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The Most Common form of Abuse Experienced by Christian Women in MarriageIs Divorce Harder for Christians than for Everyone Else?What God and the Bible Really Say About Divorce- The Do's and Don'ts of Divorce - by Submitted on Sep 29, 2011 from Darlene LancerMany divorces go along smoothly, but when problems occur, they usually reflect the dynamics that didn’t work in the marriage – only made worse, because divorce is one of the biggest crises you may go through. Emotions, especially fear and anger, are at their peak.There are definite pitfalls to ...
Views: 1635(3 votes) - Can't Stand Sight of My Husband: I Can't Stand Living With My Husband - by Submitted on Jan 12, 2021 from Weston BrantleyCan't Stand Sight of My Husband: I Can't Stand Living With My Husband If I had to give one advice on marriage, it would be good communication. There are a lot of married couples now who only get to have a meaningful conversation a few times in a month. Some have all the time to communicate ...
Views: 1632 - Is your anger keep you stuck? Here's what to know. - by Submitted on Jan 24, 2018 from Martha BodyfeltAs you recover from your divorce and move on, there is one all-too-common emotion that causes us way more headaches than you need. Anger. Being ticked off. The persistent rage that will not leave you but could jeopardize your future relationships. To start off with, there is something ...
Views: 1632 - My Husband Wants A Divorce But I Don't: What To Do When Your Husband Says He Wants A Divorce - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaMy Husband Wants A Divorce But I Don't: What To Do When Your Husband Says He Wants A Divorce Trying to learn how to save your marriage alone can definitely feel burdensome. Its tough when you feel that you're the only one who finds the marriage precious enough to save. When no amount of ...
Views: 1632 - Power Struggles Are For the Birds! - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2009 from Azriel WinnettIf you leave a wet towel on the bathroom floor, it could be somewhat irritating to the next person who uses the bathroom after you, but would anyone start a major fight over it? Most definitely, according to research funded by the US government's health research arm and conducted in the ...
Views: 1632 - Stress and Conflict - by Submitted on Jan 04, 2010 from David SamuelStress and Conflict Every machine has natural limitations, its individual capacity. When it is stretched beyond its capacity, it will be stressed. No machine exists that is a singularly whole unit, all machines are merely a sum of parts. And so we can more accurately say that the machine ...
Views: 1631(2 votes) - The Wordallogic, "Hell No I Don't Want Them Back, But I Lost Myself When We Broke Up!" - by Submitted on Apr 14, 2013 from Aleasa WordHell No I Don’t Want them Back, but I Lost Myself When We Broke Up! by Aleasa M. Word *****ANY REPRINTS OR USAGE OF THIS ARTICLE MUST NOTE THE AUTHOR****** I remember going through a break up and talking about my situation over and over to my intimate circle of people (sorry I wore your ...
Views: 1629 - Cope With Divorce By Hiring A Virginia Beach Divorce Law Firm - by Submitted on Apr 17, 2012 from James GarrettIf the end of your marriage is imminent and you are planning on filing for divorce, you might have some important choices to make. Divorce is a daunting, lonely and misunderstood process for many people, particularly when there are kids involved. Your choices have legal, social and emotional ...
Views: 1628(1 vote) - The Bitterness of Betrayal - by Submitted on Apr 28, 2011 from Natasha N. MackeyBetrayal rolls off your tongue like an exquisite dish but it’s more like a razor sharp sword that slices so deep to the core of your being. Its blade is so sharp that you’ve been wounded to the core and don’t even realize it ‘til the blood starts gushing out in waves of agony. Every time your ...
Views: 1628 - Dear Dr. Romance: I am allowing my narcissistic ex to run circles around me - by Submitted on Aug 02, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance I am mindful that I am allowing my soon to be controlling, narcissist ex ( civil law attorney) to run circles around me, just as we did when we were married. After attending a divorce group session at my local church, they recommend that I set up some specific boundaries ...
Views: 1627 - Caution: The Starbucks Police Is Listening - by Submitted on Aug 25, 2013 from Valery SatterwhiteIf you follow me on Facebook or Twitter you might have seen my post: "Note to woman blabbing in the corner of Starbucks: The expiration date on blaming you parents for your misfortune is long past." If you know me at all, you know I'm an observer of the human spirit and the human ...
Views: 1626(1 vote) - My Husband Won't Stop Seeing The Other Woman: My Husband Prefers Sex With Other Woman - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyMy Husband Won't Stop Seeing The Other Woman: My Husband Prefers Sex With Other Woman Do you want to get your husband back but you worry that you stand little chance of winning him back because he appears to have already moved on? Is your husband already seeing another woman and you think ...
Views: 1625 - Dealing with the Aftermath of Divorce - by Submitted on Aug 03, 2017 from Eileen O'ShanassySo, you have spent the past months, maybe even years going through a divorce. It has been a long, uphill battle, but you are finally at the top of the mountain. You are probably feeling an overwhelming mixture of emotions. You may be relieved, drained, excited, or unsure. But like with many ...
Views: 1624 - How to Save a Failing Relationship - by Submitted on Apr 19, 2011 from Phil CosmoRelationships start wonderfully. You meet "Mr. Right" or "Miss Right" and you go out for a few dates, perhaps to the movies. Then one day you say to yourself "I finally met the man of my dreams!" Months later someone, usually the man, pops the question - then it's on to the alter and off to ...
Views: 1624(1 vote) - Signs Your Relationship Is Going To Fail! - by Submitted on Dec 23, 2014 from Dr. D. Ivan YoungSigns Your Relationship Is Going To Fail! The fact you’re reading this article right now is no coincidence. Your subconscious, Your Spirit, is trying to protect you from a future disaster. Before you say I do, before you move in, before you introduce this future mistake to your friends and ...
Views: 1623 - Dear Dr. Romance: Every time I think about him it just hurts - by Submitted on Nov 25, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I'm hoping you can offer some advice. I recently fell in love with a guy going through a divorce. We weren't together for ages but I feel like it was. He was separated About 10 months when we started dating and he had confessed to having a crush on me for a really ...
Views: 1622(1 vote) - Transitions: Staying Present - by Submitted on Oct 03, 2012 from Teri GoetzTransitions tend to be a time when we are very emotional. Part of the problem, then, is that we're not staying present if we're stuck in our emotional roller coaster. I hesitate to use the phrase "staying present" because it is so overused and people tend to glaze over when they hear that. But, ...
Views: 1622 - Dr. Romance: 5 Common Mistakes in Relationships - 5 Common Mistakes when Asking your Spouse for What You Want - by Submitted on Jun 29, 2013 from Tina TessinaThere are some common mistakes couples make when asking for what they want in a relationship. Here are some things that may be keeping you from achieving success with your spouse. They are the most common mistakes you can make when trying to ask for what you want when you're struggling to make ...
Views: 1621(3 votes) - I Want To Divorce My Husband But I Still Love Him: Divorcing Husband But Still Love Him - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2021 from Carmen JimenaI Want To Divorce My Husband But I Still Love Him: Divorcing Husband But Still Love Him In our culture today we seem to embrace instant gratification and the disposable nature of Hollywood relationships. It's no wonder that our rate of divorce for first marriages exceeds a 51% failure rate. ...
Views: 1620 - Talking to your Children about Divorce - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2011 from Victoria BallardWhen relationships break down it can be a stressful time for all - the future is uncertain, routines change, relationships are strained and homelife is unsettled. Living in this environment can be very fraught, especially when there is the added concern of children. A parents initial ...
Views: 1620 - Divorce as a Divide | Mediators vs. Lawyers - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2010 from Drew GerberWe all know divorce can be extremely time--consuming, very expensive, and mentally and physically exhausting. But divorce can also be an amazing source of motivation an initiator for growth and a transition to a place of greater awareness. And sometimes this transition has to be expedited with ...
Views: 1619(3 votes) - ***Last Kiss: Tips for Divorce and Split Ups with Business Partners - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishLast Kiss: Tips for Divorce and Split Ups with Business Partners Dr. LeslieBeth Wish, Ed.D. When “Janelle Booker” divorced her husband Raymond of fifteen years, it made the front page of the society section of newspapers. Janelle and her husband were the socially prominent and successful ...
Views: 1618 - Relationship Realizations: 3 Signs Your Marriage Isn’t Working - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2017 from Hannah WhittenlyMany marriages fail and unfortunately end in divorce. You may be thinking about seeking legal assistance to end your marriage, but you may not be certain if your relationship has reached that critical stage yet. These are some signs that your marriage simply is no longer healthy or ...
Views: 1617 - Straight From the Headlines - by Submitted on Jul 25, 2012 from Karen FinnIn just 11 days Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise reached a divorce settlement. For most of us, the thought of reaching an agreement with our former spouse in just 11 days seems like a fantasy. How were they able to do it so quickly? From what I can tell there are two major factors that allowed the ...
Views: 1617 - Children Adjusting When They're Home From The Ex's Place - by Submitted on Nov 04, 2010 from Jill DarceyDo you find it takes time for your children to settle in when they come back from your Ex's place? If you're like me, sometimes I wonder what goes on there that means they have to change so much. I mean, they've only been away a weekend and yet it feels like I get completely different children ...
Views: 1616(4 votes) - Is rejection actually a gift? Yes! - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltNone of us are immune to rejection. It doesn’t matter where you are in life, and whether it’s ending a marriage or breaking up with a partner. Even the strongest of us can’t help but feel like we did something wrong when the person we loved and cared about and spent our lives with as a ...
Views: 1614(1 vote) - Did I Marry the Wrong Person? Marriage Problems & Marriage Advice - by Submitted on Nov 10, 2016 from Nicola BeerWhen people get to the stage of seeking help for the dissatisfaction or conflict in their marriage, they often wonder “Did I marry the wrong person?” or “Did I marry right or well?” These are common thoughts many share with me that they struggle with. So, how do you know if you have? Is there ...
Views: 1613(1 vote) - Staying in Love: Do's and Don'ts - by Submitted on Jul 24, 2014 from Dr. Elsbeth Meuth, EdD & Freddy Zental WeaverSustaining intimacy and fulfillment in a romantic relationship can be challenging. Often couples find themselves lacking true connection with each other as the daily routine of their lives take over. Intimacy is a creation that has to be cultivated and tended to. When we take time to ...
Views: 1613(1 vote) - I Slapped My Husband And He Hit Me Back: He Hit Me For The First Time - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyI Slapped My Husband And He Hit Me Back: He Hit Me For The First Time If you do not show respect to your spouse, then better expect for argument. If you want to veer away from an unhappy marriage and you want to save your marriage alone, you can do so by giving proper respect to your better ...
Views: 1611 - Dr. Romance: Finding your Next Spouse - by Submitted on Sep 01, 2013 from Tina TessinaYou're divorced and ready to look for a new love. Here are three tips to help you as you search for a new partner in life. 1. Know the difference between fooling around and building a real relationship. You can mess around with anyone (if you’re careful and have safe sex) but before you ...
Views: 1609(2 votes) - Ending a Relationship After Infidelity - by Submitted on Sep 26, 2011 from nancy traversInfidelity is an unfortunate occurrence that strikes too many modern relationships. Cheating in any relationship can be devastating for both partners; both the person committing the infidelity and the person betrayed can be strongly affected by the after-effects of breaking the relationship’s ...
Views: 1608 - Husband Is Cold Unaffectionate: How To Make Him Fall In Love Again After He's Become Distant - by Submitted on Oct 02, 2020 from Kelly LaceyHusband Is Cold Unaffectionate: How To Make Him Fall In Love Again After He's Become Distant Marriage problems can seem insurmountable when looked at from the wrong perspective. I realize you may have some serious marriage issues and I don't mean to insult you by asking you to look at your ...
Views: 1608 - How Not To Be A Wicked Stepparent - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2013 from Tina Tessina4 Real Ways To Make It Work Are you a stepparent? Are you struggling to make the right decisions for your newly created family? If so, here are four tips to help. 1. Give your blended family a chance to bond. Don’t worry if everyone doesn’t settle in right away; bonding takes time. ...
Views: 1607(1 vote) - Kids of Separated Parents: The Annual Holiday Access Dispute - by Submitted on Nov 27, 2005 from Gary DirenfeldKids of Separated Parents: The Annual Holiday Access Dispute Forget about the last minute gift shopping. The real issue for separated parents this season is who gets what time with the kids. With divorce seemingly as popular as marriage, more and more kids will be subject to the annual access ...
Views: 1607 - After the Divorce; How To Recover - by Submitted on Oct 07, 2010 from PD RiversLESSON ONE: Dealing With the Anger Begin this first lesson by writing down your feelings about your divorce in your journal. Don’t say “I can’t do this” or “I don’t know what to write”. You know what is in your heart and what you feel. 1. Was there another person involved in the ...
Views: 1606 - Tired of Being Bitter? - by Submitted on Jul 07, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltWhen we are experiencing or recovering from divorce, remembering to find joy in everyday things during any season can be difficult. One of the reasons that, despite our best efforts, we can find it almost impossible to move on is when we are prisoner to one of the ugliest feelings of ...
Views: 1606 - What are some of the common feelings when experiencing a shock divorce? - by Submitted on Apr 21, 2012 from Adele TheronMy name is Adèle and I am a Divorce Angel. I remember the first four days after my husband left. They were brutal. At 02:30 am I was on my third glass of wine and hadn’t eaten in three days. I had been in my pyjamas for 36 hours straight and had chain-smoked 40 cigarettes (and I’m not even a ...
Views: 1606 - Did You Know That Two Out of Three Divorces are Initiated by Women? - by Submitted on Jun 06, 2012 from Daniela RoherIt is part of popular knowledge that in romantic relationships women want commitment from men, and at some point push, openly or subtly, for a marriage certificate. Men, on the other hand, are assumed to want to explore and experiment, but “cave in” to women’s pressures at some point or another ...
Views: 1604 - Feeling Lost After Divorce? Help is here! - by Submitted on May 30, 2017 from Martha BodyfeltDivorce is tough for many reasons. Not only are we dealing with the emotions and logistics and finances, but after the dust has settled, we may feel like our life's plans have changed direction. The life you planned and your vision of the future may disappear, leaving you with a feeling of not ...
Views: 1603 - Rebound Relationships - by Submitted on Apr 09, 2010 from Valerie W. MooreRebound relationships are difficult to fathom. They often occur when one of the partners of a new relationship has recently come out of a long term affair. It takes a long time for one to heal emotionally from a long relationship coming to an end, especially if it has not been on amicable terms. ...
Views: 1602 - I Have To Beg My Husband For Affection: Begging For Love And Attention - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2018 from Jennifer SageI Have To Beg My Husband For Affection: Begging For Love And Attention Sexless marriage woes do not automatically mean divorce. Many marriages that become sexless, especially among mid-life partners, started out as good marriages, and they still are. There is a great deal of new ...
Views: 1601 - Positive Parenting Through Divorce - by Submitted on Jan 25, 2008 from Lauri Allison LaBadieWhen a marriage ends, the greatest challenge parents face is minimizing the trauma, hurt, and loss for their children. Through positive parenting, adults have the power to help their children adjust to this major change. Healthy parenting also brings rewards to the adults as they get to feel ...
Views: 1601 - 7 Ways To Stop Work Stress From Ruining Your Marriage - Marriage Counseling Advice - by Submitted on Sep 16, 2016 from Nicola BeerThere is no doubt that work stress has become an increasing factor in marital dissatisfaction. Today couples work on average a thousand more hours each year than people did thirty years ago. This number tends to increase further in expat cities, as well as if you are an entrepreneur. All the ...
Views: 1600 - Learning From Loss: Five Lessons Divorce Can Teach Us - by Submitted on Feb 18, 2014 from Lauretta ZucchettiIt goes without saying that divorces are intricately complicated and intensely personal. They can be necessary or unwanted; devastating or invigorating. Regardless of the reasons why a couple elects to divorce, or the range of emotions it can produce, it’s a life changing experience that ...
Views: 1599 - Does Divorce Have To Have A Negative Impact On Our Kids? - by Submitted on Nov 17, 2009 from Shelley StileGoing through a divorce where there are children involved is an anxiety-provoking scenario with much worry on the past of the parents as to what negative effects the divorce will have on their kids. I firmly believe that it isn’t so much the divorce but how you choose to handle the divorce that ...
Views: 1598 - From a Bird's Perspective - by Submitted on Aug 04, 2009 from Chrissy KohlerWho’s not scared of love? I mean whether you are scared that it will or will not find you, that it will or will not last, that it can or cannot exist – in some theory we are each scared of love. Scared of getting our hearts broken – scared of taking a risk – scared of putting ourselves out ...
Views: 1598(6 votes) - Spring Cleaning - by Submitted on Mar 22, 2010 from Meghan GehanI love spring. Who doesn’t? One of the things I love about spring is that I get to clean out my closets and dressers, deep clean my bathrooms and kitchen… throwing myself into that yearly ritual of getting rid of what doesn’t fit me or my life any longer in order to make room for the possibility ...
Views: 1597(2 votes) - Which Spouse Is Responsible For The Credit Card Debt In A Divorce? - by Submitted on Oct 15, 2012 from Adam TijerinaDivorce can be one of the most painful things to happen to a person. Some psychologists believe that divorces are as stressful and as painful as a death in the family. Divorce not only takes a toll on the two spouses, it can have a very negative effect on children. If they see mommy and daddy ...
Views: 1597 - Difficulties in Relationship - 5 Triggering Points To Cause Difficulty In The Relationship - by Submitted on Dec 16, 2010 from Johnny WayneWith the relationship established by both parties, it has to be a zone where they can feel all the security and support. However, difficulties in relationship can shaken that safety and support you both have in the relationship.Actually, we did not even get the real catch of what the people and ...
Views: 1596 - 3 Sure-Fire Relationship Killers - by Submitted on Dec 12, 2013 from nancy traversWhen couples get married they never think they will be among those who get divorced. Yet a hefty percentage of marriages do end in divorce, so some of these people who can’t imagine divorce on their wedding day will certainly face that prospect eventually. Psychologists have identified behaviors ...
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