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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- Book Defends Divorce Challenges Tradition - by Submitted on Jan 22, 2013 from Ennis PepperBook Title: In Defense of Divorce: Why A Marriage Should Never Be Saved At The Expense Of A Life, by Ennis Pepper Published through: Amazon Kindle New book defends divorce from traditional religious ideas, extenuating the guilt and reserving emotional energy for solving practical issues ...
Views: 1593 - Relationships: Can How A Relationship Ends Define Whether It Can Be Rekindled? - by Submitted on Oct 18, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperWhile a relationship can last a lifetime, there is also chance it will only last for short amount of time. It could also be said that there is a greater chance of one staying friends with someone for a lifetime than there is of them being in an intimate relationship with someone for the same ...
Views: 1593 - SO YOU WANT TO DIVORCE. SURE, WHY NOT? JOIN THE CLUB! - by Submitted on Dec 06, 2017 from Harry KarmeliSo You Want to Divorce. Sure, Why Not? Join The Club! We know there is something big happening in our society, the very old and traditional bond agreement we call Marriage, is losing bedrock foothold it long held with stability. At my children's elementary school class, close to sixty percent ...
Views: 1593(1 vote) - Common Legal Services - by Submitted on May 02, 2013 from Smith BarlayLawyers are able to provide a number of legal services which will enable you to smoothly and efficiently resolve disputes. They will also be able to provide guidance regarding a number of legal matters. This article takes a look at some of the most common types of legal services that are ...
Views: 1592 - Emotional Manipulation In Marriage: How To Deal With An Emotional Manipulator - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2018 from Jennifer SageEmotional Manipulation In Marriage: How To Deal With An Emotional Manipulator Are you looking for Christian relationship help? Then here is a seven step plan for detaching from manipulative people. People do all kinds of things to pressure us to do what they want us to do. It is up to us ...
Views: 1592 - Wife Says She Has Never Loved Me: Wife Said I Never Loved You - by Submitted on May 26, 2018 from John BraxtonWife Says She Has Never Loved Me: Wife Said I Never Loved You Knowing that your wife does not love you anymore is a horrible experience. Your heart sinks and you think it's the end of the world. You just need to know why she feels like this. Maybe it's you? Maybe they've found somebody else. ...
Views: 1592 - Divorce Support: A Curse or a Blessing? (by: Dr. Anne Brown, PhD, RN) - by Submitted on May 02, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownIt really is up to you every day whether you see divorce support as a curse or a blessing! Whether you are the giver or the receiver, I recommend you reframe it as a blessing. Is this easy? Of course not! However, if you actually go through the trauma of getting divorced and you stay married ...
Views: 1591(1 vote) - How Important Is It To Compliment Your Wife: How To Help Wife With Body Image Issues - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHow Important Is It To Compliment Your Wife: How To Help Wife With Body Image Issues In marriage, it takes two to make it work. One just doesn't have to rely on the other all the time. There has to be effort on both sides to nurture the marital bond and keep it strong moving forward. While ...
Views: 1590 - Marriage Problems Due To Stepchildren: Step Children Ruining My Marriage - by Submitted on Dec 19, 2018 from Colten ReeseMarriage Problems Due To Stepchildren: Step Children Ruining My Marriage Having a marriage with children from a previous marriage can be an added stress to the marriage. Having a marriage with an extended family can also include nieces and nephews, or any child that is not biologically ...
Views: 1590 - My Husband Drinks Everyday: How Do I Get My Husband To Stop Drinking - by Submitted on Jan 10, 2019 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Drinks Everyday: How Do I Get My Husband To Stop Drinking As a psychiatrist that specializes in treating addiction, I witness people married to an alcoholic elicit promises from their partner to stop drinking alcohol. People will nag, plead, and beg their alcoholic husband or ...
Views: 1590 - 5 Ways to Avoid Court at all Costs! (by: Anne Brown PhD, RN) - by Submitted on May 12, 2016 from Dr. Anne BrownDivorce can be ugly. Courts can make it uglier. I think we are all in agreement "settle out of court". How can a couple do that when they are fighting to the extent they are filing for divorce? You are probably going to get tired of hearing me say first always "Fight for your Marriage." 1. ...
Views: 1589(1 vote) - Holiday Stress Tips: Being alone over the holidays - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2010 from Elizabeth Lombardo, PhDHoliday stress relief for those alone over the holidays: If you are single, divorced, widowed, or recently separated, it's not uncommon to feel unhappy or even depressed during the holiday season. With all the images of couples and families smiling at each other, it is easy to feel like you are ...
Views: 1588 - How to Fight Dumping and Divorce in Today's World - by Submitted on Jul 10, 2011 from Kimberly MitchellWith the statistics of divorce being so high, the idea of 'staying together' can be almost impossible to imagine. For those who are in a relationship or already married, the fight is not over yet. First, you decide. You decide that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life ...
Views: 1588 - The Journey Through Divorce/break-ups/relationships - by Submitted on Oct 04, 2011 from Marion LicchielloEach time something in our life ends it creates room for a new experience. Within each new experience is a stepping stone;some are little tiny pebbles and others are big boulders. Some are fun and some are exhausting. But with each passing day we learn why we are here, what our mission is ...
Views: 1588 - Dr. Romance: Spouse's Child - by Submitted on Oct 06, 2013 from Tina TessinaInfidelity: 3 Tips on Finances after your Spouse's Girlfriend Has a Child It’s not the first thing everyone thinks of, but the existence of an out-of-wedlock child will have a big economic impact, and the financial responsibility will grow with the child. 1. Unless you can settle with ...
Views: 1587(1 vote) - How to Handle your Emotions During Divorce - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileDivorce brings out the lunatic within us. Rage, anger, depression, sadness, resentment and blame are just some of negative emotions running the show. Your emotional state is hard to pin down from one moment to the next. This is not the best state of mind to be in when you are being called ...
Views: 1587 - Wife Shows No Affection After Baby: Unhappy Marriage After Baby - Sexless Marriage After Childbirth - by Submitted on Nov 15, 2018 from Colten ReeseWife Shows No Affection After Baby: Unhappy Marriage After Baby - Sexless Marriage After Childbirth Millions of couples a year suffer through a lack of intimacy. Not all of them make it. The ones that do make it do it through hard work and possibly uncomfortable conversations. It helps first ...
Views: 1587 - “Who Am I And Where Did I Go?” - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2007 from Patti HandyI remember it vividly. It was shortly after my divorce was final and the highly emotional state had calmed a bit. Although it did not happen suddenly, the realization hit me like a slap in the face. I didn’t know who I was. The I that I was looking for had been pushed aside for years, by me. ...
Views: 1587(1 vote) - A Man’s Guide To The First Night of Marriage - by Submitted on Feb 07, 2017 from Randy SkiltonThe build up to ‘The Big Day’ is generally dominated by the female of the species and her chosen band of merry women – bridesmaids, mother, mother-in-law to be, sisters, aunts – basically any woman with a relationship or blood connection to the bride. Don’t be fooled. Weddings, their ...
Views: 1586(1 vote) - How To Get Online Marriage Counseling for free? - by Submitted on Dec 13, 2012 from Olivia PeterWhen cash is tight, several couples who are experiencing marital issues might desperately seek different ways to induce “skilled” help, like online marriage counseling. Free of charge is very appealing, but there are a number of things that should be taken into consideration before looking ...
Views: 1586(1 vote) - Starting The California Divorce-Determining Residence - by Submitted on Apr 07, 2008 from Robert BuschIn order to file for Dissolution of Marriage, Legal Separation or Nullity of Marriage you or your spouse need to be a resident of the county you are filing in. Being a resident generally means you are living in that county and intend to live in that county for the foreseeable future. There is ...
Views: 1586 - Dating After Divorce - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2020 from Randi FredricksMost of us found dating difficult prior to getting married, and it isn’t generally any simpler after divorce. Everybody has baggage, but divorced people frequently have a tendency to carry much more of it, particularly when they’re just coming back towards the dating scene. This is one of the ...
Views: 1584(3 votes) - Writing Effective Emails during Divorce - The BIFF Method - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2015 from Diana MercerDuring the period of a peaceful divorce and emotional confusion, we sometimes say and write things to our partners that are offensive and inappropriate. Instead of clearly communicating our thoughts and calming down the situation, we respond with critical, judgmental words that inflame passions ...
Views: 1584 - Instant Gratification BUT what IS best for me? PART II - by Submitted on May 14, 2013 from Adele TheronAs human beings we can tend to become fascinated by ourselves and our stories and can allow ourselves to become too self-indulgent and it can be destructive. As long as we recognise the vision of where we want and need to be and what it takes to get there, the time that you determine it to take ...
Views: 1582 - My Husband Picks On Everything I Do: How Often Does A Healthy Couple Fight - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2018 from Jennifer SageMy Husband Picks On Everything I Do: How Often Does A Healthy Couple Fight There is really no way around them. Disagreements are a normal part of the human condition. You can learn how to save your marriage from the unnecessary rifts that many of us experience if you set your mind on conflict ...
Views: 1582 - Dr. Romance on: 11 things people won't tell you about divorce - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2014 from Tina TessinaThere's a lot of misinformation about divorce, and Dr. Romance would like to clear up some of the confusion. Here are 11 things people will not tell you about divorce. 1. Divorce will not make you happier, unless you’re leaving an abusive relationship.2. Divorce sometimes seems ...
Views: 1581(3 votes) - How Your Children’s Divorce Affects You - by Submitted on Aug 05, 2009 from rita morganIt started out to be a nice visit from my son. We spent a great deal of time talking about our jobs and how our family members were coping with every day trials and tribulations. When we moved on to his family, he dropped the bombshell. I felt as though I had been kicked in the stomach when the ...
Views: 1580(1 vote) - My Husband Controls Everything: My Husband Controls Everything I Do - My Husband Controls My Life - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2018 from Colten ReeseMy Husband Controls Everything: My Husband Controls Everything I Do - My Husband Controls My Life She could not look people in the eye as they greeted her. Head down, shoulders slumped; she headed to the nearest open seat and quietly slid into it. Her husband was a study in contrast. ...
Views: 1579 - Does Marriage Restoration Work - Restoring Marriage, Does It Work? - by Submitted on Mar 11, 2011 from Johnny WayneDo you believe that a broken marriage can still be mended? Restoring a marriage is possible if you know the “hows” of doing it. Love needs to be protected, secured and preserved. You have to give in to its “necessities” in order for it to develop to its fullest. Nobody can eradicate a ...
Views: 1575 - An Angel in Disguise - by Submitted on Mar 04, 2011 from Tim ReynoldsHave you ever had something happen to you that was so bad it made you feel worn down? For me, that event was my first marriage. It was a nightmare. To be honest, I married a guy I should never have married. Even on our wedding day, I felt it wasn’t right. But I walked down the aisle ...
Views: 1573(3 votes) - This is why you can’t shake being pissed off all the time. But here’s what you can do about it. - by Submitted on Jul 22, 2019 from Martha BodyfeltHey, so does this ever happen to you? It may have been months since your divorce ended, and you thought you were doing okay. You were picking yourself up financially, making your home your own, and trying some new activities and were feeling pretty good about yourself. But then it ...
Views: 1573 - You Can Only Be Replaced If You Let It Happen! - by Submitted on Mar 01, 2021 from Dr Rick GoodmanIt was 1994 when the papers were delivered to my apartment; I had just joined the ranks of 50% of the population when my wife filed for divorce. As a single father my biggest fear was that someone would come in to my ex-wife's life and that person would eventually replace me as the figurehead ...
Views: 1573 - Should I leave my partner? - by Submitted on May 28, 2010 from Dia ThabetShould I leave my partner? A few days ago, while surfing one of the forums, I came across a question by a woman asking, “Should I leave my boyfriend?” She says that he is “cold” toward her and doesn’t show any feelings toward her. She went on saying that he cares mainly about his work among ...
Views: 1571(2 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm having problems with my Daughter-In-Law - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm having problems with my daughter in law . I I love her. She and my son had a relationship for more than fifteen years and were married for six. They have two preschool age children. I always thought My daughter-in-law and I got along, but now we can only ...
Views: 1570 - How To Stop Your Divorce - The Steps to Save Your Marriage - by Submitted on Nov 14, 2011 from John VickiThe absurd, yet indisputable feeling of letting your wife slip away has just happened and you are hopeless at this point. Your marriage is coming to an end. You plead and beg with promises to change. She is not willing to change her mind, no feeling, unlike all the other times before. There has ...
Views: 1570 - 3 Steps To Handling Divorce Threats or “I’m Not “In Love” With You” - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2017 from Nicola BeerMost people are aware now of the 40-50% average divorce rate in the west and expat communities. Knowing this doesn’t make that any easier if you are living in an unhappy marriage where divorce threats have been made. The good news is an unhappy relationship doesn’t mean it’s over. That’s ...
Views: 1569 - 4 SIGNS THAT A MARRIAGE WOULD END IN A DIVORCE - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2017 from Pritom DasAfter going through several divorces, it becomes easy for the divorce lawyers to figure out a shaky relationship from the one which would last a lifetime. Having seen several couples fight out till the end or give up the fight in favor of their love, they know the ground rules of how to make a ...
Views: 1569 - Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Especially For Men - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2007 from Pauline WallinBREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO -- ESPECIALLY FOR MEN By Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. Divorce is harder on men than on women. Surprised? After all, it's the woman who suffers financially . . .who has to juggle work and kids on her own . . . who is more apt to end up in a therapist's office. Meanwhile, ...
Views: 1569 - Waking Up By Yourself - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2009 from E. (anagarika eddie) Raymond RockWe know when it's not working; it's like a slap in the face. We thought that it was working but then something happens to remind us that nothing has fundamentally changed at all, and we find ourselves back at square one after all these years. We were smug for awhile, even bragging to friends ...
Views: 1569(1 vote) - Child Custody And Visitation Issues Affect More Than Just Divorces - by Submitted on Apr 20, 2012 from James GarrettIn today’s culture, child custody and visitation factors happen in cases other than divorces. Custody and visitation legal rights need to be set for couples seeking divorce, grandparents, step-parents, former partners, and parties of extramarital affairs and one-night stands. In each of these ...
Views: 1568(1 vote) - Coping With Breakup - 5 Essential Steps In Coping With Break Up - by Submitted on Dec 22, 2010 from Johnny WayneIt is difficult in coping with break up. However, when you cope with break up, it is very important to think that you really can move on despite the hurt and you can really let go of that love. Even if time will only tell that you are healed, patiently wait as time will also heal all the ...
Views: 1568 - Recently Divorced Finances - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Cindy MorusApril 8, 2008 This is part of our Financial Literacy Month Question and Answer series Question: What advice can you give recently divorced women on how to manage their finances now that they are facing life as a single mom on a limited income? What should be their first priority? Lisa A. ...
Views: 1567 - Instant Gratification vs. a Long term Strategy… what’s best? PART I - by Submitted on Apr 25, 2013 from Adele TheronInstant rewards and instant healing has a much nicer ring to it, then the words combined; LONG – TERM. However if waiting that particular extended time will further HELP in the long run it stirs the question if waiting is more worthwhile. But how do you determine what works best for you? When ...
Views: 1565(2 votes) - College Planning – What Needs To Be Done During A Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 29, 2010 from Brian JamesMost couples with children have no structured college savings plans set up. This is even more so after divorce proceedings commence. There are so many complex issues to discuss that college planning for the children takes a back seat to everything else. Things such as, “We’ll work it out when ...
Views: 1564 - Dear Dr. Romance: I'm a single father of a 6 year old daughter - by Submitted on Oct 13, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I hope you don't mind me writing you but I came across an article that you said: "The best interest of the child also could preclude a mom from gaining custody," says Dr. Tessina. "If a judge doesn't deem that the mother meets the ...
Views: 1564 - Wife Refuses Marriage Counseling: My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me and Won't Go to Counseling - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2021 from Bentley MilesWife Refuses Marriage Counseling: My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me and Won't Go to Counseling When a guy tells me "My wife says she doesn't love me and won't go to counseling", my first response is to tell him not to worry! The truth is that marriage counseling has an extremely low success ...
Views: 1564 - Get An Ex Back - Common Mistakes to Avoid When You Get An Ex Back - by Submitted on Mar 23, 2011 from Kevin TeoWhen you want to get an ex back after you’ve broken up, be careful to avoid the following four mistakes that can make your ex detest you more and avoid you in the process. Don’t worry, avoiding these mistake will be easy once you know what they are. Mistake 1 - Begging Your Ex Begging ...
Views: 1562(1 vote) - How To Confront A Suspected Cheating Husband / Wife: How To Confront A Cheating Spouse - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyHow To Confront A Suspected Cheating Husband / Wife: How To Confront A Cheating Spouse The manner in which you confront your spouse can make or break the relationship. If you confront your partner at the heat of the moment, you might say something you will regret later on. In order to ...
Views: 1562 - The Pain of Love - by Submitted on May 05, 2007 from Wayne MisnerThe Pain of Love A poet’s love poem takes us to the heavens, with memories of sharing beauty and joy. With the skill of an artist the poet paints, a word picture of hearts that embrace, dreams of futures that will never end. Those lonely years, finally the one that makes my soul sing. But at ...
Views: 1562 - How To Stay Positive When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart: Positive Expectations Can Help Save Your Marriage From Divorce - by Submitted on Aug 28, 2018 from Jennifer SageHow To Stay Positive When Your Marriage Is Falling Apart: Positive Expectations Can Help Save Your Marriage From Divorce What if your marriage was everything you wanted it to be? Have you considered what it might look like? You can not only save your marriage but rebuild a relationship that ...
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