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Dear Dr. Romance:
I am going through a break-up this week and pretty broken hearted. My boyfriend and I currently dated for the last year and nine months and it ended this week. He is my age, mid thirties but when he was in his early to mid twenties he had an affair with a much much older ... Views: 1377
What To Do, Say and How To Get My (Your) Ex Boyfriend or Girlfriend Back In Love With You
Do you hurt from a breakup?
Were you recently dumped or did you dump your boyfriend or girlfriend, only to discover later that your love for him/her is still fresh and you feel that you can’t let your ... Views: 1377
Dear Dr. Romance:
I'll admit, I just don't understand men. Do they want us to be perfect all the time? I mean, I think I'm a pretty okay person. I honestly like myself for who I am. It took me a long time to get to this point. I'm not a model, but reasonably attractive for a woman in her 40s. ... Views: 1376
How to communicate with your partner
Do you know how to improve your relationship with your partner? What are the necessary steps that need to be taken to acquire effective communication skills with your partner?
You probably know that communication in relationships is needed for any ... Views: 1375
Having needs is part of being human, and while the ideal might be to always have them met, this is not how life works. There will be times when it is not going to be possible for one to have their needs met.
During these moments, one will have to tolerate frustration, and while it may only ... Views: 1375
When it comes to finding your soul mate,
using the internet can be an excellent method.
There are billions of people on this planet
and finding that one special someone
can be nigh impossible.
But with the internet allowing everyone to be connected,
it has become a little ... Views: 1375
Valentine's Day!
What a great idea to set aside a day for remembering those we love. It's even more than just remembering; it's romancing.
But it is also a holiday that many dread.
Because of the romantic tradition of this holiday, many hearts feel isolated, alone and left out. Many dread ... Views: 1374
Every year on January 1st we make resolutions to create direction to manifest our dreams. Why not with love? This year you can choose to be the captain or your own dreamboat. Embrace these 10 dating resolutions and your love life will sizzle. The best thing about it is these are all under ... Views: 1373
Are you totally baffled as to why you only seem to attract men who are far from ideal for you? Are you tired of ending up with men who aren’t ready for the same type of relationship you want?
Before you give up on the possibility of ever meeting guys who truly measure up and want what you ... Views: 1373
Whether you are recently single and just entering the dating game, or are a seasoned veteran on the dating scene, and wondering why you are not having much success meeting a partner to start a long-term relationship with, your lack of success may be due to a few common mistakes, rather than "the ... Views: 1373
Dating your ex-husband after a divorce is more common than you think. There are many stories of couples who have dated within 5 years of their divorce only to get remarried, and are happier than ever. Dr. Nancy Kalish studied couples who reunited after divorce during the ’90s. Her studies ... Views: 1373
Dear Dr. Romance:
I like your article "Stupid Cupid" and find that all your down-to-earth questions should be applicable in a daily life of a relationship. I will forward it to my friends. I'm writing you about a guy that I met at my dance class. I ... Views: 1373
How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend To Want You Back
An Ex-Boyfriend Will Come Back To You As You Become An Authority Figure; In the development of life and culture, it is an accepted phenomenon for many of us to respect, adore, revere and listen to authority figures. Such attitude has been inculcated ... Views: 1373
I’m about to share a lesson that I learned, and I know many of you ladies will be able to relate. This was an achievement I am proud to share; an achievement with relationship communication.
My boyfriend and I have been dating well over two years now and it’s safe to say we are pretty ... Views: 1373
Loneliness is one of life's most miserable experiences. Everyone feels lonely at times, but is there a message for us in loneliness? Is there a way that we can turn it into something positive?
Sometimes loneliness is a temporary condition that lifts in a few hours or a couple days. But when ... Views: 1372
Human beings have an inherent need to develop meaningful relationships. We all want to share our goals, ideas, joys, sorrows, desires, affection and experiences with someone else. However, we all fall short at times in handling the mechanics of them. There are times when we need to “doctor” up ... Views: 1372
To Pay or Not to Pay? It's often a confusing question when dating a new man.
What would you do in this situation?
You're having dinner with a man you find very attractive. He's sexy, smart, sensitive and fun. He's a gentleman. He treats you well. He makes you laugh. He's entertaining. ... Views: 1372
A diagnosis of an incurable STI would spell doom to a young life leave alone their dating patterns. It usually comes with judgmental views of promiscuity. Herpes simplex virus (HSV) simply known as herpes. is one of those diseases. Its patients would easily despair or keep it a secret for fear ... Views: 1372
Whether you call it a hunch, gut instinct, intuition, sixth sense, or just knowing, everyone has at least some psychic ability, even if they don’t acknowledge it. The more psychic you are, especially if you trust your judgment, the easier it can be to prepare for and navigate through the ... Views: 1371
What are the advantages of working SMS chat into your routine when you are dating someone new? Well, one of the biggest benefits is that you can communicate pretty much at any time or anywhere. Even situations where you would either have a hard time calling someone on the phone or where it ... Views: 1371
There is a growing interest among Western guys about dating Asian women; hence these dating Asian women tips will guide you in choosing the best one to date. What started out as simple dating may eventually end up in marriage; most Western men marry women from Philippines, Japan, China and ... Views: 1371
Dear Dr. Romance,
I am a PhD student in Computer Science and Mathematics in Europe. I am interested in your blog which helps to a lot of people to find the best solution in their lives. I have also some problems in my private life. I would be very grateful if you could give me ... Views: 1371
Dear Tina,
I’m a shy guy and don’t know what to say when I meet a woman. I’m afraid I’ll never get another date.
What am I going to do?
ShyGuy
Dear ShyGuy,
First, let me tell you that you are definitely not the only guy that feels this way. Not everybody has to have a very ... Views: 1371
Many singles have little or no success with the Utah gay dating personals. Often people are left feeling frustrated by the lack of connection or failure to find adequate Utah gay dating prospects, often the problem can be due to not building a good profile. Some people do not complete their ... Views: 1370
Breakups are hard. The first thing that you want to do after a break-up is to refrain from being a psycho. Yes it is fun to fantasize about slashing tires, or throwing a drink in your ex boyfriend or girlfriend’s face. But then reality starts to set in, and you realize that you really miss ... Views: 1370
Men who seduce women are not setting a trap, they are presenting an opportunity. Either way, the man is the bait and the result is the same in the end. You can by a book or study a website that teaches you how to seduce women, but in the end, it is all up to you.
Do you want to know how to ... Views: 1370
Although one can have the desire to be with someone who is right for them, it doesn’t mean that this will take place. One could find that they have the tendency to end up with people who they are not really compatible with.
Alternatively, one could have been with a number of people who were ... Views: 1370
When a relationship comes to an end, it can mean that two people are happy to be able to move on with their life. It could then be said that this was something that had run its course, and that there was no reason for them to stay together.
Now, this is not to say that one of them won’t feel ... Views: 1370
With only few days before Valentine's Day, everything should be set and prepared for your Valentine's Day date. But how would you celebrate Valentine’s Day if you not have the money to buy those expensive jewelry or bring her in a fancy restaurant? Well, the truth is the lack money should not ... Views: 1370
One thing I'd like to point out is that women have an amazing sense of intuition. Often times, it can be accurate enough to the point where it seems like they can READ your mind. This is especially true when it comes to figuring out what you're feeling and how you feel about yourself.
I ... Views: 1370
One time or another, we all had an experience of jealousy in our romantic life. Whether we were cheated on, left for someone else or simply found ourselves competing with a girlfriend for the attention of single man, jealousy is an ugly feeling. The green monster makes us feel hopeless and ... Views: 1369
Dear Dr. Romance:
I am unusually confident that you can help me.Well I hope you can anyway. I am 18 years old, I live in England, and I am a lesbian. A year ago,I escaped from a extremely abusive and violent relationship with a woman that I was with for two years.There was an extreme age ... Views: 1369
You want to get your ex boyfriend back and will do almost anything just for that to happen. The pain of not seeing and speaking to him is killing you slowly. Does that describe your situation today? This article will show you some really quick tips that will get him to return to you sooner than ... Views: 1369
As a therapist, I see a common self-defeating pattern in clients: they hold back from expressing their authentic selves — their true feelings, wants, and needs — to their relationship partner.
By not communicating our true selves, we miss the opportunity to gain the kind of relationship we ... Views: 1369
I had the pleasure of attending my first Mardi Gras festivities and parades in New Orleans, this year. It was as imagined, lots of people having fun and acting silly for beads and other throws from the masked men on the floats.
One thing I noticed was the lack of flashers for beads. I ... Views: 1369
A good relationship that might lead to a successful marriage begins in looking for Mr. Right and in knowing how to attract the right man. Whilst most men fix their eyes on sexy and stunning women, there are also some good and quality men who simply do not go for looks alone.
Every lady wants ... Views: 1368
Some people feel broken and empty when they are not involved in an intimate relationship, but these feelings may in actual fact get in the way of you finding your soul mate. The feelings of loneliness and being "broken" can effectively emit negative vibes which make you vulnerable to stepping ... Views: 1368
Religious holidays have always been important for niche dating websites: more options to attract visitors & possibility to stand out. In a world where Facebook has taken over the social networking market beating out even Google, there has always been a room online for high-quality Christian ... Views: 1368
Recently, I went through very unpleasant and difficult dental work, and the outpouring of kindness I receivedfrom my husband, who held onto my ankle all through the two and a half hours (and had nightmares that night about it) to my dear friends, who offered me support and encouragement to ... Views: 1368
While there are some people who end up in relationships that are life-affirming, there are others who end up in relationships that are life-denying. As a result of this, their experiences on this planet are going to be radically different.
A Matter of Luck
One way of looking at this would ... Views: 1368
It’s easier to fall in love in the fall! Singles roll up their sleeves and work more proactively on their dating, so there’s more love to go around. There are three reasons for this. First, singles, like all of us, raised in the rhythm of a school calendar, are conditioned to buy ... Views: 1367
Dating can be a very interesting or frustrating time in one's life. When we are in a relationship, we always wonder where this relationship will lead to. Everyone wants some kind of commitment from the other person and we all do things to make sure that we are not wasting our time with a ... Views: 1367
It can be tough to deal with depression after any break up. The difficult part is knowing that you are not both together any more and she has broken your heart. There are certain steps you need to go through in order to learn how to deal with depression after breaking up. It's going to take some ... Views: 1367
We absolutely know the way you feel when your boyfriend broke up with you. Initially, when he breaks up with you, you may be amazed about what just happened. You are going to be so full of reminiscences of recalling what went wrong between the two of you. But, in a short time, you will begin ... Views: 1367
Are you in an abusive relationship? Is dealing with emotional abuse hard? How to deal with emotional abuse?
Jennifer mentions that her partner keeps saying abusive words and statements to her. She has informed him many times that abusive words are worse than physical abuse because according ... Views: 1367
You and your ex broke up, and at the moment you want nothing more than to win them back, you are in doubt if your ex still has feelings for you. You have been keen to approach him, however are scared to face the rejection that could happen if they don’t want to give the relationship another ... Views: 1367
When I first experienced a bad split up I wanted to win back my ex desperately that I ended up driving my ex even farther away than I expected. You may think you’re making the right move to win back your ex but actually you might be making great mistakes that you never thought about.
So as to ... Views: 1367
For millions of single Americans, the dating world is more frustrating than enjoyable; bad dates, bad habits, and loneliness can encroach on daily life and make it hard to find a match and/or be happy with yourself, both of which are important to single people looking for love.
... Views: 1366
The physical appeal of hot Asian women is undeniable; their long and silky hair, slim, firm, petite bodies and even the graceful way that they walk. Even the slight movement done by Asian women is always graceful and sensual in many ways.There are a number of valid, important reasons why men ... Views: 1366
Do you play golf, basketball, or baseball? If you do then you know that there are times when your play becomes stagnate, even predictable. Sometimes you get into such a rut that the opposing team or players can read you like a book and know what your next move is and defend against you without ... Views: 1366