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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Dr. Romance: Finding your Next Spouse - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2013 from Tina TessinaYou're divorced and ready to look for a new love. Here are three tips to help you as you search for a new partner in life. 1. Know the difference between fooling around and building a real relationship. You can mess around with anyone (if you’re careful and have safe sex) but before you ...
Views: 1608(2 votes) - The State of Our "Unions" Address- What is Happening to Marriage? - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2013 from Dominique NicoleIs marriage really a dying tradition? Are all these statistics we keep hearing about, real? After two divorces myself and the experience gained from them, I have my own thoughts of why fewer people are running to the altar and more are running away from it. My curiosity and need for ...
Views: 1307(2 votes) - Making Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Jealous To Get Them Back - How It is Done-New Ideas - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreMaking Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend Jealous To Get Them Back - How It is Done; We have all tried to use jealousy to our advantage throughout our lives, sometimes more successfully than others. If you have any experience with jealousy you will know that it can backfire a lot of the time and ...
Views: 3251(1 vote) - Dr Romance: 3 Tips to Living Together - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Tina TessinaIn the throes of a new romance, when dating and getting to know each other are going well, it’s easy to make a big decision from all the energy, or for the wrong reasons. Moving in together for the wrong reasons, or without advance planning, can jeopardize the whole relationship; so do it ...
Views: 1649(3 votes) - One Big Lesson About Giving Money to Your Kids - by Submitted on Aug 21, 2013 from Jane WarrenOne day you receive money from your very alive parents. Are they gifting it to you? Are they gifting it to you and your spouse? Are they lending it to you? Chances are it’s not that clear. And if it does seem clear to you, is it equally and similarly clear to everyone involved? And is it ...
Views: 685 - The Benefits Of Family Therapy - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2013 from Anita LohrMany families are often confronted by situations that may cause stress, anger, tension and heartache in the family dynamics. For this reason, a family may consider going to family therapy sessions to work through some of those problems and challenges. A therapist is a good sounding board when ...
Views: 1867 - Contemplating divorce? Early, important financial considerations - by Submitted on Aug 18, 2013 from Adele TheronMy good friend Hannah Foxley from the Women’s Wealth Expert (www.thewomenswealthexpert.co.uk) has written a corker of an article on things to consider financially before divorcing. Here are some tips written by her hand. Get ready for some good info… In the emotional haze of early divorce ...
Views: 2010 - Dr Romance Video: Should you stay in your marriage? - by Submitted on Aug 15, 2013 from Tina TessinaClick here for video. Dr Romance: Should you stay in your marriage? Marriage can be frustrating and disappointing, especially if you don't have the skills to fix it. But giving in to the frustration and leaving may turn out to be the worst thing you ever did. Consider these ...
Views: 1779(2 votes) - Coping with a Break-Up and Rejection - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2013 from Darlene LancerRejection and break-ups are especially hard for codependents. They can trigger hidden grief and cause irrational guilt, anger, shame, and fear. Working through the following issues can help you let go and move on. Codependents often blame themselves or their partner. They have low ...
Views: 2080(2 votes) - 7 Relationship Points Divorced Couples Give - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2013 from Amy RosenthalyThere are traits that can be implemented to make a relationship healthier and make it last endlessly. They are often disregarded in relationships as these habits don't come by nature. Couples often deal with many relationships before identifying these traits, only to appreciate their benefits ...
Views: 2008 - 7 Mistakes to Avoid When Going Through a Divorce - by Submitted on Aug 13, 2013 from Toby KingThe entire divorce process can be very complicated and can leave you emotionally and financially exhausted. Unfortunately, due to the nature of divorce, the mistakes you can commit during the process can affect you for life. Knowing what these mistakes are and making sure you avoid them will ...
Views: 984 - Three Practical Steps for a Smooth Divorce Process - by Submitted on Aug 12, 2013 from Toby KingNo couple going through a divorce process had ever thought during their wedding day that such a time would come in their lives. When the worse happens, though, you should be prepared not just emotionally, but mentally, financially, and legally as well. Here are three very crucial steps you ...
Views: 1015 - "D Day"-Your Divorce is Final - by Submitted on Aug 11, 2013 from Dominique NicoleAs of 1 hour and 53 minutes ago, I am officially divorced…again. Although I believe in my heart that it was for the best, I did not expect to feel the level of sadness, finality and disappointment that I have experienced in the days leading up to D day. I wanted to try and write about the ...
Views: 1387 - Fear and Loathing in My Marriage - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2013 from Dominique NicoleIt’s been almost a year since my almost official ex moved out. For years I sat on the fence feeling trapped in an unfulfilling and stressful marriage. It was only after a dramatic spiral into pain pill abuse and depression and finally rehab that I was able to come to terms with my situation. ...
Views: 1710 - Make Your Ex Come Back to a More Confident You - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2013 from Uadiale JohnWhen you've just gone through a painful breakup or a divorce, it's just natural for you to feel anger towards your ex or towards yourself. You may end up bitter and constantly analyzing who is to blame for the separation. At the same time, you are torn between your anger and feelings of wanting ...
Views: 1179 - Get Your Ex Back in 3 Easy Steps - Win Ex Back In No Time - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2013 from Uadiale JohnA breakup is never an easy experience for anyone. Your emotions are in complete disarray - you may be hating your ex one minute and missing him the next. You find yourself going through the last fight over and over in your mind and you wonder if you could have handled the situation ...
Views: 1066 - Dr. Romance: Divorce-Proof your Marriage - by Submitted on Jul 27, 2013 from Tina TessinaFor Adult Children of Divorce, 3 Tips for a Better Marriage than your Parents Had If you're an adult child of divorce in a marriage that's been struggling, you can learn good marriage-building skills to keep your relationship from going the divorce route. Here are three tips to help: 1. ...
Views: 1897(6 votes) - A Lonely Heart - by Submitted on Jul 26, 2013 from Womens Recreation, Inc.A lonely heart, filled with sadness, once was so full of life. Two hearts were beating as one for such a long time. Time was their friend, adventure was their middle name. Sitting curled up in each other’s arms they’ve watched many sunsets. The seagulls flying overhead made them smile as ...
Views: 1739 - Dear Dr. Romance: Can you make your wife fall in love again? - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I would like to know if it's possible to make your wike fall in love with you again? She just recently announced to me that she wanted to go our seperate ways. I am devestaded we have 2 kids together and she told me that she just grew appart from me. I'm madly in love ...
Views: 1785(2 votes) - Save Your Marriage: End Limiting Beliefs - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from Lee Baucom“What can I do?,” cried Sharon, “I can’t do anything! I don’t even know where to start! I want to save my marriage, but he refuses to even think about it.” And with that, Sharon launched into a discussion that lasted at least 25 minutes, telling me why nothing could be done, why her marriage ...
Views: 2149(1 vote) - Save Your Marriage In 3 Simple Steps - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from Lee Baucom“So, how DO you save your marriage?” asked the frustrated voice on the other end of the call. “Eric” had been working to save his marriage for some time. And it seemed that no matter where he looked, all he saw was conflicting advice: “fix your communication,” “make her jealous,” “use ...
Views: 2541(1 vote) - Can You Save Your Marriage if Your Spouse Doesn't Want To? - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from Liam NadenOne of the most difficult situations for a marriage that is failing occurs when one partner wants to save the marriage and the other one doesn't. If that is the case in your marriage you will know that it's probably the biggest crisis that will ever occur in a marriage. There are many reasons ...
Views: 1411(1 vote) - Healing Your Heartaches - by Submitted on Jul 23, 2013 from Stacy CorriganOne of the most frequent things I observe when working with clients is their lack of willingness to face the pain and trauma of the one thing that trips them up most when looking for love – their childhood. It’s understandable to a degree since we’re programmed to move toward pleasure and away ...
Views: 1274 - Top 3 Reasons Why He Had an Affair - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2013 from Winny KhoHaving an affair can be one of the worst things to happen to a relationship. If you find out that your other half has been cheating on you with someone else then it can be devastating, and sometimes so bad that the relationship can never been fixed again. People have affairs for many reasons, ...
Views: 881 - Want to Save Your Marriage? Bring Back Some Humour - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2013 from Liam NadenWhen a marriage or relationship gets into trouble, one of the first things that happens is that the two people begin to lose their emotional connection. Communication becomes stressful and difficult. Each begins to question why they are in the marriage. As result, what connection there is can be ...
Views: 1083(1 vote) - Can You Prevent Your Boyfriend From Ever Leaving You? - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2013 from Eduard EzeanuDo you want your boyfriend to be with you forever but you are worried that one day he will eventually leave you? Then it’s important for you to understand the events that can truly occur and set the right course for your actions. Many women are worried that one day their boyfriend will lose ...
Views: 1909 - Stop! The Don't Do Dating List - by Submitted on Jul 14, 2013 from Tina TessinaDating Again? Five Things You Must Not Do Dating someone new is not easy for anyone. Expectations can be high, and it’s very easy to make a wrong move. Knowing what not to do on your earliest dates can help you to avoid future problems. Here are Dr. Romance’s reminders of what not to do on a ...
Views: 1695(2 votes) - How Divorce Can Change Relationships" - by Submitted on Jul 11, 2013 from Adrian (AJ) GarciaDivorce is a difficult thing to endure. A very difficult thing. Certainly, it does not need to be any harder to deal with but the animosity it generates it is impossible to quell--for the heart and mind, I mean. The change divorce creates is brutal. The worst part about it is the ...
Views: 933 - Relationships: Tips to Help Overcome your Negative Reaction to your Spouse - by Submitted on Jul 05, 2013 from Tina TessinaEXERCISE: MIRRORS AND TEACHERS 1. List problem people: Make a list of people with whom you have had problems in the recent past. You can use the list from the exercise for reviewing your family map in the last chapter, choose the family members who are still presenting problems, and add to ...
Views: 1648(3 votes) - How Do YOU Define You? - by Submitted on Jul 19, 2013 from Jenny PotterAlmost from birth, society wants to label us. We are told that we are gifted or athletic or shy or naughty or rebellious or moody…the list goes on and on. As a result, we embody those judgments and end up thinking that’s WHO we are. How many times have you said, “Well, that’s just the way I am”? ...
Views: 1284 - Dr. Romance: 5 Common Mistakes in Relationships - 5 Common Mistakes when Asking your Spouse for What You Want - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2013 from Tina TessinaThere are some common mistakes couples make when asking for what they want in a relationship. Here are some things that may be keeping you from achieving success with your spouse. They are the most common mistakes you can make when trying to ask for what you want when you're struggling to make ...
Views: 1620(3 votes) - 4 Reasons To Swap Regret Over Your Breakup for Excitement - by Submitted on Jun 24, 2013 from Michael BroderIf you’ve recently experienced a relationship breakup, regret is one of the many emotions you might be experiencing. But regret is usually just a form of temporary and needless pain. Here are a few perspectives to make the end of your relationship an exciting and bright start to a new ...
Views: 1973(1 vote) - Dr. Romance: Boundaries with your Ex - Tips to Help if your Ex is Doing Things that Make You Feel Used, Resentful - by Submitted on Jun 22, 2013 from Tina TessinaPersonal space and respect are to the smoothness of a relationship. All personal relationships require boundaries. Boundaries are the limits you place on how much others can ask of you, verbally or otherwise. If a friendship or relationship is between two people who both have solid boundaries, ...
Views: 2298(3 votes) - So, how do you heal anger when you want to rip someone’s head off? - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2013 from Adele TheronWhat do you do when you are SO angry you want to rip someone’s head off? You actually think you COULD drown your kids or bash someone with your shopping trolley and you are not sure how to control it. In those moments, if another hippy tells you “you need to relax” or recommends that you try ...
Views: 1992 - Dr. Romance: Married, Different Shifts - How to Stay In Touch When You Barely See Each Other - by Submitted on Jun 15, 2013 from Tina TessinaIn this tougher economy, couples are finding it necessary to take the jobs they can get, and that means more couples work different shifts. If one of you works a “graveyard shift” or rotating shift job that limits your time together; the difference in your shifts and commutes may mean you ...
Views: 1788 - 3 Tips to Thriving after Divorce - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2013 from Jenny PotterLife after divorce can be a challenge. Wait...let me restate that...life can be a challenge. Divorce can make the challenges feel insurmountable. At least it did for me. I fell madly in love at 19 and spent the next 18 years building a life with my soul mate. We created a life that appeared, ...
Views: 1472 - Custody of child can be a major issue in Divorce - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2013 from louis jamesIf you are about to get separated, you will have to conclude on the custody of your children. Such decisions will encompass lawful custody, and physical custody. You will furthermore need to arrive up with a schedule of when the progeny will glimpse each parent throughout the school year, in the ...
Views: 729(1 vote) - The Types Of Problems A Divorce Attorney Can Help You With - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2013 from George PatelAre you have problems with your divorce arrangements and would like to hire a divorce attorney in order to solve them? During a divorce there are a number of things that have to be agreed upon such as the division of assets and who will get custody of any children that you might have. If you ...
Views: 871 - Dear Dr. Romance: Although I had to let go, I still care a lot. - by Submitted on May 30, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance Your articles are very helpful to me. Can you tell me what book of yours can help me heal from my last relatioship. The pain is still there and although I am sure I had to let go, I still care a lot. Dear Reader: I'm sorry you're hurting. I know how ...
Views: 2212 - Relationships: Is It Important To Grieve The End Of A Relationship? - by Submitted on May 21, 2013 from Oliver JR CooperWhen a relationship comes to an end, it can often lead to pain. For some people the end of a relationship will be experienced solely as a loss and for others, although there is a sense of loss, it will also be coupled with a sense of freedom and that the time had come. This will of course ...
Views: 2135(1 vote) - 10 Tips on Saving Money on Attorneys Fes - by Submitted on May 20, 2013 from Eric C. CheshireA question that pops up quite often is "How Much Does it Cost for Attorney Services" Quite honestly, the amount a divorce attorney gets paid has a lot to do with how prepared you are and if you are willing to work with your attorney or, if you want your attorney to do all the work. By ...
Views: 1157 - Preparing for a Divorce - by Submitted on May 22, 2013 from Eric C. CheshireBefore you ask your spouse to terminate your marriage, you need to learn how to prepare for a divorce. Divorce preparation is important because a vindictive spouse can complicate the new life that you would like to begin leading. The following divorce checklist will help you with your divorce ...
Views: 1077 - Choosing a divorce attorney - by Submitted on May 22, 2013 from Eric C. CheshireIf you and your spouse are separating, your main question may be “How do I choose a divorce attorney?” Going through a divorce can be overwhelming, but there are specific factors to consider that may safeguard you from hiring the wrong representative. 1. Inquire about fees. When you consult ...
Views: 1340 - Introducing the Tantrum Club! - by Submitted on May 19, 2013 from Adele TheronIT’S TIME TO THROW A TANTRUM! Women since generations ago, have been told to be polite, ladylike, calm and collected and in the midst of struggle to rise above and push through. But what’s the definition of pushing through? Some people are content to spend hours rationalising whether their ...
Views: 1790(1 vote) - A 'Good Parent' Divorce - by Submitted on May 18, 2013 from Jennifer Day“To All Divorcing Parents Your children have come into this world because of the two of you. Perhaps you two made lousy choices as to whom you decided to be the other parent. If so, that is your problem and your fault. No matter what you think of the other party-or what your family thinks of ...
Views: 1278 - Grandparents Can Help Grandchildren Cope with Parent’s Divorce! - by Submitted on May 14, 2013 from Rosalind SedaccaToo often, grandparents are caught in drama between parents during and after their divorce. While they want to help in any way they can, many grandparents just don’t know how to ease the hurt, confusion and other emotions affecting their innocent grandkids. Since every divorce is unique there ...
Views: 1518 - Instant Gratification BUT what IS best for me? PART II - by Submitted on May 14, 2013 from Adele TheronAs human beings we can tend to become fascinated by ourselves and our stories and can allow ourselves to become too self-indulgent and it can be destructive. As long as we recognise the vision of where we want and need to be and what it takes to get there, the time that you determine it to take ...
Views: 1581 - Surviving Divorce - by Submitted on May 11, 2013 from Cindy CrawfordNearly seventeen years ago my world changed. I experienced a pain in my heart that was utterly unbearable. Sometimes I walked around in a daze, going through the motions of my daily routine. I was physically present, although I was mentally, emotionally and spiritually bankrupt. “How could ...
Views: 1233 - How to Decide When to End a Long Term Relationship - by Submitted on May 07, 2013 from Joshua UebergangBeing in a long term relationship can have so many wonderful aspects. People fall in love and remain together all the time. However, being in a long term relationship can also become stale and boring. There are times when stale and boring can be fixed, and there are times when other issues mean ...
Views: 3460 - Alimony - What You Need To Know - by Submitted on May 02, 2013 from Smith BarlayDivorce cases consist of a series of significant, consequential judgments that can affect one or both spouses. Questions about child custody, and property division are usually the highlights of a case. In some cases, however, the judge can include it as a stipulation in a family court ...
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