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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- The Real Divorce: Cutting The Ties That Bind - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileYour divorce decree is only step one in moving into a new life after divorce. The real divorce is the cutting of the emotional, mental and physical ties that still bind you to your ex-husband. This is the real work of divorce recovery: becoming a single woman possessed of confidence, ...
Views: 1464 - Tired of your divorce drama? Here's how to ditch it! - by Submitted on Jun 19, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltPsssst, wanna know a little divorce secret? Your daily divorce drama is an illusion. Sure, to you, it can feel all too real, but the fact is we get stuck in the drama mud because we have never been been taugt how to break ourselves away from it. People love to tell you to hold your head ...
Views: 1464 - Divorce Preparation – Assessing Your Financial Condition - by Submitted on Aug 31, 2009 from David KaneOne of the situations that we see in many family situations is where one spouse is the primary caretaker of the financial obligations for the family. That person may have been in charge of paying the bills, setting up the investment accounts, making investment decisions (stocks, bonds, real ...
Views: 1463(2 votes) - How to Get Over a Guy You See Everyday - 5 Strategic Steps You Don't Know - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2015 from Alex J. StevensonSo you loved someone from the bottom of your heart, but he didn’t care about it. Or maybe you just got a devastating breakup. Either situation sucks, doesn’t it? However, do you know that it isn’t end of the world? There is a high possibility that you will find someone better than that ...
Views: 1463(1 vote) - Recovery From Divorce and Personal Finance Planning - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2013 from Carol FergusonThe financial advice I would give to divorced women is: education. Find something that can educate you; whether it's creating more income, or managing money or something educational about finance. Doing something, I'm a big believer in do what you love, because when you do what you love, the ...
Views: 1463(1 vote) - Divorce: Pain and Rebirth - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileThose of us who have gone through a divorce understand all too well the pain and grief we experience. We have lost our spouse, what we thought was our life partner, a loss similar to the death of a loved one. What is worse though, is losing all the many aspects of a life lived together as a ...
Views: 1462 - DivorceForce : Survival Guide - by Submitted on Jun 13, 2017 from Dr. Anne BrownIf you have been affected by divorce or separation or are considering ending your marriage you're going to want to tune in to DivorceForce Survival Guide. In each episode, DivorceForce CEO Gregory Frank tackles various aspects of divorce through candid discussions with leading industry experts ...
Views: 1460(1 vote) - Here's what to do when you're worried about the holidays. - by Submitted on Nov 20, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltFor many of us, the holidays can feel dark, lonely, and stressful—especially if we are going through or recovering from divorce. And instead of looking forward to the beautiful decorations, smell of baking pies, and holiday songs on the radio, we instead may feel triggered by sadness. Moving ...
Views: 1460 - California Divorce Kit - What a Good One Should Include - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2011 from Ed ShermanIf you and your spouse agree that you want to get divorced as easily and cheaply as possible, a California divorce kit could be just what you need to achieve your goal. As long as the two of you are willing to cooperate, you can work together to do your own divorce without lawyers and save a ...
Views: 1459 - Children Of Divorce - by Submitted on Jun 16, 2012 from Kelly TobeyChildren of Divorce Easing their Pain - and Yours - with Openhearted Boundaries By Kelly Tobey What can we do to make divorce less devastating for children? In an ideal world, all children would be fully loved and supported by their blood parents who, in turn, would totally love and ...
Views: 1459 - I Don't Love My Husband but I Can't Leave: Why Can't I Leave My Husband - by Submitted on Jun 02, 2018 from John BraxtonI Don't Love My Husband but I Can't Leave: Why Can't I Leave My Husband You don't love your husband anymore and you want to save your marriage. If you are a woman in this situation you may feel as though you are facing a future in a loveless relationship. Many women find that their feelings ...
Views: 1459 - Child Support: Why Don’t People Pay? - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2010 from Brian JamesAs a mediator, I work with many couples who must agree upon a Child Support amount that makes sense to them and benefits their children the most. In the State of Illinois, where I practice, Child Support is based on a fixed percentage of the giver's "net" income. The more children you have, ...
Views: 1457 - 5 Principles of Happiness After Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2011 from Iris FanningMost people are a bit "shell shocked" and anxious after a divorce. Good judgement often is lacking during this time. Learn 5 simple principles to remember so that you can come out of your divorce as a happy, healthy person. Refer to these simple principles when you feel shaky about your future ...
Views: 1456(4 votes) - Couple Therapy - 5 Secrets to Protecting Yourself From Your Spouses Negativity - by Submitted on Sep 14, 2016 from Nicola Beer"Nicola, my husband is chronically complaining and forever in a bad mood. He manages to find something wrong with everything and is constantly feeling hard done by and down. I don’t know how to help him or live with him at times! I don’t want him to ruin the holidays for me and the children ...
Views: 1456 - How to forgive someone? - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2010 from Dia ThabetHow to forgive someone? Do you forgive your friends when they hurt you? Do you remember the positive or the negative from your friends? How can you forgive someone? Many people want to learn how to forgive someone whether it is a friend, a family member, or colleague, but find it hard to ...
Views: 1456(4 votes) - Divorced or Separated With Kids? Here Are 3 Tips for Helping Them Through This Holiday Season - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2015 from Michael BroderThe holiday season seems to come upon us earlier and earlier each year. Even before Thanksgiving, I started to notice all of the signs -- colorful lights strung in front of houses, a glimpse of lit trees through windows and cheerful holiday tunes on the radio. Along with the high spirits the ...
Views: 1454 - Feeling Jelous after your Divorce or Breakup? Here's what to do. - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltYou know that feeling. Some of us know it all too well during divorce and after divorce. When one of your grown children, after spending the weekend with your ex, tells you about the "new friend" that is at your ex's house. Or when you hear about the trip your ex is taking to Europe ...
Views: 1453 - How to Avoid the Mistakes Most People Make in Relationships - by Submitted on Jul 01, 2012 from Elizabeth GolembiewskiIs there a lesson for us in Tom and Katie’s (Tom Cruise, Katie Holmes) relationship failure? Why Didn't It Work? Why weren't their extravagant dates in helicopters, a marriage proposal on the Eiffel Tower, a wedding in an Italian Castle, traveling the world, having a daughter who wears ...
Views: 1453 - My Wife Is Irritated With Me All The Time: My Wife Is Constantly Irritated With Me - by Submitted on Jun 28, 2018 from Henry JosephMy Wife Is Irritated With Me All The Time: My Wife Is Constantly Irritated With Me Everyone has some small habits that are bound to drive the people closest to them a little batty. It may be the foot tapping that never ends or perhaps it's the talking loudly when all you want is peace and ...
Views: 1450 - How Not To Be A Wicked Stepparent - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2015 from Tina TessinaAre you a stepparent? Are you struggling to make the right decisions for your newly created family? If so, here are four tips to help. 1. Give your blended family a chance to bond. Don’t worry if everyone doesn’t settle in right away; bonding takes time. Hopefully, you all got to know each ...
Views: 1449(1 vote) - Husband Not Attracted To Me After Baby: How To Attract Husband After Delivery - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHusband Not Attracted To Me After Baby: How To Attract Husband After Delivery Is it unreasonable for your husband to want a sexy wife? What if you just had a baby and it seems like an impossible task to lose that baby belly? You may be thinking, "He should love me just as I am!" The stress of ...
Views: 1449 - It's time to Adapt Your Adaptations - by Submitted on Jul 21, 2012 from Karen FinnAs human beings we have a remarkable capacity to adapt to our environment. Usually, we make adaptations because they help us feel better in some way. I like to think of the natural personalities we're born with as being like an amoeba - not well defined, kinda free-form and readily changeable to ...
Views: 1449 - How to be strong - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2012 from sheron blakeI sat on the hospital bed, whilst the kind nurse was stitching up the left eye well the eyebrow where the blow had made contact and then that was when 10 years of hate had come to the surface...."I want to report an offence", the young nurse looked down at me and nodded and left me there I knew ...
Views: 1448 - Internet Complaints Against Mental Health Professionals - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2013 from Gary DirenfeldWorking with parents whose marriages are on the cusp of failure or already separated parents fighting it out over the care of their children is a challenging proposition for the mental health professional. Whether acting in the role of couple therapist, mediator, assessor, arbitrator or ...
Views: 1448 - 4 Words That Changed My Life - "I Want A Divorce" - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2008 from Scott Thayer-4 Words That Changed My Life…”I Want A Divorce”- By: Scott Thayer The scoreboard reads the following… bottom of the 9th, bases loaded, 2 outs, 3 balls and two strikes. You are up to bat and the weight of the entire season is on your shoulders. You strike out, the season ...
Views: 1446 - Finding Joy During Your Divorce is Easier than you Think! - by Submitted on May 21, 2018 from Martha BodyfeltWhen we are experiencing loss and sadness in our life, everyday can feel like a struggle. Whether it is recovering from loss of a loved one, divorce, a lay-off, or anything else, we forget to take care of ourselves and find joy at the time when we need it most. Learning how to reinvent ...
Views: 1444 - Get Your Man Back Following These Simple Step By Step Advices - by Submitted on Oct 23, 2012 from Devango BobsIts likely that you have arrived at this article at this time simply because you need to find out ways to get your man back. Clearly you have arrived at the right spot. The truth is that this information is somewhat lengthy but when you simply commit your 10 mins of your time to read through.... ...
Views: 1444(1 vote) - My Husband Never Does Anything Romantic: My Husband Is Not Thoughtful - by Submitted on Aug 22, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Never Does Anything Romantic: My Husband Is Not Thoughtful Most often in a relationship, especially marriage, in order to get what you want you've got to give something too. You'll find that if you make the choice to remain calm, refusing to be drawn into bickering or any type of ...
Views: 1444 - Sick of being bitter after divorce? Help is here! - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltWhen we are experiencing or recovering from divorce after 50, remembering to find joy in everyday things can be difficult. One of the reasons that, despite our best efforts, we can find it almost impossible to move on is when we are prisoner to one of the ugliest feelings of all. Being bitter ...
Views: 1444 - Divorce Survival: Seven Surefire Ways To Ensure that Your Friends Get Caller I.D. And Block Your Calls! - by Submitted on Oct 27, 2007 from linda lipshutzDivorce Survival: Seven Surefire Ways to Ensure that Your Friends Get Caller I.D. and Block Your Calls Now, let's be clear about one thing. If you are going through a divorce, I absolutely understand that this is a very trying time in your life. You deserve to have a huge amount of sympathy ...
Views: 1443 - Going Through A Divorce? How To Stop Negative Thinking In It's Tracks - by Submitted on Oct 20, 2014 from Savannah CoulsenOften you lose two things in a divorce: your marriage and what feels like a piece of your identity. Marriage has a funny way of making two people seem inextricable, two sides of the same coin to use a cliché. But then somewhere in the marriage, its sanctity fell apart and you’re left wondering ...
Views: 1443 - Parental Peace – The Real Christmas Gift for Kids - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2013 from Gary DirenfeldEven though parents argue as to the best residential schedule, choice of school, faith, holiday time, Christmas and extra-curricular activities, these issues are simply not as predictive for the outcome of children of separated parents as conflict alone. More to the point, the greater the ...
Views: 1443 - Post-Divorce Alimony in Texas - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2005 from Scott MorganTwo Kinds of Alimony: Contractual and Court Ordered maintenance There are two kinds of post-divorce alimony in Texas: contractual alimony and court ordered maintenance. The Texas Family Code also provides authority for the court to order temporary alimony which occurs while a divorce is ...
Views: 1443 - Counseling Careers - by Submitted on Apr 27, 2012 from Rosemary PriceCounseling careers - It is good to help others and it is even better if you can help them to transform their lives. To take a person who is going through an emotional torment or who is undergoing an emotional improvement in their goals or their personality. To take someone who is anxious ...
Views: 1442 - Tried of the divorce insanity? Here's how to escape it! - by Submitted on Jul 17, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltAt this point in your divorce journey, you may have already done some research. You may have already talked to a lawyer. You may have already gone on some support forums to see if others have experienced the same crap that you are feeling right now. Some of what others on the forums, or what ...
Views: 1441 - "Divorce Reasons; What Constitutes A Viable Reason For Thinking About Or Wanting A Divorce?" - by Submitted on May 01, 2004 from Karl AugustineAccording to the Center for Disease Control's National Vital Statistics Report of 2002, 50% of first marriages ended in divorce and 60% of remarriages end in divorce. But, the Center for Disease Control also found that 96% of Americans express a personal desire for marriage, and almost ...
Views: 1440 - Breakup Survival - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Deb KluggerSurely divorce or the breakup of a long term relationship is one of the most difficult emotional experiences we have. Recently, I was working with Carrie Ann who had just painfully decided to end her 5 year relationship to Peter. She loved Peter very much. However, she had reached the ...
Views: 1440(3 votes) - Out of the fire and into the frying pan. 5 points to think about before you marry and divorce - by Submitted on Apr 05, 2012 from Susan (Teacher Su) McKenzieSET FORMULA FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE I don’t have a guaranteed formula for a successful marriage but I do have some ideas on how to make a successful life which includes being reasonably happily married. These are principles and ideas taught to me by my mother who has never divorced. She has ...
Views: 1439 - Believe It Or Not You Can Learn 5 Valuable Lessons From Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 05, 2013 from Carol FergusonDivorce teaches a person many things. Some people take themselves to a place that makes them bitter. People lose a lot in divorces and that’s not just personal materials. A person will lose a piece of himself or herself through the process of divorce. You should know that when you go through a ...
Views: 1438 - How to Reinvent Yourself After Heartbreak - by Submitted on Aug 01, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltToday, are going to take those lessons and learn how to apply that divorce gift so you can continue to move on with your life. Don’t think of yourself as just a “divorcee.” You are so much more than that. For years, you probably defined yourself as spouse, partner, and caregiver. Those ...
Views: 1438 - Can You Still Win Your Ex Back? - Signs That Your Ex Is Still Interested In You! - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeThe pain of coping with a broken up can at times feel intolerable. Ending a relationship with a person you adore can at times lead to hurt and depression. If you still have strong feelings for them and are desperate to win your ex back forever, there is still hope! Knowing the signs that your ...
Views: 1437 - Lessons After a Marriage and a Divorce - by Submitted on Feb 19, 2011 from Justin HansenHe wore braces and his hair parted in the middle with heavy gel, I was 2 years older than him and thought he was a brat… but we ended up being high school sweethearts, got married and had two wonderful children. Around the seven year itch the ‘non fights’ began, what do I mean by this? He would ...
Views: 1437(2 votes) - The Rocky Road to Recovering from Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 21, 2009 from Annie O'NeillDivorce is one of the most traumatic things that can happen to you. Coping with the loss of a partner is incredibly hard and quite often friends and family won’t understand what you’re going through. Whether you’re the ‘dumper’ or the ‘dumpee’ (I apologise for the horrible terms but they ...
Views: 1437(1 vote) - Advantages to Doing Your Own Divorce - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Ed ShermanThere are many advantages to doing your own divorce. Three significant ones are: you'll get a better divorce, you'll save a lot of money, and you'll be able to keep things simple. Getting a good divorce Studies show that active participation in your divorce is the single most important factor ...
Views: 1436 - Getting Back Together With Your Ex - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2010 from Sean FoleyYou have had a fight and quarreled with your ex over something and now you have had a break up..! Was it worth it? You and your partner love each other mad but these quarrels have been getting out of hand and finally the moment came when you called quits. It is only wise that you work on getting ...
Views: 1436(1 vote) - Making Room - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2011 from Meghan GehanYou have to be willing to let go of the life you’ve planned in order to have the life you were meant to have. ~ Joseph Campbell This week, while my boys are with their dad on a fancy Caribbean cruise, I will be home, cleaning my house from top to bottom, inside and out, in that yearly ...
Views: 1436(2 votes) - For The Weak At Heart, How To See Things You Do Not See About You And Others - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2010 from Dr Char Richards, DD,Msd,CHT,NLP,CLC,DEFor The Weak At Heart The Best Things Are The One Given To Times Of People Seeing What Is Really Important To Them, Such As Our Children, Our Lovers, Family, Friends And Other Loved Ones Because Some People Get Stuck In Spots Where They Think Only One Thing Matters Or They Are Hurt Or ...
Views: 1435(1 vote) - Life Struggles to Life Dream; it's all about Hard Work - by Submitted on Jan 08, 2012 from Carmen DjemalianIt has been seven years since my life changed. Back then I had no clue what that meant. I was in shock. Seven years ago, as my numbness subsided, I could only foresee struggles ahead. I always viewed my life as a collection of situations pushing me to struggle for any chance of achievement. ...
Views: 1435(1 vote) - Advice For Newly Married Couple: Marriage Words Of Wisdom For Newlyweds - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2018 from Colten ReeseAdvice For Newly Married Couple: Marriage Words Of Wisdom For Newlyweds Marriage is not a game. Once you are in it there is no way of quitting. As a married person you should know your duties and responsibilities. Here are some marriage tips for newlyweds. First; for the wife, you should ...
Views: 1433 - Are Guys More happy After They Divorce? - by Submitted on Feb 16, 2011 from Larry MiltonI was speaking with a acquaintance of mine the other day who was a eager ‘watcher of people' as he names it and he asked me “are guys more content after Separation? He was puzzled as I seemed content and well adjusted (currently), while he knew an extra guy who was totally down and lost his job ...
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