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- Boundaries: Can A Lack Of Boundaries Stop Someone From Experiencing Intimacy? - by Submitted on Nov 24, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperFor some people, experiencing intimacy will be a normal part of life, and it is then not going to be something that they will need to worry about. If this wasn’t the case and they were unable to experience intimacy, it could be something that ends up consuming their whole life. Their need to ...
Views: 1695 - Dating Tips on Conversation - by Submitted on Feb 14, 2012 from Krystal KuehnConversation is probably the most important part of your dating experience. Sure, looking your best and having a good attitude matter, but most of your time together will in some way be spend in conversation. Following are a few tips to make your conversations more interesting, comfortable, ...
Views: 1694 - How to Get a Girl Back to Your Place (Without Begging) - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2012 from Chase ParkerAhh, the bachelor pad. A place where a man can eat wings, down beers and watch cage fights without question. A place free from doilies and “Desperate Housewives.” A place not particularly conducive to an actual date. Huh? No matter how nice your apartment/house/dorm room is (or what lengths you ...
Views: 1694 - How to Overcome and Avoid Dating Rejection - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2011 from Kim SarrasinThere's nothing that crushes your ego more then when a guy doesn’t ask you out again or he decides to end the relationship. Its one thing to be rejected when you apply for a job, entirely another when this occurs in your love life. The sting of rejection penetrates deeply because this is the one ...
Views: 1694(2 votes) - Stop Deceiving Yourself about Intimacy: Facing Reality will Lead You to a Successful Relationship - by Submitted on Mar 17, 2013 from Doron GilIntroduction There are those who, regardless of how many relationships they have attempted to develop, are failing time and again. Waking-up to face reality is not easy. But it is only when they become willing to look inwards; acknowledge that something must be wrong with the way they ...
Views: 1694 - Two Simple Thoughts That Will Change the Way You Date - by Submitted on Jun 01, 2012 from Bobbi PalmerMy guess is that you’ve been dating a while and not getting great results. You’re here reading this, after all. The best way to shift into having dates that render positive outcomes – like having more fun and eventually meeting The One – is to change the way you talk to yourself before you even ...
Views: 1694(4 votes) - Dating Successfully After Divorce - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2013 from Guy FarmerYou've emerged from a divorce and you feel like you're ready to date again. Dating is a fun and exciting part of life and can help with the post-divorce healing process. Your new dating experiences don't have to be a nightmare even if you're a bit out of practice. Think about the following ...
Views: 1693 - How to Know If Your Ex Still Loves You - 3 Sure-Fire Ways to Know If There is Love Or Not - by Submitted on May 11, 2011 from Charles UadialeYour relationship ended all of a sudden and has left you worried to know if your ex still loves you or not! If your ex still has strong feelings for you then you know there is expectation of your failed relationship being rekindled.... Your ex has not completely cut off with you- If your ...
Views: 1693 - Dr. Romance New Book: How to be Happy Partners: Working it out Together - by Submitted on Jun 05, 2016 from Tina TessinaDr. Romance is delighted to announce the publication of her new book, with co-author Riley K. Smith: How to be Happy Partners: Working it out Together By Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. and Riley K Smith, MA How to Be ...
Views: 1692 - 4 Guidelines 4 Your Success with Dating and Relationships - by Submitted on Jun 21, 2012 from Doron GilI am often surprised to see singles who shoot themselves in the foot in relationships for the simple reason that they are not tuned to themselves or to their date/partner. Time and again I see singles sating others who are incompatible to them. It is apparent to me that they are driven by needs ...
Views: 1691 - Dear Dr. Romance: Am I Insane? - by Submitted on Mar 14, 2016 from Tina TessinaDear Dr Romance, I seek some understanding & hope that you will be able to help. I think that I don't know what love is & it has me in constant turmoil. I married when I was 23 yrs old & have 2 beautiful children. Regrettably, the marriage ended in divorce. I am ...
Views: 1691(2 votes) - How To Get An Ex Back Honorably - by Submitted on Feb 13, 2013 from David BrittoIf you are experiencing a hurtful breakup, you are probably wondering how it's possible to get your ex back. This situation can prove dreary and maddening, especially if you were to blame for the breakup. At this point, you have likely tried everything but your work have failed in rekindling the ...
Views: 1691 - Opt for a reliable Asian dating site - by Submitted on Jun 12, 2012 from Melvin MillerThe popularity of the internet is such that it is used in almost all corners of the world. About a decade and half ago, the internet started making its mark and people began showing keen interest. However, due to the high costs of usage and lack of availability in many places, people did not ...
Views: 1691 - The Most Common Wedding Photography Mistakes to Avoid - by Submitted on Jan 15, 2015 from Mark VillarosaIt is your special day and you want the pictures to be spectacular. A few basic mistakes, however, will stand in the way of stellar results. Planning your wedding is connected to a lot of hard work and even a bit of chaos. Still, you should dedicate some time to wedding photography planning. ...
Views: 1691 - “Magic Dating Formula” That Guarantees She’ll Have A Great Time With You - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2016 from Chris ChandraHow many times has it happened in your past where a date didn’t go the way you planned? You planned out a whole romantic evening, you gave it a lot of thought, memorized love quotes for her that you might have used, spent a lot of your time. And surprisingly it went nowhere with the ...
Views: 1691 - 20 Most Common Dating Mistakes (From a Male's Perspective) - by Submitted on May 25, 2015 from Latorria Freeman1. Stop asking “Where do we stand?” This question lets me know that the terms of our relationship are up to my own standards. 2. Stop being so predictable! I don’t need to know your every move. Besides you’re not my wife yet. 3. Respect my time and privacy. Don’t assume I will always ...
Views: 1690 - Should You Kiss on the First Date? - by Submitted on May 05, 2009 from Mark TaylorIntimate encounters in dating usually would mean either of these two things: one, it is plainly, an intimate encounter. End of story. You move on with your lives. Or two, it's an intimate encounter that promises a whole new different life for the both of you. Okay, here's how it started: It's ...
Views: 1690 - Three Body Language Secrets For Approaching Women - by Submitted on Nov 05, 2008 from Alex CoulsonYour body language can say a lot about you. People can tell if you're happy, sad, bored, in pain, excited, tense, etc. by what your body language is saying. The body language you have when approaching women is the first thing they see and will make you or break you. There are three rules to ...
Views: 1690 - Trust Your Common Sense - by Submitted on Mar 28, 2011 from Sarah MartinIt is all too easy for a date to go badly. However, there are some very common sense measures that people can take, to try to improve the odds of a date going well. Common sense, in general, is one key to successful dating. It can be exciting and overwhelming to go on a date, but those who ...
Views: 1690 - A Romantic Dinner for Two in Princeton - by Submitted on Mar 15, 2012 from Tom GilmourRomantic dining is a social practice observed around the world. It is part of the ritual between couples that transcends all boundaries and cultures. Regardless if your relationship is brand new, celebrating 20 years or on the outs, magically a romantic dinner for two can ignite a romantic spark ...
Views: 1688 - Dr. Romance on How to Write a Love Letter: put your relationship in perspective - by Submitted on Mar 09, 2015 from Tina TessinaDr Romance adapted this from an Alcoholics Anonymous handout: We often get out of touch or out of sorts with people – sometimes they leave or pass on, sometimes we quarrel, sometimes we just grow apart. If your connection, or lack of one, with someone is troubling you, here’s a simple way to ...
Views: 1688 - Zen + Sex = Starting Over? - by Submitted on Nov 03, 2013 from Tina TessinaReady To Get Back Out There? 3 Must Knows Men and women have to redefine themselves after a relationship ends, and reinvent their lives. If they do it well, it can lead to the most satisfying and successful years they've had. Dating successfully after divorce or a breakup require several ...
Views: 1688(1 vote) - ***Revenge Sex - by Submitted on Mar 29, 2009 from LB WishDangers of Revenge Sex and Other Stupid Relationship Mistakes Dr. LeslieBeth Wish, Ed.D., MSS Relationships hurt sometimes. People always seem to provoke emotional ...
Views: 1687 - How To Find Your Soul Mate - by Submitted on Jan 31, 2010 from Candace CzarnyMarie sat and looked around her empty home. It wasn’t empty of furniture and possessions; it was empty of another person. Marie wanted her soul mate. Her last relationship was a disaster and after taking time to heal emotionally, she was ready to find the love of a lifetime. Unfortunately it ...
Views: 1687(2 votes) - ***How to Make Every Date Great - by Submitted on Aug 09, 2011 from Bobbi PalmerThe first ten minutes of a date often determine whether a second date is ever going to happen, and let's face it: second dates are not the norm for many. That was definitely my story until I learned about (what I now call) "Date Waste." Date waste is when a date is a drag but has little to do ...
Views: 1686(14 votes) - Opening Your Heart To Forgiveness: The Path To Manifesting The Right Relationship - by Submitted on May 02, 2003 from Nancy Pina“A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense.” Proverbs 19:11, NEW INTERNATIONAL VERSION Forgiveness is a gift you present to yourself. It is a release from the burden of anger and pain. When resolving to forgive, you choose to live in the present instead of ...
Views: 1686(1 vote) - Things to Talk About with Your Girlfriend: Get to Know Each Other with These Questions - by Submitted on Nov 23, 2011 from How To Get GirlsBeing in the early stages of relationship will give quite a hard choosing the right things to talk about with your girlfriend. You can look at it as a disadvantage since you will have to choose from the numerous topics that you can talk about and still have reservations on whether it is to her ...
Views: 1685 - Ways To Know He Loves You - by Submitted on Feb 04, 2011 from Menno SpijkstraStop plucking the petals off the daisy; it will never give you the real answers. Looking for Mr. Right is never easy, but one doesn’t really need special powers to know if your man is in love with you or not. And plucking petals won’t tell you if he is in love with you or not either, but paying ...
Views: 1685 - Why Do So Many Married Women Want to Date a Cuckold? - by Submitted on Aug 29, 2024 from yuan shuiMany married couples do not understand the meaning of cuckold dating. One of the cuckolds watched her wife having sex with another man. The wife or husband gains sexual satisfaction by watching the partner's satisfaction with another woman or man. One party will observe without engaging in ...
Views: 1685 - Dear Dr. Romance: I am in my forties, and hadn't had sex in years. - by Submitted on Mar 18, 2014 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. RomanceI am in my forties, and hadn't had sex in years. I met someone and we CLICKED. We had sex on the 2nd date, I know you can't unring the bell, and I'm betting that was probably a mistake, but there is a serious physical attraction between this man and myself ...
Views: 1683 - How to Be Charming - by Submitted on Apr 06, 2012 from Andre ThunaSome individuals are naturally charming, some are not. Being charming is an art and it requires having an attractive personality, which each of us can achieve. Each of us desires to be someone that is admired, and when we learn how to be charming we are taking the steps to become desired. ...
Views: 1682 - How To Stop Your Break From Becoming A Break Up With Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend - New Ideas - by Submitted on Oct 10, 2016 from Vanessa MooreHow To Stop Your Break From Becoming A Break Up With Your Ex Boyfriend or Ex Girlfriend - New Ideas. Stopping your break from becoming a break up is hard, but it is possible if you do not make the mistakes that most people do during this period. You have to start looking at things positively for ...
Views: 1682(1 vote) - DATING ADVICE FOR WOMEN: WHAT TO TALK ABOUT? - by Submitted on Jan 14, 2011 from Devon A BrownWhen looking for dating advice for women, most women are looking for conversation topics. The fact of the matter is that talking about the weather changes and our nation’s economy is not very stimulating while on a date. Sure, we want to be familiar with our date’s political views, but we’d ...
Views: 1681 - Get Started With Dating - by Submitted on May 10, 2011 from Sarah MartinIt doesn’t matter whether you are 20 or 60, skinny or tubby, or looking for a whirlwind romance or a lifelong partner. Online dating is for everyone and it is here to stay as a totally acceptable part of life. It is also a great way of getting into the dating scene, to meet people in similar ...
Views: 1681 - Relationships: Has Internet Dating Caused Some People To Believe That They Can Find The ‘Perfect’ Partner? - by Submitted on Sep 24, 2015 from Oliver JR CooperIn today’s word, one no longer needs to be around people in order to find someone to be in a relationship with, and this is because of the internet. The internet has changed the world in more ways than one, and one of the ways it has changed the world is through allowing people to find a partner ...
Views: 1681 - Relationships: Is It Normal For Someone To Have Low Self-Esteem After They Have Left An Abusive Relationship? - by Submitted on Dec 01, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperWhile some people are going to be used to having relationships that are fulfilling, there are going to be others who are not. In this case, someone could find that they have the tendency to end up with people who are not right for them. A Mismatch This is not to say that they will treat ...
Views: 1681 - The Seven B’s of Healthy Relationships - by Submitted on Jan 13, 2011 from Talayah StovallThere are certain principles that apply to all types of relationships, whether they are friendships, romances, business associations or family interactions. We all lose focus from time to time and can benefit from being reminded of the core tenets of relationship success. Being attuned to the ...
Views: 1681(3 votes) - How Do You Get A Girl To Like You? The Answer Revealed! - by Submitted on Oct 28, 2011 from Michael LeeSo how do you get a girl to like you? Contrary to popular belief, you cannot accomplish your aim by throwing stuff at her and calling her names. That is just too elementary for a grown man to do. We have evolved. There are better ways of getting a girl's attention (and affection) than by just ...
Views: 1680 - Relationships: Why Do Some People End Up Feeling Needy When They Get In Touch With Their Needs? - by Submitted on Apr 02, 2016 from Oliver JR CooperAlthough having needs is part of being human, it doesn’t mean that everyone is in touch with them. There will be some people who are in touch with their needs, and there will be others who are not. Another Experience However, even if one is in touch with their needs, it doesn’t mean that ...
Views: 1680 - Setting Boundaries and Saying No - by Submitted on May 06, 2013 from Tina TessinaKnowing how to set appropriate boundaries can make the difference in whether or not your relationship succeeds. The topic frequently comes up in my counseling office, and most people think boundaries are set by telling other people what the limits are. But boundaries are really something you ...
Views: 1679(1 vote) - Do You Want Your Ex Back? - by Submitted on Sep 30, 2011 from Kara OhDo You Want Your Ex Back? September 27, 2011 by Kara Oh Filed under All About Men Leave a Comment Do You Want Your Ex Back? by relationship author Kara OhIt’s a common scenario. He breaks up with you, then BAM!, he’s immediately in a new relationship. But you’re still in love with ...
Views: 1678(1 vote) - How To Get My Ex Back - How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend-Ex Girlfriend Back Through Text - by Submitted on Oct 17, 2016 from Tiemo DonaldHow to get my ex back; Have you gone through a break up and feel like you went through a storm? It happened so fast you could hardly understand what was going on. The break up started before you had a chance to try and stop it, and now you are trying to think of a way you can win your love ...
Views: 1678 - Intuition or Inner Knowing - by Submitted on Mar 03, 2013 from Tina TessinaWhen I met Richard, my husband, October 10, 1981, he was sitting outside, and the sun was glinting off his red hair, and my whole body and soul said {wow!” Twenty-three years later, we’re still happy. It turned out to be a lasting love at first sight. How did I know? I didn’t. It’s a lovely ...
Views: 1678(5 votes) - The Secret to Online Dating Success! - by Submitted on Jan 21, 2010 from Catherine CardinalThe Secret to Online Dating Success! Internet dating is the rage and although it may make your neck hairs bristle, more and more women are looking for love online. Here are some great, tried and true tips for online dating success: 1) Create a great profile. Let yourself, be a little ...
Views: 1678(2 votes) - Can prayer spice up your love life? - by Submitted on Dec 02, 2010 from Maryanne ComarotoI know, most of us cross our legs when we think about GOD and sex simultaneously, so surely it’s a stretch to imagine praying could be spicy. And then there are those of us who a long time ago made the separation between church and mate and don’t give it a thought. But why not? What if we did ...
Views: 1677(3 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I was always wrong - by Submitted on May 18, 2015 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: THANK YOU so much for this dating tip! My girlfriend sent me your article "You Be The Judge" yesterday. I needed this. I dated this African guy for 4 months, 3 weeks in which we were actually together, and I was always upset and let-downed. Always, his way, his ...
Views: 1677 - Why She Never Calls You Back - by Submitted on Dec 07, 2014 from Chris ChandraHave you ever been in a situation where you get a girl’s number and you think everything went well, but when you get in touch with her she never returns your calls? Suppose she wasn’t a stranger, maybe you met at a barbeque at your friend’s house. Shouldn’t it be easier to get in touch ...
Views: 1676 - 12 Awful First Date Tips: Drink Chablis With a Straw - by Submitted on Nov 13, 2010 from Tracey BennettWondering what to do on a first date? Here are 12 awful ways to impress a woman. Good first date tips include conversation on first date, flirting & etiquette. That’s just silly. Women readers: see if your dates have pulled these stunts on you….er, I mean, perhaps you could pick up some tips, ...
Views: 1675(7 votes) - Dear Dr. Romance: I just miss her a lot - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2013 from Tina TessinaDear Dr. Romance: I found your article about women dating younger men. So, here I'm in a middle of a crisis... hope you can read it and hope you can give some advise. I'm 30, with a promising carreer and a stable job. A year ago, I met a woman, who's seven years older and ...
Views: 1675(1 vote) - How to Make a Relationship Work - by Submitted on Aug 26, 2005 from Susan DunnArthur and Samatha are going at it again. It’s hard to watch from the outside, because it’s obvious they love each other, and obvious that they’re quite compatible. They’ve both been divorced, though, so they’re leery, and what they’re doing is finding sore points – even manufacturing them, ...
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