views: 1398 - Life’s been giving us wake up calls - by Submitted on Sep 02, 2009 from ray borjaSo here we are caught up in the midst of an upheaval in our lives. Our marriage is dissolving. Our house is no longer our home. The light of our relationship that once was a beacon in our lives leading us into the safe shores of contentment, has burnt out. And we are left alone, arms crossed ...
Views: 1398(4 votes) - The Do's and Don't's of Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 12, 2004 from Maury BeaulierDON'T lie to your children with stories like "Dad is visiting relatives". Children know if you are trying to hide something, even if the purpose is honorable. DO talk to your children. Give them simple and straight-forward answers without vilifying or blaming the other parent. DON'T put your ...
Views: 1398(1 vote) - Was Your Divorce a Means to Healing Old Baggage? - by Submitted on Feb 03, 2010 from Shelley StileHere’s a fascinating take on divorce that I find more true than not: We choose our spouses, usually subconsciously, as a means to healing old emotional wounds we have been carrying around our entire life. Our divorce then becomes the wakeup call to clean up that mental baggage we have been ...
Views: 1398(2 votes) - How To Spice Up Love Life With Husband: Things A Woman Can Do To Spice Up The Bedroom - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesHow To Spice Up Love Life With Husband: Things A Woman Can Do To Spice Up The Bedroom Sometimes, you need to just bare all to spice up your love life and reignite the passion. Spice up your marriage by getting involved in these sexy nude erotic activities and enjoy amazing sex and an intense ...
Views: 1397 - My Husband Would Rather Be With His Friends: My Husband's Friend Is Ruining Our Marriage - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2019 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Would Rather Be With His Friends: My Husband's Friend Is Ruining Our Marriage Q. My husband always wants to hang out with his "boys". He used to hang out with them a lot before we got married, and I thought that after we got married things would change and that he'd want to spend ...
Views: 1394 - 9 Great Tips from Experts on Divorce Recovery | DivorceForce - by Submitted on Apr 11, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownApril is Divorce Recovery Month! We asked a number of contributors to the DivorceForce Community for their input on "divorce recovery" and here is part 1 of some of the responses we received. **Anne Brown PhD RNMSCS http://www.backbonepower.com - Make a list of 2-3 things you want to be ...
Views: 1392 - How to build healthy relationships? - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2010 from Dia ThabetHow to build healthy relationships? How do you build healthy relationships with your partner? What should you do to build and maintain happy and healthy relationship and marriage? Everybody wants to have happy relationships and marriages and all couples want to keep improving their ...
Views: 1392(4 votes) - Self Esteem And Moving On From A Breakup - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2013 from Carol FergusonWhen the divorce process begins to move along, you may find that your self-esteem is completely gone. You need to learn how to rebuild your self-esteem so that you can move on successfully after the divorce. Moving on successfully means that you are okay not being married anymore. It may take ...
Views: 1392 - Top tips to regain trust after betraying someone - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2015 from Mike HatcherPeople all around us love to maintain their relationships in its most healthier manner, and they used to follow various tips and techniques to manage it in the perfect way. There are various factors which play their crucial role in determining the success of any relationship, and one such ...
Views: 1392 - Waking Up Is Hard To Do - by Submitted on Nov 18, 2011 from Laura SmithImagine This: You're in dreamland. Zzzzzzzzzz. Blissful. Unaware. Major REM activity going on. Suddenly, the alarm goes off. You tap the snooze button. You're a bit groggy. THEN IT HITS YOU LIKE A FREIGHT TRAIN -- OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MY HEART IS BROKEN! I used to loathe going to ...
Views: 1392 - My Husband Left Me After 20 Years: My Husband Left And Said He Doesn't Know When If He's Coming Back - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Left Me After 20 Years: My Husband Left And Said He Doesn't Know When If He's Coming Back If you have had a terrible fight with your husband that has resulted in him walking out of the relationship then throwing in the tear-filled towel is not an option. If you truly love your ...
Views: 1391 - Divorced and Retired: Don't Forget the Social Security Benefits - by Submitted on May 04, 2012 from Meghan Gehan64 years old, unemployed and closing the book on a 26 year marriage, Beverly needed to make sure that she had explored all of her financial options. She was coming in out of the dark, because during the entire time she had been married, she had never closely managed her finances. As her ...
Views: 1390 - Can rejection actually be a good thing? - by Submitted on Sep 18, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltNone of us are immune to rejection. It doesn’t matter where you are in life, and whether it’s ending a marriage or breaking up with a partner. Even the strongest of us can’t help but feel like we did something wrong when the person we loved and cared about and spent our lives with as a ...
Views: 1389(1 vote) - Dr. Romance: 3 Tips to Letting Go of Pain - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2016 from Tina TessinaIf your marriage ends in divorce, you lose more than the marriage itself. Even if your marriage had problems, or you were the one who wanted out, you still will have grief over the dreams and hopes which have died with the relationship. The overwhelming feeling of loss can be confusing and ...
Views: 1389(2 votes) - "D Day"-Your Divorce is Final - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2013 from Dominique NicoleAs of 1 hour and 53 minutes ago, I am officially divorced…again. Although I believe in my heart that it was for the best, I did not expect to feel the level of sadness, finality and disappointment that I have experienced in the days leading up to D day. I wanted to try and write about the ...
Views: 1388 - 4 Simple Tips To Win Back Your Guy - by Submitted on Jul 16, 2010 from Andrew HunterYou may want know how to win your guy back once the pizazz is gone. Using 4 simple steps, you can get your relationship back on track as you were before – even if your boyfriend is dating someone else. The first step is to become a person he can trust. Be around him as much as possible, let ...
Views: 1387(5 votes) - What Is Divorce Mediation? - by Submitted on May 02, 2013 from Smith BarlayIf you and your spouse are getting a divorce, then you may be searching for the best way to resolve your problems and divide up your shared estate, without having to go before a court of law. Divorce mediation is way for the both of you to sit down together, outside of a court of law to discuss ...
Views: 1386 - How to Get your Self-Esteem back after a Break-Up - by Submitted on Sep 25, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltOne of the many things we struggle with as we learn to recover from a break-up is learning how to rebuild our self-esteem. It’s easy to understand why this is such an issue. When your relationship ends, you may feel rejected. You may feel unworthy. You sit crying on your coach, a pint of Ben ...
Views: 1385 - Surviving the Emotional Loss of a Loved One: Mediation can Help you Deal with the Causes of Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Brian JamesMediation, by nature and definition, bridges the emotional gulf that can exist between couples, both during and after a divorce. The need to assess priorities, explore opinions, and achieve compromises requires mediators to learn as much as possible about their client’s current relationship ...
Views: 1385 - Dr. Romance: Tips for Divorced Dads - by Submitted on Dec 14, 2015 from Tina TessinaWhat can divorced dads do to help raise healthy, successful boys when they don't see their sons as often as they want? Here are some tips for non-custodial fathers who want to make certain they raise successful men. 1. Stay connected with your boy. Find a way to get over the differences ...
Views: 1383(2 votes) - Feel Like A Stranger In My Marriage: Feeling Disconnected In Marriage - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2018 from Colten ReeseFeel Like A Stranger In My Marriage: Feeling Disconnected In Marriage Knowing your partners weakness is vital to saving your marriage before it's too late. When you step back and take a look at the patterns that develop around conflict in your marriage, you are given essential clues to combat ...
Views: 1382 - Financial Stress Is Killing My Marriage: How To Manage Finances In A Marriage - by Submitted on Sep 21, 2018 from Jennifer SageFinancial Stress Is Killing My Marriage: How To Manage Finances In A Marriage It goes without saying that a marriage ought to transcend the mere material matters that consume so much of our lives. The Bible does say 'Better is a dinner of herbs where love is, than a stalled ox and hatred ...
Views: 1382 - How Do You Know When To Leave A Marriage: How Do I Know If I Should Leave My Husband / Wife - by Submitted on Oct 08, 2021 from Baker JackHow Do You Know When To Leave A Marriage: How Do I Know If I Should Leave My Husband / Wife Today we live in an age that promotes self-awareness BUT when it comes to relationships, it fails to show us how to use our self-awareness to arrive at good decisions. Most of the advice we get makes ...
Views: 1382 - Are you making this HUGE happiness mistake? - by Submitted on Jun 18, 2018 from Martha BodyfeltI thought my world had ended back in January. I had this job and career that made me comfortable and paid well. It was not necessarily a job that I loved, but it made me feel secure and gave me the validation that I thought I needed. Until I was laid off. I started to panic, because ...
Views: 1381 - Christian Marriage Revealed - by Submitted on May 18, 2010 from Michael Fehlauer1. The Christian marriage is revealed in the creation of man– In the second chapter of the Bible we find God’s purpose regarding the marriage union. In Genesis 2:7 we read, “The LORD God formed man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became ...
Views: 1381(1 vote) - Tired of feeling like a doormat? Here's how to stand up for yourself. - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2019 from Martha BodyfeltIt happens all the time and you’re probably not even aware of it. Or you are aware of it, but you’ve just accepted it as a way of life. Your boss just *assumes* you’re going to work late...even though you already made plans. Your ex texts you, saying how sad he is, although you asked ...
Views: 1381 - Parallel Parenting: Co-Parenting as Independent Individuals - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2019 from Andrew LancasterOne way separated couples with kids have found a way to coexist without conflict is through "parallel-parenting" or "parallel co-parenting". This is an agreement made by divorced parents in which they are able to co-parent by means of disconnecting from each other and having as little direct ...
Views: 1380(1 vote) - Are you keeping the blame game? - by Submitted on Dec 26, 2011 from Bertrand DoryUsually after a terrible event in our lives, we tend to blame everybody else, or even God, or the Universe. I did this too, mainly after relationship break-ups. I knew that this was not the right thing to do, but still, I had all this anger against the unfairness of the situation. This is so ...
Views: 1379 - Have My Ex Spouse Back - Five Things to Consider for a Successful Reunion - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2011 from Matthew JohnsonTo answer your question, “What will I do to get my ex wife back?” isn’t only about moving your things to stay with her in the same house again. It’s actually as crucial as asking her parents for her hand in marriage because you are promising security and happiness for the second time. If you ...
Views: 1379 - How Does Infidelity or an Affair Affect a Divorce? - by Submitted on Apr 30, 2012 from Kathy JohanInfidelity or an affair that has happened during a marriage can have a significant effect on a divorce. This is a remarkably common reason for getting a divorce. Adultery can have a considerable effect on the proceedings or outcome of a divorce. The negotiations and what benefits that the other ...
Views: 1379 - Anxiety Over Money- Money Coach Professionals: How We Can Help. - by Submitted on Jul 29, 2008 from Judith GerhartIn divorce or after the death of a spouse most of us are quick to seek help. We often turn to health professionals to better understand our heartache and how to make it well again. But while looking after your well-being is critical to your emotional health, don’t ignore the health of your ...
Views: 1377 - 5 Facts Lawyers Don't Want You to Know About Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2009 from Ed ShermanDivorce is one of the most difficult things you may ever go through, but after more than 30 years of helping millions of people get better divorces, I can tell you with certainty that there are several things you can do to reduce the pain, conflict and cost. Unfortunately, the legal system, and ...
Views: 1376 - Divorce for Men – Your Way to Recovery - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2010 from Kyle MorrisonSo what does divorce for men really entail? Well for those who haven’t experienced it yet, it can be quite difficult to explain. Those who have however will tell you that it’s one of the most painful, difficult, traumatizing, and confusing experiences you will ever have to deal with in your ...
Views: 1376 - How To Deal With Your Spouse’s New Marriage - by Submitted on Oct 01, 2008 from Danielle TaylorThere are many different things in life that we aren’t usually prepared to deal with. One of them is divorce and the other comes after the divorce. When your ex becomes remarried, it can be a very difficult thing to deal with. Whether your issues are related to lingering possessiveness or the ...
Views: 1375 - Why Prozac is One of America's Leading Prescriptions - by Submitted on May 01, 2012 from Shiroko SokitchBinge eating, not eating, heavily sleeping - we do what we can when we are trying to feed challenging emotions. If you are feeling excessive fatigue, hopelessness, or have lost interest or pleasure in your life, you may be experiencing depression. You’re not alone. According to the CDC, 1 in 10 ...
Views: 1375(1 vote) - 4 Tips to Resist the Fight on the Way to the Negotiating Table - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Gary DirenfeldYou finally recognize that your adversarial battle isn’t resolving your dispute. You’re draining your resources both financially and emotionally. You don’t believe your former partner would ever negotiate a truce, let alone a settlement. Mediation is discussed and one person says they’ll go but ...
Views: 1371 - Mens Divorce Support - What You Should Avoid Post Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Kyle MorrisonMany Support for Divorced Men articles address solely with reference to what men is aimed to do in the course of divorce. So how about moving on after the process? Considering that even after the divorce procedures, men will still undergo to its aftermath; they still have to deal with its cost ...
Views: 1371 - JBL 001: What To Say To Your Ex After No Contact - How To Contact A Past Lover - by Submitted on Nov 16, 2016 from Michael UadialeI feel that this will be one of the most important posts that I will create about how you can get your ex girlfriend back. It is vital that you actually completed the 30 day no contact phase otherwise this information is meaningless. Knowing exactly what to say or more importantly how to say it ...
Views: 1370 - Planning On Relocating With Your Children? You Need Permission From The Court First - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2012 from James GarrettIt used to be, families commonly remained in the same geographic area for generations. Over the recent years, though, people have grown to be steadily more mobile. Whether due to job transfer, military orders, or just a change of pace, parents with physical custody of their children frequently ...
Views: 1370(1 vote) - Relationship Help for Single Working Mothers - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2009 from Nanette GeigerSusan from North Carolina came to me because she's afraid that she'll never get a new husband because she thinks nobody wants to walk into an already established family. If this rings true for you or a person you know, you may believe that, but it is just not so. I know of women who have ...
Views: 1369(2 votes) - Ex Boyfriend Trouble - How to Get Him Back For Good - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2015 from Patrick UadialeMany women struggle with ex boyfriend trouble on a daily basis. They are caught between a break up and still being madly in love with their ex. Your head and the majority of your friends may be telling you that it's time to move on, but if your heart disagrees, it's almost impossible to envision ...
Views: 1368 - The 7 Costly Mistakes Domestic Abuse Survivors Make with Their Divorce Lawyers - by Submitted on Mar 25, 2009 from Jeanne King, Ph.D.Why do domestic abuse victims see the abuse dynamic in their home, but fail to recognize it in their divorce proceedings? The answer to this question is the same answer to the question, “Why doesn’t she awaken to the abuse in her home?” You know the answer: she is part of the very dynamic for ...
Views: 1368 - 10 Must-Try Ways of Loving Yourself Through Your Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2017 from Mike SmithGetting a divorce is one of the toughest and possibly lowest points in anyone’s life. In fact, fully getting through a divorce can even take years for some people. With this in mind, there’s no harm in trying to make living through a divorce easier for yourself. After all, there is no way ...
Views: 1367 - This is the #1 thing you must do to stick up for yourself. - by Submitted on Aug 20, 2019 from Martha BodyfeltThis is the #1 thing you must do to stick up for yourself. Here’s the uncomfortable truth, friends. In your journey to get confident and feel better about yourself, you cannot be afraid to step on toes. In other words... Don’t be afraid to piss people off. Strong women will end up ...
Views: 1367 - Infidelity - 4 Steps To Affair Proof Your Marriage - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Nicola BeerWhen it comes to infidelity and after the affair recovery in couple therapy, here are the top 3 common questions I often get asked: Is it possible to avoid affairs and affair-proof your marriage? Are there ways to ruin my cheating husband's / wife's affair and show them what they have with ...
Views: 1366 - How is Child Support Calculated under Florida Law - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2011 from A. James MullaneyThe non-custodial parent will be required to provide a "reasonable" share of the cost of housing, food, clothing, education, medical and other needs typically provided by Florida parents. This "reasonable" amount is defined by the Child Support Guidelines in the Florida Statutes. Expenses ...
Views: 1365(1 vote) - How To Get Your Ex-Back by Looking at the Past, Present, & Future - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2013 from Yamaya CruzBreakups are hard. The first thing that you want to do after a break-up is to refrain from being a psycho. Yes it is fun to fantasize about slashing tires, or throwing a drink in your ex boyfriend or girlfriend’s face. But then reality starts to set in, and you realize that you really miss ...
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